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Why Do Some Men Want Virgins?  
User currently offlineBlackbird From , joined Dec 1969, posts, RR:
Posted (5 years 11 months 1 week 5 days ago) and read 14627 times:

Why do some men really seek virgins?

I'm thinking it has to do with the fact that the guy wants a girl who has no frame of reference to compare him against.

Guys (men and teenage boys) know it, women and teenage girls know it -- women (and teenage girls) talk about anything and everything that went on during sex: What was said and done, comparison and critiques of techniques and quality of sex to previous boyfriends, and of course, of penile size compared to previous guys and some giggles if one fails to measure up.


Blackbird

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User currently offlineWunalaYann From Australia, joined Mar 2005, 2839 posts, RR: 25
Reply 1, posted (5 years 11 months 1 week 4 days 23 hours ago) and read 14598 times:



Quoting Blackbird (Thread starter):
Why do some men really seek virgins?

Beyond the whole genetic "I want my woman to be mine and mine only", I think it has something to do with simply being completely clueless (on the virgin-seekers' part, that is). Who the hell would want someone who does not know what they are doing in bed???  confused 

Not me, for sure.  cool 


User currently offlinePhoenix9 From Canada, joined Aug 2007, 2546 posts, RR: 8
Reply 2, posted (5 years 11 months 1 week 4 days 23 hours ago) and read 14595 times:



Quoting Blackbird (Thread starter):
Why do some men really seek virgins?

Some of it is culturally rooted. But most of the time, its the fact that she is virgin! Not in terms of reference or anything but its more like you were the first one etc. Sexual experience with virgins is quite different in a good way....so maybe thats why



Life only makes sense when you look at it backwards.
User currently offlineFalstaff From United States of America, joined Jun 2006, 6056 posts, RR: 29
Reply 3, posted (5 years 11 months 1 week 4 days 23 hours ago) and read 14595 times:
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Quoting Blackbird (Thread starter):
Why do some men really seek virgins?

The older you get, it is nearly impossible to find.

I lost my virginity when I was 16, in the back seat of my dad's car, to a girl who a lot of guys in my school lost their virginity to.

I never bothered to seek out virgins. However I knew several. My friend, Heidi, didn't lose her virginity until she was 26 and got married.

My girlfriend, Stefanie, who is the woman I will marry. Lost her virginity when she was 27. I wasn't looking for a virgin, but she was the best friend of my best buddy's wife. I knew she was the woman I wanted to to be with forever after hanging out a few times. We dated for 2 1/2 years before she wanted to have sex. I waited because she was the woman I wanted forever and no matter how long it took I would wait. I love Stefanie and I respect her so I never even brought up the subject. One night I was at her house and she decided it was time.

Sure she didn't know exactly what to do, but instinct tells you what needs to be done. It was the best I ever had, not because she was a virgin, but because she is the woman I love and I plan to spend the rest of my life with her.

Quoting Blackbird (Thread starter):
penile size compared to previous guys and some giggles if one fails to measure up.

I once had sex with a woman who was happy that I had a normal sized wheezer, she said the last guy she had sex with was like doing it with a thumb.

[Edited 2008-08-04 20:36:44]


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User currently offlineMCOflyer From United States of America, joined Jun 2006, 8653 posts, RR: 15
Reply 4, posted (5 years 11 months 1 week 4 days 23 hours ago) and read 14580 times:

I can think of reasons:

No STD"s

Quoting Falstaff (Reply 3):

My girlfriend, Stefanie, who is the woman I will marry. Lost her virginity when she was 27. I wasn't looking for a virgin, but she was the best friend of my best buddy's wife. I knew she was the woman I wanted to to be with forever after hanging out a few times. We dated for 2 1/2 years before she wanted to have sex. I waited because she was the woman I wanted forever and no matter how long it took I would wait. I love Stefanie and I respect her so I never even brought up the subject. One night I was at her house and she decided it was time.

Sure she didn't know exactly what to do, but instinct tells you what needs to be done. It was the best I ever had, not because she was a virgin, but because she is the woman I love and I plan to spend the rest of my life with her.

Well said, no wonder why you are on my RU list.

Andrea, as my friend put it; you belong to him or her and only to that person knowing shes clean, std free, and happy forever.



Never be afraid to stand up for who you are.
User currently offlineAirStairs From United States of America, joined Jul 2008, 487 posts, RR: 0
Reply 5, posted (5 years 11 months 1 week 4 days 23 hours ago) and read 14551 times:

A virgin is about the last thing I am looking for. I like to relax and go at it, and like the security of knowing that we both know what works and what just doesn't. I guess I am not opposed to a virgin but it would have to be a pretty damn serious relationship for me to take on that baggage.

Maybe this is a sign of the times, but when I think "virgin" I tend to automatically associate that condition with the 15-17 age group, maybe that's why I'm so opposed.


User currently offlineJpax From United States of America, joined Aug 2006, 1018 posts, RR: 0
Reply 6, posted (5 years 11 months 1 week 4 days 22 hours ago) and read 14538 times:



Quoting MCOflyer (Reply 4):
I can think of reasons:

No STD"s

Sex Ed wasn't taught in your high school, was it?


User currently offlineMCOflyer From United States of America, joined Jun 2006, 8653 posts, RR: 15
Reply 7, posted (5 years 11 months 1 week 4 days 22 hours ago) and read 14500 times:



Quoting Jpax (Reply 6):
Sex Ed wasn't taught in your high school, was it?

Yes, why do you ask?

Hunter



Never be afraid to stand up for who you are.
User currently offlineJpax From United States of America, joined Aug 2006, 1018 posts, RR: 0
Reply 8, posted (5 years 11 months 1 week 4 days 21 hours ago) and read 14461 times:



Quoting MCOflyer (Reply 7):

Yes, why do you ask?

Virgins aren't necessarily free from STDs... Oral sex, anal sex, using needles/razors, from birth, other bodily fluids- can all lead to STDs... look at herpes for example, and open sore and you touch it, boom, you likely now have that STD. No sex involved. Or crabs, those surely are easily transferable with no sex required.


User currently offlinePlaneWasted From Sweden, joined Jan 2008, 504 posts, RR: 0
Reply 9, posted (5 years 11 months 1 week 4 days 20 hours ago) and read 14408 times:

One thing might be that the girl will remember you forever.
The worst sex I've ever had was with a virgin BTW. She was like dead fish in bed.
But of course I was nice to her and told her it was ok.

[Edited 2008-08-05 00:29:26]

User currently offlineOHLHD From Finland, joined Dec 2004, 3962 posts, RR: 25
Reply 10, posted (5 years 11 months 1 week 4 days 19 hours ago) and read 14394 times:

The question why men want virgins is one I can´t answer but those who believe that it is cool or whatever to have one are really primitive!

If you want sex, nothing else then rough pure sex, a virgin won´t be the girl you find.

If you meet a girl you like and she likes you you won´t give a damn if she has had zero or 100 men! My believe is that guys looking for virgins are trying to hide their lack of self confidence to please a woman who has experience!


User currently offlineNighthawk From UK - Scotland, joined Sep 2001, 5123 posts, RR: 34
Reply 11, posted (5 years 11 months 1 week 4 days 19 hours ago) and read 14371 times:



Quoting AirStairs (Reply 5):
Maybe this is a sign of the times, but when I think "virgin" I tend to automatically associate that condition with the 15-17 age group, maybe that's why I'm so opposed.

When iI think of "virgin" I think of 747-400s, A340-600s and Richard Branson.

Signed by
99% Of A.net



That'll teach you
User currently offlineGordonsmall From UK - Scotland, joined Jun 2001, 2100 posts, RR: 22
Reply 12, posted (5 years 11 months 1 week 4 days 18 hours ago) and read 14333 times:



Quoting Nighthawk (Reply 11):
When iI think of "virgin" I think of 747-400s, A340-600s and Richard Branson.

Signed by
99% Of A.net

When I think of "virgin" I think of Pendolinos and Voyagers.

Signed,
The other 1% (a.k.a. MYT332)



Statistically, people who have had the most birthdays tend to live the longest.
User currently offlineMyt332 From United Kingdom, joined Sep 2003, 9112 posts, RR: 71
Reply 13, posted (5 years 11 months 1 week 4 days 14 hours ago) and read 14213 times:



Quoting Gordonsmall (Reply 12):
When I think of "virgin" I think of Pendolinos and Voyagers.

Signed,
The other 1% (a.k.a. MYT332)

Whilst you are correct I do wonder how you know the names given to the various trains in VT's fleet?  alert 



One Life, Live it.
User currently offlineGordonsmall From UK - Scotland, joined Jun 2001, 2100 posts, RR: 22
Reply 14, posted (5 years 11 months 1 week 4 days 14 hours ago) and read 14203 times:



Quoting Myt332 (Reply 15):
Whilst you are correct I do wonder how you know the names given to the various trains in VT's fleet?

I am quite happy to confess that I actually had to google for the names!



Statistically, people who have had the most birthdays tend to live the longest.
User currently offlineRJdxer From , joined Dec 1969, posts, RR:
Reply 15, posted (5 years 11 months 1 week 4 days 14 hours ago) and read 14193 times:



Quoting Nighthawk (Reply 11):
When iI think of "virgin" I think of 747-400s, A340-600s and Richard Branson.

Hmmm, didn't see any of those, or him, on the beach and you still kept your interest!  wink  I still remember that one with the really long brown hair playing with the volley ball. She was a beauty but I'll bet not a virgin!  laughing  The girl artist who did the pencil drawing....now there's a question mark! laughing 


User currently offlineNighthawk From UK - Scotland, joined Sep 2001, 5123 posts, RR: 34
Reply 16, posted (5 years 11 months 1 week 4 days 13 hours ago) and read 14174 times:



Quoting RJdxer (Reply 17):
Hmmm, didn't see any of those, or him, on the beach and you still kept your interest! wink I still remember that one with the really long brown hair playing with the volley ball. She was a beauty but I'll bet not a virgin! laughing The girl artist who did the pencil drawing....now there's a question mark! laughing

the drunk girl who kept falling over and letting them both hang out? The artist was cute, shame she wasnt up for having her photo taken.

Anyway enough, your making me want to book some flights. Kiev again next year?  Silly

I still stand by our decision to spend the day on the beach rather than at the aviation museum.



That'll teach you
User currently offlineHAWK21M From India, joined Jan 2001, 31660 posts, RR: 56
Reply 17, posted (5 years 11 months 1 week 4 days 12 hours ago) and read 14128 times:

Could be.....no comparism to be made  Smile
The thought of being the 1st guy.
In todays world is that easy?


regds
MEL.



Think of the brighter side!
User currently offlineRJdxer From , joined Dec 1969, posts, RR:
Reply 18, posted (5 years 11 months 1 week 4 days 12 hours ago) and read 14125 times:



Quoting Nighthawk (Reply 18):
the drunk girl who kept falling over and letting them both hang out?

No, that chick was drunk and fat, a very poor combination. I was talking about the tall thin one playing with the other group we saw both times we were there.

Quoting Nighthawk (Reply 18):
The artist was cute, shame she wasnt up for having her photo taken.

True.

Quoting Nighthawk (Reply 18):
I still stand by our decision to spend the day on the beach rather than at the aviation museum.

Agreed, I am officially retired from death marching.  talktothehand 

Quoting Nighthawk (Reply 18):
Kiev again next year?

At least for a long weekend. Then again there was Odessa, which you unfortunately missed out on.


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User currently offlineAaron747 From Japan, joined Aug 2003, 8021 posts, RR: 26
Reply 19, posted (5 years 11 months 1 week 4 days 12 hours ago) and read 14107 times:



Quoting MCOflyer (Reply 4):
you belong to him or her

My wife is not a pet or a car I hold title to, and I certainly wouldn't want to spend any serious time with a woman who felt possessive in the same way about me.



If you need someone to blame / throw a rock in the air / you'll hit someone guilty
User currently offlineRJdxer From , joined Dec 1969, posts, RR:
Reply 20, posted (5 years 11 months 1 week 4 days 12 hours ago) and read 14089 times:



Quoting Aaron747 (Reply 21):
I certainly wouldn't want to spend any serious time with a woman who felt possessive in the same way about me.

I don't know, I could be Jen Aniston's gigilo for a while.  wink 


User currently offlineDougloid From , joined Dec 1969, posts, RR:
Reply 21, posted (5 years 11 months 1 week 4 days 12 hours ago) and read 14082 times:



Quoting Blackbird (Thread starter):
Why do some men really seek virgins?

It's a damned bad job but someone has to do it, as my old crew chief used to say.


User currently offlineGkirk From UK - Scotland, joined Jun 2000, 24899 posts, RR: 56
Reply 22, posted (5 years 11 months 1 week 4 days 12 hours ago) and read 14081 times:



Quoting Gordonsmall (Reply 16):
I am quite happy to confess that I actually had to google for the names!

You could have just said that MYT332 mentions them in here every 5 minutes  Wink



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User currently offlineNighthawk From UK - Scotland, joined Sep 2001, 5123 posts, RR: 34
Reply 23, posted (5 years 11 months 1 week 4 days 11 hours ago) and read 14067 times:



Quoting RJdxer (Reply 20):
No, that chick was drunk and fat, a very poor combination. I was talking about the tall thin one playing with the other group we saw both times we were there.

i know... i just wanted to make you think about her  Silly



That'll teach you
User currently offlineSeb146 From United States of America, joined Nov 1999, 11463 posts, RR: 15
Reply 24, posted (5 years 11 months 1 week 4 days 11 hours ago) and read 14133 times:



Quoting Blackbird (Thread starter):
I'm thinking it has to do with the fact that the guy wants a girl who has no frame of reference to compare him against.

Every now and then, one of the "adult" comedy channels on XM has a comic that brings this up. Actually, he references Islamic martyrs who are promised 72 virgins for martyrdom and how he (the comic) would not see that as an incentive to die for any cause. He says something like:

"72 whiny, needy virgins. 'Do you think I'm pretty? Promise you won't tell anyone what we did. Am I prettier than virgin 61?'"

He also explains (in some detail) about some of his fantasies and so forth.

But, as a gay man, I would not want a virgin. I guess we accept our partner has been with other guys and knows what he likes and does not like and is willing to share that information.



Life in the wall is a drag.
25 Dougloid : wouldn't it be funny if the 72 virgins were all men? What's a martyr to do?
26 Seb146 : Have you seen Jeff Dunham and Achmed the Dead Terrorist?
27 Falstaff : We might get an entirely new crowd of martyrs. Everyone was like that at first. After some practice everyone gets better. if she is doing that she is
28 Seb146 : Or isn't completely a she.... Sorry. It had to be said...
29 PlymSpotter : Now she was very pretty, I'm leaving it at just pretty because I'll also wager that she was only about 15/16, although I'm a crap judge of age, so I
30 Phoenix9 : Jailbaiting are we now?
31 MadameConcorde : This one is really funny! Nowadays it is very common for some women (I suppose most would do because of religion and family) to be 'fake' virgins. The
32 Blackbird : Jpax, While oral sex isn't sex (President Clinton established this fact), anal sex is indisputably sex. Penetration is involved... Blackbird
33 MD11Engineer : Well, my girlfriend happened to be still a virgin when I met her (she was in her mid-20s, due to cultural issues in her home country, something like s
34 Phoenix9 : I had the same situation. A little care, patience & understanding....it doesn't have to be a bad experience. It was one of our best experience actual
35 Nighthawk : why wait? if theres grass on the pitch...
36 BristolFlyer : If this... ...is the definition of loss of virginity, then surely someone performing oral sex on a man counts as sex? That really is credittable. Back
37 RJdxer : I'll take that wager. Up close it was pretty obvious she was around 20 or so. Just a petite woman is all.
38 Phoenix9 : Not only that...some prefer the "tighter" fit....I don't think anyone here would like to throw a hotdog down the hallway either.
39 Cadet57 : Good for you man. It's pretty much how it went with my girlfriend and I. Waited and waited, (took a "break") came back and decided it was what we bot
40 JFK69 : The way my Rabbi in school put it "if you go to the supermarket and see someone pick up a tomato, then squeeze it and smell it and then put it back...
41 Cadet57 : Words to live by my friend, words to live by
42 Pawsleykat : I saw that as a joke once; the answer was "Because they can't stand criticism" But are you really penetrating? The mouth aye, but that doesn't count
43 N1120A : Different, yes. Good, not really. Ya know, the one of the left has one hell of a (insert Ukrainian word for butt). Yet most people go to the supermar
44 RJdxer : The really funny part is that she also has a little boy about 5 years old. I have another picture where they are standing together and he is dressed
45 Phoenix9 : That depends how you approach it. As I said earlier...with a bit of care and patience it can be pretty good.
46 Johns624 : Dupa---pronounced doo-pa.
47 Gordonsmall : Try telling that to the father of my first girlfriend! LOL He was not amused ..........
48 Nighthawk : some farmers can be rather protective of their sheep....
49 Gordonsmall : Let's leave your chequered past out of this! I was trying to be serious!
50 Nighthawk : I think you are confusing me with someone else. I did not have sexual relations with that sheep!
51 Myt332 : Now the truth comes out....
52 Gordonsmall : Wouldn't be the first time that Gavin has 'come out'.
53 Myt332 : Are we talking about Gav Junior here or his campness?
54 Gordonsmall : Please, Alex, no more! The thought of a younger and possible more annoying Gavin is too much for me to bear this side of lunchtime!
55 Nighthawk : Ill have you know Gav Junior pops out on regular occasions. And theres nothing camp about me. You however....
56 Gordonsmall : Please do not refer to your penis by name, it's so ....... working class!
57 Myt332 : I like to refer to down there as 'Steven and the twins'. Did you ever watch Eastenders?
58 Gordonsmall : Isn't that a television program shown on one of those ghastly 'free-to-air' channels?
59 Nighthawk : I'd prefer it if you didnt refer to my lower regions at all, at least not in public!
60 Myt332 : Indeed. In my wonderful region on Lancashire BBC1 Analogue broadcasts on UHF Channel 55 using horizontal polarisation with an output of 625 line PAL
61 Dougloid : Yeah. He's a hoot. This brings up an interesting point of information. Consider the case of Mohammed Atta-a curious man, to be sure. He, of course, w
62 Bok269 : Where's the "Women who smoke" thread when you need it...
63 Gordonsmall : I believe I may have once watched a program known commonly as "The 10 o'clock news" on said channel once. You of course won't have seen "The 10 o'clo
64 San747 : Wow... 38 replies before someone mentioned tightness? I guess this really is true- Of course, in my case, we both lost our virginity together, so she
65 AustinAirport : Cuz They Aint Gonna Care If Your Awful. Cuz They Aint Gonna Know Any Better. Plus Its Just Damn Sexy. Of Course My Opinions Stem From Being 15, And A
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