Sunshine79 From United Kingdom (England), joined Jan 2006, 1552 posts, RR: 47 Reply 7, posted (3 years 4 months 3 weeks 1 day 18 hours ago) and read 2201 times:
Yes I have refused sex on a couple of occasions, and did not regret it later.
N1120A From United States, joined Dec 2003, 23399 posts, RR: 87 Reply 10, posted (3 years 4 months 3 weeks 1 day 18 hours ago) and read 2169 times:
I have declined sex on a few occaissions, almost always when I wanted to send a message about my interest in a person without stringing them along just to keep sleeping with them.
Mangeons les French fries, mais surtout pratiquons avec fierte le French kiss
AirPacific747 From Denmark, joined May 2008, 290 posts, RR: 24 Reply 11, posted (3 years 4 months 3 weeks 1 day 18 hours ago) and read 2154 times:
Once when I was 14 actually. I met with one of my classmates' exgirlfriend (she was 16 at the time), and I guess I was too shy at the time. I was still a virgin at that moment, so I had no clue about what to do
We just ended up cuddling a little, that was all.
AirPacific747 From Denmark, joined May 2008, 290 posts, RR: 24 Reply 14, posted (3 years 4 months 3 weeks 1 day 18 hours ago) and read 2131 times:
Quoting AeroWesty (Reply 13): Drink far too much red wine, then throw up later.
Oh wait.
Hehe!
She wanted to though. Well she didn't tell me face to face but she sent me a text message to my cellphone.. I was still on cloud 9 at the time though because of all the other stuff that we did
Sunshine79 From United Kingdom (England), joined Jan 2006, 1552 posts, RR: 47 Reply 15, posted (3 years 4 months 3 weeks 1 day 18 hours ago) and read 2131 times:
Quoting Jap (Reply 8): Same here. And there's been a few where I should've declined but didn't...
There´s many of mine that I should of declined, but I was young and nieve then, I´m older and wiser now.
QANTASforever From , joined Dec 1969, posts, RR: Reply 16, posted (3 years 4 months 3 weeks 1 day 18 hours ago) and read 2131 times:
Of course.
I think we all know someone who turns into a total whore once they get some drink into them. Saying no to sex with some inebriated friend or acquaintence is simply part of the binge drinking ritual.
Nworlnsbearcub From United States, joined Feb 2004, 166 posts, RR: 0 Reply 17, posted (3 years 4 months 3 weeks 1 day 18 hours ago) and read 2131 times:
I've turned down sex from quite a few men and women. No regrets, mostly
..certainly no regrets for the women....
Michael
Austin, TX
Long after the thrill of low price, lingers the bad taste of low quality..
AirPacific747 From Denmark, joined May 2008, 290 posts, RR: 24 Reply 18, posted (3 years 4 months 3 weeks 1 day 18 hours ago) and read 2119 times:
btw I really REALLY regret that I declined.. oh well I wasn't old enough anyway :P its just that she was pretty hot.. (dunno if she still is.. I never talk to her anymore)
AirPacific747 From Denmark, joined May 2008, 290 posts, RR: 24 Reply 25, posted (3 years 4 months 3 weeks 1 day 18 hours ago) and read 2085 times:
Quoting Jap (Reply 25):
It's a lot easier for girls to "get some" too
Yeah if you like being a hooker
26 Jap: You mean slut Just because you go out and get some you're not a hooker, unless you ask people to pay for it And why is it that a girl who's bedded a
27 AirPacific747: Exactly And no, I meant a hooker Says who?? [Edited 2006-06-19 22:19:29]
28 PSA53: One big test.But no regret. Yes.To a minor.I had to ask her for ID. I'm not ready to do 20/20.
29 Jap: A hooker doesn't get more than the average girl. I still say a girl is able to get more men chasing her than a guy would get girls chasing him (depen
30 AirPacific747: ??? Are you saying that the average girl has sex 20 times every night?? Okay.. I guess so.. I just don't see it that way [Edited 2006-06-19 22:27:57]
31 F9Animal: As hard as it was to do, I had to turn this girl down. Once I got her soap, she tried chasing after me. Oh man, I almost died.[Edited 2006-06-19 22:28
35 Jap: Sorry, mistake there... I'm just trying to say that it's AS EASY for a girl to "get some" as it is for a hooker. If she really tried, that is
36 AirPacific747: Ah okay Guess I was a little slow too
37 Cadet57: Once. I was at a party. And a friend of mine who knew I liked her was wicked drunk and wanted to. I told her it wasnt right for me to do that becasue
46 Doona: A few times... mostly when it comes to the 40+ years mom-crowd, drinking martinis and wearing denim outfits and pink lipgloss. That's why I try to sta
47 LO231: Ha ha! I've read: " a charter".... Regards LO231
48 Dougloid: You'll see a time when that sounds pretty good to you, laddie. Just keep your eye on the calendar.
49 Capicuuu: Yeah, good topic. Did once, at the point where I was in bed with a naked girl who was all over me. Felt too easy so I left as quick as I could. Found
50 Duff44: When my buddy lived like 3 towns over, I would stop on the way to his house and pick up his (then) girlfriend, cuz she didn't have a car. The relation
51 Kmh1956: On numerous occasions when I've been out and some guy who's had waaay too much to drink and thinks he's God's gift to women comes up and propositions
52 Rolfen: Kicking myself most of the time. Some where really cute but I didnt act out of shyness... or something that I still cant define. Didnt really decline
53 Airwave: Nope, never declined. Also never accepted. And I've never regretted either decision. Airwave
54 N1120A: Because people in most societies are idiots. I was having a conversation about this with a friend from London just 2 days ago and we came to the conc
55 IFEMaster: His right hand doesn't possess the speaking capability to make a proposition.
56 Jap: No, you should try and stop looking for hidden messages. The truth is: most of the time there ARE none. And if there is, it's not really your problem
57 Airwave: Hrm, it sounded right when I was typing it out, lol... At any rate, I've never put myself in a situation where it would be an issue, so yes, in a sen
58 Raffik: Yes, a few times- there are some real mingers at G-A-Y on a saturday night. I'm usually too p1ssed to notice and end up regretting it in the morning,
60 Bill142: Yes. The girl at the bar when I was in Thailand seemed pretty keen for it. Apparently I "made her horny". She kept trying to kiss me and with photo's
61 Doona: Actually, I try to stay away from women all together, thank you very much! Cheers Mats
62 Skyman: ???? Jap don`t regret anything. You wil learn soon enough. Sadly. Untill go out and have louds of fun. Believe me it is worth it. Sometimes you regre
63 Dougloid: a point worth remembering from time to time. Sheesh....well, what the hell. When you get to be my age and you're not rolling in dough like that dirty
64 AIR757200: Outside of my "regulars", I decline sex regularly (today: local regular hit me up but I was busy) because the latest pickings aren't that great, other
65 Nworlnsbearcub: What an excellent friend you are! You made me proud of the human race today! Michael Austin, TX
66 Skyman: A wise decision my friend. Don`t ever put women between men. Second if you would have done anything with that girl you wouldn`t have been worth these
67 LTBEWR: Until I was 19 or so said no a couple times as I didn't want to have the responsibility of being a daddy or supporting an abortion (that was back in t
68 Dougloid: My wife has always said I was an easy lay.....
69 Dougloid: You are wise beyond your years, Grasshopper.
70 Alias1024: Yeah. Back in college this really hot girl that I didn't know at all came wandering into my dorm room. She had a pretty good buzz going, and pretty mu
71 Duff44: Thanks. Momma raised her child right! I live by this rule: I smell liquor, I no stick her... (Momma didn't tell me that one)
72 Centrair: Studying abroad in China in College. This one girl from the economics department liked to visit to practice her English but only did it when no-one wa
73 GQfluffy: I don't think so, but I'm mostly in the minority.... Girls who just go out to get laid and/or hook up are sluts. Guys who go out and get girls drunk
75 Jap: Is that really up to you or anyone else to decide? WHY are they sluts/mansluts? As long as they respect themselves and others, does it really matter
76 Rolfen: WOW There was a red flag in your story though: she's all over you in a very obvious (non-feminine) way while her "boyfriend" is down the hall. I've h
78 TuRbUleNc3: One of mine looked like vicky pollard dragged through a hedge backwards, but i just thought any holes a goal and did it...felt a bit bad after, but on
80 Texan: Well, the difference between a whore and a slut is that a whore sleeps with everybody in the room. A slut sleeps with everybody but you. And yes, I h
81 Gunsontheroof: Not sure that I have. Passing out during sex on the other hand...
82 Stoney: Try to tell that to any other woman, and if they don't start arguing like crazy, you've found one of the few who think in straight lines. Even my gir
83 Alias1024: Red flag as in don't touch her, or red flag as in not true? For the first, the alcohol on her breath, and her throwing herself at a complete stranger
84 N1120A: In a situation where it would be an issue? What does that mean? Never talked to a woman before? I bet you are. No Valtrex for you. She probably won't
85 Gunsontheroof: Very well played. I actually laughed out loud.
86 N1120A: Well, you learn a few moves in 12117 posts
87 IFEMaster: Yes. She wasn't a Hooters girl with two kids. Signed, DC10s4ever
89 Airwave: LOL. Word play, I like it, haha. Indeed. I'm a fastidious cloistered monk who has sworn a life of prayer...also plane spotting. Nah, I have plenty of
90 Sunshine79: Aww, you say such nice things when Im feeling so down in the dumps at the moment.[Edited 2006-06-21 20:05:33]
91 LSPA: i have with my ex-girlfriend. And was glad. But I still got to fool around
92 Diamond: Yes. Yesterday. No regrets. I've said no more often than I've said yes.
93 Fbgdavidson: But I gott deeklined once. It woz soon after my girlfriend had both her hips replaiced. The Docterr said she had to rest C U on MSN four sum kwalitee
94 San747: If she's drunk or a condom isn't available, I would decline sex. If she is extraordinarily beautiful, I might regret it for a little bit, but on the o
95 FlyboyOz: Well...I'm proud of being virgin!! Being virgin rocks!
96 Dougloid: Gotta reach back in history here. John Donne, the poet says : He who does not propose The right true end of love Goes to sea but for to make himself s
97 Rolfen: Yeah I do regret it, mainly for 2 reasons: - Maybe I'd had a bit more experience and sex wouldnt be been such a big, frightful deal and unheatly obses
98 JCS17: Yep, yep. I don't have sex when I'm not in a monogamous relationship. I'll fool around up to third base, but nothing more. I don't regret it at all. I
99 Senorcarnival: I have once when there were no prophylactics available. She pleaded that it was ok because she was on birth control, which I don't even know if it was
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