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Guy 27, Girl 19 Anything Wrong With That?  
User currently offlineCaptaink From Mexico, joined May 2001, 5108 posts, RR: 12
Posted (6 years 8 months 14 hours ago) and read 2174 times:

The title says it all. If a guy of 27 and a girl of 19 are very much in love, should the age difference be a major factor? Would you consider such a relationship very odd? May be a silly question, but you would be surprised at the different opinions people have.


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User currently offlineFlagshipAZ From United States of America, joined Jan 2001, 3419 posts, RR: 14
Reply 1, posted (6 years 8 months 14 hours ago) and read 2168 times:

No, not in the beginning. The freshness of a new relationship is always exciting at first, but eventually the novelty will wear off. Enjoy the company of a 19 yr old while you can...make the most of it. But I predict it will not last. Rarely does a relationship with a person before they're an adult usually does last. So enjoy now, prepare for the fall later.
Regards.



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User currently offlineRJ100 From Switzerland, joined Nov 2000, 4114 posts, RR: 30
Reply 2, posted (6 years 8 months 14 hours ago) and read 2168 times:

Absolutely no problem in my opinion...


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User currently offlineSan747 From United States of America, joined Dec 2004, 4939 posts, RR: 12
Reply 3, posted (6 years 8 months 14 hours ago) and read 2159 times:

Is this hypothetical or is this a practical question (ie are YOU interested in a 19-year-old girl)?

I only ask because the answer to your question is- it all depends on the people. The age difference may not matter with one couple while it could doom the next. It all depends on the people involved.



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User currently offlineFXramper From United States of America, joined Dec 2005, 7128 posts, RR: 87
Reply 4, posted (6 years 8 months 14 hours ago) and read 2155 times:

There was a thread on this less than a week ago...  Yeah sure

User currently offlineAeroWesty From United States of America, joined Oct 2004, 20322 posts, RR: 63
Reply 5, posted (6 years 8 months 13 hours ago) and read 2118 times:

At What Point Is Age Difference A Problem? (by Zchannel Aug 20 2007 in Non Aviation)


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User currently offlineACFA From Canada, joined Feb 2007, 261 posts, RR: 0
Reply 6, posted (6 years 8 months 11 hours ago) and read 2069 times:

Not to start a flame war or anything, but I can imagine the responses would be very different if it was about a 17 year old and a 21 year old. Such relationships are illegal in many jurisdictions, but they happen more often than you think. Its funny how we can set some magical number where everything somehow becomes okay; I think whether theres anything wrong with a relationship depends on a lot of things (i.e. maturity). Of course co-ersion is also something that many worry about with age differences; such concerns seem to be more prevalent when its the male that is older.

User currently offlineJafa39 From , joined Dec 1969, posts, RR:
Reply 7, posted (6 years 8 months 10 hours ago) and read 2049 times:

Fine until her parents find out  Wink Hey boy! ...click....

User currently offlinePilotdude09 From Australia, joined May 2005, 1777 posts, RR: 4
Reply 8, posted (6 years 8 months 10 hours ago) and read 2049 times:

I have a 18 year old friend who has just got engaged yes ENGAGED to his 17 year old girl friend. Cant wait to go to their wedding then the court case afterwards  Smile cant see that one lasting!


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User currently offlineMD11Engineer From Germany, joined Oct 2003, 13800 posts, RR: 63
Reply 9, posted (6 years 8 months 10 hours ago) and read 2035 times:

In my case, my girlfriend and myself are also apart by eight years, only that she is 32 and I'm 40 years old.
And it is working since 7 years, even though we have the additional handicap of living in different countries.

Jan


User currently offlineBofredrik From , joined Dec 1969, posts, RR:
Reply 10, posted (6 years 8 months 10 hours ago) and read 2033 times:

It would not be a problem in my country.

User currently offlineZKSUJ From New Zealand, joined May 2004, 7073 posts, RR: 12
Reply 11, posted (6 years 8 months 10 hours ago) and read 2025 times:

I know of bigger age gaps. All the best to the both of you, 19 is old enough and mature enough to get through things so not much issues I think

User currently offlineMCOflyer From United States of America, joined Jun 2006, 8625 posts, RR: 15
Reply 12, posted (6 years 8 months 8 hours ago) and read 1980 times:

No problem in my opinion. Just get on her parents good side. Big grin

Hunter



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User currently offlineQueso From , joined Dec 1969, posts, RR:
Reply 13, posted (6 years 8 months 8 hours ago) and read 1970 times:

Quoting Captaink (Thread starter):
If a guy of 27 and a girl of 19 are very much in love, should the age difference be a major factor?

Not as long as they are celibate.  Wink

Quoting Captaink (Thread starter):
Would you consider such a relationship very odd?

Nawww, go for it! I'm pretty conservative and I'd have no problem at all with that. Unless my own daughter was the 19 year-old!  Big grin


User currently offlineSuperfly From Thailand, joined May 2000, 39478 posts, RR: 75
Reply 14, posted (6 years 8 months 8 hours ago) and read 1954 times:

Not a problem at all. 19 is a legal adult weather or not the parents like it or not.
Enjoy !



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User currently offlineAA61Hvy From United States of America, joined Nov 1999, 13977 posts, RR: 57
Reply 15, posted (6 years 8 months 8 hours ago) and read 1951 times:

Bag a chick your own age...


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User currently offlineHAWK21M From India, joined Jan 2001, 31573 posts, RR: 57
Reply 16, posted (6 years 8 months 7 hours ago) and read 1917 times:

As long as the couple are matured enough to understand the relationship,Physical age in this case is not a concern,mental age is.
regds
MEL



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User currently offlineDL021 From United States of America, joined May 2004, 11445 posts, RR: 76
Reply 17, posted (6 years 8 months 7 hours ago) and read 1905 times:
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19 year olds rarely are the same person when they're twenty....alot of growing up is happening...so enjoy the ride while it lasts.....

the difference between 19 and 27 is much greater than 32 and 44....a 32 year old woman knows what she wants



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User currently offlineCaptOveur From , joined Dec 1969, posts, RR:
Reply 18, posted (6 years 8 months 6 hours ago) and read 1899 times:

As long as you are at equivalent levels of maturity I don't see a problem. 19 year old girls can have difficulty discussing things other than what was on TV last night or what their friends said to them on IM that day.

User currently offlineSuperfly From Thailand, joined May 2000, 39478 posts, RR: 75
Reply 19, posted (6 years 8 months 6 hours ago) and read 1894 times:

Quoting DL021 (Reply 17):
19 year olds rarely are the same person when they're twenty....alot of growing up is happening...so enjoy the ride while it lasts.....

Exactly!
If you two want each other for the moment, have a ball and don't listen to what some naysayers here are telling you. Just don't get her pregnant.



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User currently offlineTSS From United States of America, joined Dec 2006, 3050 posts, RR: 5
Reply 20, posted (6 years 8 months 6 hours ago) and read 1876 times:

Quoting DL021 (Reply 17):
19 year olds rarely are the same person when they're twenty....alot of growing up is happening...so enjoy the ride while it lasts.....



Quoting Superfly (Reply 19):
Exactly!
If you two want each other for the moment, have a ball and don't listen to what some naysayers here are telling you. Just don't get her pregnant.

Or as an otherwise very religious Dad of a friend of mine told him when he announced plans for his third marriage, "You know, you don't have to marry every girl you scr*w...".



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User currently offlineFalstaff From United States of America, joined Jun 2006, 5965 posts, RR: 27
Reply 21, posted (6 years 8 months 3 hours ago) and read 1804 times:
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Quoting ZKSUJ (Reply 11):
19 is old enough and mature enough to get through things so not much issues I think



Quoting Superfly (Reply 14):
Not a problem at all. 19 is a legal adult weather or not the parents like it or not.

!9 is ok by me. She is legal and nobody can change that. However, 19 is still young and has a lot of growing up to do. By the time 27 rolls around you should have plenty of life experience. Your level of maturity may be different, but maybe not I don't know either one of you. If you dig each other roll with it. I once dated a woman who was 20 years older than me. It was great. People gave us crap about it all the time. Her job transferred her out of state and I was still in college. So it didn't work out, but hey I still had a great time.

Quoting Superfly (Reply 19):
Just don't get her pregnant.

I thought I got an 18 year old pregnant when I was 23. Scared the hell out of both of us. Turned out to be nothing. I was sweating bullets.



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User currently offlineTom12 From United Kingdom, joined Dec 2005, 1078 posts, RR: 13
Reply 22, posted (6 years 8 months 3 hours ago) and read 1799 times:

I wouldn't think that was an issue either. I'd agree to just get on her parents good side Big grin



Tom



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User currently offlineDougloid From , joined Dec 1969, posts, RR:
Reply 23, posted (6 years 8 months ago) and read 1765 times:

Quoting Captaink (Thread starter):
The title says it all.

Frickin' lecher.


User currently offlineEA CO AS From United States of America, joined Nov 2001, 13255 posts, RR: 62
Reply 24, posted (6 years 8 months ago) and read 1764 times:
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Guy 27, Girl 19 Anything Wrong With That?

No, unless she's ugly...  duck 



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25 Post contains images WildcatYXU : Really? Is there a woman (any age) that knows what she wants?
26 Post contains links and images Allstarflyer : If you want to bed her, then do right by the girl and marry her - then get her pregnant before she knows what happened. In all seriousness, though, y
27 WildcatYXU : Alas, too late for me...Some 19 years...
28 Post contains images Superfly :   25+ post and no one has ever taken in to consideration on what the guy wants. Perhaps this 19 year old lady is what he wants and if she likes him,
29 Post contains images Jafa39 : You must know a different species of woman to me!!!
30 Post contains images Falstaff : Even then.... The older we get the less good looking we are without our clothes on. NO !
31 CaptOveur : Umm some, not all. I know plenty of girls who were fucking retards at 19 and after they turned 21 or 22 became decent, intelligent members of society
32 Captaink : Interesting responses. I personally think it depends on the exact person as we cannot really generalize. People are different. However more often than
33 Post contains images Superfly : People are people so why should it be? Captaink : Put on your raincoat, make sure she's on the pill and have great time!
34 Flanker : 19!!???! shes too old!!! : -] Haha, yea thats fine. Nothing wrong with that. Hell most places in the world its not uncommon to see people in their lat
35 JetBlueGuy2006 : I don't see a problem with that. I have a couple of really good friends and they are about 10 years apart and have 4 kinds.
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