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Topic: A Good Way Of Getting Over Your Ex
Username: JetsGo
Posted 2006-03-12 03:07:16 and read 1684 times.

Damnit. Well, it happened. My girlfriend, after 2 years, broke up today. Things just started getting shitty over the past few months because we are both stressed between work and school. I dont know if it will be for good though, since we both kind of agreed it was best and that we would keep an open mind about it. So my question is to you guys, whats the best way to get over this? I think I am heading in the right direction because i have plans tonight with a friend of mine and her and i are going to downtown to dinner and possibly a movie. Also, i plan to be hangin with the guys this weekend. So am I doing the right things to move on? I hope so cause I feel like shit right now...


Chris

PS for those of you wondering why I came here for help...I wont lie. I feel comfortable with everyone on here because we obviously all share the same avaition hobby, and everyone i know in person who likes aviation, i get along well with. So, yeah, I do trust you guys even though I have never met you all. Anyway, Im off to the shower and then to Black Angus.

Topic: RE: A Good Way Of Getting Over Your Ex
Username: SkySurfer
Posted 2006-03-12 03:11:40 and read 1684 times.

Go enjoy urself with the guys.......you're young, have no reason to tie yourself down and you should enjoy yourself to the fullest. Each second passed is a second wasted, so enjoy all that you can. 1 Girl isn't going to kill you, there's plenty more out there and seeing as you both agree to see how things go, just enjoy yourself.

Topic: RE: A Good Way Of Getting Over Your Ex
Username: Pacificjourney
Posted 2006-03-12 03:14:02 and read 1677 times.

GET LAID (you knew that right ?)

Topic: RE: A Good Way Of Getting Over Your Ex
Username: JetsGo
Posted 2006-03-12 03:16:42 and read 1673 times.

lol thats why im tryin this new girl out tonight. see what happens and all  Smile

Topic: RE: A Good Way Of Getting Over Your Ex
Username: BMIFlyer
Posted 2006-03-12 03:19:35 and read 1668 times.

Quoting JetsGo (Reply 3):
tryin this new girl out tonight

Try before you buy....  Wink

Quoting Pacificjourney (Reply 2):
GET LAID

Best advice ever! Big grin

Quoting SkySurfer (Reply 1):
Go enjoy urself with the guys.......

Yes, get out and get wrecked  bigthumbsup 



Lee

Topic: RE: A Good Way Of Getting Over Your Ex
Username: YeahitsK
Posted 2006-03-12 03:19:49 and read 1668 times.

All you can really do is go on with your life. As many have said before, this is one of those things that only time can heal. My best advice is to step back and take a look at your life. From what I've read you are a young guy in school (college?). The opportunities are endless for you right now. Yes you have lost the security of a relationship, but know that there will be other chances with different women. I think it is a good idea now that you are broken up to date other women, different kinds of women, a date doesn't have to turn into anything serious. Find out what you really like in a woman. It will only make you happier in the long term to do this. Sorry for your loss, but it sounds like you are on the right track. Hang in there buddy...

Topic: RE: A Good Way Of Getting Over Your Ex
Username: IAH777
Posted 2006-03-12 08:50:55 and read 1622 times.

The best way to get over a woman is to get under another.  sly 

Topic: RE: A Good Way Of Getting Over Your Ex
Username: Stoney
Posted 2006-03-12 12:23:11 and read 1598 times.

Well, other Moms have nice girls too Wink

Anyways, a long night out with friends is always cool, and without knowing it you'll be trying all the even hotter gals Wink

Topic: RE: A Good Way Of Getting Over Your Ex
Username: ANCFlyer
Posted 2006-03-12 16:06:32 and read 1560 times.

Quoting Pacificjourney (Reply 2):
GET LAID (you knew that right ?)

Agreed . . . .

Quoting SkySurfer (Reply 1):
Go enjoy urself with the guys

Ditto

Failing the above:

Topic: RE: A Good Way Of Getting Over Your Ex
Username: Trav110
Posted 2006-03-12 17:17:09 and read 1538 times.

Live it up buddy... we've all been there and it's not fun. Have an awesome time and forget about her. Whatever you do, don't linger on the breakup afterwards, makes things messy.

Best of luck!  Smile

Topic: RE: A Good Way Of Getting Over Your Ex
Username: Pope
Posted 2006-03-12 18:09:04 and read 1516 times.

Go fuck her best friend.

Topic: RE: A Good Way Of Getting Over Your Ex
Username: YOWza
Posted 2006-03-12 18:11:48 and read 1516 times.

Quoting Pope (Reply 10):
Go fuck her best friend.

Nice papal message on a Sunday.

We had a thread similar to this a little while ago. I'll tell you what I told him, booze, drugs and strippers are a good time.  Wink

YOWza

Topic: RE: A Good Way Of Getting Over Your Ex
Username: Boeing nut
Posted 2006-03-12 18:17:22 and read 1510 times.

Quoting BMIFlyer (Reply 4):
GET LAID

Best advice ever!

And get pissed off just before, anger sex takes it to a different level.  thumbsup 

Topic: RE: A Good Way Of Getting Over Your Ex
Username: Pope
Posted 2006-03-12 18:29:53 and read 1502 times.

Quoting YOWza (Reply 11):
Nice papal message on a Sunday.

It's not the Pope. Plus to sin is human . . .

Topic: RE: A Good Way Of Getting Over Your Ex
Username: YOWza
Posted 2006-03-12 18:36:19 and read 1493 times.

Quoting Pope (Reply 13):
It's not the Pope. Plus to sin is human . . .

haha good on you! Big grin

YOWza

Topic: RE: A Good Way Of Getting Over Your Ex
Username: Flyingbabydoc
Posted 2006-03-12 18:37:09 and read 1493 times.

Quoting JetsGo (Thread starter):
Also, i plan to be hangin with the guys this weekend. So am I doing the right things to move on? I hope so cause I feel like shit right now...

Sorry to be the one saying something different, but if you are able to truly enjoy yourself with your buddies or intend to take to bed another woman on the same day you broke up with your girlfriend she surely did not mean that much to you.

If that is the case, you are already over her.

If that is not the case, doing any of the above will not bring any closure. I would say spend sometime on your own and think about what happened and how you truly feel about it, without the "anesthetics" (drugs, booze, other women). If you think that it was worth breaking up, than you can really move on. If not, start thinking on a plan to win her back.

Quoting Boeing nut (Reply 12):
And get pissed off just before, anger sex takes it to a different level.

Sure. And the frustration when you wake up is also on another level.

Just my  twocents 

Alex

Topic: RE: A Good Way Of Getting Over Your Ex
Username: SW733
Posted 2006-03-12 21:07:41 and read 1462 times.

My ex-fiance, after I dumped her, became a slut to try to make me jealous...worked the other way, made me realize how trashy and nasty she had become and helped me get over her. I mean, I'm not saying "hope she becomes a slut to try to make you jealous"...but it worked for me!

Topic: RE: A Good Way Of Getting Over Your Ex
Username: IAH777
Posted 2006-03-13 06:56:31 and read 1408 times.

Quoting SkySurfer (Reply 1):
Go enjoy urself with the guys...



Quoting ANCFlyer (Reply 8):
Ditto

Whoa. Just because he broke up with this girl, you're suggesting he switch sides? Well, this is A.net...  duck 

Topic: RE: A Good Way Of Getting Over Your Ex
Username: Gunsontheroof
Posted 2006-03-13 06:58:08 and read 1407 times.

Copious amounts of cheap beer, good friends, good music. About two month's worth.

Topic: RE: A Good Way Of Getting Over Your Ex
Username: JetsGo
Posted 2006-03-13 07:47:45 and read 1393 times.

Thank you all for taking the time to reply to me. It seems like I am on the right track. It's extremely difficult, but I figure if I can find things to do to occupy myself for the entire day or night or what not, I will not think about it all that much. I just want to get it all behind me. Thanks again guys.


Chris


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