Aerobalance From United States of America, joined Sep 2000, 4692 posts, RR: 44
Reply 1, posted (12 years 2 weeks 3 days 12 hours ago) and read 1708 times:
I'll try to make this quick since I'm at the office...
Scared to fly but have to fly.... Not an easy dilemma... First of all, as a kid, I was scared to fly. Of course I had no knowledge of the engineering and industry that supports aviation. Now that I work in the field of aerospace design I have a thorough understanding of how this industry works. I know that nothing is mechanically perfect, yet I do believe that the aviation industry is extremely safe. When I am a passenger on a commercial aircraft I feel safer than I do driving my car on our roads - and I'm a definite control freak. I've even gone so far as to acquire my Private Pilot Certificate, with High Perf endorsement, and passed my Instrument ground test, even though I don't plan on flying IFR at this time. I have a well defined fear of heights, yet that doesn't effect me on an aircraft because I believe in the people who designed, build, maintain and operate these flying machines. The engineering that is applied to aviation is some of the most intense research done on this planet. Peoples livelihoods are dependent on the aviation industry. They put their lives on the line to ensure that the passenger is safe.
BTW, enjoy the turbulence, a plane is designed to withstand more force- loading than you and I will ever experience. Keep that seatbelt on at all times though....
CAETravlr From United States of America, joined Oct 2000, 914 posts, RR: 1
Reply 3, posted (12 years 2 weeks 3 days 12 hours ago) and read 1683 times:
I don't think this is the answer for everyone, but I am dead serious when I post it. My ex girlfriend, who is an F/A for UAL used to have this fear of flying. She told me that the first time she flew, just just got a little bit drunk before getting on the plane. After the first flight, it was never a problem for her anymore. I think its more about doing it the first time than the alcohol though.
I can only relate it to my initial fear of roller coasters. We were at Six Flags one summer, and my mother MADE me ride one with her, I was scared to death, probably 10 years old or so. After that first one, I can't get enough. Still can't to this day. I think you just have to face your fear, do it once, take an easy trip with a good friend, and you should be golden.
Hope this helps in some way.
A woman drove me to drink and I didn't have the decency to thank her. - W.C. Fields
Elwood64151 From United States of America, joined Feb 2002, 2477 posts, RR: 5
Reply 6, posted (12 years 2 weeks 3 days 8 hours ago) and read 1599 times:
Taking a look at the accident rate of automobiles compared to aircraft could help... But then they might be afraid to leave the house...
I agree with the above: You have to do it once, then you'll have no more problems. I was scared to fly until I took my first flight back in '91. Since then, I've become an incredible enthusiast (sometimes letting my enthusiasm get the best of me--as many people here may attest).
And if it continues to bother you, then yes, I would suggest a new job.
Those who fail to learn history are doomed to repeat it in summer school.
FlyGirl757 From , joined Dec 1969, posts, RR:
Reply 7, posted (12 years 2 weeks 3 days 8 hours ago) and read 1602 times:
Has anyone ever had to sit by someone who was scared of flying? Any crazy stories? I sat next to this one fat lady once...and she kept getting up to go to the bathroom....(to puke I think?)...It was a major pain...cause she kept wiggling in her seat and breathing hard...Luckily my flight was only an hour.
Serge From United States of America, joined Sep 2001, 1989 posts, RR: 2
Reply 9, posted (12 years 2 weeks 3 days 8 hours ago) and read 1578 times:
Has anyone ever had to sit by someone who was scared of flying? Any crazy stories?
I was on a 767-300 from ATL to SLC with a girl probably in her young twenties sitting in the aisle (I was window). Anyway, as we neared SLC it began to look quite stormy outside... One of the pilots got on to announce we will be in a holding pattern for a while since SLC had just been closed due to weather. Throughtout the holding pattern it was pretty turbulent- the girl next to me vomited in the airsickness bag too many times to count. I gave her my bag too and if I remember correctly it was used as well... Anyway, SLC was finally opened and after we cleared the runway, still taxiing, the girl got up and went to the facilities in the back of the plane to dispose of her puke. Kinda ticked off the F/As....
Positive rate From Australia, joined Sep 2001, 2143 posts, RR: 1
Reply 10, posted (12 years 2 weeks 3 days 8 hours ago) and read 1567 times:
I don't think it's worth giving up your job for. This fear is irrational and can be overcome. Choose one of the well known major carriers to fly on and maybe do a bit of research into how a plane flies before you go i.e how lift is produced, what the things on the wings are etc. More than likely if you know how everything works and what everything does then you won't be scared of every little noise you hear in flight.
Kevi747 From United States of America, joined Apr 2001, 1058 posts, RR: 12
Reply 11, posted (12 years 2 weeks 3 days 8 hours ago) and read 1556 times:
I had an NYPD cop crying like a baby on an A300 from SJU to JFK recently. He was doing OK until we hit some turbulence, then he was completely inconsolable. It was really strange because on the same flight I had a woman who was so scared that we had to reopen the door and let her off before we left SJU. Usually you don't get 2 terrified fliers on the same flight.
Except this other one time there was these two 21 year old girls who were terrified. Every time the CPT turned on the seatbelt sign they'd jump out of their seats, run to the back of the plane in hysterics, and ask what was going on. Apparently they thought the seatbelt sign was some sort of signal to prepare for a crash.
Usually a little alcohol clams them down, but if they're truly horrified, nothing helps.
"Reality has a well-known liberal bias." --Stephen Colbert
Marcopolo747 From Brazil, joined Mar 2001, 460 posts, RR: 3
Reply 12, posted (12 years 2 weeks 3 days 8 hours ago) and read 1554 times:
You can seek for professional help to overcome the fear of flying. In the past, Pan Am offered a kind of seminar to people like you. There must be something of the kind going on but not sponsored by a major airline. I suggest contacting IAPA.
FlyGirl757 From , joined Dec 1969, posts, RR:
Reply 13, posted (12 years 2 weeks 3 days 7 hours ago) and read 1541 times:
It's not ME...I love to fly...I would be a FA if I could...hehe...I was just asking for advice so I could calm a friend's nerves. She ablsolutely HATES planes and can't stand things like roller coasters....
Me though? Well, I like to ride just about anything!
Cancidas From Poland, joined Jul 2003, 4112 posts, RR: 10
Reply 15, posted (12 years 2 weeks 3 days 6 hours ago) and read 1511 times:
Try to learn something about aviation, the construction of airplanes, pilot training, etc... The more you know, the safer you will feel. Obviously the best thing to do is to become a pilot yourself, but if you don't want to do that keep reading.
You need to know that the pilots flying are there because they know what to do it if the s*&t hits the fan. They had to demonstrate that ability to get to where they are now. Take faith in that. Don't believe hollywood or anyone who tells you you might die by getting on a plane. Trust that we as pilots don't want to die either. The cockpit is at the very front of the aicraft. If we happen to crash, chances are that we die first! We devote our lives to getting people around. We're there because we want to be. And yea, a stiff drink will help.
[Edited 2003-07-16 06:40:33]
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