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Can Two People F*** Just For Fun?  
User currently offlineTbar220 From United States of America, joined Feb 2000, 7013 posts, RR: 26
Posted (11 years 2 months 2 weeks 5 days 3 hours ago) and read 2365 times:

Well, can they? And can they expect it to mean nothing? What do you all think?


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User currently offlineJaysit From , joined Dec 1969, posts, RR:
Reply 1, posted (11 years 2 months 2 weeks 5 days 3 hours ago) and read 2356 times:

Yes. Sex is sex, and love is love. And when they meet its wonderful. But when they don't it can still be pretty damn good.

User currently offlineDesertJets From United States of America, joined Feb 2000, 7773 posts, RR: 16
Reply 2, posted (11 years 2 months 2 weeks 5 days 3 hours ago) and read 2347 times:

I will go on the premise that this is a real question. And the answer is yes. Plus it happens all the time.














And if you listen VERY carefully you can hear a couple screwing just for fun.  Smile/happy/getting dizzy



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User currently offlinePPGMD From United States of America, joined Sep 2001, 2453 posts, RR: 0
Reply 3, posted (11 years 2 months 2 weeks 5 days 2 hours ago) and read 2331 times:

To me, No. But there are some that see things as Jaysit.


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User currently offlinePacificjourney From New Zealand, joined Jul 2001, 2732 posts, RR: 8
Reply 4, posted (11 years 2 months 2 weeks 5 days 2 hours ago) and read 2327 times:

Certainly they can shag for fun and I must declare myself to be a fan. That said this whole idea of sex for sexs' sake is totally over-rated IMHO.


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User currently offlineJwenting From Netherlands, joined Apr 2001, 10213 posts, RR: 18
Reply 5, posted (11 years 2 months 2 weeks 5 days 2 hours ago) and read 2325 times:

Seeing how often it seems to happen, the answer must be yes.
But to me I don't consider it to be the way things should be.



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User currently offlineIMissPiedmont From United States of America, joined May 2001, 6287 posts, RR: 34
Reply 6, posted (11 years 2 months 2 weeks 5 days 2 hours ago) and read 2321 times:

That's quite a question indeed.

Yes, two people can have sex just for fun. That being said, humans are a rather complex species and what is good for one may not be good for the next. Add to this that we change readily over the years and you might see that things become very complicated.

For instance, 25 years ago I was able to have sex with no questions asked. Today, If I don't love the woman she will never see me naked. I'm still, naively, waiting for the day when I know she loves me also before the naked part.

BTW. Does your question have anything to do with another useless TV show that I heard about today?



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User currently offlineTbar220 From United States of America, joined Feb 2000, 7013 posts, RR: 26
Reply 7, posted (11 years 2 months 2 weeks 5 days 2 hours ago) and read 2315 times:

Ok, let me throw this into the twist. Can two people who used to be in a close relationship f*** and tell themselves that its just for fun?

Piedmont,

No TV show involved, thank God.



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User currently offlineDesertJets From United States of America, joined Feb 2000, 7773 posts, RR: 16
Reply 8, posted (11 years 2 months 2 weeks 5 days 2 hours ago) and read 2313 times:

To answer the new question... yes and no.

Either way it is bad times should such a situation occur.



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User currently offlineMx5_boy From , joined Dec 1969, posts, RR:
Reply 9, posted (11 years 2 months 2 weeks 5 days 2 hours ago) and read 2309 times:

The answer is yes.

I know lots of people who have f*^% buddies who are either just friends or are former partners.

Strange, but that is how the world works.

mb  Big grin


User currently offlineIMissPiedmont From United States of America, joined May 2001, 6287 posts, RR: 34
Reply 10, posted (11 years 2 months 2 weeks 5 days 1 hour ago) and read 2301 times:

Yea Tbar220, two people can have sex with easch other with no guilt and no strings if they choose. I am old though and the only way I'd be having sex with an ex is.......Not a chance is God's green earth!

She's an ex for a reason. I love all of them but I want none back.

But I have no problem with people that will take another back, emotionally or physically. Not my life or my choice.

I just, at my age, believe that humans are more akin to wolves than dogs. Our nature is to take a mate for life.

I've quite truly been awake too long and feel that, perhaps. I make little sense but I hopr that perhaps I've said something that makes sense.



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User currently offlineHartsfieldboy From United States of America, joined Sep 2001, 552 posts, RR: 1
Reply 11, posted (11 years 2 months 2 weeks 5 days 1 hour ago) and read 2302 times:

Yes, I have a girl that I see once in a while. We are good friends and she is cool as hell, but we go at it occasionally and know that we don't want to be girlfriend/boyfriend.

User currently offlineTbar220 From United States of America, joined Feb 2000, 7013 posts, RR: 26
Reply 12, posted (11 years 2 months 2 weeks 5 days 1 hour ago) and read 2298 times:

Call me naive, but is it that easy to do? If you used to be in love with somebody, how can you suddenly get in the sack with them and pretend its nothing?


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User currently offlineHartsfieldboy From United States of America, joined Sep 2001, 552 posts, RR: 1
Reply 13, posted (11 years 2 months 2 weeks 5 days 1 hour ago) and read 2295 times:

Tbar220: I guess a couple of things have to happen:

-Both are physically attracted to each other
-Both love each other as friends and they don't want to ruin that friendship by becoming emotionally attached to each other later have it fall apart

At least I guess that's how I got into this.


User currently offlineMxCtrlr From United States of America, joined Nov 2001, 2485 posts, RR: 35
Reply 14, posted (11 years 2 months 2 weeks 5 days 1 hour ago) and read 2282 times:

There are only two species of mammals that have sex for enjoyment - humans and dolphins - so the answer to your question is HELL YES!

Do you know what f**king is? It's what a man does to a woman, while a woman is "making love" that man!  Laugh out loud

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User currently offlineL-188 From United States of America, joined Jul 1999, 29792 posts, RR: 58
Reply 15, posted (11 years 2 months 2 weeks 5 days 1 hour ago) and read 2270 times:

It is for Procreation........................ Not Recreation........









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User currently offlineMirrodie From United States of America, joined Apr 2000, 7443 posts, RR: 62
Reply 16, posted (11 years 2 months 2 weeks 4 days 19 hours ago) and read 2200 times:
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Yes, it happened quite a lot in college.

I had a few friends like that. 4 to be exact.

Needless to say, once another man enters their life for a long term commitment, ANY friendship that was once there will dissolve in its entirety.


Honestly, it was fun back then, but it gets old very quick and you end up really wanting more than just the physical aspect.




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User currently offlineStretch 8 From United States of America, joined May 1999, 2568 posts, RR: 16
Reply 17, posted (11 years 2 months 2 weeks 4 days 19 hours ago) and read 2191 times:

Mirrodie: " . . . quite a lot in college . . ." You stud! Make sure you fiancee has all the details!

As for the fun of it, sure, in theory. But let's face it, we are talking about an intimate situation, where people really let down their guard (not to mention shorts). You accept vulnerability in exchange for a few intense seconds of shangri-la.



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User currently offlineCedarjet From United Kingdom, joined May 1999, 8086 posts, RR: 54
Reply 18, posted (11 years 2 months 2 weeks 4 days 19 hours ago) and read 2190 times:

Of course people can shag for fun. Most people have, as has been said above, fuck buddies.

On the other hand, Sex With The Ex is almost always a terrible terrible idea - I did it once and never again. Emotionally it was probably the worst self-inflicted thing I've done.

L-188, very funny. Good one.



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User currently offlineBen From Switzerland, joined Aug 1999, 1391 posts, RR: 50
Reply 19, posted (11 years 2 months 2 weeks 4 days 19 hours ago) and read 2183 times:


Yes it does happen and yes, it's loads of fun!

Got quite a few 'buddies' like that... but Im still young, maybe I will see it a different way when I'm a bit older, as some of you have written above.

I dont see any problem with 2 (or 3 or more) people who are over the age of consent, being safe(!) and mature just having a good ol' time for the sake of it.

You're only young once.


User currently offlineAirways1 From United Kingdom, joined Jul 1999, 560 posts, RR: 0
Reply 20, posted (11 years 2 months 2 weeks 4 days 19 hours ago) and read 2171 times:

I don't think this is a matter of right or wrong, or the way it should or shouldn't be. Simply, if two people want to, and can, then the question is answered - YES!

I think there are too many social rules which people tend to blindly follow and live by (religion, for one). Whilst it may be an advantage for societly as a whole that people who can't think for themselves are guided by these blanket rules, on a personal level, many people are limited for no good reason. I have only one rule I live by - if it doesn't effect anyone else in an adverse way, then do it!

airways1


User currently offlineBen From Switzerland, joined Aug 1999, 1391 posts, RR: 50
Reply 21, posted (11 years 2 months 2 weeks 4 days 19 hours ago) and read 2168 times:

You accept vulnerability in exchange for a few intense seconds of shangri-la.

Sorry to hear it... try thinking of the nine-times-table.. and when you have learned that, try extending the 12-times beyond 144. Works for me.

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User currently offlineThom@s From Norway, joined Oct 2000, 11953 posts, RR: 46
Reply 22, posted (11 years 2 months 2 weeks 4 days 18 hours ago) and read 2161 times:

Oh, you meant sex? I thought F*** meant Fire, as in giving employees the boot. ---> Sacking!!

Thom@s



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User currently offlineAC320 From , joined Dec 1969, posts, RR:
Reply 23, posted (11 years 2 months 2 weeks 4 days 18 hours ago) and read 2144 times:

Mirrodie's my new hero!

User currently offlineSebolino From France, joined May 2001, 3681 posts, RR: 4
Reply 24, posted (11 years 2 months 2 weeks 4 days 17 hours ago) and read 2130 times:

Answer to the question:

Of course they can, why not ? I've done it a couple of times.
There are some people that see each other regularly just for sex (they are sex friends).


25 Hepkat : Yes, it can and does happen, however infrequently. It requires a cessation of all expectations and a clear separation between sex and love. Contrary t
26 Ts-ior : I agree with L-188 when he said that it is for procreation and not for recreation. Of course having a sexual relation is something that brings a cert
27 Arsenal@LHR : Me and Matt D do it all the time. Signed KROC
28 777236ER : Well well, Mirrodie's dark side comes out! Me and Matt D do it all the time. Signed KROC Can't argue with the man.
29 Post contains images Arsenal@LHR : But i join in the action too. Signed 777236ER
30 Post contains images EmiratesA345 : LOL What a topic. EmiratesA345
31 Matt D : My experience has been that anyone that badmouths casual "fun" encounters are usually people that, for whatever reason (shy, ugly, whatever) are unabl
32 Post contains images EmiratesA345 : Matt D, I find the exact opposite. I know plenty of very good looking girls who would never participate in such an activity. First of all, if you are
33 AA61hvy : I think people can have sex for fun, but there are ALWAYS emotions involved. I am guessing more than half of the people here can not relate to this to
34 Matt D : I find the exact opposite. I know plenty of very good looking girls who would never participate in such an activity. That may be true with who you men
35 Post contains images Tbar220 : If it was with an ex, I dont think I could bring myself to do that. Although its known that it is very hard for a guy to reject sex But I understand t
36 Sebolino : It is for Procreation........................ Not Recreation........ Sure, you're the one to tell me what to do with my ***** (censored to be sure to
37 Post contains images Vaporlock : From a females point of view.....I can understand why it "could" and "could not" work. I believe and have known lots of male friends who took their fr
38 Ben : Thanks everyone for your contributions.... For and against, it's good to see everyone's point of view. I'm reading this thread with interest, and repl
39 Post contains images Mirrodie : -777236ER and AC 320, you guys rock! -Ben, you go boy! (BTW, email me when you get the video) OK, true story which, at the end, ties into tbar's post.
40 Post contains images AWspicious : He then says, and I QUOTE, "Mirrodie, don't worry. Any chick whose had her mouth on your D**Kis not one that I'm gonna marry." HA HA! Isn't it funny -
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