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How To Get Over Your First Love....  
User currently offlineFfis34 From United States of America, joined Feb 2005, 318 posts, RR: 0
Posted (8 years 7 months 3 weeks 5 days 1 hour ago) and read 3287 times:

ok so i am so down right now i came to a.net for a little help, im sure atleast 50% of a.net have had their first love...i just broke up with mine because it wasnt going anywhere, there was never time for anything, i am only 16, and these past 2 weeks have been so stressful, i dont understand how your suppose to just move on with life after looseing a best friend...i love her still so much, but now we dont even talk...and i cant stand it, im tearing myself up...so i guess my question is how'd you guys get over your first love.

o yeah i have known her for 2 years, of the 2 years we have been dating for a year and half...it was so amazing, i miss it...

so lets here about your first love, do you still talk to them, how long did it take you to get over them, all that kinda stuff...

brad

yeah yeah i know i have set myself up for some serious flameing, go ahead


Chris, since we are in jail I need to say something to you. Dont drop the soap
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User currently offlineBMIFlyer From UK - England, joined Feb 2004, 8810 posts, RR: 58
Reply 1, posted (8 years 7 months 3 weeks 5 days 1 hour ago) and read 3280 times:

This thread may help you, It helped me alot. Not my first love, but still....

http://www.airliners.net/discussions/non_aviation/read.main/838192


Lee

[Edited 2006-02-27 23:44:52]


Sometimes You Can't Make It On Your Own
User currently offlineCFCUQ From Canada, joined Sep 2005, 712 posts, RR: 0
Reply 2, posted (8 years 7 months 3 weeks 5 days 1 hour ago) and read 3280 times:

Rush out and shag another, the sooner the better. Don't confuse love with lust.

User currently offlineAerobalance From United States of America, joined Sep 2000, 4683 posts, RR: 47
Reply 3, posted (8 years 7 months 3 weeks 5 days 1 hour ago) and read 3265 times:

Quoting Ffis34 (Thread starter):
...i just broke up with mine because it wasnt going anywhere, there was never time for anything, i am only 16, and these past 2 weeks have been so stressful, i dont understand how your suppose to just move on with life after looseing a best friend...i love her still so much, but now we dont even talk

Obviously a one-sided imaginary relationship, move on to your next video game and just chill knowing that your parents are paying for everything at the moment. Life is good and you don't even know it....



"Sing a song, play guitar, make it snappy..."
User currently offlineAirTran737 From United States of America, joined Apr 2004, 3704 posts, RR: 12
Reply 4, posted (8 years 7 months 3 weeks 5 days 1 hour ago) and read 3258 times:
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I'd kill her and make her skin into a lampshade.




Seriously though, you're sixteen, get back on your horse and find a new girlfriend. Remember you'll only be able to bang under age chicks for two more years, so enjoy those times now.



Nice Trip Report!!! Great Pics, thanks for posting!!!! B747Forever
User currently offlineBMIFlyer From UK - England, joined Feb 2004, 8810 posts, RR: 58
Reply 5, posted (8 years 7 months 3 weeks 5 days 1 hour ago) and read 3247 times:

Quoting AirTran737 (Reply 4):
Remember you'll only be able to bang under age chicks for two more years, so enjoy those times now

 rotfl 

Perv  Wink


Lee



Sometimes You Can't Make It On Your Own
User currently offlineAirTran737 From United States of America, joined Apr 2004, 3704 posts, RR: 12
Reply 6, posted (8 years 7 months 3 weeks 5 days 1 hour ago) and read 3247 times:
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Now for my real answer. She is your first love, and I'm sure that everyone will agree that no matter what happens you always hold a special place for your first love. I am still best friends with my first love, and have continued to be so since we broke up almost six years ago. You're young, so it probably wasn't as serious of a relationship as your are making it out to be. Time will pass, your heart will heal, and you will move on. Just don't do anything rash, be sensible.


Nice Trip Report!!! Great Pics, thanks for posting!!!! B747Forever
User currently offlineAirTran737 From United States of America, joined Apr 2004, 3704 posts, RR: 12
Reply 7, posted (8 years 7 months 3 weeks 5 days 1 hour ago) and read 3239 times:
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Quoting BMIFlyer (Reply 5):
Perv

It's true, Baz Lurhman said to "enjoy the power and beauty of your youth" this lad needs to do just that.



Nice Trip Report!!! Great Pics, thanks for posting!!!! B747Forever
User currently offlineBMIFlyer From UK - England, joined Feb 2004, 8810 posts, RR: 58
Reply 8, posted (8 years 7 months 3 weeks 5 days 1 hour ago) and read 3239 times:

Quoting AirTran737 (Reply 7):
It's true, Baz Lurhman said to "enjoy the power and beauty of your youth" this lad needs to do just that

We have all been there  Wink


Lee



Sometimes You Can't Make It On Your Own
User currently offlineBirdwatching From Germany, joined Sep 2003, 3823 posts, RR: 51
Reply 9, posted (8 years 7 months 3 weeks 5 days 1 hour ago) and read 3239 times:

Whoa whoa whoa, give this guy a break! This is some serious stuff, and you turn this into a clowning frenzy!

Brad, why exactly did you two break up? From all you wrote above, it seems like you two still want each other a lot. Here's my advice:
Wait a couple of months, date another girl, make your ex jealous. And get yourself some additional experience, above the sheets and under. And after that, you either go back to your ex, or you've realized that she might not be ALL you ever wanted. Go for it. You have nothing to lose, except a whole pile of ca$$$$$$$h.

Soren  santahat 



All the things you probably hate about travelling are warm reminders that I'm home
User currently offlineYOWza From Canada, joined Jul 2005, 4899 posts, RR: 15
Reply 10, posted (8 years 7 months 3 weeks 5 days 1 hour ago) and read 3229 times:

Some (ok a lot) of single malt scotch, an oz of BC hydro and a night at the rippers with the boys would be a good start.

YOWza



12A whenever possible.
User currently offlineNkops From United States of America, joined Jun 2005, 2669 posts, RR: 6
Reply 11, posted (8 years 7 months 3 weeks 5 days 1 hour ago) and read 3224 times:

date her sister or best friend... worked for me!!!!  Big grin


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User currently offlineKaddyuk From Wallis and Futuna, joined Nov 2001, 4126 posts, RR: 26
Reply 12, posted (8 years 7 months 3 weeks 5 days 1 hour ago) and read 3224 times:

Box of tissues, Tub of KY Jelly and the recent edition of "Razzle" should make you feel a WHOLE lot better...


Whoever said "laughter is the best medicine" never had Gonorrhea
User currently offlineANCFlyer From , joined Dec 1969, posts, RR:
Reply 13, posted (8 years 7 months 3 weeks 5 days 1 hour ago) and read 3224 times:





Too much???


User currently offlineBMIFlyer From UK - England, joined Feb 2004, 8810 posts, RR: 58
Reply 14, posted (8 years 7 months 3 weeks 5 days 1 hour ago) and read 3224 times:

Quoting Kaddyuk (Reply 12):
Box of tissues, Tub of KY Jelly and the recent edition of "Razzle" should make you feel a WHOLE lot better...

So thats what you get up to when Janni isn't around huh?  Wink



Lee



Sometimes You Can't Make It On Your Own
User currently offlineBirdwatching From Germany, joined Sep 2003, 3823 posts, RR: 51
Reply 15, posted (8 years 7 months 3 weeks 5 days 1 hour ago) and read 3210 times:

Quoting Kaddyuk (Reply 12):
Box of tissues, Tub of KY Jelly and the recent edition of "Razzle" should make you feel a WHOLE lot better...

Make that a box of tissues and the latest issue of Airways magazine. (The one with the JetBlue A320 centerfold)
Signed, 95% of CivAv forum

[Edited 2006-02-28 00:11:19]


All the things you probably hate about travelling are warm reminders that I'm home
User currently offlineBMIFlyer From UK - England, joined Feb 2004, 8810 posts, RR: 58
Reply 16, posted (8 years 7 months 3 weeks 5 days ago) and read 3198 times:

Quoting ANCFlyer (Reply 13):




Too much???

LMAO @ ANC  laughing 



Lee



Sometimes You Can't Make It On Your Own
User currently offlineSWISSER From , joined Dec 1969, posts, RR:
Reply 17, posted (8 years 7 months 3 weeks 5 days ago) and read 3177 times:

Quoting Ffis34 (Thread starter):
i dont understand how your suppose to just move on with life after looseing a best friend...i love her still so much, but now we dont even talk...and i cant stand it, im tearing myself up...so i guess my question is how'd you guys get over your first love.

Are you sure you are "over" the girl?
Or is she over you?
Not talking after 2 years of "les affaires" is not good at all!
Think over it, get in touch at least, you can loose a love, loosing a friend is much worse!

If you think you defenitly need to move on,
The best remedy for me to get over her in this situation is knowing she has started dating another guy or just suspect that she does that, then the "butterflies" simply melt in a couple of seconds and you can say, "C'est finit, salut "ma" copine!"
worked for me anyway back then, and then you can move on!

Now the best thing for me to get over them is a good disgusting wordfight, and the butterflies in your stomach vaporise by each word that comes out of her, depending on the words and tone you know if there is still love or not.
It's harsch, but I found that it can safe or end a relationship much quicker.

And keep in mind that the chances are higher then you think that you will fall in love again with an even better person!
Even I was surprised that that was in fact the truth!

and at last,
even if you are desperate, the guys and gals at A.net can help you too!
you will never walk alone!  Wink


BTW, the thread BMIFlyer linked,
that is bad, way bad...not to stop loving her, but hating her to move on.


User currently offlineBMIFlyer From UK - England, joined Feb 2004, 8810 posts, RR: 58
Reply 18, posted (8 years 7 months 3 weeks 5 days ago) and read 3175 times:

Quoting SWISSER (Reply 17):
BTW, the thread BMIFlyer linked,
that is bad, way bad...not to stop loving her, but hating her to move on.

It was an experience, I can tell you  Sad


Lee



Sometimes You Can't Make It On Your Own
User currently offlineSWISSER From , joined Dec 1969, posts, RR:
Reply 19, posted (8 years 7 months 3 weeks 4 days 21 hours ago) and read 3141 times:

Quoting BMIFlyer (Reply 18):
It was an experience, I can tell you

I hope you are happy again,
With or without someone else!
(also a U2 title BTW!  Wink )

Quoting Birdwatching (Reply 9):
Wait a couple of months, date another girl, make your ex jealous. And get yourself some additional experience, above the sheets and under. And after that, you either go back to your ex, or you've realized that she might not be ALL you ever wanted. Go for it. You have nothing to lose, except a whole pile of ca$$$$$$$h.

 bigthumbsup 
Great idea, after you get yourself over the situation!
My sister does that too, she makes slaves of her ex-boyfriends!
Can come in handy too!  Wink


User currently offlineTheCoz From , joined Dec 1969, posts, RR:
Reply 20, posted (8 years 7 months 3 weeks 4 days 21 hours ago) and read 3137 times:

Quoting Ffis34 (Thread starter):
yeah yeah i know i have set myself up for some serious flameing, go ahead

You are a ceiling fan!



User currently offlineOkie From United States of America, joined Jul 2003, 3100 posts, RR: 3
Reply 21, posted (8 years 7 months 3 weeks 4 days 21 hours ago) and read 3132 times:

Grand Pa told me " best way to get over a woman is to get over another woman "

Okie


User currently offlineTuffGong From Canada, joined Jan 2006, 472 posts, RR: 3
Reply 22, posted (8 years 7 months 3 weeks 4 days 21 hours ago) and read 3132 times:

well its safe to say your going to be getting pretty close with your right hand through these hard times. pun intended.


Meet you at the Ol' Yacht club for a pint.
User currently offlineAerobalance From United States of America, joined Sep 2000, 4683 posts, RR: 47
Reply 23, posted (8 years 7 months 3 weeks 4 days 20 hours ago) and read 3117 times:

Quoting Okie (Reply 21):
best way to get over a woman is to get over another woman

damn straight, go out and have some fun finding another!



"Sing a song, play guitar, make it snappy..."
User currently offlineSenorcarnival From , joined Dec 1969, posts, RR:
Reply 24, posted (8 years 7 months 3 weeks 4 days 20 hours ago) and read 3113 times:

In order to do this, you must be able to drive and hope she's willing to go out with you one more time:
Tell her you'd like to talk things over with her over dinner. Take her out, drop her off up front at the restaurant and tell her you need to go park the car. Instead of parking the car and going in, go home. Big grin

Yeah, this post-breakup period sucks. You'll also find out who your real friends are when you need someone to be your friend and listen to you bitch about her.


25 Post contains images PanAm330 : What are you trying to do, kill him ?
26 MSYtristar : spank the monkey dude.
27 Post contains images YOWza : Weed, booze and nudity have never really hurt anyone that badly. Now and eight ball of yayo would have been dangerous. YOWza
28 SW733 : Funny thing about my first love. She was a bitch. She was controlling, manipulative, untrusting, and than cheated on me...so I dumped her. After that,
29 Post contains images Greasespot : Ok...Now all the adlts are done having fun...Time for some serious advice... There is no secret. There is not solution. The only thing that wil help y
30 TuffGong : very true. I broke up with my girlfriend of almost 3 years about 6 months ago. We were best friends, had a tight knit group of friends, we did everyt
31 Nkops : or under if you prefer
32 Msllsmith : I flattened three of the tires on his truck..... would have flattened the fourth, but a police cruiser pulled up and suggested I move on. That's the t
33 Post contains images BMIFlyer : LMFAO Way to go Lee
34 Ffis34 : hey hey guys, of all places to come to for alittle help i go to a.net, and to my surprise some of your comments make sense, well heres a little update
35 Aerobalance : Freekin' hormones......
36 Msllsmith : Well, good. It looks like you're on the road to recovery. It's all part of growing up.
37 Trekster : Mate, feel sorry for u. I know what your going thru. I had my first love last year. knew the guy for 2 years before the L word was mentioned (LONG DIS
38 Post contains images Fbgdavidson : This thread is hilarious and certainly testiment to the fact you should never seek relationship advice on any internet forum 16yr old boy breaks up wi
39 Post contains images Usnseallt82 : ...and move on to the next one.
40 Ffis34 : yeah, sometimes i wished i played video games...i just dont have any interest in shooting or raceing on a tv. it seems rather pointless, and i dont wa
41 Post contains images BMIFlyer : Remember the penis enlarger from the Austin Powers movie? "It's My Bag Baby" Lee
42 L-188 : If it is a true friend you want, get a dog. They don't bitch if you come home late, and don't steal your beer.
43 Msllsmith : That's very true...... Dogs drink Jack Daniels.
44 Waterpolodan : Some advice from my personal experience. I had my first serious girlfriend when I was 15, we dated for a year and we told each other that we were in l
45 Braybuddy : NEVER go running after anyone. Play hard to get: if she's not interested at least you won't make a fool of yourself, if she IS interested, she'll come
46 Gunsontheroof : Alcohol, friends, good records. Worked for me.
47 Fumanchewd : Be glad it didn't get too serious. They aren't worth it at that age. ........errr, or at any age.
48 Flyingbabydoc : My first love... We split after a while together. We lost contact. We met again after 16 years on the internet and ... We married and plan to live ha
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