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TedTAce Divorce Thread Part II (Don’t Read)  
User currently offlineTedTAce From , joined Dec 1969, posts, RR:
Posted (7 years 9 months 3 weeks 4 days 11 hours ago) and read 4025 times:

Same disclaimer as before; If you don’t care: don’t participate.
Another note: These are the events as I perceived them to occur. It doesn’t mean this is absolute fact, it’s just what I would say if asked for my recollection.

A VERY Shallow “Victory”?


So she was here and at one point this morning (my Son’s birthday) she starts to say something , then retracts. I spend a few minutes trying to politely badger it out of her to no avail. Ok Fine whatever.

So about an hour later she decides to talk.

She wants to follow bozo boy (and his wife) up to Tennessee and would I re-consider the custody agreement. Now she fore-warns that this is not set in stone, there is a long way to go on this, but if it comes to fruition I can have the kids and $400/month while they are in school, She only gets them for the Summer.

After hemming and hawing on details like basically it will be her obligation to transport them, and  redflag  like that, I have tentatively agreed.

Now obviously this is a personal victory, in all my arrogance (if this pans out) I’m going to be the one primarily responsible for raising the children the way I see fit and I have ABSOLUTELY NO problems with THAT aspect of the challenge should it come to pass. I know I can raise these kids and turn them into productive mostly well adjusted adults.

BUT: I really don’t want them to grow up with their mom ‘only on the summers’. They are so young and the thought of them only seeing their mother for a little more than two months out of the year is bothersome.

I know that letting her go and figuring out she’s making a huge mistake is the right thing to do, but at the cost of the kid’s experience with their mom??

After I agreed, while she was hemming and hawing about whether or not it’s going to happen. So to make a point (that we should stick with what we had previously agreed sharing custody with her staying here) I even told her she’s ‘choosing between her kids and her sex life’. Of course she said she didn't think of it like that. I said your not thinking of it like that, but that's what it boils down to.

Note we did not and will not discuss this option with the kids until it does come to pass. the Last thing we need is the kids freaking out that such an arrangment might happen.

The thing that amazed me about two hours after I had made the remark about the choice; she serving lunch and was making a point of how good a father I am in front of the kids, and how I would be great at taking care of them, and it was sincere!!!

I don't know what to hope for. One way I win and the kids will do good; the other the kids win for experience with their mom, but then she has more influence on them.

Next life: I'm going to get the twins disabled as soon as I get out of middle school.

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User currently offlineDougloid From , joined Dec 1969, posts, RR:
Reply 1, posted (7 years 9 months 3 weeks 4 days 11 hours ago) and read 4020 times:

Quoting TedTAce (Thread starter):
I don't know what to hope for. One way I win and the kids will do good; the other the kids win for experience with their mom, but then she has more influence on them.

Ted, there's no such thing as winners or victory here. All it is is a trick of the light-some lose a little more than others, but all lose.

Kids are pretty tough-they can handle a lot as long as they know what the reasons they're hurting are. Mom is always going to be Mom no matter what she does because she carried them and gave birth while you did not. The bond runs deep.

The best thing that you could do for the kids and parenthetically your self respect is just see an attorney, forget about 'working something out' and get this fucking mess over with, house or no house, money or no money. Put it out of its misery.


User currently offlineCadet57 From United States of America, joined Jul 2005, 9085 posts, RR: 31
Reply 2, posted (7 years 9 months 3 weeks 4 days 11 hours ago) and read 4018 times:

Quoting TedTAce (Thread starter):
Next life: I'm going to get the twins disabled as soon as I get out of middle school.

LOL. Good to see you are keeping your humour about you thru this time Ted. I've never been thru a divorce, but it seems that no matter how much you hate your ex and her "bozo boy" you should always keep that away from your kids and only let them see a kind and loving dad. Which it seems to me like you are doing. Good for you.



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User currently offlineSFOMEX From , joined Dec 1969, posts, RR:
Reply 3, posted (7 years 9 months 3 weeks 4 days 11 hours ago) and read 4010 times:

As hard as it might be for your kids, they would be better off with you. A good mother would never give her kids up for following a married idiot.

Good luck man.


User currently offlineF9Animal From United States of America, joined Dec 2004, 4985 posts, RR: 28
Reply 4, posted (7 years 9 months 3 weeks 4 days 11 hours ago) and read 3989 times:

Quoting TedTAce (Thread starter):
BUT: I really don’t want them to grow up with their mom ‘only on the summers’. They are so young and the thought of them only seeing their mother for a little more than two months out of the year is bothersome.

Oh man, this sucks. But, I too was a child of the Summer mom. While I grew up with anger over the whole thing, I did not have much of a understanding of why things were the way they were. I wish they would have taken the time to coach me through the process.

Quoting TedTAce (Thread starter):
I know that letting her go and figuring out she’s making a huge mistake is the right thing to do, but at the cost of the kid’s experience with their mom??

Yes, let her figure it out for herself. The kids have a way of eating away at the old ticker.

Quoting TedTAce (Thread starter):
Next life: I'm going to get the twins disabled as soon as I get out of middle school.

Me too!

I am being kind of cautious about what I say, because of this being such a strong subject.

If I could turn back time, I would have wanted my parents to be closer to me, even when the distance was so far. My parents refused to talk, and it clearly angers me to this day. They had no idea what they did to me, as I had no idea they were doing that to me as a kid. I look back on it today, and I wish it could have been different.

I rebelled when I turned 12, and did not speak to my father until I was 26. Even to this day, I only speak to him maybe 2 times a year. I think I had a relapse of anger, because I got a call from him a few weeks ago, and I can't find the reason to call him back.

I guess I am trying to say is, make sure you and your ex get an understanding that you two will always need to be close, even if you are not together. Seriously, my mother and father hated eachother over a brutal divorce, and it jacked me up.

Whew!!! Look at me, I share my life story!!! LOL! Hope it helps just a little.



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User currently offlineNotdownnlocked From United States of America, joined Sep 2000, 929 posts, RR: 1
Reply 5, posted (7 years 9 months 3 weeks 4 days 10 hours ago) and read 3964 times:

I have not posted to your threads before but I have read all of them in the situation that you are in but I have to say that you sound to be very intelligent and last but not least you are doing the correct thing in my opinion. I too have been down this road that you are travelling and sounds to me your are making the correct decisions. Do what is right by your children and even they will never ever, ever fault you for that. Their opinion should be the most important. At the least you will be able to sleep comfortably at night knowing you did the right thing. Your victory will come later in knowing that your ex wife will see the same thing after her infatuation with her new boy toy wears off and she finds herself standing on the sidewalk alone. Good luck to you and yours in the future.

User currently offlineTedTAce From , joined Dec 1969, posts, RR:
Reply 6, posted (7 years 9 months 3 weeks 4 days 2 hours ago) and read 3880 times:

Quoting Dougloid (Reply 1):
Ted, there's no such thing as winners or victory here.

That's why in the title I put victory in quotes. Big grin

Quoting Dougloid (Reply 1):
but all lose.

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Quoting Cadet57 (Reply 2):
only let them see a kind and loving dad. Which it seems to me like you are doing. Good for you.

Thank you

Quoting SFOMEX (Reply 3):
As hard as it might be for your kids, they would be better off with you. A good mother would never give her kids up for following a married idiot.

Thank you and I think you are right. While I understand her passion for not wanting to be with someone she doesn't feel she loves, the fact she wants to allow the kids to be dammaged by getting out is bothersome.

Quoting F9Animal (Reply 4):
I wish they would have taken the time to coach me through the process.

That is tough to do, but I will work very hard to keep reminding the kids they are loved.

Quoting F9Animal (Reply 4):
The kids have a way of eating away at the old ticker.

They both took fatally large bites of mine when they were born  Wink

Quoting F9Animal (Reply 4):
I rebelled when I turned 12, and did not speak to my father until I was 26.

Now this is something that bothers me. I guess the other clues about brutal divorce and no communication are hints as to why things are so tough with you and your dad now. If you could emblish more I'd greatly appreciate it. While I know I am going to be a bit of a son of a bitch about them doing well in school; the last thing I want is have my kids hate me.

Quoting Notdownnlocked (Reply 5):
Good luck to you and yours in the future.

Thank you sir  Wink


User currently offlineDougloid From , joined Dec 1969, posts, RR:
Reply 7, posted (7 years 9 months 3 weeks 4 days 1 hour ago) and read 3853 times:

Quoting F9Animal (Reply 4):
If I could turn back time, I would have wanted my parents to be closer to me, even when the distance was so far. My parents refused to talk, and it clearly angers me to this day. They had no idea what they did to me, as I had no idea they were doing that to me as a kid. I look back on it today, and I wish it could have been different.

I rebelled when I turned 12, and did not speak to my father until I was 26. Even to this day, I only speak to him maybe 2 times a year. I think I had a relapse of anger, because I got a call from him a few weeks ago, and I can't find the reason to call him back.

I guess I am trying to say is, make sure you and your ex get an understanding that you two will always need to be close, even if you are not together. Seriously, my mother and father hated eachother over a brutal divorce, and it jacked me up.

That's an interesting perspective and it would probably be what my son and daughter would have said to me. The fact of the matter is that every time Dad had a visit, the kids got a beating from Mom. It doesn't take much for Dad to figure out everyone's better off if he's permanently out of the picture, which was kind of the objective anyway.

I realized if I was ever going to have any kind of relationship with my kids (they're 34) it would have to start with me going the distance. As it turned out, I found that they're rather nice people and I and Mom get along pretty well these days too because we have a common interest in a lot of things, not the least of which is our grandchildren.

The hurt lasts forever. Like I say, nobody wins.

Do yourself a favor and be the person who mediates the gap between your parents. Call your father up and ask him how he's doing.


User currently offlineLTBEWR From United States of America, joined Jan 2004, 13028 posts, RR: 12
Reply 8, posted (7 years 9 months 3 weeks 4 days ago) and read 3831 times:

At least you seemed to have made some progress in your situation. Yes, you had to make a compromise but that may be best deal you can do now to minimise damage to the children. Also here you do get a place to vent and express your intense and understandably distressing feelings and that may be good for you, to keep what little sanity you have left after all this craziness.
I would still continue to recommend to seek professional advice/counsuling, including from religious or charitable organizations, facilities at a local college that may be free or based on your income.
Their may be single father/divorced dad groups out there in your community or on the internet, that may be able to help with advice and listening to you.


User currently offlineUH60FtRucker From , joined Dec 1969, posts, RR:
Reply 9, posted (7 years 9 months 3 weeks 3 days 23 hours ago) and read 3818 times:

Ted... you kinda scare me. Not scared like when a bullet zips through my chin bubble and I have a nice little hole to wave to the Iraqis through... but scared in the fact that I am married myself.

I'm 23, I was married for only a few weeks prior to deploying, and I am fairly sure that when I come home in Feb... my wife is going to start talking about having a baby.

And I'm cool with that and I love my wife and I don't foresee any issues. But of course, neither did you when you married, no doubt. And on the same lines, I don't ever see getting divorced... but neither did you.

lol - well at least in my case I know it's my WIFE who is the better person. So I suppose all I really need to do is walk the line! But yeah, thanks for the chills.

-UH60


User currently offlineAtrude777 From United States of America, joined Aug 2003, 5692 posts, RR: 52
Reply 10, posted (7 years 9 months 3 weeks 3 days 23 hours ago) and read 3808 times:

Ted-

I really am sorry to see you going through this. When my parents first announced the divorce possiblity, immediatly i thought of you and your situation.

I truly do hope you and the wife can make the best out of it all.

As much as it might hurt and i think your realizing it, your children will be the most affected, and make as many sacrafices as you can to ensure the best deal for your kids, which as you saw is what my own parents did. And we are still laughing, talking and having a great time as a 'divorced" family. I mean we had friends and family come down to help my dad move into his new house. Find me another divorced family that could claim they were able to do that and not fight, argue and laugh and have a great time! I was so shocked!

Anyway my best to you and especially the kids, keep the good fight going!

Alex



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User currently offlineTedTAce From , joined Dec 1969, posts, RR:
Reply 11, posted (7 years 9 months 3 weeks 3 days 17 hours ago) and read 3742 times:

Quoting UH60FtRucker (Reply 9):
but scared in the fact that I am married myself.

Well, every one (and every marriage) is different. As long as there is a LOT of passionate mutual admiration, and a commitment to see a counselor first; I don't think you'll have a problem. Remember while this is 'ugly', this is still a relatively un-contested divorce at this point, there are worse stories being told then mine.. I'm just very detailed.

Quoting UH60FtRucker (Reply 9):
But yeah, thanks for the chills.

Sorry, sure you don't want to stay on for another tour???  rotfl 

Quoting Atrude777 (Reply 10):
Anyway my best to you and especially the kids, keep the good fight going!

Thanks, I appreciate it!!


User currently offlineNkops From United States of America, joined Jun 2005, 2660 posts, RR: 6
Reply 12, posted (7 years 9 months 3 weeks 3 days 16 hours ago) and read 3736 times:

Ted-

You seem like a good father, just remember that know matter what the mom does, you are there for the kids. I went 4 years with no mother before my dad re-married (my mom up and left w/ no warning and no contact for 4 years.). It takes a real man to be there for his kids at the worse times, and you seem to be doing OK.



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User currently offlineKmh1956 From Bermuda, joined Jun 2005, 3324 posts, RR: 7
Reply 13, posted (7 years 9 months 3 weeks 3 days 16 hours ago) and read 3723 times:

Sadly, in such cases, there is no real victory on either side. Mom seems delusional if she's off following ex-boyfriend and his wife.....the kids will only have a part-time mother, if that. Resentment towards Mom will grow; that's natural. As long as you keep your cool and don't say anything negative about her (it's hard, but if I can do it, anyone can!) then your relationship with the kids can only get stronger. You've got your work cut out for you. Good luck.


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User currently offlineHAWK21M From India, joined Jan 2001, 31667 posts, RR: 56
Reply 14, posted (7 years 9 months 3 weeks 2 days 23 hours ago) and read 3635 times:

With Kids Involved.They end up the losing side.
regds
MEL



Think of the brighter side!
User currently offlineVaporlock From , joined Dec 1969, posts, RR:
Reply 15, posted (7 years 9 months 3 weeks 2 days 17 hours ago) and read 3573 times:

Quoting TedTAce (Thread starter):
I don't know what to hope for.



Quoting TedTAce (Thread starter):
Next life: I'm going to get the twins disabled as soon as I get out of middle school.

Teddy, it is so good to know that at least you still have hope!!! And your sense of humor.

It is not an easy time ever when you go through divoice...believe me I know. But if you can continue to keep yourself on track you'll get through it just fine. Also, you should be very proud of yourself, you obviously are putting the kids first and that shows just how much you are in touch with them. After all, they are young and really don't understand everything...

Keep up the good work!!!

Phyllis  bouncy 


User currently offlineAleksandar From Serbia, joined Jul 2000, 3236 posts, RR: 32
Reply 16, posted (7 years 9 months 3 weeks 2 days 16 hours ago) and read 3552 times:

Quoting TedTAce (Thread starter):
If you don’t care: don’t participate.

I'll participate  wink 

Quoting TedTAce (Thread starter):
I can have the kids and $400/month while they are in school, She only gets them for the Summer.

Take that offer and start from the beginning. This period was difficult for kids and you, so it will take time to adjust, but you can make it.  crossfingers 

Quoting TedTAce (Thread starter):
BUT: I really don’t want them to grow up with their mom ‘only on the summers’. They are so young and the thought of them only seeing their mother for a little more than two months out of the year is bothersome.

Generally, you are right but if she is so unfit and puts her sexual life first, then your kids are better off without her. It is ugly thing to say, but she can mess their lives and minds more being around them than being far from them. You should consider that, too.

Quoting TedTAce (Thread starter):
One way I win and the kids will do good; the other the kids win for experience with their mom, but then she has more influence on them.

Hey, nobody wins and the biggest loser is your ex wife, but since it is her decision she doesn't deserve much sympathy. You're not winning at all, but it takes lots of courage to do what is right and since you have that courage, you deserve my respect.

The reason why I'm saying is very personal. I grew up without my father. My parents were 21 when I was born and my father simply fled with lots of help of his family and with some bribery, even managed to escape all legal responsibilities. I use my mother's family name and my middle name is not my fathers' name as it should be, but my mother's name.

From my experience, I won't sell you BS and will tell you honestly: it won't be easy for your kids, not now, not even when they grow up. You see, I explained my situation, but didn't want to say one most important thing: my father is quite a rich gallery owner today, but he is also the last person on Earth I would ask for help. First, why should I do it now after 33 years, second, my aunt would rather die than accept his help.

Now, my advice to you is try to make a home for your kids and yourself. Find a new house if necessary and be prepared to protect them from this day until your last breath because they'll need it. Believe me, there will be quite many "righteous" who would gladly point a finger at them and in that situation, they will need you.



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User currently offlineAir380 From United States of America, joined Jul 2005, 181 posts, RR: 0
Reply 17, posted (7 years 9 months 3 weeks 2 days 16 hours ago) and read 3539 times:

I've been reading your threads and I REALLY think that you guys need to be apart as soon as possible. This seems like prolonged agony, you see whatever she does, she tells you this, changes her mind the next second, tells you that, etc. Why does she tell you about her sex life? I can only imagine how that makes you feel, since you loved her once and have children with her. Can you not have her move out, tell her, I don't care what you do, just uphold your end of the bargain for being there for our kids.

User currently offlineTheredbaron From Mexico, joined Mar 2005, 2189 posts, RR: 8
Reply 18, posted (7 years 9 months 3 weeks 2 days 12 hours ago) and read 3498 times:

Ted first of all I think you are doing good....

If yuo let me give you some advice, dont let your kids hate their mon, and dont hate her yourself THEY WILL NOTICE, also because sooner than later she will be back, or will drop her present "adventure" and will try to reenter the picture in some way, so if you dont grow bitter and your sons, all for the better.
Try to keep open channels all the time and set reasonable boundaries and rules and ENFORCE THEM....

Hope you through this fast . clean and with no fight/bitterness/anger.

Best Regards TRB



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User currently offlineHAWK21M From India, joined Jan 2001, 31667 posts, RR: 56
Reply 19, posted (7 years 9 months 3 weeks 2 days 2 hours ago) and read 3437 times:

Quoting Theredbaron (Reply 18):
dont let your kids hate their mon

True.Its better if te kids are happy with both parents even if the Parents arn't together.It'll reduce the Pain.
regds
MEL



Think of the brighter side!
User currently offlineVikkyvik From United States of America, joined Jul 2003, 9765 posts, RR: 27
Reply 20, posted (7 years 9 months 3 weeks 1 day 23 hours ago) and read 3407 times:
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Quoting Nkops (Reply 12):
It takes a real man to be there for his kids at the worse times, and you seem to be doing OK.

You are goddamn right about that. My mom died when I was 9 and my brother was 13. My dad remarried a little over a year later. But my mom had been in the hospital for awhile before she died, and my dad had to deal with that and also take care of his two kids. Both of which he did remarkably well, and I'm still pretty amazed at his resilience.

Anyway, Ted, some things happen about which you have no choice. Make the best of them, for yourself and especially for your kids.

And although this is long term advice, keep an eye on them as they grow. They're at a pretty malleable stage of their lives, emotionally, and much of their actions and reactions later in life will be affected by the events that are occurring now. Someone mentioned counseling; it might not be a bad idea for the kids at some point, if they want. It gives them someone objective to whom they can talk openly.

Good luck...

~Vik



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User currently offlineTedTAce From , joined Dec 1969, posts, RR:
Reply 21, posted (7 years 9 months 3 weeks 1 day 1 hour ago) and read 3356 times:

Thanks again to all my supporters. You all are making this easier for me, and I greatly appreciate it. I recognize that this whole situation is a loss for the kids no matter what, but I'm doing everything I can to mininmize the pain they have to experience.

Two little 'updates'

1st and most importantly: I taught my son to ride his bike without training wheels at all today!!!!!!

2nd She has decided to stick with our original joint custody agreement and will not be relocating!!! While I personally have mixed emotions, I know this is a victory for the kids and is strategically wonderful.


User currently offlineCadet57 From United States of America, joined Jul 2005, 9085 posts, RR: 31
Reply 22, posted (7 years 9 months 3 weeks 1 day ago) and read 3350 times:

Quoting TedTAce (Reply 21):
I taught my son to ride his bike without training wheels at all today!!!!!!

Good for him Ted. But now look at it this way. It will soon mean a car for him, and grey hair for you. Enjoy!  wave   Wink



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User currently offlineTedTAce From , joined Dec 1969, posts, RR:
Reply 23, posted (7 years 9 months 3 weeks 23 hours ago) and read 3338 times:

Quoting Cadet57 (Reply 22):

Already have graying hair  Sad


User currently offlineJGPH1A From , joined Dec 1969, posts, RR:
Reply 24, posted (7 years 9 months 3 weeks 23 hours ago) and read 3333 times:

Quoting TedTAce (Reply 23):
Already have graying hair

No, no - they're platinum highlights  Smile


25 Post contains images Carmenlu15 : Good to see things seem to be working out, Ted... Indeed, the kids are the ones who stand to lose the most in these situations, but they will apprecia
26 Post contains images Dougloid : For that you will pay, Ted. May the Evil Demon of Male Pattern Baldness smite you with his blazing farts from hell.
27 Beefstew25 : Ted, I would never leave the kids unsupervised around your wife.
28 TedTAce : With as much disdain I have towards her, believe it or not, no. While she is twisted, selfish, and evil; the only harm I think she can do to the kids
29 LTBEWR : One thing I would be concerned with it your ex's psychological and mental health. I have see several cases where guys have married women who have seri
30 TedTAce : This runs in her family, and needless to say is a VERY sore point. Her behaviour is very reminiscent of what her mom (a diagnosed schizophrenic) did
31 Aleksandar : Great! I hope it was a painless lesson, because I was all over the place with knees in not very good shape. Now, start saving for his first car. I'm
32 TedTAce : Hold your tongue!!! Rotating holidays. I get them from noon on Sunday through Wednesday @ 6:00 PM. That's probably going to be ammended somehow, but
33 Post contains images Aleksandar : I wanted, I really did, but it was stronger than me and I had to write it Yes, I meant that. You know, it is important for kids and yourself to creat
34 TedTAce : IF there is one thing that is consistant about her, this is it. I have learned from long ago that decision making was not a strong suit of hers. I do
35 Beefstew25 : I say get a private eye to capture footage of the infidelity. Hang that over her, and she will get in line.
36 TedTAce : I already have an e-mail of hers (to him) talking about not getting laid in two weeks dated two weeks after her brthday which she spent with him. Do
37 TedTAce : So this morning I had to take her to work get the kids up early, yadda yadda yadda.... While driving in we talked about what is becomming much more fa
38 Beefstew25 : Lord, this is an akward situation. I seriously praise your self control. I think she needs to move out of the house.
39 Dougloid : Ya know Ted, you're playing out your strategy on a public forum-what makes you think she's not playing the same game with you? I always advise the peo
40 RichardPrice : Out of interest, does her boyfriends wife know about her? Thats the one thing Ive missed while reading your threads! You are an excellent writer, and
41 TedTAce : As we are still on rotation (and will be until the house is sold) she lives with her sister on days I am supposed to have the kids. Not exactly. I'm
42 Aleksandar : Like I've told you before, it seems like the best solution. It is obvious that, in this situation, you are the responible one and I have no doubt tha
43 Beefstew25 : You need to pocket a couple months of the $400 and get yourself out to Vegas for a happy ending.
44 Post contains images TedTAce : LOL THAT is the best insult I have ever had to bear the brunt of Yeah. I am planning on spending the next two to three years in the new place settlin
45 Aleksandar : That's great, but why don't you make a small trip with your kids once everything is settled? I mean nothing fancy, maybe a week long trip just to cha
46 TedTAce : I'd love to, but the reality of the way my life works prohibits it.
47 Post contains images Aleksandar : It's a pity, but what about long weekend? I mean, everyone can get a fever or stomachache.
48 Dougloid : Ted, I don't know whether you folks are trying to do this yourselves. Be that as it may, I can tell you that in my line of work every self help, home
49 DeltaDC9 : The reason my handle is DeltaDC9 is that when I was a kid, from 5 on, I flew on a Delta DC9 by myself between Chicago and Evansville Indiana between p
50 TedTAce : Yes we are doing the DIY divorce. Yes I understand everything is pliable, and I counter that a REALLY good attorney can undermine a previous agreemen
51 Beefstew25 : And the day the divorce goes final, you head up to exit 49 in Georgia and get your piss-pump yanked.
52 TedTAce : Now I don't know if you are explicitly refering for a pay for play scenario, but presuming you are, the answer is thank you but no. The other benefit
53 Beefstew25 : Ted, What is the update?
54 Post contains images TedTAce : Thanks for asking I'm still looking for a job, and trying to sell the house. As to me and her: Something that I'm not quite sure how I feel about. Pa
55 Myt332 : Can't Flairport sort you out with some surveillance equipment?
56 Vikkyvik : Hidden camera disguised as a snow-globe? I must say, Ted, that is pretty screwed up that she will be meeting his parents. I feel bad for his wife. Ta
57 Post contains images Dougloid : ....whatever. Least there's nobody to sue for malpractice, huh?
58 Post contains images TedTAce : (Just kidding) I'm tracking HIS flights now (/Just kidding) You are right, but I'm more pissed about him meeting hers... And you know. The Ex still t
59 Beefstew25 : I say you move up to Tenn with them and just be the whole wrench in the gears. Maybe ask if you, her and her man can have a three way....
60 Post contains images TedTAce : And Give up primary custody? I wouldn't fuck either of them with AerospaceFan's dick.
61 Post contains images FXramper : This isn't archived yet...
62 Vikkyvik : Yeah....understood. I guess, never having been in such a situation, it's interesting to read about your experiences. Thanks for posting them. I'm shu
63 Beefstew25 : Nothing is going on here....move along.... Ted, Do you have lots of life insurance?
64 TedTAce : No.
65 Beefstew25 : Okay, so faking your death is out of the question. Here is what you can do. Pay HER to do away. Like reverse child support. Tell her that in exchange
66 Post contains images TedTAce : Boom I fucked your girlfriend!!! (Or Happy Birthday to me ) Ok, ok, I know that's not the way the song goes; but my variant is so apropos. Yes, I know
67 TedTAce : The diference a few hours make So she gets kicked out of her sisters house and she's living with us. Ok big deal. Things are tooling along, I'm still
68 Ilikeyyc : Congradulations and Happy belated birthday! Congradulations! Curious...will you now be staying in your curent house, or are you still looking to relo
69 Post contains images TedTAce : I talked to the realtor this morning, and I'm not convinced. The only good news was there is another offer on the table, and while it's significantly
70 Post contains images Ilikeyyc : I see I failed the reading comprehension test this morning. Welcome to my world! Actually, I have good neighbors and on week days, everyone is at work
71 TedTAce : Because we don't live in India?
72 Myt332 : Again, belated birthday to you Ted and nice work with the E2B last week. Gives your hand a rest anyway! So tell me something that's been bugging me fo
73 Post contains images TedTAce : I stopped watching it when she took the call, seemed like to me Nothing wrth talking about here. It's a job. I'll be able to afford an apartment for
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