YooYoo From Canada, joined Nov 2003, 6057 posts, RR: 47
Reply 6, posted (9 years 5 months 1 week 6 days 15 hours ago) and read 1485 times:
Quoting LO231 (Reply 5): If you can't control it by seeing an attractive person and being at the nudist beach, you don't get enough at home. Or you're not mature enough and shouldn't be there at the first place...
That's what i was thinking.
So, 9VSPO, what do you do when you see the hottie?
I am so smart, i am so smart... S-M-R-T... i mean S-M-A-R-T
Quoting 9VSPO (Thread starter): Ok so you are down on the beach letting it all hang out when a really fit bird walks by
Just doesn't happen much, being nude is not sexually.
Being nude in the outdoors embraces the living and experiencing nature in themost natural way possible. (After weren't we born nude?) Relaxation, stress relief, positive body image and increasing self-esteem are just few of the reasons people choose the nudist lifestyle. For more information check out aanr.com, cruisenude. com are a couple of sites that I would recommend.
From my experience, once the lady of the relationship goes nude at a resort/cruise/ beach be aware she will want to continue to enjoy the lifestyle..
AeroWesty From United States of America, joined Oct 2004, 20822 posts, RR: 60
Reply 16, posted (9 years 5 months 1 week 6 days 12 hours ago) and read 1326 times:
Quoting AirCop (Reply 11): Just doesn't happen much, being nude is not sexual
That's absolutely right, and I believe a common misconception from those who've never "taken the option", as a friend calls it. After about 10 minutes on a nude beach it becomes apparent there really isn't anything different from a regular beach other than the lack of garish swimwear.
I would have said not sexy, but whatever. Point being that while it's kind of sexy to be naked with 5,000+ people you notice everyone behaving and you can't help but do your best to keep 'in line'. Now if it was 5,000 people having sex, i bet it would be impossible not to get excited.
Back in the day, when I was merely 20-40 pounds (ok I think I got through 60) overweight I used to go to Haulover a LOT. The first time I went was a week day and there wasn't much going on, so I didn't get naked. The next time I went it was a holiday weekend with over 5,000 naked people of all shapes and sizes. I felt MORE uncomfortable being dressed then being nude!!
Now I think there were all of two occasions in about 2 years of going to Haulover that I REALLY liked what I saw...the nice thing was there were plenty of UGLY chicks that I could change my gaze to so as to avert a 'crisis'.
Nude beaches are plenty of fun. While I know I could make friends on a nude beach, as most nudists are accepting of all body types, I am WAY too fat to go because of myself. Maybe that will change eventually, I hope it does considering my current marital situation. I need to meet someone who's got a sense of humor.