KLM672 From United States of America, joined Oct 1999, 2577 posts, RR: 3 Posted (13 years 6 months 2 weeks 6 days 1 hour ago) and read 3297 times:
Hello guys. My friend's x boy friend (lets call him Mike, aka Q-tip ) keeps on bothing her. I was wondering if you could give me (or her) any ideas to get rid of him/stop bothing her. All so this may sound a bit confusing but there is this Whore named Amanda, her boy friend broke up with Kalya (Kayla is my friend who needs this help) then and went BACK out with Amanda, lets call this guy Eric, now I was wondering if there is any way you guys can think of to have Amanda learn her lesson and stop buzzing around Kayla, so Kayla can go on with her own life, she is worried about having classes with Eric, Amanda, and Mike, I and she thinks she may do worse (grade wise) in those classes.. Any ideas will work.
Matt D From United States of America, joined Nov 1999, 9502 posts, RR: 44
Reply 6, posted (13 years 6 months 2 weeks 5 days 18 hours ago) and read 3226 times:
While the ass kicking option can be effective in most cases, you better make sure that HE can't kick the new guys ass. But frankly, violence is to be avoided at all costs, and only to be used as an absolute last resort.
I've seen ass kickings to get rid of an 'old' boyfriend backfire on the 'new' boyfriend; he went to kick the old guys ass, without ever having actually met him, and he ended getting his own ass kicked.
I would've loved to be a fly on the wall when the new guy announced that he was going to 'solve' the problem, only to return with a black eye and a severe limp. Boy I'll bet that really impressed her!
So approach that with caution, especially if you are 18 or over-he could press charges and have both of you arrested (the new boyfriend for assault and the ex girlfriend for aiding and abetting) if you lay a hand on him. And from what you're describing, he is just the type that would do something like that.
Actually the most effective and least dangerous way to get rid of a pesky ex is to have another girl call him up and say that the old girlfriend turned lesbo, and this 'other' girl is the ex-girlfriends new 'girlfriend'.
If that makes any sense. I've used that apporach with success to get rid of annoying ex girlfriends/one night stands.