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I Feel Like I'm Being Played Like A Fool...  
User currently offlineORDRyan28 From United States of America, joined Jul 2006, 988 posts, RR: 16
Posted (7 years 2 months 2 weeks 1 day 4 hours ago) and read 3367 times:

So, as the topic says, I do. I really like this girl, more so than any other of the girls I've been with. IMO, I think she's playing me. I think she wants me to continuously chase her. When I don't call her, she'll call me and flirt and whatnot. I sort of overreacted and got mad at her last night, resulting in me hanging up on her. She has pretty much ignored me all day. It's much more complex than this, but I'm beginning to think she just wants me to continue chasing her. WHAT do I do...?
I thought I was experienced with women, but then this one came around...


Whoever said winning is not everything never fought cancer.
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User currently offlineDeltaGator From United States of America, joined Sep 2005, 6341 posts, RR: 13
Reply 1, posted (7 years 2 months 2 weeks 1 day 4 hours ago) and read 3359 times:

Quoting ORDRyan28 (Thread starter):
I Feel Like I'm Being Played Like A Fool...

So you come here to a site of nerds and ask for help? You aren't playing anymore...you're all the way there.  Wink

Come on folks, stop posting questions about girl trouble. Never mind that so many of the folks on here are 13 year old armchair CEO virgins but those of us who aren't don't really care if you're having problems with the ladies when we have to deal with our own.

Quoting ORDRyan28 (Thread starter):
I thought I was experienced with women,

Your profile says you are 16-20 so let me be the first to tell you that you don't know jack squat about women. You might be experienced with girls but you'll never understand women...welcome to the same boat as the rest of us.



"If you can't delight in the misery of others then you don't deserve to be a college football fan."
User currently offlineMCOflyer From United States of America, joined Jun 2006, 8683 posts, RR: 16
Reply 2, posted (7 years 2 months 2 weeks 1 day 4 hours ago) and read 3327 times:

DeltaGator, give the guy a break. You do not have to be experienced to know woman.

ORDRyan28, buy her some flowers and apologise for your actions. It never hurts to give up but when she tells you to stop, give up and find another woman. Plenty out there. Good luck.

Hunter



Never be afraid to stand up for who you are.
User currently offlineAA61Hvy From United States of America, joined Nov 1999, 13977 posts, RR: 57
Reply 3, posted (7 years 2 months 2 weeks 1 day 4 hours ago) and read 3321 times:

Quoting MCOflyer (Reply 2):
You do not have to be experienced to know woman

Respectfully, you're dead wrong.

How can you know about something without having any experiences?



Go big or go home
User currently offlineORDRyan28 From United States of America, joined Jul 2006, 988 posts, RR: 16
Reply 4, posted (7 years 2 months 2 weeks 1 day 4 hours ago) and read 3308 times:

Quoting MCOflyer (Reply 2):
DeltaGator, give the guy a break.

Thank you, Hunter. It really is a complex situation...

basically, I want to make her want me, rather than vice versa...any suggestions would help..

Quoting DeltaGator (Reply 1):
Come on folks, stop posting questions about girl trouble.

This is a non-aviation thread, I don't believe I was wrong by posting this



Whoever said winning is not everything never fought cancer.
User currently offlineVinnieWinnie From United States of America, joined Nov 2005, 793 posts, RR: 0
Reply 5, posted (7 years 2 months 2 weeks 1 day 4 hours ago) and read 3302 times:

Quoting AA61Hvy (Reply 3):
How can you know about something without having any experiences?

Cause you may have a very good girlfriend who you might not be so intimate with but who can tell you a lot about how woman think!

@Ordryan28 what signs has she given you that may lead you to think that she is interested by you?


Cause many males confuse friendship with more... And many Woman cannot draw the line either...


User currently offlineKieron747 From , joined Dec 1969, posts, RR:
Reply 6, posted (7 years 2 months 2 weeks 1 day 4 hours ago) and read 3290 times:

Quoting FLAIRPORT (Thread starter):
So, as the topic says, I do. I really like this girl, more so than any other of the girls I've been with. IMO, I think she's playing me. I think she wants me to continuously chase her. When I don't call her, she'll call me and flirt and whatnot. I sort of overreacted and got mad at her last night, resulting in me hanging up on her. She has pretty much ignored me all day.

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OK someone had to do it.   

 Wink

Kieron

[Edited 2007-08-08 23:26:14]

User currently offlineMainMAN From United Kingdom, joined Jul 2005, 2097 posts, RR: 5
Reply 7, posted (7 years 2 months 2 weeks 1 day 4 hours ago) and read 3290 times:

Quoting ORDRyan28 (Thread starter):
She has pretty much ignored me all day. It's much more complex than this, but I'm beginning to think she just wants me to continue chasing her.

Some women (and men) do this sort of thing habitually and they never seem to know what it is they want. Flirting like she is, is a bit of attention-seeking. Loads of people do it. When you're as old and cynical as me or DeltaGator (we have a combined age of 795), you'll also start to realise that it's impossible to understand other people, so give up on this one.

Quoting ORDRyan28 (Thread starter):
WHAT do I do...?

Forget about her, let her do all the work if she's interested. If she is, she will. Concentrate instead on the hundreds of other women you're about to meet  Wink


User currently offlineGQfluffy From , joined Dec 1969, posts, RR:
Reply 8, posted (7 years 2 months 2 weeks 1 day 4 hours ago) and read 3290 times:

Quoting MCOflyer (Reply 2):
DeltaGator, give the guy a break. You do not have to be experienced to know woman.

He wasn't being hard on the guy; he's just explaining the facts of life since ORD doesn't seem to know. Guess what? Even those of us who have had relationships before still know jackshat about women. Sorry Hunter, but you are wrong here.

Quoting ORDRyan28 (Reply 4):
basically, I want to make her want me, rather than vice versa...any suggestions would help..

You can't. Either she does or she doesn't. If you want more then friendship, and have made that known to her, and she's still pulling you along, she either isn't sure about what she wants, or she doesn't want a relationship with you. Move on...

Write that down...


User currently offlineDesertJets From United States of America, joined Feb 2000, 7784 posts, RR: 16
Reply 9, posted (7 years 2 months 2 weeks 1 day 4 hours ago) and read 3281 times:

Quoting ORDRyan28 (Thread starter):
So, as the topic says, I do. I really like this girl, more so than any other of the girls I've been with. IMO, I think she's playing me. I think she wants me to continuously chase her. When I don't call her, she'll call me and flirt and whatnot.

Honestly I say you're being played. If a girl is interested she won't want to be chased... she will want to pursue something.

So what I think it comes down to is asking her if she wants to go out, get involved, and what not. If she can't give you a straight answer then it is time to move on.



Stop drop and roll will not save you in hell. --- seen on a church marque in rural Virginia
User currently offlineTmatt95 From United Kingdom, joined Sep 2005, 489 posts, RR: 0
Reply 10, posted (7 years 2 months 2 weeks 1 day 3 hours ago) and read 3274 times:

Look deep in yourself and you will know the right thing to do. Do not rush it though.

Quoting DeltaGator (Reply 1):

So you come here to a site of nerds and ask for help?

One can only wonder where he goes to discuss planes......

[Edited 2007-08-08 23:36:16]

User currently offlineWalter747 From United States of America, joined Oct 2006, 1440 posts, RR: 4
Reply 11, posted (7 years 2 months 2 weeks 1 day 3 hours ago) and read 3269 times:

Quoting ORDRyan28 (Thread starter):
WHAT do I do...?

Don't pull a FLAIRPORT  Wink

Kidding

Quoting ORDRyan28 (Reply 4):
basically, I want to make her want me, rather than vice versa...any suggestions would help..

Make her jealous or just talk to her. Maybe she feels the same about you as you feel about her. Maybe she wants you t go after and want her. By the way your telling us this it sounds like you are already good friends with her. Just talk to her about how you feel and if she laughs then say F you Bitch and hang up. The ignore her and you get teh satisfaction of a job well done.

Good luck with your issue!

Cheers,
Justin



Hussel, Hussel, Husel, Grind, Grind, Grind
User currently offlineAA61Hvy From United States of America, joined Nov 1999, 13977 posts, RR: 57
Reply 12, posted (7 years 2 months 2 weeks 1 day 3 hours ago) and read 3262 times:

Quoting VinnieWinnie (Reply 5):
Cause you may have a very good girlfriend who you might not be so intimate with but who can tell you a lot about how woman think!

Having a girlfriend is experience, no?



Go big or go home
User currently offlineLHMARK From United States of America, joined Jan 2000, 7255 posts, RR: 46
Reply 13, posted (7 years 2 months 2 weeks 1 day 3 hours ago) and read 3253 times:

She's acting like every freakin' young woman in the world. As soon as she senses you're hooked, she gets all cold on you, right?

Sounds like missy needs to grow up. Here's what you do. Put her, not out of your mind, but on the back burner. Don't ignore her, but don't initiate contact. Make her be the one to call you. In the meantime, look around and be social with other girls. You never know who you'll meet and it builds your skills. Chances are the original girl will come skulking back.



"Sympathy is something that shouldn't be bestowed on the Yankees. Apparently it angers them." - Bob Feller
User currently offlineORDRyan28 From United States of America, joined Jul 2006, 988 posts, RR: 16
Reply 14, posted (7 years 2 months 2 weeks 1 day 3 hours ago) and read 3242 times:

She has actually told me on several instances that she "doesn't know" what she wants, so most of you guys hit it right on the head. I guess I'm just going to stop trying and see what happens from here on out...


Whoever said winning is not everything never fought cancer.
User currently offlineCastleIsland From , joined Dec 1969, posts, RR:
Reply 15, posted (7 years 2 months 2 weeks 1 day 3 hours ago) and read 3229 times:

Quoting ORDRyan28 (Reply 4):
I want to make her want me, rather than vice versa

That sounds a bit like playing games to be honest. Until you get those pre-conceived sort of notions out of your system, dealing with girls is going to be totally screwed up. Once you get past that, things'll be just messed up, but that's better than totally screwed up.  Wink


User currently offlineMCOflyer From United States of America, joined Jun 2006, 8683 posts, RR: 16
Reply 16, posted (7 years 2 months 2 weeks 1 day 3 hours ago) and read 3219 times:

Quoting ORDRyan28 (Reply 14):
She has actually told me on several instances that she "doesn't know" what she wants, so most of you guys hit it right on the head.

Shes confused and ask her what its about. Girls like a guy who will hear their problems. But be prepared to listen word for word. Hope all goes well. Let us know how it turned out.

Hunter



Never be afraid to stand up for who you are.
User currently offlineLHMARK From United States of America, joined Jan 2000, 7255 posts, RR: 46
Reply 17, posted (7 years 2 months 2 weeks 1 day 3 hours ago) and read 3219 times:

Quoting ORDRyan28 (Reply 4):
basically, I want to make her want me, rather than vice versa...any suggestions would help..

Shit, I didn't even read that part before. You can't do that. She will want you as much as she wants you. Just accept that and you'll both be happier with each other.



"Sympathy is something that shouldn't be bestowed on the Yankees. Apparently it angers them." - Bob Feller
User currently offlineORDRyan28 From United States of America, joined Jul 2006, 988 posts, RR: 16
Reply 18, posted (7 years 2 months 2 weeks 1 day 3 hours ago) and read 3215 times:

I usually never would play a game with a girl, but I thought this was the perfect girl for me....

oh well...



Whoever said winning is not everything never fought cancer.
User currently offlineDavestanKSAN From United States of America, joined Sep 2005, 1678 posts, RR: 13
Reply 19, posted (7 years 2 months 2 weeks 1 day 3 hours ago) and read 3208 times:

Okay, cue the cheesy music and candles, but my friend, the only perfect girl for you is one who cares about you as much as you care about her. (Sorry about that after school special moment, ha ha).

Anyway I really hope that it works out with her, or you find that girl who is perfect for you  Smile.

Dave



Yesterday we've sinned, today we move towards God. Touch the sky....love and respect...Safe Star!
User currently offlineWalter747 From United States of America, joined Oct 2006, 1440 posts, RR: 4
Reply 20, posted (7 years 2 months 2 weeks 1 day 3 hours ago) and read 3205 times:

Quoting ORDRyan28 (Reply 18):
I usually never would play a game with a girl, but I thought this was the perfect girl for me....

oh well...

Don't be sad. Its happened to the bets of us. Shes probably wanting you to come to her. PM me later if you wanna talk about it.

Cheers,
Justin



Hussel, Hussel, Husel, Grind, Grind, Grind
User currently offlineDeltaGator From United States of America, joined Sep 2005, 6341 posts, RR: 13
Reply 21, posted (7 years 2 months 2 weeks 1 day 3 hours ago) and read 3195 times:

Quoting ORDRyan28 (Reply 4):
This is a non-aviation thread, I don't believe I was wrong by posting this

You're free to post your girl troubles all you want in NonAv and we are free to call you out on it. Seriously, asking for help in an online aviation forum, even in NonAv, is not the place to get the help you need.

Have you not read the numerous other threads about girl problems that have been posted on here before? They always degrade into making fun of the original poster and I was just trying to give you fair warning.

Quoting MCOflyer (Reply 2):
You do not have to be experienced to know woman.

Dude, think before you type. He said he thought he understood women and I pointed out that in the age range of 16-20 he doesn't know a damn thing about women. I'm 34 and I still don't know everything. I'm sure some of the older members such as Skidmarks (and dare I say Pep) will admit they are just as confused by women today as they were when they were younger.



"If you can't delight in the misery of others then you don't deserve to be a college football fan."
User currently offlineBoston92 From United States of America, joined Aug 2006, 3390 posts, RR: 7
Reply 22, posted (7 years 2 months 2 weeks 1 day 3 hours ago) and read 3188 times:

Quoting DeltaGator (Reply 21):

DeltaGator, can we please wait till October to start bashing me and ORDRyan28  Wink



"Why does a slight tax increase cost you $200 and a substantial tax cut save you 30 cents?"
User currently offlineDeltaGator From United States of America, joined Sep 2005, 6341 posts, RR: 13
Reply 23, posted (7 years 2 months 2 weeks 1 day 3 hours ago) and read 3178 times:

Quoting Boston92 (Reply 22):
DeltaGator, can we please wait till October to start bashing me and ORDRyan28

Oh heavens no! Notre Dame fan bashing is a year round sport. I see you're not starting out the seaon in the Coach's Poll Top 25. What gives? I thought you all were the greatest team EVAH!  Wink



"If you can't delight in the misery of others then you don't deserve to be a college football fan."
User currently offlineORDRyan28 From United States of America, joined Jul 2006, 988 posts, RR: 16
Reply 24, posted (7 years 2 months 2 weeks 1 day 3 hours ago) and read 3175 times:

Quoting DeltaGator (Reply 21):
Have you not read the numerous other threads about girl problems that have been posted on here before?

I haven't, nor do I care. I consider all of you guys my friends, and it's better to tell your friends about your problems than let them all boil up inside you until you finally punch someone, or something out. I have a tendency to punch a whole through my wall, so, before it got to that, I wanted to talk about it. And, contrary to your belief, I feel better having done so.



Whoever said winning is not everything never fought cancer.
25 NYCAASpouse : there are a bunch of guys looking at thier red and hairy palms right now. And another bunch trying to figure out why you'd be attacted to a girl int h
26 Post contains images Walter747 : People are trying to release their female issues in your thread. Not concerned about yours.
27 ORDRyan28 : Maybe not, but I'll tell you the same thing I told him. It helps, at the very least...
28 Post contains images Walter747 : Also try posting on Yahoo! Answers. It's people who aren't biased.
29 ANITIX87 : I'm 16-20 too (well, 20) and I have to agree. I thought I knew it all. And I was so wrong it's not even funny. Exactly. I had a similar situation thi
30 Walter747 : I didn't want him to pull a FLAIRPORT, but i didn't want to offend him.
31 MCOflyer : I've spent some time observing girls and when a girl plays and know when she doesn't. It sounds like the girl is playing. Also, as justin said, this h
32 VonRichtofen : Yep. To the thread starter: She may actually like you. If you don't call her but she ends up calling you and flirts that's a good sign. Whatever you
33 Post contains images Nosedive : Delta beat me: That's also great way to fuck it up, as it can also come across as, "I want you to want me and I want to manipulate you into wanting m
34 Boston92 : Because why? We have an NBC contract? You guys begin to get very old after a while. "Play Like A Champion Today."
35 N710PS : Dude, your acting desperate. First I want to point out you age and "expertice with ladies" is impossible. I only in the realm of the same decade as yo
36 Post contains images DeltaGator : Off topic for sure but since you brought it up... No, because Notre Dame sucks. Who gives a rat's ass about the contract. And so does your losing bowl
37 Post contains images Mirrodie : Have you tried a donkey punch? ROFLMAO Well, in all Honestly, I think LHMark nailed it. Back off and take interest in other gals. OMG, ROFLMAO, that
38 Post contains images Nosedive : You know... this is why bashing ND fans is so much fun. You all take it sooooo personally
39 MCOflyer : ORDRyan28, you ever go to clubs? Good for meeting girls. Also, if your not 18 they have teen night. Call around and ask. Hunter
40 Post contains images GQfluffy : Dude. That's the last place to go if you're looking for some girl to more or less settle down and have a relationship with. Not that this kid should
41 TZ757300 : Good for meeting girls that require cash to operate them.
42 Post contains images Walter747 : Hehehe Im not sure if that was an insult or a compliment. So i will go with the better of the two.
43 MCOflyer : Hey, N710PS said he sounded like he was desperate. I went to clubs and couldn't stand them because of the loud music. But does it hurt to try somethin
44 Boston92 : Notre Dame is not overrated, they are just like Tiger Woods (a little overhyped), but don't blame first hand fans and alumni of the school for the re
45 N710PS : It does not hurt per se but there are some provens and some that are variables when it comes to meeting girls. Now as far as something serious coming
46 ShyFlyer : Best advice I've seen here yet. In fact, you could set your watch by it, as I've seen this happen many times, just as LHMARK says.
47 Post contains images TheCol :
48 Post contains images Nosedive : Never. Why? Well, for starters, only ND fans will make stupid grammatical errors such as these: You should have used "lost." "Beat" is the past tense
49 Post contains images VinnieWinnie : It is indeed but ORDRyan28 never said he had no experience! I second that! We all say that unfortunately when we have a crush on woman! Unfortunately
50 EA CO AS : She's playing "hard to get." What she doesn't realize is that after awhile it becomes "hard to WANT" in the guy's mind. Call her out - tell her you wa
51 Adopim88 : AA61Hvy hit that. You can't expect to know any woman without experience. I also agree with AA61Hvy that having a girlfriend is counted as some experi
52 Boston92 : Grammatical errors? What the hell are you talking about? You are a joke. You are a bigger joke.
53 Post contains images Charlienorth : If she's playing the game...here's my advice from someone who was once your age and went through the same thing..if you get a chance nail her rudely a
54 N710PS : Ding ding ding! Think of the dirtiest thing you can do and do it.
55 ORDRyan28 : Haha. I would like to thank everyone for their input, I sincerely appreciate it. But, actually, I resolved the issue. She ignored my phone call last n
56 Post contains images ORDRyan28 : LMFAO
57 Post contains images Scbriml : Get back to us in 20 years! And the rest of a.net heaves a sigh of relief!
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