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Keeping In Touch With Girls/not Be Annoying  
User currently offlineKLM672 From United States of America, joined Oct 1999, 2498 posts, RR: 3
Posted (8 years 8 months 6 days 12 hours ago) and read 5319 times:

I would like help/ideas on how to slow myself down. Typically I will meet a girl (usually online- feel free to laugh but as i stated in another topic its the only way these days, i live 50 miles from the nearest club, seriously) and it seems like we'll be talking and then I'll find myself giving out my cell (I always use the line "I will give u my cell, I'm paying for it I might as well use the thing") and inviting them to hang out or ice cream or something.
Another case is I invited this girl from my old college last week to a local basketball game my work will be involved in. Well she said let me know the time and i'll let u know if i can go. I found the time and called her. waited a day or two and left her a message on IM, waited another day and wrote her on myspace and automatcally wrote her on IM to tell her to check myspace! I have since not talked to her and left her be. As i type this I can see myself that its to much and it freaks people out, but i do have a fear that if i don't talk to them often they'll "forget" about me and They'll say "oh, well you're not around, and we don't talk often so you sliped my mind" or "Well we just talk on Myspace and IM I didnt know you wanted to meet" or something along those lines. I guess i feel an impulse to let them know I like them or to make them "not virtual" while they're single because I have a fear one day they won't be single. Just today a girl IMed me and said its annoying that i say Hi to her everyday, I don't realize these things. Any suggestions on how to "keep in touch" and not over do it.

[Edited 2006-04-18 16:54:36]

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User currently offlineAGM100 From United States of America, joined Dec 2003, 5407 posts, RR: 17
Reply 1, posted (8 years 8 months 6 days 11 hours ago) and read 5300 times:

[quote=KLM672,reply=0] Just today a girl IMed me and said its annoying that i say Hi to her everyday, I don't realize these things. Any suggestions on how to "keep in touch" and not over do it.

Damn , she sounds nice ! Ignore her completly maybe even knock her over and laugh on the way into work.
 Wow!

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User currently offlineKLM672 From United States of America, joined Oct 1999, 2498 posts, RR: 3
Reply 2, posted (8 years 8 months 6 days 11 hours ago) and read 5296 times:

Well she just recently wrote back and said sorry for snapping. I want to find that good line where I am activally involved in commuicating with a girl but not to the point where it is annoying.

User currently offlineAirPacific747 From Denmark, joined May 2008, 2474 posts, RR: 24
Reply 3, posted (8 years 8 months 6 days 11 hours ago) and read 5286 times:

well if she says that it is annoying, then maybe just stay far away from her for some time, because she doesn't deserve any attention at all then.

Whenever I talk to my ex-girlfriend over MSN, she gets annoyed too every time I write "hey" or "hi" to her if she is stressed out already. Then it takes some time to start a nice conversation with her, but it also clearly shows that she doesn't like me the way she used to.
I know how hard it can be to find a nice girl, but just hang in there, ok? Maybe it will be easier to find someone at a work or where you are studying, because you get to see the person often. Just an idea.

[Edited 2006-04-18 17:54:25]

User currently offlineKLM672 From United States of America, joined Oct 1999, 2498 posts, RR: 3
Reply 4, posted (8 years 8 months 6 days 11 hours ago) and read 5268 times:

"I know how hard it can be to find a nice girl, but just hang in there, ok? Maybe it will be easier to find someone at a work or where you are studying, because you get to see the person often. Just an idea."

Yeah, I'd love to do that but currently no one at work is single, and I take online classes. I might be taking classroom classes this summer.

Andre


User currently offlineAirPacific747 From Denmark, joined May 2008, 2474 posts, RR: 24
Reply 5, posted (8 years 8 months 6 days 11 hours ago) and read 5266 times:

Quoting KLM672 (Reply 4):

Yeah, I'd love to do that but currently no one at work is single, and I take online classes. I might be taking classroom classes this summer.

ah okay I see your point. The reason why I suggested it is because I am very shy when I am going out on night clubs, etc. I find it easier to date someone after having talked to them for a while to begin with.

I have also tried to find girls over the internet but without luck, so I am starting to doubt if it would ever be possible for me to find someone over the internet, that I could share everything with. It is probably possible, but I think it is difficult to make it work.

My first girlfriend was a girl who I met over the internet. I started talking to her cousin first for a couple of months, who I met in a chatroom, and then after a few months, she asked me if it was okay that her cousin (my exgirlfriend) added me to her messenger and ofcourse I said yes. I talked to her for over a year, before we decided to meet each other. The problem was that she is from the US and I am from Denmark, but at the time I was studying in Canada, so it made it easier. I flew to Minnesota, met her in Mall of America, and we spent a few days together. There was instantly a connection between us, and the time we spent together was actually the best time of my life, but then I had to leave her again, and 6 months after we had met, she told me that she had found someone else and was not able to wait for me. It turned out that the guy was a real idiot who just took advantage of her to have sex with someone else. I know she still has feelings for me and we do talk together now and then, and I actually still love her, but I don't know if we will ever be together again...  Sad
hopefully some day  crossfingers 

[Edited 2006-04-18 18:25:52]

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