EGFF From UK - Wales, joined Sep 2001, 2201 posts, RR: 12 Posted (11 years 8 months 2 weeks 6 days 5 hours ago) and read 18727 times:
Thought i'd come here and talk about this as it's almost midnight and i can't talk to any of my friends....
When i go to work i catch the bus 5 mins down the road from me, there is a girl there everyday, now when i started catching the bus i knew that i had seen her before but couldn't remember where!
More recently she has started talking to me and oneday asked me to help her with her phone cover, so i did and the next day she gave me her number on a piece of paper, i very stupidly gave her mine because i felt sorry for her but thought she'd forget about it and not ring/text me....
Anyway, a few days later she asks me what im doing after work and when i tell her nothing she asks me if i want to go for a walk with her, and me being me i dont like to be nasty i said yes.
Then back a few days ago she asked to come and see what my house was like, she begged to come see it ... so i showed her and she went and at this point i knew something was wrong!
Yesterday when i was at LHR she rang me, i talked for abit but said i have to go but she rang back later today and i didnt answer, i turned my phone off but when i turned it back on a few moments ago i had 3 messages, they said :-
"I am laura stop thinking that you don't know me because you do, i am from constable drive why are you not answering the phone to me what have i done to you? right on friday day time i will go to your house and send you a letter in your door to say why are you like this i thought we were friends and i really like you more than a friend but i am to shy to say but it looks like you dont want to know me any more so i will have to forget you forever bye"
It's starting to really freak me out now, what do i do?
Shawn Patrick From United States of America, joined Jan 2000, 2608 posts, RR: 17
Reply 6, posted (11 years 8 months 2 weeks 6 days 4 hours ago) and read 18674 times:
She's one of those girls who latch on... she want's somebody to love and be loved by because she doesn't get much love elsewhere... what's her family situation? Probably a broken home. It's real easy to fall into the trap by feeling sorry for her and being with her. But don't do it. Listen to your intuitions - she's bad news. Ignore her, and she'll get the clue sooner or later, and begin searching for another victim.
I know it sounds harsh, but take it from me. My brother got involved with a chick like that, and bad shit happened ever since (he hasn't been able to get rid of her either)...
BR715-A1-30 From , joined Dec 1969, posts, RR:
Reply 10, posted (11 years 8 months 2 weeks 6 days 3 hours ago) and read 18638 times:
I have a girlfriend so I am not looking for anyone else
I have been going out with the same girl for 5 years now 6 in April 2003.
Sometime last year this other girl who lives in Long Beach started doing what is being described on this board, and she wouldn't get the hint that I already had a girlfriend. I finally changed my number, and my email. (Luckily she didn't know where I lived) but before that she kept calling and emailing me. I could not get rid of her so I changed my number and email and I haven't heard from her since. So try these methods. They might work. (BTW -- I am still happily with my girlfriend)
BWIrwy4 From United States of America, joined Nov 2001, 940 posts, RR: 1
Reply 12, posted (11 years 8 months 2 weeks 6 days 2 hours ago) and read 18621 times:
Shaun, I've had this same problem several times before. Just trying to break it off isn't going to work. Then, she'll think that you dumped her, and most likely she'll try to win you back. You're going to have to be nasty about this. In my experience, being nice doesn't do the job. The stalker types never seem to get the hint. You're going to have to make her hate you. Be mean, be a son of a bitch. Do whatever it takes. (Well, don't cross certain legal lines) Eventually, she will hate you, and then you'll be rid of her forever. The best part is, she'll look at it from the perspective that she was the one that broke it off, so she won't be back. It works. Trust me. Good luck.
Gocaps16 From Japan, joined Jan 2000, 4338 posts, RR: 21
Reply 19, posted (11 years 8 months 2 weeks 6 days ago) and read 18567 times:
I had a phone number where you can give it to a girl that you don't like...well, if she calls it, a recorded message will come and tell her that you've been rejected and got a false telephone number. It's pretty funny