AndesSMF From , joined Dec 1969, posts, RR: Posted (8 years 7 months 2 weeks 5 days 8 hours ago) and read 1775 times:
As some may recall, my wife is expecting our third child. But pregnant women are 'special', i.e. their hormones can do a number on them which then affect YOU. Plus she is much more tired and needs to rest more, which means that my responsibilities have increased. And since we both know WE WILL HAVE NO MORE CHILDREN, she is fully taking advantage of the situation. AND THERE IS NOTHING I CAN DO ABOUT AND Irtysh-Avia (Kazakhstan)">IT. Except grin and bear it.
But my daughter is another subject. She was 'mistreating' me. Finally, mom got her to admit it, and she apologized for it, that she was abusing me more BECAUSE MOM WAS PREGNANT. In other words, she is treating mom a lot better because she is carrying a baby.
So then my daughter complained to me that her brother was not allowing her to 'control' him and mom 'controls' dad!!!! I was speechless and could not respond well to that comment.
That leaves me with the (female) dog and cat. This winter, it has been very cold, and we have allowed them to sleep inside much more often. Well, it got to their head too and now whenever I open the door at night, they walk right in and make themselves at home.
Women are women as soon as they are born, and can be very adept at manipulating a man (or father) at a very early age. But don't worry, she did apologize, and this was admitted after a severe scolding from me.
Us guys here can talk all about being strong around women and everything to sound manly. But the ultimate FACT is that all guys are saps, and women can easily do what they may want.
AndesSMF From , joined Dec 1969, posts, RR:
Reply 15, posted (8 years 7 months 2 weeks 5 days 6 hours ago) and read 1637 times:
Quoting Aerobalance (Reply 13): Andes, I can only imagine that it must be tough to be surounded by some domineering women - so, what are you going to do about it? Strip club?
No. Fortunately, my wife does provide my son and I some latitude that others would find a good exchange for the 'abuse' I suffer. For example, in the 13 years I have known her, I have only cooked for her maybe 5 times. And you know they say that the way to a man's stomach is thru his stomach. And she IS a good cook. She dresses me well enough that I find I have more clothes than most other guys. I am also pretty happy with all the 'toys' Jr. and I share. I just spent $130 on more Legos, so our Lego train collection is more than decent. Matter of fact, I find that I cannot justify buying more without having a larger home to put them in.
She also knows about my a.net postings, and doesn't complain. Every time we have gone to LA, we go to LAX to spot, and she is OK with that. And from my previous experience, I know that she is the best I have had in bed, and by far.
My daughter also shares my nerdiness, and loves to read and learn about science and geography, just like I do.
What is my point? Our life is in good balance, so sometimes my right to complain is limited due to the other great things that have occurred in my life since marriage.