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How To Redeam (spelling?) Myself With A Girl?  
User currently offlineKLM672 From United States of America, joined Oct 1999, 2418 posts, RR: 3
Posted (10 years 10 months 2 weeks 1 day 17 hours ago) and read 1156 times:

OK, I had a friend, Luke ask a girl named Jenny if she wanted to go out for ice cream some day with me. I've never met this girl, just passed her in the halls, but everbody knows everybody at RHS (high school). So she says no and I get home and I find that she is online. I added her last night because i talk to Luke all the time online and he gave me her username on yahoo messenget. So I ask her "you don't want to go out for ice cream with me?" she says "I don't think so, sorry". So we get to talking a bit and I tell her that i like planes, and she says that she loves flying and I told her I know a lot about planes. She says she knows some airlines and have been on about 30 flights. Now that is so cool, finally I found someone that likes planes, but she already said "no" on the ice cream date. How do i sorta redeam myself, because she is good looking into sports....and likes planes!

[Edited 2003-06-10 22:52:35]

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User currently offlineBoeing4ever From , joined Dec 1969, posts, RR:
Reply 1, posted (10 years 10 months 2 weeks 1 day 17 hours ago) and read 1145 times:

If she tells you that her parents won't let her date till she's 18, don't believe her. Trust me, I know from experience.

B4e-Forever New Frontiers


User currently offlineKLM672 From United States of America, joined Oct 1999, 2418 posts, RR: 3
Reply 2, posted (10 years 10 months 2 weeks 1 day 17 hours ago) and read 1142 times:

All she said was simply "No I don't think so" that was BEFORE I knew she liked (kinda) planes.

User currently offline777YYC From Canada, joined May 2000, 744 posts, RR: 7
Reply 3, posted (10 years 10 months 2 weeks 1 day 17 hours ago) and read 1132 times:

Man, you really have to do your own dirty work...  Big grin Not the friend-ask-girl-out-for-you routine.

User currently offlineDesertJets From United States of America, joined Feb 2000, 7737 posts, RR: 16
Reply 4, posted (10 years 10 months 2 weeks 1 day 17 hours ago) and read 1131 times:

Its redeem.

anyways, keep talking to her. Maybe go out spotting with her. Save the ice cream date for later. Just try to hang out spontaneously. You've found your in, now just work it.



Stop drop and roll will not save you in hell. --- seen on a church marque in rural Virginia
User currently offlineGocaps16 From Japan, joined Jan 2000, 4334 posts, RR: 21
Reply 5, posted (10 years 10 months 2 weeks 1 day 16 hours ago) and read 1127 times:

Does she know who you are?

Kevin


User currently offlineShamrock_747 From , joined Dec 1969, posts, RR:
Reply 6, posted (10 years 10 months 2 weeks 1 day 16 hours ago) and read 1115 times:

Just tell her how you feel - tell her you think she's really interesting and you'd like to get to know her better.

Shamrock_747


User currently offlineEmiratesA345 From Canada, joined Jun 2003, 2121 posts, RR: 9
Reply 7, posted (10 years 10 months 2 weeks 1 day 15 hours ago) and read 1109 times:

I suggest getting to know her better. Keep chatting with her online, then talk with her more in person. Do not leave out the step of talking to her in person. This way she will never know who the guy behind the monitor really is.

EmiratesA345



You and I were meant to fly, Air Canada!
User currently offlineDeltaRules From United States of America, joined Sep 2001, 3700 posts, RR: 9
Reply 8, posted (10 years 10 months 2 weeks 1 day 12 hours ago) and read 1086 times:

...and she says that she loves flying.

If only there was a girl like that in my hometown...  Sad

Anyway, follow what the guys have said above. Get to know her better; her thoughts, interests, etc. Just be yourself around her/over Yahoo Messenger & maybe she'll change her mind. Try to (maybe) find a time where you can hang out with her, like at a football game, the mall, or, as mentioned before, go spotting. Maybe bring aviation up sometimes when you talk to her, maybe give her a better "education" into our world or something.

DeltaRules



Let's Kick the Tires & Light the Fires!!
User currently offlineKLM672 From United States of America, joined Oct 1999, 2418 posts, RR: 3
Reply 9, posted (10 years 10 months 1 week 4 days 12 hours ago) and read 1038 times:

ok talking to her online, she has a bf now, but i honestly don't think it will last long........ Will keep up the net talking through the summer.

User currently offlineIMissPiedmont From United States of America, joined May 2001, 6260 posts, RR: 34
Reply 10, posted (10 years 10 months 1 week 4 days 11 hours ago) and read 1029 times:

"I don't think so, sorry".

That's a very definitive statement. She does not want to go out with you, end of story. You also have nothing to redeem as you did nothing wrong.

Don't waste your time e-mailing her or chatting on line with her. A polite hello when you see her at school is enough. She's not that great, trust me.



Is grammar no longer taught is schools? Saying "me and her" or some such implies illiteracy.
User currently offlineNotar520AC From United States of America, joined Jul 2001, 1606 posts, RR: 4
Reply 11, posted (10 years 10 months 1 week 4 days 7 hours ago) and read 1009 times:

Play with the words- if she doesn't want to go out for ice cream, bring the ice cream to her.

 Wink/being sarcastic _NOTAR520AC



BMW - The Ultimate Driving Machine
User currently offlineMas a330 From , joined Dec 1969, posts, RR:
Reply 12, posted (10 years 10 months 1 week 4 days 3 hours ago) and read 995 times:

Do keep us updated!!!  Smile

User currently offlineGKirk From UK - Scotland, joined Jun 2000, 24815 posts, RR: 56
Reply 13, posted (10 years 10 months 1 week 4 days 2 hours ago) and read 987 times:

Don't ask me.
Signed, KROC



When you hear the noise of the Tartan Army Boys, we'll be coming down the road!
User currently offlineIMissPiedmont From United States of America, joined May 2001, 6260 posts, RR: 34
Reply 14, posted (10 years 10 months 1 week 3 days 11 hours ago) and read 949 times:

Notar520AC posted a great thought. Humour is a great icebreaker. Though I stand by my previous post, you have nothing to lose except an ice cream.

Do that. If she laughs, you've got a good chance.



Is grammar no longer taught is schools? Saying "me and her" or some such implies illiteracy.
User currently offlineBoeing4ever From , joined Dec 1969, posts, RR:
Reply 15, posted (10 years 10 months 1 week 3 days 10 hours ago) and read 944 times:

Perhaps it was more a no to the ice cream rather than to you. Is she lactose-intolerant by any chance? I'd go with Notar's suggestion, though straight up asking her for sex might work. *kidding*

Just go with Notar's suggestion.  Big grin

B4e-Forever New Frontiers


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