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I'm Falling In Love And I Hate It  
User currently offlineRolfen From Germany, joined Jan 2006, 1809 posts, RR: 2
Posted (7 years 8 months 1 week 6 days 9 hours ago) and read 3790 times:

I hate it because everytime that happens I end up getting dumped and feeling sorry for myself.
Help!


rolf
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User currently offlineCastleIsland From , joined Dec 1969, posts, RR:
Reply 1, posted (7 years 8 months 1 week 6 days 9 hours ago) and read 3787 times:

Quoting Rolfen (Thread starter):
I hate it because everytime that happens I end up getting dumped and feeling sorry for myself.

Dude, suck it up and enjoy life. Face it: every relationship you will be in will fail until you find the right one.


User currently onlineSuperfly From Thailand, joined May 2000, 40073 posts, RR: 74
Reply 2, posted (7 years 8 months 1 week 6 days 9 hours ago) and read 3771 times:

Quoting CastleIsland (Reply 1):
Face it: every relationship you will be in will fail until you find the right one.

 checkmark 
So try new positions with this new one.

Quoting CastleIsland (Reply 1):
Dude, suck it up and enjoy life

I don't think he is seeing a man.  confused 



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User currently offlineCastleIsland From , joined Dec 1969, posts, RR:
Reply 3, posted (7 years 8 months 1 week 6 days 9 hours ago) and read 3734 times:

Quoting Superfly (Reply 2):
I don't think he is seeing a man.

Not what I was trying to say. All I meant was forget the possibility of failure, and enjoy life!


User currently onlineSuperfly From Thailand, joined May 2000, 40073 posts, RR: 74
Reply 4, posted (7 years 8 months 1 week 6 days 9 hours ago) and read 3721 times:

Quoting CastleIsland (Reply 4):
Not what I was trying to say. All I meant was forget the possibility of failure, and enjoy life!

I took the "suck it up " comment in a literal sense.  

Me being silly and naughty again.   

[Edited 2007-04-17 23:53:21]


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User currently offlineRolfen From Germany, joined Jan 2006, 1809 posts, RR: 2
Reply 5, posted (7 years 8 months 1 week 6 days 9 hours ago) and read 3694 times:

haha... "suck it up"


rolf
User currently offlineDiamond From United States of America, joined Apr 2004, 3279 posts, RR: 63
Reply 6, posted (7 years 8 months 1 week 6 days 8 hours ago) and read 3688 times:

Quoting Rolfen (Thread starter):
everytime that happens I end up getting dumped

So how is this person similar to previous ones? How is this person different than previous ones?



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User currently offlineAndesSMF From , joined Dec 1969, posts, RR:
Reply 7, posted (7 years 8 months 1 week 6 days 8 hours ago) and read 3667 times:

Quoting Superfly (Reply 5):
Me being silly and naughty again.

Fly, you and I have these characteristics ingrained in our personality. Just accept it.

Quoting CastleIsland (Reply 4):
All I meant was forget the possibility of failure, and enjoy life!

 bigthumbsup 


User currently offlineVaporlock From , joined Dec 1969, posts, RR:
Reply 8, posted (7 years 8 months 1 week 6 days 8 hours ago) and read 3655 times:

Quoting Superfly (Reply 5):
Me being silly and naughty again.

Fly, that is one of your good qualities.....enjoy it!!! hehe

Quoting Rolfen (Thread starter):
I end up getting dumped and feeling sorry for myself. Help!

Hey, life isn't always perfect....it's what you make it!!!!

Phyllis  bouncy 


User currently onlineSuperfly From Thailand, joined May 2000, 40073 posts, RR: 74
Reply 9, posted (7 years 8 months 1 week 6 days 8 hours ago) and read 3635 times:

Quoting Vaporlock (Reply 8):
Fly, that is one of your good qualities.....enjoy it!!! hehe



Quoting AndesSMF (Reply 7):
Fly, you and I have these characteristics ingrained in our personality. Just accept it.

Thanks! Big grin



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User currently offlineRolfen From Germany, joined Jan 2006, 1809 posts, RR: 2
Reply 10, posted (7 years 8 months 1 week 6 days 8 hours ago) and read 3615 times:

Quoting Diamond (Reply 6):
So how is this person similar to previous ones? How is this person different than previous ones?

She's more calm and older then the girls i used to date. I hope that's a good sign.
I consider myself quite abnormal when it comes to relationships. I actually never got past 2 or 3 encounters with a girl, and that is usually enough for me to get quite attached. I then get dumped. One thing I know I did wrong on several occasions is not giving the girl enough private space (too many messages/calls early in the relashionship). I dont know what else I could have done wrong, or could it just be lack of self confidence that is pushing them away...
anyway, wish me good luck  Smile



rolf
User currently offlineKmh1956 From Bermuda, joined Jun 2005, 3324 posts, RR: 7
Reply 11, posted (7 years 8 months 1 week 6 days 8 hours ago) and read 3602 times:

Oh, honey...kick back and enjoy the ride. I'm in a similar situation, one in which I never thought I'd ever find myself again and I'm loving it! My legs turn to jello whenever I see him, my heart beats a little faster....and I'm twice your age.

Have fun. I am.



'Somebody tell me why I'm on my own if there's a soulmate for everyone' :Natasha Bedingfield
User currently offlineScarletHarlot From Canada, joined Jul 2003, 4673 posts, RR: 56
Reply 12, posted (7 years 8 months 1 week 6 days 7 hours ago) and read 3585 times:

Quoting Kmh1956 (Reply 11):
My legs turn to jello whenever I see him, my heart beats a little faster....

Yeah Kmh! You go girl!!  thumbsup 



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User currently offlineKmh1956 From Bermuda, joined Jun 2005, 3324 posts, RR: 7
Reply 13, posted (7 years 8 months 1 week 6 days 7 hours ago) and read 3576 times:

Quoting ScarletHarlot (Reply 12):
Yeah Kmh! You go girl!!

Thanks! After all these years, I'd have never thought it possible.

On one further not, however, to Rolfen....keep a better attitude. Nobody likes a pessimist and if you've got the attitude that "everytime that happens I end up getting dumped and feeling sorry for myself," you probably will get dumped. Stay positive.



'Somebody tell me why I'm on my own if there's a soulmate for everyone' :Natasha Bedingfield
User currently offlineCastleIsland From , joined Dec 1969, posts, RR:
Reply 14, posted (7 years 8 months 1 week 6 days 7 hours ago) and read 3553 times:

Quoting Rolfen (Reply 10):
She's more calm and older then the girls i used to date. I hope that's a good sign.

Hell yeah it is! Unless you prefer hyperactive youngsters.  Wink

Quoting Rolfen (Reply 10):
One thing I know I did wrong on several occasions is not giving the girl enough private space

I used to be a bit that way, so I hear you. You cannot appreciate the right person until you've been able to experience those who are not right for you. Trust that the universe is unfolding as it should. Above all else, be yourself.


User currently offlineFumanchewd From , joined Dec 1969, posts, RR:
Reply 15, posted (7 years 8 months 1 week 6 days 6 hours ago) and read 3517 times:

Just tear one off and you'll feel better.  goodvibes 

User currently offlineHAWK21M From India, joined Jan 2001, 31712 posts, RR: 56
Reply 16, posted (7 years 8 months 1 week 5 days 19 hours ago) and read 3404 times:

Think positive.
regds
MEL



Think of the brighter side!
User currently onlineSuperfly From Thailand, joined May 2000, 40073 posts, RR: 74
Reply 17, posted (7 years 8 months 1 week 5 days 17 hours ago) and read 3352 times:

Quoting Kmh1956 (Reply 11):
Oh, honey...kick back and enjoy the ride. I'm in a similar situation, one in which I never thought I'd ever find myself again and I'm loving it! My legs turn to jello whenever I see him, my heart beats a little faster....and I'm twice your age.

Have fun. I am.

Thanks Kmh1956, that is so kind of you.  Smile
Just wait until we finally meet. Big grin



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User currently onlineSuperfly From Thailand, joined May 2000, 40073 posts, RR: 74
Reply 18, posted (7 years 8 months 1 week 5 days 17 hours ago) and read 3352 times:

:o Oh wait a minute! Embarrassment

I thought you were talking about me.
Congrats anyway!  bigthumbsup 



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User currently offlineCarmenlu15 From Guatemala, joined Dec 2004, 4763 posts, RR: 30
Reply 19, posted (7 years 8 months 1 week 5 days 10 hours ago) and read 3262 times:

Quoting Rolfen (Thread starter):
I'm Falling In Love And I Hate It

I feel your pain, bro... why do I always have to fall for the impossible?  banghead 

Still, think positive and you'll see everything will be all right! Big grin



Don't expect to see me around that much (if at all) -- the contact link should still work, though.
User currently offlineJRadier From Netherlands, joined Sep 2004, 4725 posts, RR: 50
Reply 20, posted (7 years 8 months 1 week 5 days 10 hours ago) and read 3259 times:

Quoting Rolfen (Thread starter):
I hate it because everytime that happens I end up getting dumped

Talking about a self fulfilling prophecy



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User currently offlineRolfen From Germany, joined Jan 2006, 1809 posts, RR: 2
Reply 21, posted (7 years 8 months 1 week 5 days 9 hours ago) and read 3236 times:

Quoting JRadier (Reply 20):
Talking about a self fulfilling prophecy

I guess I'll have to think positive, like everyone else in this thread is telling me to
 yes 



rolf
User currently offlineJRadier From Netherlands, joined Sep 2004, 4725 posts, RR: 50
Reply 22, posted (7 years 8 months 1 week 5 days 9 hours ago) and read 3227 times:

Quoting Rolfen (Reply 21):
I guess I'll have to think positive,

Bingo!



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User currently offlineScbriml From United Kingdom, joined Jul 2003, 12897 posts, RR: 46
Reply 23, posted (7 years 8 months 1 week 5 days 9 hours ago) and read 3216 times:
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Love is the best and worst of human emotions. It can make you do things that you're proud of for the rest of your life, or do something that makes you cringe every time you think about it. yes 

What you will appreciate as you get older is that there is simply no substitute for real love for another human. I understand now that what my wife and I first experienced in our relationship was lust, not love. Now, 25 years later, I cannot imagine ever wanting to share my life with any other woman. I can categorically state that I love her more with each passing year. couple 



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User currently offlineAF773 From France, joined Dec 2004, 136 posts, RR: 0
Reply 24, posted (7 years 8 months 1 week 5 days 9 hours ago) and read 3200 times:

Quoting Scbriml (Reply 23):
Love is the best and worst of human emotions.

Amen to that. What a powerful and truthful definition Scbrimi.

I am lucky that I have meat mister right. Although we both work hard for our relationship we have become not only life partners, but soul mates and best friends... now thats what I call love...


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25 Post contains images Cedars747 : Oops Rolfen,take it easy and calm down ! I hope you wont throw yourself from Raouche Alex!!!
26 QueenofDaSkies : If you don't want to fall in love, why are you dating in the first place?
27 Post contains images DeltaAVL : Hey, at least you're not in a situation where you're helplessly in love with someone and they don't feel the same way about you. Love pretty much suck
28 Evan767 : Don't beat yourself up about a past girl. Learn to relax, don't get jealous. I am not entirely sure on this but, wasn't one of the reasons Cho Seung-h
29 Post contains images HAWK21M : Better to get a partner that loves you more than you love your partner regds MEL
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