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Poll: At What Point In A Relationship Is Sex OK?  
User currently offlineYellowstone From United States of America, joined Aug 2006, 3071 posts, RR: 4
Posted (7 years 1 week 3 days 17 hours ago) and read 4852 times:

I was just curious to see how the views of the A.net audience break down on this question. At what point in a relationship is it acceptable to have sex with your partner, in your opinion? Your answer need not reflect what you actually practice/have practiced, but rather what you feel about the question as a moral issue. For ease of keeping track of the answers, I'll start by giving 4 possible answers:

A) It is OK to have sex with someone with whom you are not previously acquainted.

B) It is OK to have sex with someone with whom you are acquainted, but outside of a committed relationship.

C) It is OK to have sex with someone if you are in a committed (marital or non-marital) relationship with that person.

D) Sex should be saved for marriage.

Personally, I believe in option C. I think that sex is supposed to be one of the greatest expressions of love, and therefore should be saved for two people in a loving relationship. However, there are plenty of loving, non-married couples (and non-loving married couples), so I don't think marriage ought to be a requirement.

The score so far...
A - 0
B - 0
C - 1
D - 0

[Edited 2007-07-19 06:56:07]


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User currently offlineCopaair737 From , joined Dec 1969, posts, RR:
Reply 1, posted (7 years 1 week 3 days 17 hours ago) and read 4837 times:

A.
I'm not much on relationships.
I just like NSS with broads. I've had relationships, too much commitment though. Plus its easier. A "fuckbuddy" girl for lack of a better word, is my ideal relationship I guess. Someone who wants sex and maybe more. Random hookups with girls are great IMO.
1-A
0-B
1-C
0-D


User currently offlineTSS From United States of America, joined Dec 2006, 3065 posts, RR: 5
Reply 2, posted (7 years 1 week 3 days 17 hours ago) and read 4837 times:

I vote "A".
If you're thinking of dating someone, you should find out how good they are in the sack before spending money on dinner, etc.  mischievous 



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User currently offlineCopaair737 From , joined Dec 1969, posts, RR:
Reply 3, posted (7 years 1 week 3 days 17 hours ago) and read 4835 times:

Quoting TSS (Reply 2):
I vote "A".
If you're thinking of dating someone, you should find out how good they are in the sack before spending money on dinner, etc.

Yahtzee! Someone gets it.


User currently offlineN1120A From United States of America, joined Dec 2003, 26376 posts, RR: 76
Reply 4, posted (7 years 1 week 3 days 17 hours ago) and read 4816 times:

I personally think that each answer deserves its own response,but I will add my general answer as far as the poll goes

A - 3
B - 0
C - 1
D - 0

Quoting Yellowstone (Thread starter):

A) It is OK to have sex with someone with whom you are not previously acquainted.

Absolutely. Sometimes the spark is just there and you should not resist what is absolutely natural. Plus, you are less nervous about the sex and get it out of the way. The reason the first time people have sex is often disappointing is because they wait and then have awkward first time sex from exceeded expectations.

Quoting Yellowstone (Thread starter):

B) It is OK to have sex with someone with whom you are acquainted, but outside of a committed relationship.

Yes, but this is a little shaky. If you sleep with a friend, you end up endangering that relationship.

Quoting Yellowstone (Thread starter):

C) It is OK to have sex with someone if you are in a committed (marital or non-marital) relationship with that person.

Absolutely. You should have already been having sex with them

Quoting Yellowstone (Thread starter):

D) Sex should be saved for marriage.

Not a chance in the world. You doom yourself to bad sex.



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User currently offlineRsg85 From Australia, joined Aug 2006, 257 posts, RR: 0
Reply 5, posted (7 years 1 week 3 days 17 hours ago) and read 4805 times:

Sex in a relationship is seriously important. if your partner is not so good in bed then it can seriously effect the relationship.
Go for it as early as possible before they get too attached, just to make sure its worth hanging around

yes im an asshole. i know it.


User currently offlineYellowstone From United States of America, joined Aug 2006, 3071 posts, RR: 4
Reply 6, posted (7 years 1 week 3 days 17 hours ago) and read 4805 times:

Quoting N1120A (Reply 4):
If you sleep with a friend, you end up endangering that relationship.

As a clarification, the idea behind choice B is that you've been on a few dates with the girl/guy, but you're not willing to commit to a monogamous relationship with that person yet.



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User currently offlineLTU932 From Germany, joined Jan 2006, 13864 posts, RR: 50
Reply 7, posted (7 years 1 week 3 days 17 hours ago) and read 4799 times:

Quoting Yellowstone (Thread starter):
B) It is OK to have sex with someone with whom you are acquainted, but outside of a committed relationship.

This would be my option. Sex doesn't always have to be an expression of love, it can also be something for recreation.

A - 3
B - 1
C - 1
D - 0


User currently offlineJush From Germany, joined Apr 2005, 1636 posts, RR: 3
Reply 8, posted (7 years 1 week 3 days 17 hours ago) and read 4796 times:

It's OK when both want to have it. There is no rule. You're both adults and if you want to have sex on the very first day you met then fine.

Regds
jush



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User currently offlineAaron747 From Japan, joined Aug 2003, 8021 posts, RR: 26
Reply 9, posted (7 years 1 week 3 days 17 hours ago) and read 4796 times:

Unequivocally 'A'. Anyone who answers otherwise has or is still missing out on great sex. Quite a shame in a world where we only live once.


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User currently offlineManuCH From Switzerland, joined Jun 2005, 3011 posts, RR: 47
Reply 10, posted (7 years 1 week 3 days 17 hours ago) and read 4784 times:
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I vote for B ... I would be unable to have sex with someone I've never heard/met before (maybe that's just me - it's not that I think it's morally wrong to have sex the first day you meet, it's just that I don't like it), but after knowing the person somewhat, and before getting into a committed relationship, is the right moment IMO.

A - 5
B - 2
C - 1
D - 0



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User currently offlineBoeing744 From Canada, joined Jun 2005, 1830 posts, RR: 23
Reply 11, posted (7 years 1 week 3 days 17 hours ago) and read 4770 times:

I think that A is acceptable, although I probably wouldn't do that myself. I would fall into the B/C categories, although I don't think badly at all of what other people decide to do.

Edit, to be clear A is my answer.

[Edited 2007-07-19 07:51:12]

User currently offlineToulouse From Switzerland, joined Apr 2005, 2758 posts, RR: 58
Reply 12, posted (7 years 1 week 3 days 16 hours ago) and read 4742 times:

I tend to agree with Boeing 744. I think A is a perfectly acceptable answer if that is what two adults want to do. Anyway, I'm married now, so all this is a bit behind me. I would also probably have tended more toward B or C personnally, but I think A is fine and that's what I'll vote for.

Quoting Rsg85 (Reply 5):
Sex in a relationship is seriously important. if your partner is not so good in bed then it can seriously effect the relationship.
Go for it as early as possible before they get too attached, just to make sure its worth hanging around

yes im an asshole. i know it.

That sounds very cold, but I do think you have a point to a certain extent. Now I don't agree that the possibility of a relationship should only be built on the sexual desire/performance of a person, but it is true that sex is very important in "most" relationships, and in a stable relationship in which one person has a much higher sex drive than the other or different views on sex, this can lead to a whole series of problems.

So I think the vote now stands at:

A - 7
B - 2
C - 1
D - 0



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User currently offlineAeroWesty From United States of America, joined Oct 2004, 20394 posts, RR: 62
Reply 13, posted (7 years 1 week 3 days 16 hours ago) and read 4738 times:

Quoting Yellowstone (Thread starter):
A) It is OK to have sex with someone with whom you are not previously acquainted.

It's even okay not to get their name.

A - 8
B - 2
C - 1
D - 0

(I think I counted those who didn't update the stats right.)



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User currently offlineSpeedbird747BA From , joined Dec 1969, posts, RR:
Reply 14, posted (7 years 1 week 3 days 15 hours ago) and read 4723 times:

A - 9
B - 2
C - 1
D - 0


A.



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User currently onlineAcey From Canada, joined Jun 2007, 1029 posts, RR: 0
Reply 15, posted (7 years 1 week 3 days 15 hours ago) and read 4721 times:

A - 9
B - 2
C - 1
D - 1

I've been brought up that way, and I'm not ashamed to say it.



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User currently offlineCopaair737 From , joined Dec 1969, posts, RR:
Reply 16, posted (7 years 1 week 3 days 15 hours ago) and read 4712 times:

Quoting Acey (Reply 15):
I've been brought up that way, and I'm not ashamed to say it.

So do you ever want to get laid?
LIke is the urge ever there?


User currently offlineSandroZRH From Switzerland, joined Feb 2007, 3427 posts, RR: 50
Reply 17, posted (7 years 1 week 3 days 15 hours ago) and read 4704 times:

Quoting TSS (Reply 2):
If you're thinking of dating someone, you should find out how good they are in the sack before spending money on dinner, etc.

 rotfl  Brilliant!

A for me.

A - 10
B - 2
C - 1
D - 1

Now bring on a group of swiss gals and C will be up and leading in notime  banghead  Clearly i live in the wrong country.


User currently offlineCopaair737 From , joined Dec 1969, posts, RR:
Reply 18, posted (7 years 1 week 3 days 15 hours ago) and read 4701 times:

Quoting SandroZRH (Reply 17):
Now bring on a group of swiss gals and C will be up and leading in notime Clearly i live in the wrong country.

Go to Italy, or Ibiza.

Hell, come to this little corner of Northern California, you'll see A is alive and well.


User currently offlineABQ747 From United States of America, joined Dec 2006, 847 posts, RR: 1
Reply 19, posted (7 years 1 week 3 days 14 hours ago) and read 4694 times:

A - 10
B - 2
C - 2
D - 1

Quoting Aaron747 (Reply 9):
Unequivocally 'A'. Anyone who answers otherwise has or is still missing out on great sex. Quite a shame in a world where we only live once.

That's just nasty. You don't know what kind of STDs that person has. At the very least, you should get to know the person first.



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User currently offlineCopaair737 From , joined Dec 1969, posts, RR:
Reply 20, posted (7 years 1 week 3 days 14 hours ago) and read 4691 times:

Quoting ABQ747 (Reply 19):
That's just nasty. You don't know what kind of STDs that person has. At the very least, you should get to know the person first.

I have no standards.
and life is worth living. Gotta live for the moment.

so I like to live on the edge a little.
I pick up broads at the bar, and such, nothing wrong with that.


User currently offlineSandroZRH From Switzerland, joined Feb 2007, 3427 posts, RR: 50
Reply 21, posted (7 years 1 week 3 days 14 hours ago) and read 4690 times:

Quoting Copaair737 (Reply 18):
Go to Italy, or Ibiza.

Finland served me well so far  Wink

I was exaggerating a bit aswell, the Swiss girls arent that bad, they surely aren't th emost open either though.

Quoting Copaair737 (Reply 18):
Go to Italy, or Ibiza.

Ayia Napa, Cyprus next month. It's like Ibiza, just cheaper Big grin


User currently offlineN1120A From United States of America, joined Dec 2003, 26376 posts, RR: 76
Reply 22, posted (7 years 1 week 3 days 12 hours ago) and read 4624 times:

Quoting ABQ747 (Reply 19):
You don't know what kind of STDs that person has.

Which is why you use protection.



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User currently offlineANITIX87 From United States of America, joined Mar 2005, 3300 posts, RR: 13
Reply 23, posted (7 years 1 week 3 days 12 hours ago) and read 4617 times:
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Quoting N1120A (Reply 4):
Yes, but this is a little shaky. If you sleep with a friend, you end up endangering that relationship.

Case and point. Me. Enough said.

Quoting SandroZRH (Reply 17):
Now bring on a group of swiss gals and C will be up and leading in notime

So true. There are exceptions, except two Swiss girls I know would sleep with any man that came along are my cousins, so there goes that plan.

My vote would have been B a few months ago, but I'm going to have to switch to C.

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User currently offlineKaiGywer From United States of America, joined Oct 2003, 12217 posts, RR: 35
Reply 24, posted (7 years 1 week 3 days 11 hours ago) and read 4595 times:
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A - 11
B - 2
C - 2
D - 1

Quoting ABQ747 (Reply 19):
That's just nasty. You don't know what kind of STDs that person has. At the very least, you should get to know the person first.

And you wouldn't know that after a few dates either.



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25 Gunsontheroof : As long as it's totally consensual (and safe!), I've got no issues. A-12 B-2 C-2 D-1
26 Halcyon : I don't care what others do, but D for me. I tend to disagree with A quite a bit, although C happens. A-12 B-2 C-2 D-2
27 Cfalk : For me: A-12 B-3 C-2 D-2 And I'll place a vote for my daughter as well: A-12 B-3 C-2 D-3
28 GQfluffy : A-12 B-4 C-2 D-3
29 Kieron747 : A-13 B-4 C-2 D-3 Kieron747
30 TSS : Exactly! Wrap that rascal!
31 MCOflyer : Yes but all condoms aren't safe. Some use thinner latex than others. A13 B4 C2 D3 I really can't answer it as A) I haven't had a relationship in 1yr.
32 Post contains images Aaron747 : Obviously you're judging from a soapbox rather than the tunnel of experience, so to speak I've been having great sex for years with no STDs to show f
33 DesertJets : I cannot give an honest question because I don't know what you mean by a committed relationship. How long does one have to be dating in order to have
34 TSS : Avoid 'bargain brands" and always pack a brand you trust. You are young yet. "A" will present itself as an opportunity soon enough.
35 Gemuser : A14 B4 C2 D3 Although the REAL answer is " When BOTH parties REALLY want to! Then it does not matter if the sitution is A, B, C or D - BUT ALWAYS prac
36 Aaron747 : No kidding. "A" is constantly all around you, it merely takes recognition of the signals and willingness to take advantage of them for chances are fl
37 JCS17 : I don't really care what other people do, although it is rather funny (and pathetic) when a friend wakes up next to a cow with the clap after a night
38 TSS : Hehehe! I'm notoriously clueless in that respect. Until someone throws their leg over my shoulder and purrs in my ear, it never enters my mind that t
39 Aviationmaster : A for me: A15 B 4 C2 D3
40 Post contains images Superfly : She isn't a member so that vote doesn't count. The D falls back to 2 A15 B4 C2 D2
41 CO7e7 : A for me: A-16 B-4 C-2 D-2
42 TSS : Which brings up another point: If you're going out to drink, don't pick someone up. If you're going out to pick someone up, don't drink. Follow this
43 JakeOrion : Make that back to 3 because I feel exactly the same way (D): A-16 B-4 C-2 D-3.
44 Emirates773ER : Chalk one up for D, personally I also support C to an extent but 'A' in my dictionary qualifies to having the morales of a person not in control of hi
45 Superfly : Thus not a 4. Nice looking lady in your profile. If she wanted to have sex with you but didn't want to marry you, would pass up the opportunity?
46 Post contains images RobertNL070 : A-17 B-4 C-2 D-4 Next morning: Do you want milk or sugar in your coffee? Oh, by the way, but what's your name? Been there, done that ................
47 Post contains images Superfly : RobertNL070: Where is that 4th vote coming from?
48 Post contains images RobertNL070 : Reply number 44, I believe. Robert
49 Emirates773ER : That would be mine.
50 Falcon84 : It's your life. In this day and age, that can be like playing Russian Roulette with your life.
51 Post contains images Superfly : Prude!
52 Falcon84 : I would consider B, but it would have to be someone I have know for a long time, absolutely trusted, and was very close to. C, I have no problem with.
53 Post contains images ThePRGuy : Why? Why should your daughter have to live a different life to you? Over protective dad syndrome? Boy, she must love you lots! A-17 B-4 C-3 D-4 Alex
54 Post contains images Superfly : Most girls I've dated have over protective dads yet all mothers and fathers loved me! Well little do they know, I am also Superfly and well......
55 Kmh1956 : First of all, the question is flawed. You say "at what point in a relationship", but option 'A' uses the phrase "not previously acquainted." There is
56 Post contains images Emirates773ER : So very true!
57 Post contains images TSS : A fair point, but one assumes at least the exchange of names in option "A", therefore a relationship of extremely short tenure has been formed...ie,
58 Toulouse : Not shallow at all, and I think that either I did not explain myself clearly or you misinterpreted me. So just to clear things up, as I said above, I
59 Acey : Of course it's there, I'm a human being. I'm not, however, too worried about succumbing to them at my current age. The demographics of this area, tha
60 HAWK21M : Depends on the situation. Depends on the situation Yes if its mutual. Not if its mutual. regds MEL
61 Post contains images JBirdAV8r : A=17 B=4 C=4 D=5 I'm not passing judgement on anyone--I promise. I personally think there's more to life than sex. If you spend all the time before yo
62 Tom12 : A=17 B=4 C=5 D=5 The right time will jus tbe when it feels right. Tom
63 Post contains images Pawsleykat : I would agree with N1120A wholeheartedly... each one does deserve it's own response... I would go mostly for B or C... I don't think that one should
64 Jaws707 : I agree exactly with that statement. I've had many, many chances and turned it down each time, and I have never once regretted it. Add me to "D" A=17
65 ScarletHarlot : C for me personally, but I know lots of people for whom A is a fine option...guys and girls both, and good for them.
66 Freckles : A=17 B=4 C=6 D=6 I think that as long as you are committed to each other then there's no worry. Personally, i don't have a problem with people waiting
67 STLGph : Should I even bother to respond? I mean, come on now... Well, ok... Double Duh. I don't sleep with friends, so this is basically where the "we humped
68 KBFIspotter : I personally think C is best, just my oppinion. With my fiancee, we did not have sex until we had been dating for nearly seven months, and I am glad w
69 Seb146 : Can I vote for two? I think the best two are A and C. I have never done D, so I don't know about that one. My parents and aunts and uncles are the onl
70 Acey : You can have your opinion and try to sound all sly about it, but there's no need to criticise others who simply see the issue differently than you. I
71 JakeOrion : Yes I would pass up the opportunity. While your virginity may not be sacred to you, it is to me. Thats just the way I feel and if nobody likes it, we
72 Post contains images AeroWesty : Milk. I'm sweet enough as it is. I have a friend who's about 45 now. He was brought up to save sex for marriage. He's still single. He used to be sua
73 Fumanchewd : Shit. Just put me down for the whole alphabet.
74 MCOflyer : Well, why does the girl have to be good in the sack? I do not understand this. So far C is my best bet. I go on a few dates, get to know her and well
75 Copaair737 : Are you serious? A dull chick in the sack leads to a dull relationship. Excitement breeds excitement. My experience anyway. I like wild chicks, both
76 Emirates773ER : I don't see how your statment is true, in most conservative societies people save themselves for sex after marriage and I have never seen anyone bein
77 Post contains images Kmh1956 : I'm finding these posts terribly amusing...especially the ones about if a girl/woman is good enough in bed to date her or keep her around. I am assumi
78 AeroWesty : There are a lot of arranged marriages, or marriages just for the purpose of reproduction, such as to have enough kids to work the farm, in conservati
79 Emirates773ER : Are you for real? You think a wild chick can ever give you anything more than a one night stand?
80 Post contains images Fumanchewd : I give women the best ten seconds of their life.
81 Copaair737 : Yes. But being the abstinence til' marriage guy you are...I don't expect you to know that.
82 Post contains images Emirates773ER : That would be a very interesting take on marriage. I stand corrected, being a virgin at 45 would surely bring about those qualities.
83 Fumanchewd : Sure. Herpes are forever.
84 TZ757300 : A filler filler Filler
85 AeroWesty : Well why do you think kids used to get married so young? It wasn't unusual to get married and start popping out kids before a couple was in their 20s
86 Kmh1956 : ROTFLMAO!!!!
87 Post contains images RobertNL070 : And not cream? Robert
88 Asuflyer05 : I used to be somewhere between A and B. But now that I've grown up a bit, I am starting to fall somewhere between C and D. Random one-nighters, etc. a
90 Kmh1956 : BINGO!! Possibly the most intelligent post in this particular thread so far....and you're absolutely right.
91 Post contains images AeroWesty : Done right, there shouldn't be any left by morning.
92 STLGph : Oh trust me, I'm not criticizing. Mmm-hmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm girlfriend. Mmm-hmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm.
93 Post contains images Superfly : Well (cough---cough), I umm have build up a reputation for being so. ...and what about the girl that had sex only a couple of times, got herpes, foun
94 Post contains images Copaair737 : It seems the real bible thumpin' ones always have some sort of shadows in their past.
95 Post contains images STLGph : or ... um ... children
96 Post contains images RobertNL070 : or ... um ... extra curricular activities - and not only in their past Robert
97 Post contains images Copaair737 : I had a broad try and hide that she had a kid one time, I didn't find out until I went over to her house. Then she was very apologetic about it. Howev
98 Post contains images Superfly : Yep, they ran up in to the church for something that ain't too pretty. You are spot on! Plenty of single moms that made a bad choice in picking their
99 Fumanchewd : Thats why the first date is always to Luby's for me.
100 Post contains images Copaair737 : I agree with you. Guys who give into guilt from a woman are pathetic. Some guys are so whipped by their girlfriends too, I'd like to hit 'em with a b
101 Post contains images Superfly : You take her to get an oil change?
102 N231YE : While I am mostly a liberal, this is one of the more conservative things that I believe in. Yes, I know I am a young guy, and this is old school, but
103 Fumanchewd : Hmm. Thanks for the idea. Luby's Cafeteria though. Think blue hairs and buffet.
104 Post contains images Superfly : Oh Ok. I like to invite over for dinner. I don't mind cooking for a lady. What ever she doesn't eat is leftovers for me. The bedroom is just a few st
105 4holer : Google (Pastor) Melissa Scott Tho she's the only TV preacher-type that I'll pause the remote at...
106 Post contains links and images Superfly : You've got to be kidding?!?!?! Which one is it? One looks like Geddy Lee and the other, I rest my case.
107 Post contains images OHLHD : Been there and seen nice girls! Maybe it is because you live there you see them different? Good boy! Good country to start! BTW. An A for me!
108 Post contains links and images Copaair737 : Ain't bad...but overly religious chicks ruin hotness.
109 Post contains images Superfly : Copaair737: Thanks for finding the right Melissa Scott. She is attractive but looks too much like a co-worker of mine that is like 6',1". Tall & skinn
110 Gunsontheroof : I've been completely baffled by the abundance of cute girls in this country during the last two weeks I've spent here. I'm never going home.
111 Pope : At what point in the relationship is sex NOT OK? Hell why do you even need a relationship for sex to be OK?
112 Copaair737 : Wouldn't doubt it...like I said, overly religious chicks got some skeletons in the closet somewhere.
113 Superfly : I've discovered them to have the most skeletons. I met a beautiful young lady that was a born-again Christian a few years ago and did the same thing
114 Copaair737 : I feel the same way. I was surprised by the whole thing myself. Then the worst, she threw me out at like 5 AM, as she said her b/f was going to be ho
115 Superfly : I was repulsed by the fact that she claimed to be some born again Christian, which I am sure she is but selective about who she is Christian with. Yo
116 Copaair737 : That makes 2 of us. I'd take 'em on a date to Taco Bell if it would work. 45 a plate...on the first date? Wow. just wow.
117 Post contains images Superfly : Dude, it gets worse! I met another woman that was always a holy-roller (not born again but just as bad). She told me that a true Christian man should
118 Halls120 : I vote for B as well. All you who voted for A, what happens if your casual F has a STD or turns out to be psycho?
119 Post contains images Copaair737 : Chubby chaser? Nah....never would have known. I hate women like that. And they don't impress me at all, it just makes it seem to me as if they are co
120 Gunsontheroof : STD: Protection has been stressed numerous times in this thread. What makes you think B, C, or D are guarantees against that? Less likely? Sure. Impo
121 Halls120 : Sorry, I like my sex natural. I'd rather go without for a few dates than wrap it in rubber. and all you A folks, here's hoping you don't end up sleep
122 Post contains images KPDX : Hahaha! Woah, she does! KPDX
123 AirTranTUS : Only if you let it. My answer is D. A=19 B=5 C=8 D=7[Edited 2007-07-20 01:01:10]
124 Post contains images Superfly : I liked her a lot at first. She was a cute fat girl with small waistline, large in all the right places and knew NOT to use a razor down there. Sex w
125 Copaair737 : I"m not about "whole wholesome values relationships" sorry. a relationship to me is centered around sex. I have fun with it.
126 Kmh1956 : OMG, have you been living under a rock? Since you don't like to use protection, may I at least assume that both you and the girl in question get test
127 Post contains images Gunsontheroof : Well then...no further explanation needed. Forgive the pun, but you're clearly not "A" material.
128 Copaair737 : Wear a Boot and Don't Pollute! That's my motto.
129 Post contains images Superfly : I feel the same for the B, C and D crowd too. Those crazy traits can be picked up on easily. Also that he had slept with a woman behind his wifes bac
130 Post contains images Copaair737 : It's not like only party animals who pick up chicks anywhere are susceptible to these things. I'd rather know the broad I was dating or seeing casual
131 Jutes85 : Ok, who picked D, seriously. Unless you are catholic or christian, or whatever that religion is that forbids sex before marriage, you need to get with
132 SW733 : Nah I think it's a little skanky...there are too many dieseases out there to fool around with someone you don't even know at all, let alone sexually
133 Gunsontheroof : Give the Catholics, Christians and adherents to religions that forbid sex before marriage time...they will fall. I've seen it happen many, many times
134 Post contains images Halls120 : And I'm proud of it! LOL. A couple of years ago, a colleague not in my office, but one in another agency who was a member of our delegation that trav
135 Post contains images Superfly : I am glad to see that none of the females here picked D. In some religious circles, guys think that holding out is to somehow impress the women in th
136 Post contains images Superfly : Was her name Enid Greene Waldholtz?
137 Post contains images AeroWesty : 1) There's something called a rubber, and 2) You don't necessarily have to bring them home to have sex!
138 Kmh1956 : I'm 50 years old, have been married and have a 22-year old daughter. I think that horse has bolted, don't you?
139 Post contains images N1120A : Well, this thread lit up since I last saw it Control urges? I can control my urges just fine. I just happen to allow my urges to be satisfied. I don't
140 Halls120 : Nope. And I don't kiss and tell. 1) See my posts above 2) True. If I ever lose my SO, I'll have to remember that.
141 Gunsontheroof : That's pretty much what I was getting at. You might not know your partner as well as you think...
142 Post contains images Halls120 : LOL, class, please pay attention. The "few dates" requirement is primarily there to weed out the psychos and clingy types. It also allows me to see i
143 N1120A : Older women can definitely be quite interesting, even older Republican women.
144 Post contains images Halls120 : Caring about the political inclinations of a potential bedmate must be a liberal practice. After all, unless you're going to marry her, who cares if
145 4holer : And much much different from the photo shoots she did in the past. ...When she was a porn star by the name of Barbie Bridges. Google that!
146 Asuflyer05 : And condoms don't do much for herpes protection.
147 N710PS : Just give me the ass is pretty much my philosophy.
148 MCOflyer : Yes. I am. Next!!! Thank you. It is better when making love and not hooking up. I do not want some stranger going through my stuff. I want to be fami
149 N710PS : Just give me the ass is pretty much my philosophy.
150 Copaair737 : Absolutely. Do I have high standards for women? No. Should I? That remains to be seen.
151 TSS : AeroWesty said it best. Always wrap that rascal and never, ever let anyone know where you live until you're reasonably sure they won't rip you off or
152 MCOflyer : Neither do I but should we judge someone by sex? No. It wrong in my opinion and if someone needs sex help, go get group therapy or ask your parttner
153 Post contains images Allstarflyer : If your daughter saw that, would she think it's a double-standard? I think the guy is responsible is to make her happy. Guys get off too easy w/havin
154 Post contains images ZBBYLW : Personally A is a solid choice however if you are looking for a serious-longer term relationship it may be wise to go for B (or even C) but keep in mi
155 Copaair737 : Maybe, but that's not what I was saying. In that particular statement, I stated I have no standards. I'll bang an ugly broad just to do it. I don't r
156 N710PS : I once met this girl through a now co worker that I hadm y nerw hire class with. Well we met up one day at ORF and she lived in NY like myself and wel
157 SW733 : Of course...which is why I started that with "not to me..."
158 MCOflyer : Could you please explain. I think its combo deal. The girl likes the guy and they teach each other a thing and learn off of it. you get what i'm sayi
159 Allstarflyer : I guess so. Guys are just naturally selfish, thus we end up with stuff like . . . . . . so, that's why I said that. -R
160 MCOflyer : Depends on the guys. Can more women please contribute. Not to be mean, but I'd like to hear their side as well. Hunter
161 Post contains images JCS17 : Wowwww... if I met her, I might just switch my vote to A . I'd take Protestant-Catholic reconciliation to a whole 'nother level. Either way, I freak
162 JBirdAV8r : Not all of them!
163 N710PS : My new motto in the tone of Sean Paul's song "gimme the light" is Just gimme the ass and than go home.............thanks I really needed to poke
164 Post contains links and images ABQ747 : What happens when the condom breaks? I'm not talking about just a few dates. View Large View MediumPhoto © Stewart Andrew Condoms provide no gua
165 Copaair737 : Nothing is guaranteed. You could walk outside and have a piece of your roof fall on you. Unlikely, but it could happen. I choose to live life to the f
166 ABQ747 : You're right. But I'll choose carefully who I do it with.
167 N1120A : What if the tattoo gun wasn't properly sterilized? What if your beans weren't properly canned? What if the airplane you are on has a thrust reverser
168 Post contains images Jafa39 : Provided the essential introductions such as "Got condoms?" or "Fancy a shag?" have been dispensed with, it is fine to make smoochy.
169 ABQ747 : Good point, but one night stands are still much riskier than if both couples at least got to know each other. If you found out your partner has an ST
170 N1120A : If I knew they had an STD, hell no. As far as sleeping around, I would only be able to hold someone to the same standard as I hold myself. Not really
171 AASuper83 : Put me down for A I always make sure to put a boot on so I don't pollute, so nothing wrong with that at all. Just had a hookup with a girl that Superf
172 Post contains images Halls120 : That is one relationship that defies all understanding.
173 Post contains images OHLHD : Same here! Absolutely amazing and since I am far away from a big city a foreigner is always something strange for the locals were I am at. We will go
174 MCOflyer : Amen. I have yet to get picked up by a girl and will ask her a couple of questions if I do. I hold myself to certain standards that I expect my chica
175 Kmh1956 : Oh, brother. Assuming that she'll be honest.....
176 Melpax : A bloke at my office is in the same boat. He's a 'Church boy' & has hooked up with a single mum with 3 kids....... Scary stuff, we all want to give h
177 MCOflyer : What is that? I hope so. Hunter
178 Post contains links Asuflyer05 : The problem is, it is transmittable if there is no outbreak. And if there is no outbreak you can't see where it is manifesting itself. You can transm
179 Post contains links N1120A : You sound like a Valtrex commercial. You can, but it is significantly less likely to happen. The same study notes that the higher rate is due to inco
180 MCOflyer : Are their any A types who want to get married? I do and believe I'm a C type because I won't mess myself up if we are not compatible. Hunter
181 N1120A : Absolutely.
182 MCOflyer : Then do you just hook up till you find the one? Hunter
183 Pilothica737 : LOL ~sigh~ I havent been on here in years and I see that some things never change.... god love my good ol a.net people...... I say whenever it feels r
184 TSS : Basically, yes. Just because one doesn't have any hang-ups about having sex with someone they've just met doesn't mean they will accept every offer t
185 MCOflyer : Well i've only had one offer. I said yes for relationship but turned out to be a 3 month stand. I basicly do not mind doing A but would need good adv
186 Aerobalance : I'm a 'C', but 'A' and 'B' sometimes 'just happens', but not when I'm with a 'C'.
187 Post contains images FighterPilot : A Cal
188 QXatFAT : I am "D" and I am proud to say I have remained a virgin on my OWN choosing. I know everyone will crack jokes but its all good right Haylcon? Brought u
189 STLGph : cue the giggle fingers.
190 Copaair737 : Actually, I've heard otherwise. The male is more prone to masturbation, and the woman hasn't had orgasms, so it is really lame sex. I learned that in
191 Post contains images Superfly : Yes. Yep. Oh Jesus! Man you have a way with words. That was f--king hilarious! You are spot on! Yes a lot of things have not changed and you are a ri
192 Post contains images Copaair737 : Exactly. I was about 14 too, when I did it, and it was fun, very fun at the time, but looking back on it here, 7 years ago, it was kind of lame. I en
193 Superfly : What it comes down to is that these kinds of people hate sex. This believe system dates back to a time when people were burned at the steak out of su
194 Copaair737 : They are truly a relic of a darker era. Sex should be something treasured, loved, and anticipated. It's my favorite activity, and everytime I do it,
195 STLGph : and as many times a day as possible with as many people as possible. YEEEEEEEEEEE HAWWWWWWW MOTHERS!!!!!
196 Copaair737 : LOL. I'm tired as hell from my night last night. Hippie broads aren't lookers, but they are good in the sack.
197 STLGph : So this gives me a new idea for the next poll. Poll: At What Point in a Relationship is Spanking During Sex Ok? Seriously though, some of these fuddy
198 MCOflyer : Yes I have. One girl and counting. Guys, please give me pointers. Its been 1yr since my last umm humm. Hunter
199 Copaair737 : Got to be after the 1st date. Possibly, but it could be some of our holier-than-thou contigent lives a Vitters-like life. Preach one thing, do anothe
200 Copaair737 : Massage parlor maybe? That might be a quick fix for you.
201 STLGph : Or I guess when they get vocal, you should oblige. Who wins? Society.
202 Copaair737 : That's true. Whichever comes first. True. Except then we go to hear about "sex before marriage is wrong" talk from him. It's a wash really. But if th
203 MCOflyer : lol, their aren't too many around here my friend. Hunter
204 STLGph : Society wins again. become a Craig's List slut and take the first thing you can get.
205 Copaair737 : check out the "casual encounters" section and look for "NSS" That might cure your ails MCO.
206 Copaair737 : That might be the dumbest thing I've ever heard. How wouldn't I know? I've been having sex for 7 years. I know what's better and what's worse. And 2
207 Post contains images Jafa39 : Good point well made...and what if you or her got "curious" after a while, better to know the difference than be led astray. Come on 'Fly.....there i
208 QXatFAT : Your not understanding a single word I am saying. So its alright...we can move on instead of doing the "reading into" what each other is saying.
209 STLGph : oh no no no. there's a reason why evolution is a natural process. Actually, from meeting Superfly in person, he can play the game and be very success
210 Copaair737 : You said I had no idea what good sex was. That's what you said. Maybe you need to get laid, that might cure your uptightness. Good sex isn't between
211 STLGph : Can you imagine the instruction manual?
212 Copaair737 : It might be funnier than the Mormon "Anti-Masturbation" pamphlet.
213 QXatFAT : When I am saying "you" I am talking as in people in general not you Copa haha. Sorry about that. I thought I made it kinda clear. Sorry
214 Post contains images N710PS : Good sex is spontanious sex if you ask me. Defineately the best kind to have. Where you don't see it comeing and well I could go a few ways with tat s
215 MCOflyer : NSS? Posted an add. See my IM. Hunter
216 Post contains images N1120A : You let what happens happen. The times in my life I was looking for a relationship, it didn't come. The times I was looking to rack up notches on the
217 Jafa39 : Insert rod of mammon into "ladies area" proceed in a plunging motion, much like a river baptism, keep going until you experience the rapture or eve f
218 Post contains images Superfly : First of all, I've never started a "Self Pic" thread, but have replied. Second, just because you and I don't see eye to eye on this issue doesn't giv
219 Post contains images JGPH1A : Ahem - skimmed milk, think of your hips ! There maybe only be a few places your butt ain't been, but a size 2 is one of them Forever - he's a Church-
220 MCOflyer : I lost it when I was 18. I just had gotten out of high school and had met via internet. Hunter
221 Post contains images Halls120 : This is one of the rare cases I agree with N1120A. When I was stuck in a shitty marriage, there were times when I would have jumped at the chance of
222 JGPH1A : "Intent" by Calvin Klein. Because love is 1% inspiration and 99% desperation.
223 Post contains images STLGph : no way! get out of here! i'm going to go google it right now. i need something to read after Harry Potter. you don't have to thank me for the truth.
224 Post contains images Saxdiva : How about right now? Maybe Mr. Diva will accommodate... Oh, I see there's a list. For myself, I'd choose C) as I'm an old fart who isn't much into sl
225 Post contains images Superfly : How do you say; 'Gee that totally sucks' in Shakespearean? STLGph: Yes I have to thank you. That was very nice. I always though of myself as rather n
226 JGPH1A : "Gadzooks, that doth suck beyond measure" is the orthodox translation, I believe.
227 Mdodd : Sometimes. Definitly. C
228 MCOflyer : As long as you are in love am mature to take the responsibility for the negative and positive consequences that follow. This is one cool topic. Was i
229 STLGph : YEOW BABY! That's the spirit. didn't you see Cruel Intentions?
230 MCOflyer : No. Can you explain and tell im inexperienced? Hunter
231 Post contains images STLGph : just go rent it
232 MCOflyer : Ok, I admit it. I've only had one girl. But one is better than none. whats our standings now? A B C D List me for A. I never know when i'll hook up.
233 Post contains images N1120A : Nah, the Protestants don't have a problem with divorce. Hence why it happens so often in the Red states Sex and the Dodgers, the two most important t
234 An-225 : Personally, I think any option is ok, except D (don't really believe in marriage), but I am more partial to A. Alex.
235 MCOflyer : Well, everyone is different. Hope this helps all our people between 13-15. Also, remember everyone is unique when it comes to intimacy. Hunter
236 OPNLguy : Years ago, back when Woody Allen was actually funny, he penned a quote that's always given me a chuckle. He said that: "Sex without love is a meaningl
237 Acey : Hell of a post, good to see someone put the original question into context and examine the pros and cons of the options.
238 Post contains images OPNLguy : Thanks... ..nor should you be. Continue to stand, and you'll be far less likely to fall like I did. You answer to nobody else here but yourself, and
239 JamesJimlb : D!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! you dont want to go to hell do you, no, all of the others are adultry.
240 Emirates773er : You said it buddy, I look forward to love in relationship more than sex.
241 Post contains images DL777LAX : Ding ding ding, count me in for that, but with that said: How about the nerd's description? I inserted my floppy disk into her hard drive??? Wait, ne
242 Kmh1956 : Well, that was brutally honest. They say that hindsight is 20/20......and your post proved that. Welcome to my RU.
243 Superfly : OPNLguy: Smart man + Smart woman = Romance Smart man + Dumb woman = Affair Dumb man + Smart woman = Marriage Dumb man + Dumb woman = Pregnancy Sounds
244 Tom12 : LMAO! I still think that C is the correct time. If both people feel its the right time then by all means go for it. . . What difference does singing
245 Post contains images ZakHH : Here we have the classical reason why communication between different generations is so difficult. You are judging your actions those days by your to
246 Post contains images OPNLguy : Objection; assumes facts not in evidence... Different people; different variables, different mistakes; same end result. Just because 2+3=5 and 4+1=5
247 Post contains images Superfly : That's good to know. Wanted to make sure of that. It's called experiencing life. Not everyone carries baggage from one relationship to another. Also
248 Post contains images OPNLguy : That's good, because I'm certainly not. As I said, "baggage" comes in sizes ranging from carry-on to steamer trunks. Generally speaking, most of what
249 Post contains images Superfly : I am not a fan of that practice at all. I knew a lady that was undoubtably in the D catagory that died from AIDS. She held out for marriage and her h
250 Post contains images N710PS : I perfer the single life myself.
251 An-225 : And who says that hell exists in the first place? You believe in hell, YOU burn in it and don't force your beliefs on anyone else. Again, A, B or C a
252 Post contains links Acey : At What Point Is Sex Ok In A Relationship II (by MCOflyer Jul 27 2007 in Non Aviation)
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