Rolfen From Germany, joined Jan 2006, 1764 posts, RR: 2 Reply 10, posted (6 years 1 month 6 days 6 hours ago) and read 2344 times:
Quoting Diamond (Reply 6): So how is this person similar to previous ones? How is this person different than previous ones?
She's more calm and older then the girls i used to date. I hope that's a good sign.
I consider myself quite abnormal when it comes to relationships. I actually never got past 2 or 3 encounters with a girl, and that is usually enough for me to get quite attached. I then get dumped. One thing I know I did wrong on several occasions is not giving the girl enough private space (too many messages/calls early in the relashionship). I dont know what else I could have done wrong, or could it just be lack of self confidence that is pushing them away...
anyway, wish me good luck
Kmh1956 From Bermuda, joined Jun 2005, 3324 posts, RR: 8 Reply 11, posted (6 years 1 month 6 days 6 hours ago) and read 2331 times:
Oh, honey...kick back and enjoy the ride. I'm in a similar situation, one in which I never thought I'd ever find myself again and I'm loving it! My legs turn to jello whenever I see him, my heart beats a little faster....and I'm twice your age.
Have fun. I am.
'Somebody tell me why I'm on my own if there's a soulmate for everyone' :Natasha Bedingfield
Thanks! After all these years, I'd have never thought it possible.
On one further not, however, to Rolfen....keep a better attitude. Nobody likes a pessimist and if you've got the attitude that "everytime that happens I end up getting dumped and feeling sorry for myself," you probably will get dumped. Stay positive.
'Somebody tell me why I'm on my own if there's a soulmate for everyone' :Natasha Bedingfield
CastleIsland From , joined Dec 1969, posts, RR: Reply 14, posted (6 years 1 month 6 days 5 hours ago) and read 2282 times:
Quoting Rolfen (Reply 10): She's more calm and older then the girls i used to date. I hope that's a good sign.
Hell yeah it is! Unless you prefer hyperactive youngsters.
Quoting Rolfen (Reply 10): One thing I know I did wrong on several occasions is not giving the girl enough private space
I used to be a bit that way, so I hear you. You cannot appreciate the right person until you've been able to experience those who are not right for you. Trust that the universe is unfolding as it should. Above all else, be yourself.
Superfly From Thailand, joined May 2000, 38504 posts, RR: 80 Reply 17, posted (6 years 1 month 5 days 15 hours ago) and read 2081 times:
Quoting Kmh1956 (Reply 11): Oh, honey...kick back and enjoy the ride. I'm in a similar situation, one in which I never thought I'd ever find myself again and I'm loving it! My legs turn to jello whenever I see him, my heart beats a little faster....and I'm twice your age.
Have fun. I am.
Thanks Kmh1956, that is so kind of you.
Just wait until we finally meet.
Scbriml From United Kingdom, joined Jul 2003, 11360 posts, RR: 50 Reply 23, posted (6 years 1 month 5 days 7 hours ago) and read 1945 times:
Love is the best and worst of human emotions. It can make you do things that you're proud of for the rest of your life, or do something that makes you cringe every time you think about it.
What you will appreciate as you get older is that there is simply no substitute for real love for another human. I understand now that what my wife and I first experienced in our relationship was lust, not love. Now, 25 years later, I cannot imagine ever wanting to share my life with any other woman. I can categorically state that I love her more with each passing year.
AF773 From France, joined Dec 2004, 136 posts, RR: 0 Reply 24, posted (6 years 1 month 5 days 7 hours ago) and read 1929 times:
Quoting Scbriml (Reply 23): Love is the best and worst of human emotions.
Amen to that. What a powerful and truthful definition Scbrimi.
I am lucky that I have meat mister right. Although we both work hard for our relationship we have become not only life partners, but soul mates and best friends... now thats what I call love...
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25 Cedars747: Oops Rolfen,take it easy and calm down ! I hope you wont throw yourself from Raouche Alex!!!
26 QueenofDaSkies: If you don't want to fall in love, why are you dating in the first place?
27 DeltaAVL: Hey, at least you're not in a situation where you're helplessly in love with someone and they don't feel the same way about you. Love pretty much suck
28 Evan767: Don't beat yourself up about a past girl. Learn to relax, don't get jealous. I am not entirely sure on this but, wasn't one of the reasons Cho Seung-h
29 HAWK21M: Better to get a partner that loves you more than you love your partner regds MEL
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