Alberchico From United States of America, joined Sep 2004, 3054 posts, RR: 0
Reply 1, posted (7 years 6 months 2 weeks 3 days 9 hours ago) and read 12069 times:
For a woman in her mid 30's the average number of lovers probaly is in the 35--40 range.
My current girlfriend is only 22 but has had sex with about 27 different guys, however I have never considered her a slut because it would be kind of hypoctitical to slam somebody for somthing that you're doing yourself, which is sleeping around with as many people as possible....
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Aaron747 From Japan, joined Aug 2003, 9134 posts, RR: 26
Reply 2, posted (7 years 6 months 2 weeks 3 days 9 hours ago) and read 12007 times:
Quoting OA260 (Thread starter): Am I only the person who thinks 15 is actually about right, if a touch on the high side? I know this might seem a little shocking, and this is not a debate we would have been having in 1955.
All it means is that Carla has a very sheltered life provided by her lifestyle and status. In Japan, a woman her age would typically have a much higher number unless she married early. None of my wife's friends, all in their mid-30s, have been with anywhere under 30 guys. Some hit that number in just a couple of years, but that's just the nature of dating in these parts. I suspect the true numbers for most single women of similar age are about the same most anywhere.
Just remember to always double the number she gives you.
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Srbmod From , joined Dec 1969, posts, RR:
Reply 4, posted (7 years 6 months 2 weeks 3 days 8 hours ago) and read 12001 times:
Meanwhile, if a guy says they've "had" 15 women, high fives all around. It's the whole virgin-whore thing.
I am reminded of a scene in the movie Clerks (I'd provide a link, but the language is a bit coarse) where Dante and his girlfriend Veronica get into the discussion on how many partners they've had. He says 12 and she gets mad at him because she's only had three. Then something comes up regarding oral sex and she tells him 37 and he gets bent out of shape. Meanwhile, a few minutes prior, the feelings were the opposite when it came to him sleeping with 12 different girls.
YOWza From South Africa, joined Jul 2005, 5042 posts, RR: 14
Reply 16, posted (7 years 6 months 2 weeks 3 days 4 hours ago) and read 11694 times:
Quoting Alberchico (Reply 1): My current girlfriend is only 22 but has had sex with about 27 different guys, however I have never considered her a slut because it would be kind of hypoctitical to slam somebody for somthing that you're doing yourself
You've had sex with 27 guys?
Seriously though 15 is really not that many. It's exactly one rugby team, less the subs. I know a number of girls who hit that number before they were allowed to drink legally.
Mir From United States of America, joined Jan 2004, 22657 posts, RR: 55
Reply 19, posted (7 years 6 months 2 weeks 3 days 2 hours ago) and read 11608 times:
I don't really care how many lovers she's had, but I have to hand it to the French for just accepting it and moving on. If the first lady of the US said the same thing, we'd probably be having Congressional investigations for the next two years.
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Bablackpilot From United States of America, joined Apr 2006, 122 posts, RR: 0
Reply 22, posted (7 years 6 months 2 weeks 2 days 22 hours ago) and read 11475 times:
I first off don't ask the women I date how many sexual partners she has had because hell she had a life before me and I'm sure she'll have a life after me. What she does with her body parts is her business. If she chooses to tell me that is something else. Now do I know how many partners my exs and current gf have had...yes because I believe in open and honesty when it comes to that but I'm damn sure not going to ask them.
I also tend to date women who are swingers as I am one too and trust me, 15 is nothing compaired to the numbers I've come across.
Since I date mostly older women I'll break it down to you.....take a 40 year old woman who has been sexually active since she was 21. That equal 19 years of sexual activity. If she has been swinging that long, at 3 times a month with 5 guys each that equals to 285 guys. Now is she a slut for doing all those guys or was she just enjoying herself....
Like I said, get over it....we all have our fun.....
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OA260 From Ireland, joined Nov 2006, 29584 posts, RR: 59
Reply 24, posted (7 years 6 months 2 weeks 2 days 21 hours ago) and read 11458 times:
Quoting Doona (Reply 23): Well, that means that there are at least two threesomes, right? Nice...
I dont think 15 is too many , although chatting to some of my female collegues they think it is high!! I guess they are all good Catholic girls LOL..... They brought up an issue which is interesting . Does the more Men you sleep with make it harder to maintain a loving lasting relationship ?? Do your emotions change in a way ?
: Whether she did them all at the same time or one at a time....it still comes down to....who cares how many people she has slept with.... If you care a
: One point I would like to make is that no matter how few or how many persons one has sex with you can always be at risk for STD's, including AIDS, Her