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Topic: Have You Ever Declined Sex With Someone?
Username: 9VSPO
Posted 2006-06-19 21:29:50 and read 4395 times.

Are you glad you did or were you kicking yourself afterwards?  cheeky 

Topic: RE: Have You Ever Declined Sex With Someone?
Username: AeroWesty
Posted 2006-06-19 21:33:06 and read 4395 times.

Quoting 9VSPO (Thread starter):
Are you glad you did or were you kicking yourself afterwards?

I have said no, and never really thought about it afterwards.

Topic: RE: Have You Ever Declined Sex With Someone?
Username: VinnieWinnie
Posted 2006-06-19 21:35:44 and read 4388 times.

Yes she was minging!  Wink

Topic: RE: Have You Ever Declined Sex With Someone?
Username: RJ111
Posted 2006-06-19 21:36:21 and read 4375 times.

I've rejected it more times than i've accepted and i don't regret that at all.

Topic: RE: Have You Ever Declined Sex With Someone?
Username: Cosec59
Posted 2006-06-19 21:39:03 and read 4375 times.

Quoting 9VSPO (Thread starter):
Have You Ever Declined Sex With Someone?

Are we talking about with, or without beer goggles?

Topic: RE: Have You Ever Declined Sex With Someone?
Username: IFEMaster
Posted 2006-06-19 21:41:05 and read 4355 times.

Once. With beer goggles (although I didn't need beer goggles - she was gorgeous). I regretted it for a while afterwards.

Topic: RE: Have You Ever Declined Sex With Someone?
Username: AirPacific747
Posted 2006-06-19 21:42:53 and read 4346 times.

Seems like we have many liars in here  Wink Big grin

Topic: RE: Have You Ever Declined Sex With Someone?
Username: Sunshine79
Posted 2006-06-19 21:43:01 and read 4346 times.

Yes I have refused sex on a couple of occasions, and did not regret it later.

Topic: RE: Have You Ever Declined Sex With Someone?
Username: Jap
Posted 2006-06-19 21:46:43 and read 4325 times.

Quoting Sunshine79 (Reply 7):
Yes I have refused sex on a couple of occasions, and did not regret it later.

Same here. And there's been a few where I should've declined but didn't...

I guess that's life  snooty 

Topic: RE: Have You Ever Declined Sex With Someone?
Username: 9VSPO
Posted 2006-06-19 21:48:08 and read 4314 times.

Quoting Jap (Reply 8):
And there's been a few where I should've declined but didn't...

Mentioning no names *cough* Big grin

Topic: RE: Have You Ever Declined Sex With Someone?
Username: N1120A
Posted 2006-06-19 21:48:38 and read 4314 times.

I have declined sex on a few occaissions, almost always when I wanted to send a message about my interest in a person without stringing them along just to keep sleeping with them.

Topic: RE: Have You Ever Declined Sex With Someone?
Username: AirPacific747
Posted 2006-06-19 21:51:50 and read 4299 times.

Once when I was 14 actually. I met with one of my classmates' exgirlfriend (she was 16 at the time), and I guess I was too shy at the time. I was still a virgin at that moment, so I had no clue about what to do
We just ended up cuddling a little, that was all.

[Edited 2006-06-19 21:52:59]

Topic: RE: Have You Ever Declined Sex With Someone?
Username: Jap
Posted 2006-06-19 21:51:53 and read 4299 times.

Quoting 9VSPO (Reply 9):
Mentioning no names *cough* Big grin

 Big grin that's just mean  Silly

He who has no name was not a mistake though... not at all  Wink

Topic: RE: Have You Ever Declined Sex With Someone?
Username: AeroWesty
Posted 2006-06-19 21:54:42 and read 4291 times.

Quoting AirPacific747 (Reply 11):
I was still a virgin at that moment, so I had no clue about what to do  

Drink far too much red wine, then throw up later.

Oh wait.  blush 

Topic: RE: Have You Ever Declined Sex With Someone?
Username: AirPacific747
Posted 2006-06-19 21:58:02 and read 4276 times.

Quoting AeroWesty (Reply 13):
Drink far too much red wine, then throw up later.

Oh wait.

Hehe! Big grin
She wanted to though. Well she didn't tell me face to face but she sent me a text message to my cellphone.. I was still on cloud 9 at the time though because of all the other stuff that we did  Silly

Topic: RE: Have You Ever Declined Sex With Someone?
Username: Sunshine79
Posted 2006-06-19 21:58:48 and read 4276 times.

Quoting Jap (Reply 8):
Same here. And there's been a few where I should've declined but didn't...

There´s many of mine that I should of declined, but I was young and nieve then, I´m older and wiser now.

[Edited 2006-06-19 22:06:23]

Topic: RE: Have You Ever Declined Sex With Someone?
Username: QANTASforever
Posted 2006-06-19 21:58:53 and read 4276 times.

Of course.

I think we all know someone who turns into a total whore once they get some drink into them. Saying no to sex with some inebriated friend or acquaintence is simply part of the binge drinking ritual.

QFF

Topic: RE: Have You Ever Declined Sex With Someone?
Username: Nworlnsbearcub
Posted 2006-06-19 21:59:20 and read 4276 times.

I've turned down sex from quite a few men and women. No regrets, mostly  embarrassed 

..certainly no regrets for the women....  Wink


Michael
Austin, TX  hot 

Topic: RE: Have You Ever Declined Sex With Someone?
Username: AirPacific747
Posted 2006-06-19 22:00:49 and read 4264 times.

btw I really REALLY regret that I declined.. oh well I wasn't old enough anyway :P its just that she was pretty hot.. (dunno if she still is.. I never talk to her anymore)

Topic: RE: Have You Ever Declined Sex With Someone?
Username: Jap
Posted 2006-06-19 22:01:09 and read 4264 times.

Quoting Sunshine79 (Reply 15):
there�s many of mine that I should of declined, but I was young and nieve then, I�m older and wiser now.

hey, I'm still 19 and naive... I guess I have many more future regrets to come Big grin

Topic: RE: Have You Ever Declined Sex With Someone?
Username: 9VSPO
Posted 2006-06-19 22:01:49 and read 4264 times.

Quoting AirPacific747 (Reply 19):
I never talk to her anymore

Give her a call.  Wink

Topic: RE: Have You Ever Declined Sex With Someone?
Username: AeroWesty
Posted 2006-06-19 22:02:18 and read 4264 times.

Quoting QANTASforever (Reply 17):
I think we all know someone who turns into a total whore once they get some drink into them.

::note we haven't heard an answer from our thread-starter yet::  stirthepot 

Topic: RE: Have You Ever Declined Sex With Someone?
Username: AirPacific747
Posted 2006-06-19 22:03:25 and read 4264 times.

Quoting 9VSPO (Reply 21):
Give her a call.

If only I had her number  Wink

Topic: RE: Have You Ever Declined Sex With Someone?
Username: Cosec59
Posted 2006-06-19 22:03:46 and read 4249 times.

Quoting AeroWesty (Reply 22):
::note we haven't heard an answer from our thread-starter yet::

That's true  stirthepot 

Topic: RE: Have You Ever Declined Sex With Someone?
Username: Jap
Posted 2006-06-19 22:11:27 and read 4230 times.

I think it's a lot easier for girls not to regret saying no...

It's a lot easier for girls to "get some" too Big grin

Topic: RE: Have You Ever Declined Sex With Someone?
Username: AirPacific747
Posted 2006-06-19 22:12:20 and read 4230 times.

Quoting Jap (Reply 25):

It's a lot easier for girls to "get some" too

Yeah if you like being a hooker  Wink

Topic: RE: Have You Ever Declined Sex With Someone?
Username: Jap
Posted 2006-06-19 22:16:41 and read 4210 times.

Quoting AirPacific747 (Reply 25):
Yeah if you like being a hooker Wink

You mean slut  Wink Just because you go out and get some you're not a hooker, unless you ask people to pay for it  Silly

And why is it that a girl who's bedded a lot of guys is a "slut" while guys who bed a lot of women are cool and earn people's respect? Huh?  Wink Something to ponder about.

Topic: RE: Have You Ever Declined Sex With Someone?
Username: AirPacific747
Posted 2006-06-19 22:19:06 and read 4200 times.

Quoting Jap (Reply 26):
You mean slut Wink Just because you go out and get some you're not a hooker, unless you ask people to pay for it

Exactly And no, I meant a hooker  Wink

Quoting Jap (Reply 26):

And why is it that a girl who's bedded a lot of guys is a "slut" while guys who bed a lot of women are cool and earn people's respect? Huh?

Says who??

[Edited 2006-06-19 22:19:29]

Topic: RE: Have You Ever Declined Sex With Someone?
Username: PSA53
Posted 2006-06-19 22:21:16 and read 4186 times.

One big test.But no regret.
Yes.To a minor.I had to ask her for ID.
I'm not ready to do 20/20.

Topic: RE: Have You Ever Declined Sex With Someone?
Username: Jap
Posted 2006-06-19 22:24:34 and read 4176 times.

Quoting AirPacific747 (Reply 27):
Exactly And no, I meant a hooker Wink

A hooker doesn't get more than the average girl. I still say a girl is able to get more men chasing her than a guy would get girls chasing him (depending on the appearance of them both, of course)- it's a fact

Quoting AirPacific747 (Reply 27):
Says who??

The world. It's been like this for thousands and thousands of years, and it's even like this in the animal kingdom. If people KNOW a female has been with, say, a 1000 men, she'll ALWAYS be looked at it differently than a guy who's been with a 1000 girls. That is a fact too

[Edited 2006-06-19 22:25:56]

Topic: RE: Have You Ever Declined Sex With Someone?
Username: AirPacific747
Posted 2006-06-19 22:27:18 and read 4165 times.

Quoting Jap (Reply 29):

A hooker doesn't get more than the average girl.

??? Are you saying that the average girl has sex 20 times every night??

Quoting Jap (Reply 29):

The world. It's been like this for thousands and thousands of years, and it's even like this in the animal kingdom. If people KNOW a female has been with, say, a 1000 men, she'll ALWAYS be looked at it differently than a guy who's been with a 1000 girls. That is a fact too

Okay.. I guess so.. I just don't see it that way

[Edited 2006-06-19 22:27:57]

Topic: RE: Have You Ever Declined Sex With Someone?
Username: F9Animal
Posted 2006-06-19 22:28:08 and read 4165 times.

As hard as it was to do, I had to turn this girl down. Once I got her soap, she tried chasing after me. Oh man, I almost died.

[Edited 2006-06-19 22:28:44]

Topic: RE: Have You Ever Declined Sex With Someone?
Username: 9VSPO
Posted 2006-06-19 22:28:40 and read 4165 times.

Quoting AeroWesty (Reply 21):
::note we haven't heard an answer from our thread-starter yet::



Quoting Cosec59 (Reply 23):
That's true

And what's that supposed to mean?
 angel 

Topic: RE: Have You Ever Declined Sex With Someone?
Username: Cosec59
Posted 2006-06-19 22:30:08 and read 4165 times.

Quoting 9VSPO (Reply 32):
And what's that supposed to mean?



Quoting 9VSPO (Thread starter):
Have You Ever Declined Sex With Someone?

 Confused

Topic: RE: Have You Ever Declined Sex With Someone?
Username: AeroWesty
Posted 2006-06-19 22:32:45 and read 4150 times.

Quoting 9VSPO (Reply 32):
And what's that supposed to mean?



Quoting Jap (Reply 26):
You mean slut

 stirthepot 

Topic: RE: Have You Ever Declined Sex With Someone?
Username: Jap
Posted 2006-06-19 22:33:10 and read 4135 times.

Quoting AirPacific747 (Reply 30):
??? Are you saying that the average girl has sex 20 times every night??

Sorry, mistake there... I'm just trying to say that it's AS EASY for a girl to "get some" as it is for a hooker. If she really tried, that is  Wink

Topic: RE: Have You Ever Declined Sex With Someone?
Username: AirPacific747
Posted 2006-06-19 22:34:23 and read 4135 times.

Quoting Jap (Reply 35):

Sorry, mistake there... I'm just trying to say that it's AS EASY for a girl to "get some" as it is for a hooker. If she really tried, that is Wink

Ah okay  Smile Guess I was a little slow too  Wink

Topic: RE: Have You Ever Declined Sex With Someone?
Username: Cadet57
Posted 2006-06-19 22:34:47 and read 4135 times.

Quoting 9VSPO (Thread starter):
Have You Ever Declined Sex With Someone?

Once. I was at a party. And a friend of mine who knew I liked her was wicked drunk and wanted to. I told her it wasnt right for me to do that becasue of how she was so I took her home and her girlfriends took it from there... And no, I dont regret it.

Topic: RE: Have You Ever Declined Sex With Someone?
Username: AeroWesty
Posted 2006-06-19 22:37:26 and read 4121 times.

Quoting Cadet57 (Reply 37):
her girlfriends took it from there

So the girlfriends said yes?

Topic: RE: Have You Ever Declined Sex With Someone?
Username: RobertNL070
Posted 2006-06-19 22:40:02 and read 4106 times.

Quoting 9VSPO (Thread starter):
Have You Ever Declined Sex With Someone?

Frequently. See signature.

 bouncy 

Topic: RE: Have You Ever Declined Sex With Someone?
Username: IFEMaster
Posted 2006-06-19 22:41:04 and read 4106 times.

Quoting AeroWesty (Reply 38):
So the girlfriends said yes?

You took the words right off of my keyboard.

Or perhaps, did he have sex with the girfriends instead?

Topic: RE: Have You Ever Declined Sex With Someone?
Username: Stlgph
Posted 2006-06-19 22:42:34 and read 4092 times.

HELLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLL NO

ARE YOU KIDDING?











oh wait, maybe i have....

Topic: RE: Have You Ever Declined Sex With Someone?
Username: Cadet57
Posted 2006-06-19 22:46:43 and read 4077 times.

Quoting AeroWesty (Reply 38):
So the girlfriends said yes?

no.

Quoting IFEMaster (Reply 40):
Or perhaps, did he have sex with the girfriends instead?

No. I have a girlfriend. Im not a cheater.

Topic: RE: Have You Ever Declined Sex With Someone?
Username: Scbriml
Posted 2006-06-19 23:34:59 and read 4028 times.

I never have, but my wife has on many occasions! scratchchin 

Topic: RE: Have You Ever Declined Sex With Someone?
Username: 9VSPO
Posted 2006-06-19 23:35:13 and read 4028 times.

Quoting RobertNL070 (Reply 39):
Frequently. See signature

You don't count coz you are just a whore LOL. Big grin

Topic: RE: Have You Ever Declined Sex With Someone?
Username: Airplanepics
Posted 2006-06-19 23:49:38 and read 4005 times.

I never do!

Signed,
Mattlad

Topic: RE: Have You Ever Declined Sex With Someone?
Username: Doona
Posted 2006-06-19 23:59:09 and read 3985 times.

A few times... mostly when it comes to the 40+ years mom-crowd, drinking martinis and wearing denim outfits and pink lipgloss. That's why I try to stay out of bars where the average age is above 30...

Cheer
Mats

[Edited 2006-06-19 23:59:31]

Topic: RE: Have You Ever Declined Sex With Someone?
Username: LO231
Posted 2006-06-20 00:17:57 and read 3957 times.

Quoting Cadet57 (Reply 42):
No. I have a girlfriend. Im not a cheater.

Ha ha! I've read: " a charter"....  Smile

Regards
LO231

Topic: RE: Have You Ever Declined Sex With Someone?
Username: Dougloid
Posted 2006-06-20 00:22:56 and read 3949 times.

Quoting Doona (Reply 46):
A few times... mostly when it comes to the 40+ years mom-crowd, drinking martinis and wearing denim outfits and pink lipgloss. That's why I try to stay out of bars where the average age is above 30...

Cheer
Mats

You'll see a time when that sounds pretty good to you, laddie. Just keep your eye on the calendar.

 old   old   old   old 

Topic: RE: Have You Ever Declined Sex With Someone?
Username: Capicuuu
Posted 2006-06-20 00:27:32 and read 3932 times.

Yeah, good topic. Did once, at the point where I was in bed with a naked girl who was all over me. Felt too easy so I left as quick as I could. Found out later that she sleeps with 2-3 guys a week and uses no protection!!  Wow!

Topic: RE: Have You Ever Declined Sex With Someone?
Username: Duff44
Posted 2006-06-20 00:40:07 and read 3914 times.

When my buddy lived like 3 towns over, I would stop on the way to his house and pick up his (then) girlfriend, cuz she didn't have a car. The relationship was apparently going a little south, and I didn't know it. Well, I went to pick her up one night, and she came strolling down the stairs wearing nothing but a smile  Wow! , and with a different kind of 'ride' on her mind, if ya know what I mean.  Wink

So I had the choice of hittin' it with some skank who was willing to cheat on my best friend, jeopardizing a (then) 6 year friendship, or telling her to **** off...

After hearing the story, he dumped her ass, and I haven't seen or heard from her since. And that friendship I didn't want to mess up is now going on 16 years...  Smile

Topic: RE: Have You Ever Declined Sex With Someone?
Username: Kmh1956
Posted 2006-06-20 00:48:33 and read 3893 times.

On numerous occasions when I've been out and some guy who's had waaay too much to drink and thinks he's God's gift to women comes up and propositions me. I don't think so, pal, you're a revolting drooling drunk.......yuck!

Topic: RE: Have You Ever Declined Sex With Someone?
Username: Rolfen
Posted 2006-06-20 00:49:52 and read 3893 times.

Quoting 9VSPO (Thread starter):
Are you glad you did or were you kicking yourself afterwards? cheeky

Kicking myself most of the time. Some where really cute but I didnt act out of shyness... or something that I still cant define.
Didnt really decline, but more like didnt act. It seems girls always give the wrong message, when they want love they hint on sex and when they want sex they hint on love... I dont get it. Or most probably my perception is fucked up. Anyway I usually dont take my chances and kick myself for it, then the next day when I try to make it up, I get the "I dont want a serious relashionship" thing.
That's fucked up I should stop thinking about the girl and just do what I want.

Topic: RE: Have You Ever Declined Sex With Someone?
Username: Airwave
Posted 2006-06-20 01:01:05 and read 3878 times.

Nope, never declined. Also never accepted. And I've never regretted either decision.


Airwave  eyebrow 

Topic: RE: Have You Ever Declined Sex With Someone?
Username: N1120A
Posted 2006-06-20 01:20:54 and read 3854 times.

Quoting Jap (Reply 26):
And why is it that a girl who's bedded a lot of guys is a "slut" while guys who bed a lot of women are cool and earn people's respect? Huh? Something to ponder about.

Because people in most societies are idiots. I was having a conversation about this with a friend from London just 2 days ago and we came to the conclusion that the most sexually liberated women in the world are British women. If they want it, they look for it and then go get it, making no qualms about being the one doing the talking. They are not looked down upon for it either. It is the ultimate in equality.

Quoting Airwave (Reply 53):
Nope, never declined. Also never accepted. And I've never regretted either decision.

How could you have never declined nor accepted? It has to be one or the other. Has no one ever offered?

Topic: RE: Have You Ever Declined Sex With Someone?
Username: IFEMaster
Posted 2006-06-20 01:28:31 and read 3839 times.

Quoting N1120A (Reply 54):

How could you have never declined nor accepted? It has to be one or the other. Has no one ever offered?

His right hand doesn't possess the speaking capability to make a proposition.

Topic: RE: Have You Ever Declined Sex With Someone?
Username: Jap
Posted 2006-06-20 01:29:42 and read 3839 times.

Quoting Rolfen (Reply 52):
That's fucked up I should stop thinking about the girl and just do what I want.

No, you should try and stop looking for hidden messages. The truth is: most of the time there ARE none. And if there is, it's not really your problem.

But if you want a relationship, stopping thinking about the girl is the worst move. Ever. Same goes for sex. No girl wants a man who only thinks of himself. Period (not the bloody or smelly kind).

Topic: RE: Have You Ever Declined Sex With Someone?
Username: Airwave
Posted 2006-06-20 01:50:14 and read 3810 times.

Quoting N1120A (Reply 54):
How could you have never declined nor accepted? It has to be one or the other. Has no one ever offered?

Hrm, it sounded right when I was typing it out, lol... At any rate, I've never put myself in a situation where it would be an issue, so yes, in a sense, no one has ever offered, but then, neither have I. Thus far, things have worked out quite well this way. No regrets.

Quoting IFEMaster (Reply 55):
His right hand doesn't possess the speaking capability to make a proposition.

 rotfl  Hey, now.  biggrin 


Airwave  eyebrow 

Topic: RE: Have You Ever Declined Sex With Someone?
Username: Raffik
Posted 2006-06-20 02:02:02 and read 3786 times.

Yes, a few times- there are some real mingers at G-A-Y on a saturday night.
I'm usually too p1ssed to notice and end up regretting it in the morning, as I call for a taxi.  hyper 

Topic: RE: Have You Ever Declined Sex With Someone?
Username: Longhornmaniac
Posted 2006-06-20 02:04:58 and read 3784 times.

Quoting Airplanepics (Reply 45):
I never do!

Signed,
Mattlad

LMAO  bigthumbsup  bigthumbsup  bigthumbsup  bigthumbsup 

Cheers,
Cameron

Topic: RE: Have You Ever Declined Sex With Someone?
Username: Bill142
Posted 2006-06-20 02:19:00 and read 3768 times.

Yes. The girl at the bar when I was in Thailand seemed pretty keen for it. Apparently I "made her horny". She kept trying to kiss me and with photo's I've found on bar's website, it seems as if she dosn't need to much persuasion to get her clothes off. It was too easy and no challenge, and the fact I was would have ended up having to pay for it was a total turn off.

Topic: RE: Have You Ever Declined Sex With Someone?
Username: Doona
Posted 2006-06-20 02:23:52 and read 3766 times.

Quoting Dougloid (Reply 48):
You'll see a time when that sounds pretty good to you, laddie. Just keep your eye on the calendar.

Actually, I try to stay away from women all together, thank you very much!

Cheers
Mats

Topic: RE: Have You Ever Declined Sex With Someone?
Username: Skyman
Posted 2006-06-20 02:38:44 and read 3755 times.

Quoting Doona (Reply 61):
Actually, I try to stay away from women all together, thank you very much!

????
 Confused  Confused  Confused

Quoting Jap (Reply 19):
hey, I'm still 19 and naive... I guess I have many more future regrets to come

Jap don`t regret anything. You wil learn soon enough. Sadly. Untill go out and have louds of fun. Believe me it is worth it. Sometimes you regret sometimes your in heaven. So go for it.  puckerup 

Topic: RE: Have You Ever Declined Sex With Someone?
Username: Dougloid
Posted 2006-06-20 02:43:33 and read 3747 times.

Quoting N1120A (Reply 54):
Because people in most societies are idiots.

a point worth remembering from time to time.

Quoting Doona (Reply 61):
Quoting Dougloid (Reply 48):
You'll see a time when that sounds pretty good to you, laddie. Just keep your eye on the calendar.

Actually, I try to stay away from women all together, thank you very much!

Cheers
Mats

Sheesh....well, what the hell.

When you get to be my age and you're not rolling in dough like that dirty old man who was banging Anna Nicole Smith, any damned action at all is welcome....even if it's not what you were planning.

You know they kind of like gay guys, see them as witty and non threatening, muy sympatico and all that. Maybe I could get some shit going here by telling some fine looking 40 year old chick witha few miles on her that I'm gay but with her help I could try to change.

arrrrrrrrrrr arrrrrrrrrrrrrr arrrrrrrrrrrrrrr

 Wink  Wink  Wink  Wink

[Edited 2006-06-20 02:44:53]

Topic: RE: Have You Ever Declined Sex With Someone?
Username: AIR757200
Posted 2006-06-20 03:51:42 and read 3694 times.

Outside of my "regulars", I decline sex regularly (today: local regular hit me up but I was busy) because the latest pickings aren't that great, otherwise, I would quite the whore-- but then again; supposedly I already have the reputation of sleeping around.. Oh well!

Topic: RE: Have You Ever Declined Sex With Someone?
Username: Nworlnsbearcub
Posted 2006-06-20 03:53:53 and read 3694 times.

Quoting Duff44 (Reply 50):
After hearing the story, he dumped her ass, and I haven't seen or heard from her since. And that friendship I didn't want to mess up is now going on 16 years...

What an excellent friend you are! You made me proud of the human race today!


 cheerful 

Michael
Austin, TX

Topic: RE: Have You Ever Declined Sex With Someone?
Username: Skyman
Posted 2006-06-20 04:10:10 and read 3679 times.

Quoting Duff44 (Reply 50):
So I had the choice of hittin' it with some skank who was willing to cheat on my best friend, jeopardizing a (then) 6 year friendship, or telling her to **** off...

A wise decision my friend. Don`t ever put women between men. Second if you would have done anything with that girl you wouldn`t have been worth these lines. Golden rule. Don`t mess with your friends girlfriend. No matter what. Remember that.

Topic: RE: Have You Ever Declined Sex With Someone?
Username: LTBEWR
Posted 2006-06-20 04:24:14 and read 3662 times.

Until I was 19 or so said no a couple times as I didn't want to have the responsibility of being a daddy or supporting an abortion (that was back in the 70's when condoms were not a necessity). I also never had sex when they or me were drunk. Where's the fun is sex when drunk? I want the both of use to enjoy it. Besides stupid things can happen or end up with rape charges. Also, if believe the woman was too young for me, believed was married or recently separated or looking for a group session (yuck - who want's sloppy seconds).

Topic: RE: Have You Ever Declined Sex With Someone?
Username: Dougloid
Posted 2006-06-20 04:32:49 and read 3657 times.

Quoting AIR757200 (Reply 64):
Outside of my "regulars", I decline sex regularly (today: local regular hit me up but I was busy) because the latest pickings aren't that great, otherwise, I would quite the whore-- but then again; supposedly I already have the reputation of sleeping around.. Oh well!

My wife has always said I was an easy lay.....

Topic: RE: Have You Ever Declined Sex With Someone?
Username: Dougloid
Posted 2006-06-20 04:34:06 and read 3654 times.

Quoting Skyman (Reply 66):
A wise decision my friend. Don`t ever put women between men. Second if you would have done anything with that girl you wouldn`t have been worth these lines. Golden rule. Don`t mess with your friends girlfriend. No matter what. Remember that

You are wise beyond your years, Grasshopper.

Topic: RE: Have You Ever Declined Sex With Someone?
Username: Alias1024
Posted 2006-06-20 04:50:11 and read 3638 times.

Yeah. Back in college this really hot girl that I didn't know at all came wandering into my dorm room. She had a pretty good buzz going, and pretty much threw herself at me. She started asking me a few questions and very obviously hitting on me. She wanted to sit down next to me on my bed. Being the nice guy that I was, I said sure, and we started talking. After maybe three minutes, she decided to give me a back massage. Eh, no harm in that, so why not. After a minute or two of that, she wanted me to roll over and tried to start making out with her. It was clear that I probably had about a minute before she started ripping my clothes off. You should have seen the look on my roommate's face, as he was only about five feet away, watching all of this go down.

It was at this point that I decided to stop it from going any farther. I would have felt very guilty about taking advantage of her, so I was trying to find a polite way to end things. I knew her boyfriend was just down the hall hanging out with one of my friends, and I didn't feel like dealing with an angry boyfriend walking in and seeing me with my dick inside his girl.

Eventually I had to just push her off of me and basically tell her no. A few seconds later, her boyfriend came by searching for her, and found us having a normal conversation, having no clue that his girlfriend had just tried to cheat on him. Later that night, my roommate said he probably wouldn't have had the will power to say no to her, and that he had been only a few seconds away from vacating the room to give me and her some privacy. I wound up becoming friends with her boyfriend, and learned that she gave him genital herpes.  eek  eek  eek  Needless to say, I am very glad I declined sex on that occasion.

Topic: RE: Have You Ever Declined Sex With Someone?
Username: Duff44
Posted 2006-06-20 06:04:21 and read 3605 times.

Quoting Nworlnsbearcub (Reply 65):



Quoting Skyman (Reply 66):

Thanks.
Momma raised her child right!  Big grin

Quoting Alias1024 (Reply 70):
She had a pretty good buzz going

I live by this rule: I smell liquor, I no stick her... (Momma didn't tell me that one)

 rotfl 

Topic: RE: Have You Ever Declined Sex With Someone?
Username: Centrair
Posted 2006-06-20 06:59:11 and read 3579 times.

Studying abroad in China in College.

This one girl from the economics department liked to visit to practice her English but only did it when no-one was around. She was well connected and could do pretty much anything she wanted.

The campus had showers in each of the rooms for foreigners but regular students had to shower in the campus shower/bath facility. She missed her time to take a shower and asked if she could use mine. I said sure. I left her to take her shower while I did homework in another room.

When she finished she came out still naked. AWSOME BODY. She started advancing on me. She was an animal. Of course as any guy there is that split second when you say, "god thank you for this which I am about to partake". But then there is another voice "DAMN YOU ...YOU DEVIL....ARRRRR". I had a girlfriend (now my wife) and was not going to go all the way with this amazingly gorgeous woman. So I stopped and said this was wrong.

I kick myself for not taking advantage of my early 20s but am also extremely happy I had stopped. We didn't have protection and I didn't want something to happen that could break up my love with my wife. Now I am happily married with a beautiful daughter.

It was the best part about going abroad...the almost with a girl whose name could a porn name.

Topic: RE: Have You Ever Declined Sex With Someone?
Username: GQfluffy
Posted 2006-06-20 07:42:29 and read 3551 times.

Quoting Jap (Reply 26):
And why is it that a girl who's bedded a lot of guys is a "slut" while guys who bed a lot of women are cool and earn people's respect? Huh? Something to ponder about.

I don't think so, but I'm mostly in the minority....

Girls who just go out to get laid and/or hook up are sluts. Guys who go out and get girls drunk to sleep with them or go out to hook up are mansluts. Ok...so I'm almost 22, and have slept with 4 different chicks since I was 15 (which I regret losing my virginity that young....but what can you do?), but I have to have feelings for a girl that I'll sleep with. Every girl I've slept with, I had been dating at least 6 weeks or more. Seriously, I just can't bring myself to sleep with someone just to get laid. That's a bunch of b*llsh*t, and I'll tell that to anyone... And I'll think anyone who goes out just to get laid, or goes out to get drunk and hopefully will wake up naked next to someone, I'll think they're a slut/manslut....cuz they are...

Topic: RE: Have You Ever Declined Sex With Someone?
Username: Scbriml
Posted 2006-06-20 09:29:04 and read 3513 times.

Quoting N1120A (Reply 54):
How could you have never declined nor accepted? It has to be one or the other.



Quoting IFEMaster (Reply 55):
His right hand doesn't possess the speaking capability to make a proposition.

... or he's virgin on the ridiculous!

Topic: RE: Have You Ever Declined Sex With Someone?
Username: Jap
Posted 2006-06-20 09:35:34 and read 3509 times.

Quoting GQfluffy (Reply 73):
cuz they are...

Is that really up to you or anyone else to decide? WHY are they sluts/mansluts?

As long as they respect themselves and others, does it really matter how many people they've slept with?

Topic: RE: Have You Ever Declined Sex With Someone?
Username: Rolfen
Posted 2006-06-20 10:02:18 and read 3487 times.

Quoting Alias1024 (Reply 70):

WOW Big grin

There was a red flag in your story though: she's all over you in a very obvious (non-feminine) way while her "boyfriend" is down the hall.

I've had some opportunities with girls that have a boyfriend, but the signs were always much more discrete... I'm not even sure there was something going on.

Topic: RE: Have You Ever Declined Sex With Someone?
Username: Skyman
Posted 2006-06-20 11:10:53 and read 3459 times.

Quoting Alias1024 (Reply 70):
Alias1024

 rotfl   rotfl   rotfl 
I like that story.

Topic: RE: Have You Ever Declined Sex With Someone?
Username: TuRbUleNc3
Posted 2006-06-20 18:25:34 and read 3374 times.

One of mine looked like vicky pollard dragged through a hedge backwards, but i just thought any holes a goal and did it...felt a bit bad after, but once id had a beer, i was fine, total cure Big grin

Topic: RE: Have You Ever Declined Sex With Someone?
Username: 9VSPO
Posted 2006-06-20 18:28:20 and read 3372 times.

Quoting TuRbUleNc3 (Reply 78):
One of mine looked like vicky pollard dragged through a hedge backwards, but i just thought any holes a goal and did it...felt a bit bad after, but once id had a beer, i was fine, total cure

 rotfl 

Funniest quote ever.

Topic: RE: Have You Ever Declined Sex With Someone?
Username: Texan
Posted 2006-06-20 19:39:54 and read 3325 times.

Quoting Jap (Reply 26):
You mean slut

Well, the difference between a whore and a slut is that a whore sleeps with everybody in the room. A slut sleeps with everybody but you.

And yes, I have turned down sex on multiple occassions from multiple people and never felt any regret about it.

Texan

Topic: RE: Have You Ever Declined Sex With Someone?
Username: Gunsontheroof
Posted 2006-06-21 00:27:55 and read 3271 times.

Not sure that I have. Passing out during sex on the other hand...

Topic: RE: Have You Ever Declined Sex With Someone?
Username: Stoney
Posted 2006-06-21 02:22:27 and read 3245 times.

Quoting Jap (Reply 56):
No, you should try and stop looking for hidden messages. The truth is: most of the time there ARE none. And if there is, it's not really your problem.

Try to tell that to any other woman, and if they don't start arguing like crazy, you've found one of the few who think in straight lines. Even my girlfriend has a hard time just telling what she wants (even though I tried my best for the last 2.5 years to make her get that). According to her the normal thoughts of a woman are like that:
1. I want him to do thing A, how can I show him that without telling him.
2. If I say thing B, and act as if I want thing C, he'll have to notice something's not the way I make it appear to be, so let's try it that way..
3. He has to notice I want thing A, it's so obvious. If he doesn't he's not the right one for me.

So appearantly it's impossible for a woman to just say what she wants without any hidden messages. And if you don't get it, it actually is your problem... 'cause in the end, you'll miss out...
If you just want to get her into bed, that's not a huge problem, but if you want a longerlasting relationship.... oh dear....

Quoting Skyman (Reply 66):
Don`t mess with your friends girlfriend. No matter what. Remember that.

AMEN!

And to the original question:

No, I lost my virginity to my present girlfriend and I hope she'll be my only and last one. But if I wouldn't have found her or lose her again......Hey, If you're young, enjoy life and don't say no without a reason..... from experience comes knowledge....(and sometimes some regrets Wink)

Topic: RE: Have You Ever Declined Sex With Someone?
Username: Alias1024
Posted 2006-06-21 04:11:56 and read 3214 times.

Quoting Rolfen (Reply 76):
There was a red flag in your story though: she's all over you in a very obvious (non-feminine) way while her "boyfriend" is down the hall.

Red flag as in don't touch her, or red flag as in not true? For the first, the alcohol on her breath, and her throwing herself at a complete stranger was a pretty big red flag. For the second, not a red flag, she is just a nympho, without enough self control to not cheat on her boyfriend. Her boyfriend said that she didn't even know who had given her herpes. Eventually he got tired of her cheating on him and called it quits.

Post edited because I was momentarily retarded.

[Edited 2006-06-21 04:19:25]

Topic: RE: Have You Ever Declined Sex With Someone?
Username: N1120A
Posted 2006-06-21 08:27:28 and read 3169 times.

Quoting Airwave (Reply 57):
I've never put myself in a situation where it would be an issue

In a situation where it would be an issue? What does that mean? Never talked to a woman before?

Quoting Alias1024 (Reply 70):
. I wound up becoming friends with her boyfriend, and learned that she gave him genital herpes. Needless to say, I am very glad I declined sex on that occasion.

I bet you are. No Valtrex for you.

Quoting Stoney (Reply 82):
No, I lost my virginity to my present girlfriend and I hope she'll be my only and last one.

She probably won't be, but that's ok too. I thought at least 2 different girls would be the last one I slept with and think my girlfriend now (1 year on Sunday) will be, but you never know.

Topic: RE: Have You Ever Declined Sex With Someone?
Username: Gunsontheroof
Posted 2006-06-21 08:34:40 and read 3167 times.

Quoting N1120A (Reply 84):
In a situation where it would be an issue? What does that mean? Never talked to a woman before?

Very well played. I actually laughed out loud.

Topic: RE: Have You Ever Declined Sex With Someone?
Username: N1120A
Posted 2006-06-21 08:41:18 and read 3163 times.

Quoting Gunsontheroof (Reply 85):
Very well played. I actually laughed out loud.

Well, you learn a few moves in 12117 posts  Silly

Topic: RE: Have You Ever Declined Sex With Someone?
Username: IFEMaster
Posted 2006-06-21 16:43:53 and read 3106 times.

Quoting 9VSPO (Thread starter):
Have You Ever Declined Sex With Someone?

Yes. She wasn't a Hooters girl with two kids.

Signed,

DC10s4ever

Topic: RE: Have You Ever Declined Sex With Someone?
Username: BigOrange
Posted 2006-06-21 17:00:39 and read 3093 times.

Quoting Sunshine79 (Reply 15):
I´m older and wiser now

And still grogeous  Wink

Topic: RE: Have You Ever Declined Sex With Someone?
Username: Airwave
Posted 2006-06-21 17:44:58 and read 3079 times.

Quoting Scbriml (Reply 74):
... or he's virgin on the ridiculous

LOL. Word play, I like it, haha.

Quoting N1120A (Reply 84):
In a situation where it would be an issue? What does that mean? Never talked to a woman before?

Indeed. I'm a fastidious cloistered monk who has sworn a life of prayer...also plane spotting.  Wink

Nah, I have plenty of lady friends, so talking to them isn't an issue, lol. What it simply comes down to is that I won't have sex until I'm in a pretty solid relationship with a woman--f*uck buddies and one-night stands and questionable hookups just aren't for me. I'm sure that once I find the right woman, I won't question or regret it at all, simply because of how far we both would have had to go to get to that point. But since having a relationship or dating or any of that has yet to be a priority for me, sex is wayyyy down the list of things to do. So, coming back to the original point, that's how it's never an issue, lol.

Quoting Gunsontheroof (Reply 85):
Very well played. I actually laughed out loud.

Hahaha...same here. Well played, indeed.  biggrin 


Airwave  eyebrow 

Topic: RE: Have You Ever Declined Sex With Someone?
Username: Sunshine79
Posted 2006-06-21 19:57:18 and read 3047 times.

Quoting BigOrange (Reply 88):
Quoting Sunshine79 (Reply 15):
I´m older and wiser now

And still grogeous Wink



Aww, you say such nice things when Im feeling so down in the dumps at the moment.

[Edited 2006-06-21 20:05:33]

Topic: RE: Have You Ever Declined Sex With Someone?
Username: LSPA
Posted 2006-06-21 20:02:05 and read 3045 times.

Quoting 9VSPO (Thread starter):
Are you glad you did or were you kicking yourself afterwards?

i have with my ex-girlfriend. And was glad. But I still got to fool around Big grin

Topic: RE: Have You Ever Declined Sex With Someone?
Username: Diamond
Posted 2006-06-21 20:07:39 and read 3033 times.

Quoting 9VSPO (Thread starter):
Have You Ever Declined Sex With Someone?

Yes. Yesterday. No regrets. I've said no more often than I've said yes.

Topic: RE: Have You Ever Declined Sex With Someone?
Username: Fbgdavidson
Posted 2006-06-21 20:22:57 and read 3025 times.

Quoting Airplanepics (Reply 45):
I never do!

Signed,
Mattlad

But I gott deeklined once. It woz soon after my girlfriend had both her hips replaiced. The Docterr said she had to rest  Sad

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Topic: RE: Have You Ever Declined Sex With Someone?
Username: San747
Posted 2006-06-22 05:23:08 and read 2974 times.

If she's drunk or a condom isn't available, I would decline sex. If she is extraordinarily beautiful, I might regret it for a little bit, but on the other hand, I can wait until she's sober or I have a condom to go for it again.
Of course, my personal policy is never to push or pressure a girl into sex, I say let it come at her pace, when SHE's comfortable with it...

Topic: RE: Have You Ever Declined Sex With Someone?
Username: FlyboyOz
Posted 2006-06-22 16:23:05 and read 2906 times.

Well...I'm proud of being virgin!! Being virgin rocks!

Topic: RE: Have You Ever Declined Sex With Someone?
Username: Dougloid
Posted 2006-06-22 17:24:02 and read 2888 times.

Gotta reach back in history here.

John Donne, the poet says :

He who does not propose
The right true end of love
Goes to sea but for to make himself sick.

Topic: RE: Have You Ever Declined Sex With Someone?
Username: Rolfen
Posted 2006-06-22 21:31:50 and read 2841 times.

Yeah I do regret it, mainly for 2 reasons:
- Maybe I'd had a bit more experience and sex wouldnt be been such a big, frightful deal and unheatly obsession for me.
- Maybe that girl would have gotten more attached to me and not dumped me... but thinking back It's probably better like this, they werent that worthy.

Topic: RE: Have You Ever Declined Sex With Someone?
Username: JCS17
Posted 2006-06-22 21:43:09 and read 2835 times.

Yep, yep.

I don't have sex when I'm not in a monogamous relationship. I'll fool around up to third base, but nothing more. I don't regret it at all. I like to think sex actually means something (call me old fashioned), and I need to know for peace of mind that the woman has some sort of morals. We'll see if this ever changes though  Wink

Topic: RE: Have You Ever Declined Sex With Someone?
Username: Senorcarnival
Posted 2006-06-22 22:07:31 and read 2826 times.

I have once when there were no prophylactics available. She pleaded that it was ok because she was on birth control, which I don't even know if it was true, I still said no.


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