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User currently offlineF.pier From Italy, joined Aug 2000, 1524 posts, RR: 9
Posted (4 years 9 months 18 hours ago) and read 17463 times:

Have you ever had the "in common shower" after sports with other sex people? Did you feel embarassed?
I never had it.

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User currently offlineCaptaink From Mexico, joined May 2001, 5109 posts, RR: 12
Reply 1, posted (4 years 9 months 18 hours ago) and read 17417 times:

Having a shower with people of the opposite sex? I haven't but I imagine embarassment wouldnt be what I would feel. HAHA


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User currently offlineZentraedi From Japan, joined Jun 2007, 660 posts, RR: 0
Reply 2, posted (4 years 9 months 17 hours ago) and read 17404 times:

lol, might wanna rephrase that. Instead of "other sex people", "people of the opposite sex". The image I got was some sort sporty orgy.

Anyway, where do they have these? Which sports are we talking about? Are these professional sports? University? How old are the people using these mixed-sex showers?


User currently offlineF.pier From Italy, joined Aug 2000, 1524 posts, RR: 9
Reply 3, posted (4 years 9 months 17 hours ago) and read 17397 times:



Quoting Zentraedi (Reply 2):
Instead of "other sex people", "people of the opposite sex"

I agree, this must be better.

Depends on the sports, for example I play in a mixed volleyball team, but when we have showers, at the end of the match, all males (of both teams) take shower together and females do the same thing.


User currently offlineAGM100 From United States of America, joined Dec 2003, 5407 posts, RR: 16
Reply 4, posted (4 years 9 months 17 hours ago) and read 17380 times:

Well we had a bi/ homosexual on our high-school football team ... he used to shower with us all the time. You know I never even thought much about it back then ... he was a great guy I don't recall people giving him any trouble . He got the same number of towel stingers that all of us got from the upper class men !! ouch


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User currently offlineShyFlyer From , joined Dec 1969, posts, RR:
Reply 5, posted (4 years 9 months 17 hours ago) and read 17368 times:

If I had to take a shower with members of the opposite sex I wouldn't be embarrassed.  mischievous 

User currently offlineNIKV69 From , joined Dec 1969, posts, RR:
Reply 6, posted (4 years 9 months 17 hours ago) and read 17337 times:



Quoting AGM100 (Reply 4):
bi/ homosexual

?

Your either one of the other!  biggrin 


User currently offlineAGM100 From United States of America, joined Dec 2003, 5407 posts, RR: 16
Reply 7, posted (4 years 9 months 17 hours ago) and read 17329 times:



Quoting NIKV69 (Reply 6):
Your either one of the other!

Well I believe that he got married later on in life , not sure about the exact orientation ..



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User currently offlineDocLightning From United States of America, joined Nov 2005, 19727 posts, RR: 58
Reply 8, posted (4 years 9 months 15 hours ago) and read 17243 times:

I lived in a hippie co-op in college and we did have communal coed showers. Believe it or not, it's not as titillating as you think. You just get comfortable with it.

User currently offlineSpringbok747 From Australia, joined Nov 2004, 4387 posts, RR: 10
Reply 9, posted (4 years 9 months 15 hours ago) and read 17196 times:

All our sports facilities had different showers for males and females..so there was no way we could shower with the opposite sex. Plus they were all like private showers with curtains..so not like we were showering all together like they do in the movies or on TV.

Quoting ShyFlyer (Reply 5):
If I had to take a shower with members of the opposite sex I wouldn't be embarrassed.

 checkmark  I just never had the opportunity.



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User currently offlineACDC8 From Canada, joined Mar 2005, 7642 posts, RR: 35
Reply 10, posted (4 years 9 months 15 hours ago) and read 17170 times:

I've been in mixed saunas in Germany and had a "hard" time on a few occasions ....  Silly

Don't ever recall ever seeing a co-ed shower though.



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User currently offlineTransIsland From Bahamas, joined Mar 2004, 2046 posts, RR: 9
Reply 11, posted (4 years 9 months 14 hours ago) and read 17146 times:

I vaguely remember a squash club in Berlin (near Richard-Wagner-Platz, IIRC) from my college days where they had unisex showers. No big deal, really.


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User currently offlineMham001 From United States of America, joined Feb 2005, 3650 posts, RR: 5
Reply 12, posted (4 years 9 months 13 hours ago) and read 17064 times:

I had mixed showers at a nudist place I went with the Sierra Singles Club years ago but since everybody was naked most of the time anyway it didn't matter.
Recently at my schools showers, a community college, I've had several instances of gays getting bold. One guy seemed to always be there when I was and at least once was standing there staring with a hard on. I caught another fruity type peeking around the posts. I was not very happy about it.


User currently offlineFlyDeltaJets87 From , joined Dec 1969, posts, RR:
Reply 13, posted (4 years 9 months 13 hours ago) and read 17029 times:

The bathrooms in the dorms at Yale are co-ed. I found this out while visiting a friend up there. A bit awkward if you're not expecting it.

User currently offlineKiwiRob From New Zealand, joined Jun 2005, 7413 posts, RR: 5
Reply 14, posted (4 years 9 months 12 hours ago) and read 16971 times:



Quoting ACDC8 (Reply 10):
I've been in mixed saunas in Germany and had a "hard" time on a few occasions ....

Been there, I was in a mixed sauna in Hamburg with 3 super hot Russian girls, I stayed in as long as possible, hell of a moment, just couldn't leave until they did.

I've stayed in a couple of hostels which had mixed showers, it's not such a big deal, most of the women tend to be mingers, so not even worth a perve.


User currently offlineSeb146 From United States of America, joined Nov 1999, 11660 posts, RR: 15
Reply 15, posted (4 years 9 months 11 hours ago) and read 16910 times:



Quoting DocLightning (Reply 8):
it's not as titillating as you think. You just get comfortable with it.

Kinda like a nude beach, I would imagine. After about 10 minutes, who cares?

Quoting Mham001 (Reply 12):
Recently at my schools showers, a community college, I've had several instances of gays getting bold. One guy seemed to always be there when I was and at least once was standing there staring with a hard on. I caught another fruity type peeking around the posts. I was not very happy about it.

I used to take a step class at the community college near me in PDX. I am gay, but I was taking the step class to improve my health. Shower time was just a bonus. But, it was only ever me in the shower, unfortunatly. I don't understand how, in a mixed setting like that, people think they can get away with funny business. I look, but that's it.

Quoting KiwiRob (Reply 14):
I've stayed in a couple of hostels which had mixed showers, it's not such a big deal, most of the women tend to be mingers, so not even worth a perve.

I have stayed in hostles, too, but the showers were always separate. Mostly Asian guys but all the showers had curtains. No big deal, though. As with clothing optional beaches and locker rooms: lookie no touchie.



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User currently offlineFabo From Slovakia, joined Aug 2005, 1219 posts, RR: 1
Reply 16, posted (4 years 9 months 9 hours ago) and read 16821 times:



Quoting Seb146 (Reply 15):
No big deal, though. As with clothing optional beaches and locker rooms: lookie no touchie.

Dunno. I would most likely not feel any much comfortable with you looking (not that you would want to, but that is off-topic). Also same with the (random) girls.



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User currently offlineZkpilot From New Zealand, joined Mar 2006, 4833 posts, RR: 9
Reply 17, posted (4 years 9 months 8 hours ago) and read 16790 times:

Not quite sports, but in that movie Starship Troopers they all shower together after training.


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User currently offlineGemuser From Australia, joined Nov 2003, 5665 posts, RR: 6
Reply 18, posted (4 years 9 months 5 hours ago) and read 16641 times:



Quoting Zkpilot (Reply 17):
Not quite sports, but in that movie Starship Troopers they all shower together after training.

Yes, but in Starship Troopers (the original novel, anyway) they also slept together in the barracks, not something common today AFAIK.

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User currently offlineUs330 From United States of America, joined Aug 2000, 3871 posts, RR: 13
Reply 19, posted (4 years 8 months 4 weeks 1 day 20 hours ago) and read 16498 times:



Quoting FlyDeltaJets87 (Reply 13):
The bathrooms in the dorms at Yale are co-ed. I found this out while visiting a friend up there. A bit awkward if you're not expecting it.

It's not that the bathrooms are co-ed, it's that they are officially non-assigned.
What dorm was your friend staying in? Was it on the Old Campus or were they in one of the colleges?
When you realize that Yale doesn't officially designate certain floors belonging to certain sexes, it saves the university a ton of money by not having to switch signs depending on who is living on the floor/entryway. That said, if you get the first suite on an entryway floor, you are allowed to specify whether you want the suite you share your bathroom with to be of the same sex. (the exception to the non-assigned rule is that freshman old campus dorms are exclusively male on the first floor, and about half of those dorms have in-suite bathrooms, and there is no co-ed rooming at Yale)


User currently offlineRussianJet From Belgium, joined Jul 2007, 7704 posts, RR: 21
Reply 20, posted (4 years 8 months 4 weeks 1 day 19 hours ago) and read 16474 times:
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Quoting DocLightning (Reply 8):
I lived in a hippie co-op in college and we did have communal coed showers. Believe it or not, it's not as titillating as you think. You just get comfortable with it.

But Doc, surely the whole novelty of looking at girls in the shower is totally lost on you what with you not being heterosexual and all??? The point is, it is a rarity. For the average homosexual, I would imagine that it is not nearly as uncommon to have shared showers with the same sex as it is for heterosexuals to experience mixed-sex showers in a public setting, therefore there is a massive difference in who might be more used to what or more titilated by what.



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User currently offlineSeb146 From United States of America, joined Nov 1999, 11660 posts, RR: 15
Reply 21, posted (4 years 8 months 4 weeks 1 day 18 hours ago) and read 16461 times:



Quoting Fabo (Reply 16):
Dunno. I would most likely not feel any much comfortable with you looking (not that you would want to, but that is off-topic). Also same with the (random) girls.

Not the obvious leering. There is a standard of descency expected in public locker rooms and I try to abide by that. Sure, I peek. But, I don't go out of my way; and, there are times when I am just plain not interested in peeking.

Quoting Mham001 (Reply 18):
Quoting Seb146 (Reply 15):
Shower time was just a bonus.

This is why gays are not allowed in the military.

Do you honestly believe there are zero gays in the United States military? Besides: Guys peek. Not every guy and not all the time. But, both gays and straights will take a peek at other guys from time to time. Yes, I have seen it happen that straight guys peek at other guys. I notice women's breasts. I don't care for them or want to do anything with them, but I still take a peek. So what? Assuming you are a straight man, would you have relations with every attractive woman you see at the beach or do you not look at all?



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User currently offlineRussianJet From Belgium, joined Jul 2007, 7704 posts, RR: 21
Reply 22, posted (4 years 8 months 4 weeks 1 day 14 hours ago) and read 16288 times:
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Quoting DocLightning (Reply 28):
That's true, but the thing is that there is a lot more to it than sexual attraction. There's also the issue of societal conditioning. Regardless of who I'm attracted to, I was raised with the ethos that men and women should toilet/bathe separately.

Precisely, which in my own awkward way was what I was getting at - straight people are conditioned to shower in public places only with the sex they don't normally feel attracted to.

Quoting DocLightning (Reply 28):
But if it bugs you, then consider how women must feel when you ogle them.

Nah, I never said that.  smile 

Fair's fair - if one is going to ogle, no matter how subtly, one must also accept the fact that one can be ogled by others.  biggrin 



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User currently offlineDocLightning From United States of America, joined Nov 2005, 19727 posts, RR: 58
Reply 23, posted (4 years 8 months 4 weeks 1 day 10 hours ago) and read 16155 times:



Quoting RussianJet (Reply 22):

Precisely, which in my own awkward way was what I was getting at - straight people are conditioned to shower in public places only with the sex they don't normally feel attracted to.

Really, you're conditioned to shower/pee with your own sex.

Quoting RussianJet (Reply 20):

But Doc, surely the whole novelty of looking at girls in the shower is totally lost on you what with you not being heterosexual and all???

No, because whether I'm attracted to them or not, I was uncomfortable being naked in front of a woman just due to my social conditioning. Most men, even straight ones, are uncomfortable being naked in front of a strange woman outside of a sexual setting.

Now, there were some smoking-hot guys in that house, and I got my subtle glances in. But of course, I always try to be polite and not ogle or stare. And if I feel an erection coming on, hurry the hell up and get out.

As for me, I'm a competitive swimmer and I'm young. Of course I get ogled in the showers. I live in San Francisco. I take it as a compliment. And those of you who are getting ogled should take it as a compliment. We only ogle the hot guys (or the well-endowed ones).  Smile


User currently offlineContinental From United States of America, joined Jun 2000, 5517 posts, RR: 17
Reply 24, posted (4 years 8 months 4 weeks 1 day 9 hours ago) and read 16121 times:

I've done this once before. I had a med school interview in NY and I stayed with a student. They have co-ed dorms and I showered next to females. I didn't think twice about it probably because I was so focused on my interview which was immediately after!  Smile

25 DocLightning : What med school in NY has co-ed showers?
26 KPDX :
27 Kiwiandrew : For what it is worth I have absolutely no problem showering with women or men - I am more interested in enjoying a well deserved shower after my worko
28 Bill142 : During a recent tour through Europe, a Chateau we stayed in, in France and a shared shower facilities. Each shower was divided up so you had privacy.
29 Continental : NYU does. All of the bathrooms in the main residence building are co-ed.
30 DocLightning : G'huh? NYU's med school dorms of all places has co-ed showers? Like, you shower in a gang shower with members of both sexes? I'm sorry if I'm flabber
31 Continental : Well, the showering areas themselves do have separating walls. But the common area where one dries/changes is shared! I was also very, very surprised
32 Kiwiandrew : I guess if there was ever a profession where it is necessary to have no hangups about the human body it would be medicine - it seems a good place to
33 DocLightning : OK, so you could throw your towel over the door and dry off and cover up and do the whole thing without seeing anyone else naked in there. That makes
34 Lufthansa411 : When I went to go visit a friend at Northeastern U in Boston, they had an unofficial co-ed arrangement. The freshman dorms have both males and females
35 DocLightning : At my dorm at Stanford, the showers and bathrooms were co-ed (just on the third floor of the dorm...which is distinct from the hippie house that I li
36 Jcs17 : What's the proper protocol if she drops the soap?
37 Kiwiandrew : So serious , Doc ? Did you miss my ' ' at the end of my post ?
38 OA412 : Not seeing anyone naked? What's the point of that?
39 Fabo : Ummm.... showering?
40 StrandedInBGM : If you can consider sex a sport, then I encourage it. Consider the shower overtime. First one to score wins.
41 Vikkyvik : Not in any locker room I've ever been in. It was always "eyes above the waist" (that was, of course, for men's locker rooms). Works for me.
42 DocLightning : No, but for example, when I was a medical student we were wheeling a lady into the operating room. As we put her on the table, we noticed that she ha
43 Ncfc99 : I have never been to a nude beach or shared shower, but I'm guessing it depends on how hot the other people are as to how long it takes for 'who care
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