TedTAce From , joined Dec 1969, posts, RR: Posted (7 years 8 months 3 days 10 hours ago) and read 2935 times:
So by now most of you know the wife and I are past the one way tire spikes getting onto the on ramp of the divorce highway. Today is her 40th Birthday, and this morning she packed herself a bag and told me not to wait up for her as she will be celebrating her 40th by banging her boyfriend at some hotel in the greater MCO area.
I will have the kids to myself for the evening so here are my choices:
A) Pretend it's a normal evening without mommy (something they are getting used to).
B) Have dinner at home then go out to a movie with the kids.
C) Have a nice evening out (even though she threw a roast in the crockpot on her way out).
B) Throw a birthday dinner for mommy with just me and the kids but lots of decorations that will be left for momma to discover when she comes draging home @ O dark hundred tomorrow.
1) With tasteful decorations the kids will enjoy
2) With spiteful decorations about being 40 and 'over the hill' and whatnot.
3) Leave a cake with 40 candles burned all the way down.
Your suggestions are greatly appreciated
PS: If you see this one around Orlando Tonight tell her I said "Happy Birthday"
AeroWesty From United States of America, joined Oct 2004, 20322 posts, RR: 63
Reply 5, posted (7 years 8 months 3 days 10 hours ago) and read 2898 times:
Quoting TedTAce (Thread starter): this morning she packed herself a bag and told me not to wait up for her as she will be celebrating her 40th by banging her boyfriend at some hotel in the greater MCO area.
Hmm, it just occurred to me. Do we know where BAB is tonight?
AGM100 From United States of America, joined Dec 2003, 5407 posts, RR: 16
Reply 8, posted (7 years 8 months 3 days 10 hours ago) and read 2888 times:
TedAce, man I have been exactly where you are @. God It makes me feel like shit all over again when I read your post..(thanks ). I am now divorced from the Bitch , and my kids are older. But I remember how absolutly FUBAR it was. I feel bad for you man. But it will get better with time.
Take the kids and do something fun with them, give them alot hugs and just be Dad. Dont know if its the right thing, but it is what I would do.
Goodluck , man stay strong
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Ilikeyyc From United States of America, joined Dec 2003, 1373 posts, RR: 21
Reply 10, posted (7 years 8 months 3 days 10 hours ago) and read 2876 times:
Quoting Halls120 (Reply 6): If you have time, I'd also consider ordering one of those on site storage pods, placing all her crap in the pod, and changing the locks to the house.
I had a room mate who kicked her boyfriend out of the house by trashing his room and then throwing all his stuff out on the front lawn. He was at work and came home to find the "surprise". That was not a fun day as I had to help him pick up his stuff and move him out that night.
Kmh1956 From Bermuda, joined Jun 2005, 3324 posts, RR: 7
Reply 11, posted (7 years 8 months 3 days 10 hours ago) and read 2876 times:
Why on earth are you still married? This woman is certainly not setting any sort of good example for your children, whereas you appear to be taking the high road.
My advice....cut your losses and get a divorce. It'll be hard on the kids at first but in the long run they'll end up in a much healthier atmosphere than the one they're in now. Try not to say anything against their mother (that's the hardest thing to do...trust me) They'll only end up resenting you. Keep the relationship as cordial as you can stand with mother.....the kids will figure it out sooner or later.
There's bound to be someone out there who is more worthy of you.
'Somebody tell me why I'm on my own if there's a soulmate for everyone' :Natasha Bedingfield
TedTAce From , joined Dec 1969, posts, RR:
Reply 18, posted (7 years 8 months 3 days 8 hours ago) and read 2794 times:
So I post this thread, have a few laughs, then get ready to pick up the kids with te intention of bringing them to an empty house so they can make their cards for her and she can have at LEAST one nice thing from this day that will actually mean something. But Low-and-behold who comes home early after finally being approved for a 1/2 day off? Oy Freaking FEH!! At least she decided to take a nap, the kids are doing her cards, and she will be gone by 5:30 this evening.. Too bad I don't want to go to jail for assulting her; or else the door would be hitting her SQARELY in the ass on her way out.
PS I had the day off so I could take care of daycare issues... ORIGIANLLY I had this day off so we could take her sky diving, but the best laid plans and all that.. at least she will be getting some tonight
I have spent the last 10 years getting really fat and used to not using condoms. While a good drunk skank MIGHT give me the time of day, there is no way I'm going back to condom land if I can help it ad thats were the skanks hide out. I figure I'm going to spend AT LEAST a year getting myself in better shape (pounding rosy and her 5 sisters) and meeting some women and getting to know them VERY well before it comes intimate. I'm not looking for another wife, but if I can find a good partner that will be cool; whatever happens when it happens is cool.
I ended up just short of ignoring her for the short time she was here, I heard her whining about not having a cake, but I figure that's revenge enough for now. If she wanted cake she should have bothered to have dinner with her family.
Nacho Libre was cool and the kids really liked it. Now to see how hellish the weekend goes. She's still calling me "Teddy Bear' though I have asked her to stop twice. I guess it's time for a drinky poo, some serious posting, maybe a little partypoker.net then worry about the rest in the morning.