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Hitting On Married Women  
User currently offline737doctor From United States of America, joined Mar 2001, 1332 posts, RR: 35
Posted (13 years 6 months 2 weeks 14 hours ago) and read 8102 times:

My wife just got back from the grocery store and while she was there, a guy in line hit on her. It doesn't make me jealous or anything; I know that my wife is beautiful and I expect her to get attention from other men. But the first clue that she was married should have been the giant rock on her finger. So he was either kinda dense and non-observant or he just didn't care. I know that there are some guys out there that won't let a wedding ring stop them from flirting with a pretty woman.

So here's my question:

When you see an attractive woman, do you first look for a wedding ring or do you not care?


Patrick Bateman is my hero.
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User currently offlineLortab 7.5mg From United States of America, joined Nov 2001, 805 posts, RR: 10
Reply 1, posted (13 years 6 months 2 weeks 14 hours ago) and read 8091 times:

Don't know why but I always do.

User currently offlineSophiemaltese From United States of America, joined Feb 2001, 2064 posts, RR: 3
Reply 2, posted (13 years 6 months 2 weeks 14 hours ago) and read 8094 times:

Well, sometimes I act more flirty around guys I know I can't have because I'm just being silly. Perhaps the guy wasn't serious. I don't know specifically what he said.

User currently offlineLortab 7.5mg From United States of America, joined Nov 2001, 805 posts, RR: 10
Reply 3, posted (13 years 6 months 2 weeks 14 hours ago) and read 8088 times:

Hey Sophie, are you wearing one?  Big grin

User currently offlineJetService From United States of America, joined Feb 2000, 4798 posts, RR: 10
Reply 4, posted (13 years 6 months 2 weeks 13 hours ago) and read 8060 times:

I'd never hit on a married woman...oh, wait...I'M married! I guess I wouldn't hit on any woman. DOH!

"Shaddap you!"
User currently offlineLeezyjet From United Kingdom, joined Oct 2001, 4049 posts, RR: 52
Reply 5, posted (13 years 6 months 2 weeks 12 hours ago) and read 8050 times:

I look sometimes, but wouldn't let it get in the way.

People that do get in that situation always seem to put the blame on the other party, as they are to blind to see the wrong doing in their loved one cheating on them, and put all the blame on the other person, when in actual fact it's more the married person that's in the wrong, but I guess it's just easier to blame the other person.

Personally, I don't agree with marriage anyway, I mean why buy a book, when you can borrow it from the library ???.


"She Rolls, 45 knots, 90, 135, nose comes up to 20 degrees, she's airborne - She flies, Concorde Flies"
User currently offlineJessman From United States of America, joined Jul 2001, 1506 posts, RR: 7
Reply 6, posted (13 years 6 months 2 weeks 11 hours ago) and read 8032 times:

I always look; I know it's not a good idea to hit on married women. God only knows what homocidal neanderthal she has at home.

User currently offlineNormalSpeed From , joined Dec 1969, posts, RR:
Reply 7, posted (13 years 6 months 2 weeks 11 hours ago) and read 8033 times:

Yes, I have, by mistake. I've done that a couple times. And when I find out that she's married, I'm usually beside myself with embarrasment, and hoping that the husband isn't going to hunt me down or something.

I'd never hit on a married woman on purpose though. I have way to much respect for marriage itself.


User currently offlinePROSA From United States of America, joined Oct 2001, 5644 posts, RR: 4
Reply 8, posted (13 years 6 months 2 weeks 10 hours ago) and read 8016 times:

Men may flirt with married women but rarely go any further. According to some statistics I read a couple of years ago, the great majority of extramarital affairs, something like 75%, involve married men and single women. Almost all of the rest, but only about one-quarter of all affairs, involve men and women both married to other people. Affairs involving single men and married women are as scarce as hen's teeth.

"Let me think about it" = the coward's way of saying "no"
User currently offlineL-188 From United States of America, joined Jul 1999, 30264 posts, RR: 57
Reply 9, posted (13 years 6 months 2 weeks 7 hours ago) and read 7987 times:

It goes against my sense of ethics.

User currently offlineAirlinelover From United States of America, joined Jun 2001, 5580 posts, RR: 20
Reply 10, posted (13 years 6 months 2 weeks 5 hours ago) and read 7967 times:

There's an old saying..

"Wise Man Say: Just because you've already ordered doesn't mean you can't
look at the menu."

Some women wear rocks (fake ones) to make it LOOK like they are taken, when in fact, they just don't want you to hit on them..

and as for me, I try to look for a rock, but only when I can see her hands  Smile


Lets do some sexy math. We add you, subtract your clothes, divide your legs and multiply
User currently offlineWe're Nuts From United States of America, joined Jun 2000, 5722 posts, RR: 17
Reply 11, posted (13 years 6 months 2 weeks 4 hours ago) and read 7957 times:

Matt D will take any guy's big rock, married or not.  Sad


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User currently offlineSaintsman From United Kingdom, joined Mar 2002, 2065 posts, RR: 2
Reply 12, posted (13 years 6 months 2 weeks 4 hours ago) and read 7944 times:

There's a school of thought that says married women are often an easy target. After a few years of marriage things can get a bit stale and routine. Wives with children spend all their time looking after them and husbands are spending all their time trying to earn a living. What happens is they tend to neglect each other, albeit for the best of reason, and whilst they still love each other loose their spark. So, along comes a good looking young man and he hits on the wife. This hasn't happened for a long time so she is very flattered but wouldn't dream of taking it anywhere. Over a few weeks this carries on and slowly she gets tempted. The guy's not looking for any commitment or complications, he's still making her feel like a woman again and so......... It happens more than you think but they won't say anything because they still love their husbands and children and they regain their senses realising what they stand to lose. So it usually only lasts a couple of weeks and usually no great harm is done.

For you single guys, supermarkets are a good place to try. Don't bother with my wife though because I'm wise to it and always go shopping with her!

User currently offlineAerorobnz From Rwanda, joined Feb 2001, 8082 posts, RR: 16
Reply 13, posted (13 years 6 months 2 weeks 4 hours ago) and read 7941 times:

I hit on chicks if I like them, whether or not they are taken is a minor issue, if you are up to the task you'll get her and if you aren't well what does it matter, flirting is fun.

User currently offlineSuperfly From Thailand, joined May 2000, 40298 posts, RR: 73
Reply 14, posted (13 years 6 months 2 weeks 3 hours ago) and read 7940 times:

I usually look at a woman's rear-end before anything else.  Big grin

I would never ‘intentionally’ go after a married woman but did by accident.
Years ago I was seeing a lady who worked near me. She was really into me and everything.
We had sex once and when we were cuddling I finally noticed the big ring on her finger.
I was shocked and somewhat pissed!
I felt as if I was used as some sort of piece of meat.

I'll never forget her response:
"What he doesn’t know will not hurt him."

She wanted to continue the affair and the sex was great and all but it really bothered me knowing that I slept with a married woman. Her husband made 10 times the amount of money I make and she still wanted me.

She was really hot, nice rear, nice face, great shape and had the sexiest Cajun accent.

I've actually had several married women hit on me and want to have a thing on the side with me. It can really be challenging especially when they are beautiful.

It has made me EXTREMLY cautious about marriage.

Bring back the Concorde
User currently offlineWn700driver From , joined Dec 1969, posts, RR:
Reply 15, posted (13 years 6 months 1 week 6 days 22 hours ago) and read 7901 times:

One thing I can say is NEVER hit on the wife of an american police officer. If there is one group of people who can kill you and get away with it no questions asked...

As for the rights & wrongs of it, I do agree that anyone can make an honest mistake (though the credibility of that can be somewhat dubious at times), it is basically in the domain of loser asshole to make a habit of it. I personally have many friends who do this regularly (one even has an ongoing affair with a woman who uses her husbands money to buy him things & pay for expensive holidays), & though I do consider them good friends, no future wife of mine will ever know of their existance, & hopefully vise versa, lol.

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