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User currently offlineLY772 From Israel, joined Aug 2001, 1340 posts, RR: 2
Posted (12 years 4 months 2 weeks 2 days 10 hours ago) and read 1025 times:

Okay, here's the deal.

I have a friend who is 14-15 and he is short. And I made fun of him like 6 months ago...just over and over and over again and I know that. I admit that I was wrong, and that I had no right to do that. And I want to apologize, but I don't know how. We haven't said a word to each other for like 4 months.

I just "dont have the balls" to walk up to him and say, I'm sorry. This is what I want to say:

"Please let me talk for 3 minutes. First of all, I am sorry. So sorry you don't even know. And I know that I had no right to make fun of you, and if between us, one of us makes fun of the other, it should be you making fun of me. You're better looking, and more popular and smarter than I am. Please give me another chance to be your friend"

I dream about saying it but I just can't. Any help, please?

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User currently offlinePROSA From United States of America, joined Oct 2001, 5627 posts, RR: 5
Reply 1, posted (12 years 4 months 2 weeks 2 days 10 hours ago) and read 1003 times:

Your idea sounds pretty good. I know it'll take some courage to be able to admit you were wrong and say the stuff you mentioned, but do your best.


"Let me think about it" = the coward's way of saying "no"
User currently offlineStretch 8 From United States of America, joined May 1999, 2568 posts, RR: 17
Reply 2, posted (12 years 4 months 2 weeks 2 days 5 hours ago) and read 994 times:

Just do it. If you truly articulate regret, your friend will forgive you and respect you. But he may never trust you again.


Maggs swings, it's a drive deep to left! The Tigers are going to the World Series!!!
User currently offlineKROC From , joined Dec 1969, posts, RR:
Reply 3, posted (12 years 4 months 2 weeks 2 days 4 hours ago) and read 987 times:

Exactly. Sack up and just spit it out. Much easier for both of you.

P.S. It's not nice to make fun of other people.  Big grin


User currently offlineLY772 From Israel, joined Aug 2001, 1340 posts, RR: 2
Reply 4, posted (12 years 4 months 2 weeks 1 day 20 hours ago) and read 970 times:

 Wink/being sarcastic

User currently offlineApathoid From , joined Dec 1969, posts, RR:
Reply 5, posted (12 years 4 months 2 weeks 1 day 20 hours ago) and read 962 times:

OMG! CROCK telling someone else its not nice to make fun of people. Now I HAVE heard it all!!!  Insane

User currently offlineMetwrench From United States of America, joined Aug 2001, 750 posts, RR: 2
Reply 6, posted (12 years 4 months 2 weeks 1 day 20 hours ago) and read 957 times:

LY772, guess what? No matter how much you want to suck up, the midget won't get over it. Just hope that you don't have to work for him in ten years.

The only reason short, ugly, fat, and gay people are put on this earth is to make the rest of us thankful for what we are, ruggedly handsome strait Republicans!


User currently offlineSophiemaltese From United States of America, joined Feb 2001, 2064 posts, RR: 3
Reply 7, posted (12 years 4 months 2 weeks 1 day 19 hours ago) and read 955 times:

Please do find the courage to apologize to him. As a person who was picked on a great deal as a child, I can tell you it would mean a lot to him. And besides, you don't want to end up on his "People I Will Kill When I Go Insane" list!

User currently offlineMJC777 From , joined Dec 1969, posts, RR:
Reply 8, posted (12 years 4 months 2 weeks 1 day 19 hours ago) and read 956 times:

I dont think 80% of the people in here could give you girl help anyhow. Just my take on things.



User currently offlineKROC From , joined Dec 1969, posts, RR:
Reply 9, posted (12 years 4 months 2 weeks 1 day 15 hours ago) and read 943 times:

Apathoid. Obviosly I was being sarcastic again. Perhaps a post like yours is what I get for giving people like you too much credit in being able to see that on here.

User currently offlineLY772 From Israel, joined Aug 2001, 1340 posts, RR: 2
Reply 10, posted (12 years 4 months 2 weeks 1 day 14 hours ago) and read 943 times:

Focus, gentleman. I still have a problem.

When is a good time? At school? After/Before School? Phone? Should I go over to his house?


User currently offlineToadpipe From , joined Dec 1969, posts, RR:
Reply 11, posted (12 years 4 months 2 weeks 1 day 14 hours ago) and read 939 times:

I think i'd rephrase your apology, give it some umphh. Maybe something like this, "Hey dude, I'm sorry for talkin down to you and I realize that our relationship has taken a decided downturn lately. And I don't blame you for being so short with me latley. I guess what I am trying to get at is, I can see why you you have been a little mad. It's just that sometimes you and I just don't see eye to eye on things and I result to mocking you. Any way I hope you accept this apology as just a small token on my behalf towards our friendship, now what do you say we go get a little bite to eat, I'm really not that hungry but I could go for a small fry." Oh and pat him on the head as you are talking, the little poeple like that.

User currently offlineLY772 From Israel, joined Aug 2001, 1340 posts, RR: 2
Reply 12, posted (12 years 4 months 2 weeks 16 hours ago) and read 925 times:

Is that suppose to be funny?

sorry for talkin down to you

you and I just don't see eye to eye

I'm really not that hungry but I could go for a small fry

Oh and pat him on the head as you are talking, the little poeple like that.


User currently offlineSeb146 From United States of America, joined Nov 1999, 11466 posts, RR: 15
Reply 13, posted (12 years 4 months 2 weeks 16 hours ago) and read 924 times:

I'm laughing, so I guess it is!

Seriously, it will be very hard to say that you are sorry. We all have a hard time admiting we are wrong about things. Just do it and get it over with. Like taking a Band-aid off.



Life in the wall is a drag.
User currently offlineLY772 From Israel, joined Aug 2001, 1340 posts, RR: 2
Reply 14, posted (12 years 4 months 2 weeks 16 hours ago) and read 923 times:

It's not funny. It's stuff like that that got me into this position.

User currently offlineApathoid From , joined Dec 1969, posts, RR:
Reply 15, posted (12 years 4 months 2 weeks 9 hours ago) and read 918 times:

KROC - um, dude... I got it...maybe I gave you too much credit... Smile/happy/getting dizzy

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