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When The First Lady Is A Man...  
User currently offlineCanadi>n From Canada, joined Feb 2000, 131 posts, RR: 0
Posted (2 years 5 months 6 days 4 hours ago) and read 1779 times:

So, first of all, is the term "First Lady", in reference to the President's wife, an official designation or a colloquialism?

Either way, on that future day when the President of the U.S. is a married woman or a legally-married gay man, what will their male spouse be referred to as?

"First Man"? -- nope, that's a reference to Adam
"First Lord"? -- nope, sounds too regal
"First Spouse"? -- has p.c. possibilities
"First Gentleman"?
"First Husband"?

Any other suggestions?


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User currently offlineusflyer msp From United States of America, joined May 2000, 2124 posts, RR: 0
Reply 1, posted (2 years 5 months 6 days 4 hours ago) and read 1769 times:

Quoting Canadi>n (Thread starter):
"First Gentleman"?

There have been plenty of female governors and usually the husband is referred to as the "first gentleman" of the state. I don't see why the President would be any different..


User currently offlineKen777 From United States of America, joined Mar 2004, 8266 posts, RR: 8
Reply 2, posted (2 years 5 months 6 days 4 hours ago) and read 1753 times:

If the first female President is Hilary Clinton then she will be Mrs. President and Bill will be called Mr. President - just like he is today.  

User currently offlinemal787 From Australia, joined Jul 2007, 693 posts, RR: 0
Reply 3, posted (2 years 5 months 6 days 2 hours ago) and read 1697 times:
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We have that situation here in Australia at the moment. A female Prime Minister and her partner who we call the first "bloke". I personnally believe she has bigger balls than him the way she has screwed the country, but thats off topic .

If it happens the first Gentleman seem approriate.
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User currently offlinePanHAM From Germany, joined May 2005, 9368 posts, RR: 29
Reply 4, posted (2 years 5 months 5 days 22 hours ago) and read 1602 times:

Mrs. Merkel is the top executive but not No. 1 in the hirarchy. Still, de facto she is. Her husband has to be carried in chains to an official reception. Seldom participating in anything. He is a Professor and just minding his business. The press leaves him alone and I never heard or read about him referred as first husband or anything.

For the figure head President we have it would be something different., His wife usually has to take responsibilities. I guess the next president could be a woman, we will find out how her hubby does as president of the "Mothers Convalescense Institution".



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User currently offlineQuokkas From , joined Dec 1969, posts, RR:
Reply 5, posted (2 years 5 months 5 days 22 hours ago) and read 1582 times:

Quoting mal787 (Reply 3):

We have that situation here in Australia at the moment.

More pertinently, we have a female Governor-General who in the order of precedence outranks any PM. I thought that it was always wrong to call Mr Howard's wife the First Lady when Howard was PM. She was no such thing. If any one could be styled First Lady it would be the wife of a G-G, not that of a PM, though there is no provision in the Constitution for such a role, style or title.


User currently offlineJJJ From Spain, joined May 2006, 1831 posts, RR: 1
Reply 6, posted (2 years 5 months 5 days 22 hours ago) and read 1572 times:

Quoting PanHAM (Reply 5):
The press leaves him alone and I never heard or read about him referred as first husband or anything.

Here it depends. The wife of previous president Rodriguez Zapatero was off the press radar and seldom appeared in public. It was completely different for the president before him, Mrs. Botella (Aznar's wife) who did not hide she had her own political aspirations (currently she's the mayor of Madrid).

Rajoy's wife seems to keep a low profile as well, though the issue of Rajoy's marriage would need a full thread by itself 


User currently offlineoldeuropean From Germany, joined May 2005, 2091 posts, RR: 4
Reply 7, posted (2 years 5 months 5 days 21 hours ago) and read 1533 times:

Quoting PanHAM (Reply 5):
The press leaves him alone and I never heard or read about him referred as first husband or anything.

Well, there were some articles in the German media and at international meetings he take the part of a "first husband", spending the time and having program with the wifes of foreign presidents.

http://www.focus.de/politik/deutschl...n-der-prinzenrolle_aid_390826.html

http://www.welt.de/welt_print/articl...0001/Herr-Sauer-laesst-bitten.html

[Edited 2012-04-12 00:54:04]

[Edited 2012-04-12 00:55:45]


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User currently offlinePanHAM From Germany, joined May 2005, 9368 posts, RR: 29
Reply 8, posted (2 years 5 months 5 days 19 hours ago) and read 1497 times:

Quoting oldeuropean (Reply 8):
spending the time and having program with the wifes of foreign presidents.

yes, but very rare occasions, the yreally have to drag him to these.

Interesting with our new President who is still married to his first wife, abandoned a girl friend in between and now lives with a girl friend who also moved into the official residence. . So, onm future invitations it will read:

The Presdent oif The Federal Republic of Germany, Mr., ..... and Mrs........ take the honor to invite......

I think it is OK for a modern country.



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User currently offlineoldeuropean From Germany, joined May 2005, 2091 posts, RR: 4
Reply 9, posted (2 years 5 months 5 days 16 hours ago) and read 1439 times:

Quoting PanHAM (Reply 9):
I think it is OK for a modern country.

Yep, together with a woman as chancellor, a disabled minister of finance in a wheelchair, a minister of economics with Vietnamese origin and some declared gay politicans like the foreign secretary or the mayor of Berlin. 



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User currently offlinePanHAM From Germany, joined May 2005, 9368 posts, RR: 29
Reply 10, posted (2 years 5 months 5 days 16 hours ago) and read 1426 times:

Quoting oldeuropean (Reply 10):
Yep, together with a woman as chancellor, a disabled minister of finance in a wheelchair, a minister of economics with Vietnamese origin and some declared gay politicans like the foreign secretary or the mayor of Berlin.

....and that is a conservative Government !!!!!   and you forgot two single women plus a mother of seven.



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User currently offlineKiwiRob From New Zealand, joined Jun 2005, 7360 posts, RR: 5
Reply 11, posted (2 years 5 months 5 days 15 hours ago) and read 1409 times:

In NZ when aunty Helen was PM her husband was the First Beard on account of her being a lesbian.

User currently offlineronglimeng From Canada, joined Oct 2006, 625 posts, RR: 0
Reply 12, posted (2 years 5 months 5 days 15 hours ago) and read 1400 times:

Why do Americans (or anybody else for that matter) need to have a special designation for the spouse of an elected official ?

For myself, I'd like to see them keep a faily low profile - after all, nobody elected them.

In Canada, the wife of the Prime Minister, Mrs. Harper, stays out of the limelight, in spite of perhaps having a more congenial personality than her husband.

Our previous two Governors-General were women. Both had dildos for husbands. I think every Canadian appreciated that the less was seen of them the better.


User currently offlineSuperfly From Thailand, joined May 2000, 39873 posts, RR: 74
Reply 13, posted (2 years 5 months 5 days 12 hours ago) and read 1324 times:

Quoting ronglimeng (Reply 13):
For myself, I'd like to see them keep a faily low profile - after all, nobody elected them.

  
Agreed!
In this day & age, politicians have no privacy and that scares away a lot of potentially great leaders.



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User currently offlinefalstaff From United States of America, joined Jun 2006, 6095 posts, RR: 28
Reply 14, posted (2 years 5 months 5 days 11 hours ago) and read 1300 times:
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Quoting usflyer msp (Reply 1):
There have been plenty of female governors and usually the husband is referred to as the "first gentleman" of the state. I don't see why the President would be any different..

When Michigan had a woman governor, Jennifer Granholm, her husband was commonly refered to as the 1st Gentleman.



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User currently online4holer From United States of America, joined Feb 2002, 3017 posts, RR: 9
Reply 15, posted (2 years 5 months 5 days 9 hours ago) and read 1240 times:

Quoting mal787 (Reply 3):
who we call the first "bloke".

I LOVE it!! I mean for here in the States. It would be perfect! Beats the hell outta First Dude and First Fella!



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User currently offlineAF1624 From France, joined Jul 2006, 659 posts, RR: 0
Reply 16, posted (2 years 5 months 5 days 9 hours ago) and read 1237 times:

Quoting ronglimeng (Reply 12):
For myself, I'd like to see them keep a faily low profile - after all, nobody elected them.

While factually this is true, practically, it isn't so much so.

History has shown that Presidents' wives have always played a big part on their persona as it has been seen by the general public.

J.F.K wouldn't have been the same without Jacqueline Kennedy.

And what about Nancy Reagan ? Laura Bush ? Michelle Obama ? Hilary Clinton ?

They have all played a part in that.

The same goes for the much lesser know French president spouses : Bernadette Chirac, for example, has enjoyed great popularity in France at times. Carla Bruni too.

Wives of presidents can go from trophee wives to politically-active wives - but they always play a part in their husband's political career.

My opinion is that willingly or not, we all elect not only a president, but a presidential couple.



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User currently offlineSuperfly From Thailand, joined May 2000, 39873 posts, RR: 74
Reply 17, posted (2 years 5 months 5 days 8 hours ago) and read 1235 times:

Can we elect a bachelor President again?


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User currently offlinetugger From United States of America, joined Apr 2006, 5588 posts, RR: 8
Reply 18, posted (2 years 5 months 5 days 8 hours ago) and read 1223 times:

Quoting Canadi>n (Thread starter):
When The First Lady Is A Man...

How about "First Queen"? I guess you could also use "First Drag Queen".... Wait....aren't we talking about the first transgender couple being in office?

  

Tugg



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User currently offlineAesma From France, joined Nov 2009, 6648 posts, RR: 11
Reply 19, posted (2 years 5 months 5 days 1 hour ago) and read 1151 times:

What if they're not married ? Our possible next president (in a month) isn't married. He has four kids with the 2007 presidential candidate, and lives with a political journalist, but marriage isn't his thing, apparently. Since I don't know when, wives of presidents have been called "première dame", in a blatant imitation of the US usage, but to me it's more a tabloid thing that anything else, and you don't see them prominently during political campaigns. Some have played some charitable role when their husband was in power.


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User currently offlinefalstaff From United States of America, joined Jun 2006, 6095 posts, RR: 28
Reply 20, posted (2 years 5 months 4 days 15 hours ago) and read 1077 times:
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Quoting Superfly (Reply 17):
Can we elect a bachelor President again?

James Buchanan was the only president who never got married, he was also the only president from Pennsylvania.

There were six presidents who were unmarried at the time they entered office. Grover Cleveland married while in office, and Thomas Jefferson, Andrew Jackson, Martin Van Buren and Chester Arthur were widowers when they entered office and never remarried.



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User currently offlineeinsteinboricua From Puerto Rico, joined Apr 2010, 3092 posts, RR: 8
Reply 21, posted (2 years 5 months 4 days 15 hours ago) and read 1069 times:

If you guys think English is bad when naming the first gentleman, Spanish is just as bad. In PR, the first (and so far only) woman governor was elected without being married (she had divorced) so her daughter filled the role of First Lady (an action which was well received among us). However, the governor married during her term and her husband was named all of these:
1. Primer Damo
2. Primer Caballero
3. Primer Hombre
4. Primer Señor

and yet, none of the titles clicked. Basically all of them said the same thing: First Man, First Gentleman...

Quoting tugger (Reply 18):
How about "First Queen"? I guess you could also use "First Drag Queen".... Wait....aren't we talking about the first transgender couple being in office?

            Took me a couple of seconds before I realized the thread of the title! Good one!



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User currently onlineDevilfish From Philippines, joined Jan 2006, 4831 posts, RR: 1
Reply 22, posted (2 years 5 months 4 days 12 hours ago) and read 1016 times:

It was not a concern for RP's first female president as she was a widow. However, the immediate past administration had some image issues regarding the second part of the title with him often in the headlines about one deal or another.

Quoting AF1624 (Reply 16):
History has shown that Presidents' wives have always played a big part on their persona as it has been seen by the general public.

Many have always wondered if Macoy would have been different had he not Madam as his wife.

Quoting Superfly (Reply 17):
Can we elect a bachelor President again?

We have one right now.

[Edited 2012-04-13 09:58:16]


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User currently offlineAesma From France, joined Nov 2009, 6648 posts, RR: 11
Reply 23, posted (2 years 5 months 4 days ago) and read 931 times:

That last question is interesting. We learned after our last presidential election that both main contenders were pretending to have a good and stable relationship going on, when in fact both were in the middle of a separation/divorce.

So I guess they thought being single would handicap them in the race (well, for Sarkozy it seems that he really thought he could keep his wife if he got elected).



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