Airlinelover From United States of America, joined Jun 2001, 5580 posts, RR: 24 Posted (12 years 2 weeks ago) and read 653 times:
Here's a fresh topic for ALL of you..
I was not sure, up until about, oh, a month ago, that such a bond was real.. Then, I met someone. She is sweet, caring, and has a sense of humor not to be matched by anyone else I've met. She lives, oh, probably, 10k miles away from me, but it doesn't matter. We quickly became friends, and started talking on the phone. She is one of the most unique people I have ever met, with a cunning mind, and always keeps me on my feet. I have never felt this.... Close (for lack of a better word) to anyone else IN MY LIFE.. It is not anything romantic.. It goes.. HOw shall I say.. Deeper than that.. My whole outlook on life has changed in one short month.. Next christmas, (2002) I am taking 3 weeks to go visit her. I can TRULY say I've found MY soul-mate..
I just wanted to share MY story with all of you.. with all of the "Girl help" and "My life is crap" posts in here these days, I thought something upbeat was in order..
Any of you have any storyes to tell???
Lets do some sexy math. We add you, subtract your clothes, divide your legs and multiply
VapourTrails From , joined Dec 1969, posts, RR: Reply 2, posted (12 years 1 week 6 days 22 hours ago) and read 615 times:
Sounds good!! I know what you mean, it seems that most of the people that believe in this 'phenomenon' are those that have experienced it. I hope it does work out for you, and it's nice to read a post that is upbeat for a change!
Dragogoalie From Australia, joined Oct 2001, 1220 posts, RR: 7 Reply 3, posted (12 years 1 week 6 days 21 hours ago) and read 603 times:
I hate to put a damper on this, but don't put all your eggs in one basket. I did that and..well I don't really want to talk about it. I really really really hope it works out for you. It is an awsome feeling. But..if it goes wrong it really sucks. In my opinion whoever said "it is better to have loved and lost than to have never loved at all" was on crack. Good luck.
747-600X From United States of America, joined Jan 2000, 2777 posts, RR: 16 Reply 4, posted (12 years 1 week 6 days 21 hours ago) and read 596 times:
Now now Drago you don't really beleive that, do you? It's worth the experience even if it doesn't work out. Y'konw, Garth Brooks, The Dance, etc.. Would you rather live your whole life in an emotional void?
"Mental health is reality at all cost." -- M. Scott Peck, 'The Road Less Traveled'
Dragogoalie From Australia, joined Oct 2001, 1220 posts, RR: 7 Reply 5, posted (12 years 1 week 6 days 20 hours ago) and read 599 times:
Yes, I would rather live my life in an emotional void then be depressed for a couple months often thinking about suicide. I was perfectly happy till she came along. Then I was really really really really happy. Every day was the best day of my life and then BANG. Life is all of a living hell.. I say it again. The person who came up with that quote was on crack.
Joona From Finland, joined May 2001, 1038 posts, RR: 10 Reply 6, posted (12 years 1 week 6 days 19 hours ago) and read 588 times:
Dragogoalie, I can feel your pain, brother. I've gone through the same hell many times and am going through it right now too.
Gotta tell ya, it sure is hell just like you said. I've gotten over the suicide thinking, now I just need to concentrate on being friends with the girl. The good thing is, we'll probably return together. The bad thing is... It may take years.
SophieMaltese From United States of America, joined Feb 2001, 2064 posts, RR: 3 Reply 9, posted (12 years 1 week 6 days 11 hours ago) and read 576 times:
I'm very happy for you Chris. I love hearing uplifting stories like this one. I don't have a soulmate story with a happy ending and my take on it is this: You can have people that you have a special connection with, but I don't think I have a soulmate. I do have friends though that I've known for a long time that I would consider soulmates in a sense.