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User currently offlineWardialer From United States of America, joined Sep 2001, 1182 posts, RR: 0
Posted (10 years 10 months 2 days 13 hours ago) and read 2467 times:

I just got rejected by a girl last night by email and we had made out a bit in her house last week and 3 days after that she emailed me saying this:

""Don?t take this the wrong way, but you and I just aren?t sexually compatible. It?s got nothing to do with you PHYSICALLY, it?s just, I don?t know ? we?re different. Don?t take it the wrong way.""


What does this mean??? Is it my looks that shes not into or what? And not long ago this girl had a BIG crush on me like crazy.

So I want to know what happened why so sudden????

Thanks


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User currently offlineDash8King From Canada, joined Nov 2001, 2742 posts, RR: 11
Reply 1, posted (10 years 10 months 2 days 13 hours ago) and read 2433 times:

??? Is it my looks that shes not into or what? Well you can probably answer that question, are you ugly? Fat, scrawny, buck teeth? Or do woman fall for you constantly?

Perhaps you are a bad kisser?


User currently offlineSSTjumbo From , joined Dec 1969, posts, RR:
Reply 2, posted (10 years 10 months 2 days 13 hours ago) and read 2429 times:

Girls, you can't live with them and you can't live with them. The only thing predictable about them is their unpredictability. Right now, I just stay out of that game and focus on college, waiting for the perfect girl and I to come together, not a forced thing on either side. As far as the crush goes, maybe that was something in your head, but if it was for real, refer to my first two sentences.

User currently offlineDTW_Steve From United States of America, joined Apr 2001, 93 posts, RR: 1
Reply 3, posted (10 years 10 months 2 days 13 hours ago) and read 2430 times:

Well, are you bad at making out? Bad kisser? Did you profess a dislike for either male or female oral activity? Did she? Had she mentioned any kinky streaks that you said you weren't up for, or vice versa?

If she's telling the truth (remember, she's a woman, you might have to dig deeper than what she says), you're probably bad at making out (or should I say you have differing styles?), or you're too sexually repressed for her, or the other way around. The whole sexual compatibility thing just means that she doesn't feel like you could both be satisfied by the other's style of amorous activity.

Then again, you could just be ugly.  Big grin


User currently offlineWardialer From United States of America, joined Sep 2001, 1182 posts, RR: 0
Reply 4, posted (10 years 10 months 2 days 13 hours ago) and read 2425 times:

All I want to know is that was she refferring to my looks or what? She saw me at a party 2 weeks ago and she emailed me saying that I was "hot" and "cute"

So then we just chatted for a long time over the net and she was really into it.

So last week, I went her house and we did you know..... and after 3 days she emailed me saying that quote what I wrote.



User currently offlineDTW_Steve From United States of America, joined Apr 2001, 93 posts, RR: 1
Reply 5, posted (10 years 10 months 2 days 13 hours ago) and read 2430 times:

Well, how would we know? We can't see you. If it isn't "sexual compatibility" that's the issue, it could be any number of things, from the way you look to the way you hum when you pee. Kinda hard for us to say...

User currently offlineWardialer From United States of America, joined Sep 2001, 1182 posts, RR: 0
Reply 6, posted (10 years 10 months 2 days 13 hours ago) and read 2432 times:

But what did she mean by "Its got nothing to do with you PHYSICALLY"

User currently offlineCovert From Ghana, joined Oct 2001, 1450 posts, RR: 2
Reply 7, posted (10 years 10 months 2 days 13 hours ago) and read 2417 times:

Well, easy, like she said it's nothing physical because she came to you saying you are hot, you probably didn't stick it to her right, she probably expected some kind of aggresiveness you didn't give her, and more likely than not you suck at kisses.

forget about her, write your loss off to the game
covert



thank goodness for TCAS !
User currently offlineGalvanAir777 From United States of America, joined Apr 2005, 39 posts, RR: 0
Reply 8, posted (10 years 10 months 2 days 13 hours ago) and read 2417 times:

"Then again, you could just be ugly. " lol that was funny hehe


Believe me, I know what your talking about man. I had a girlfriend dump me for...::sigh:: Another girl. I took it in stride and you will too with this latest events.



GalvanAir now Serving Airliners.net!
User currently offlineDTW_Steve From United States of America, joined Apr 2001, 93 posts, RR: 1
Reply 9, posted (10 years 10 months 2 days 12 hours ago) and read 2413 times:

Well, since you seem really concerned about it, I asked my girlfriend after I picked her up from work. I figured you could use a woman's perspective. What she has to say is this:

It's probably not your looks, you probably just didn't live up to her fantasy of what you would be like. You say she had a crush on you, and she probably thought about you alot, and built up her expectations. When you didn't meet her expectations, she decided to hightail it.

There you have it, straight from the horses mouth. Don't tell my g/f that I referred to her as a horse, though....


User currently offlineFutureCEO From United States of America, joined Aug 2003, 58 posts, RR: 0
Reply 10, posted (10 years 10 months 2 days 11 hours ago) and read 2397 times:

Maybe she is upset that you can't find the apostrophe key.



 Big grin


User currently offlineWardialer From United States of America, joined Sep 2001, 1182 posts, RR: 0
Reply 11, posted (10 years 10 months 2 days 3 hours ago) and read 2369 times:

Ok well, thx alot for the advise. This will blow off someday.

User currently offlineDash8King From Canada, joined Nov 2001, 2742 posts, RR: 11
Reply 12, posted (10 years 10 months 1 day 23 hours ago) and read 2371 times:

Its not like she's your gf or nothing so I say move on and mack on some other chick.

User currently offlineDash8King From Canada, joined Nov 2001, 2742 posts, RR: 11
Reply 13, posted (10 years 10 months 1 day 23 hours ago) and read 2373 times:

Who cares about girls anyways? I can't believe you stuck your tongue in her mouth that's gross.

signed,
Jcs17


User currently offlineGocaps16 From Japan, joined Jan 2000, 4338 posts, RR: 21
Reply 14, posted (10 years 10 months 1 day 23 hours ago) and read 2366 times:

Maybe it's not you, but her. What's up with the question marks between letters in her email? Life is life and don't let her screw up your life. She rejected you and get along back to your life. You will find another women. I just heard the funniest thing this morning on a talk radio about this girl moving in with her boyfriend and she wanted to adapt a pet and the guy went nuts. The guy thinks that with the pet they will stick and live together for ever and get married. But he doesn't want to get married and want to always remain single. That way you can date more and more girls.  Smile/happy/getting dizzy

v/r

Kevin


User currently offlineEA CO AS From United States of America, joined Nov 2001, 13517 posts, RR: 62
Reply 15, posted (10 years 10 months 1 day 23 hours ago) and read 2350 times:
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I think you oughta just show up at her place and try to get some again.

Hell, if you're going to go down, go down swinging!  Big grin



"In this present crisis, government is not the solution to our problem - government IS the problem." - Ronald Reagan
User currently offlineUPSfueler From United States of America, joined May 2003, 430 posts, RR: 0
Reply 16, posted (10 years 10 months 1 day 20 hours ago) and read 2339 times:

Wow, it seem like Girl Advice is getting more popular ay? Mabey there should be an advice Column as well? I know you all helped me out a week ago so id like to return the favor.

User currently offlineGoingboeing From United States of America, joined Dec 1999, 4875 posts, RR: 16
Reply 17, posted (10 years 10 months 1 day 20 hours ago) and read 2321 times:

I think you oughta just show up at her place and try to get some again.

Hell, if you're going to go down, go down swinging!


Better yet, go down licking.


User currently offlineN766UA From United States of America, joined exactly 15 years ago today! , 8193 posts, RR: 24
Reply 18, posted (10 years 10 months 1 day 19 hours ago) and read 2328 times:

Yeah just going down seems like a good idea  Big thumbs up


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User currently offlineBmi330 From United Kingdom, joined Nov 2001, 1450 posts, RR: 1
Reply 19, posted (10 years 10 months 1 day 19 hours ago) and read 2317 times:

Its better than being shafted for being to compatible! Anyways that's in the past lets face it guys girls are f***ed up. So hears my latest problem i'm sure this girl who works across from me likes me ok but I was going in for something to eat as usual n she was finished and 1 the other girls is like guys were in asking for our numbers n she went of with them so am like dirty slapper! Girls suck in 2 ways just get them drunk n get your lot. but theres always a new slapper round the cornner so dont worry.

User currently offlineVaporlock From , joined Dec 1969, posts, RR:
Reply 20, posted (10 years 10 months 1 day 18 hours ago) and read 2313 times:

Wardialer, don't worry about it!

You're young and have many many years of meeting girls, so just write it off as "her loss". Maybe you were just too much for her and she was just "BS'ing" you about herself. At least if you think of it that way you'll have a positive outlook when dating the next female.  Big thumbs up

Yes, you can't live with them and you can't live without them. She obviously wasn't your first and won't be your last!

Phyllis  Smile/happy/getting dizzy



User currently offlineJcs17 From United States of America, joined Jun 2001, 8065 posts, RR: 39
Reply 21, posted (10 years 10 months 1 day 18 hours ago) and read 2317 times:

Dash8King, have you gotten any play today? Thats what I thought.


America's chickens are coming home to rooooost!
User currently offlineDash8King From Canada, joined Nov 2001, 2742 posts, RR: 11
Reply 22, posted (10 years 10 months 1 day 18 hours ago) and read 2300 times:

Dash8King, have you gotten any play today? Thats what I thought.

Nope got Mono or strept throat so I am out of action for now Jcs17 and I am not interested in you when I recover Big grin.


User currently offlineUal747 From , joined Dec 1969, posts, RR:
Reply 23, posted (10 years 10 months 1 day 18 hours ago) and read 2303 times:

Eh, maybe she was just looking to hook up and nothing more? Maybe you started emailing her and she felt trapped, like you wanted something and she didn't. Listen, some girls are just as horny as males, and behave the same way as males when it comes to hooking up and sex.

Women are by far the most secretive, sly, and downright bitchy beings on this planet. You NEVER know what's going through their minds. So, honestly, unless you are hung like Peter Rabbit, then I wouldn't worry too much. Forget her, go find yourself some other broad.

Also, word of advice, don't play the dating game over emails and online. It only begs for trouble. First of all, you don't see each other, and what's the fun in flirting through typed words on a screen? You want to see her when she blushes, and when she gets turned on by you. Most importantly, you can never tell when people say things what context they are saying them in. It's really easy to get pissed off at someone for saying something over the internet because you don't know how they mean it, than it is in real life.

UAL747


User currently offlineDash8King From Canada, joined Nov 2001, 2742 posts, RR: 11
Reply 24, posted (10 years 10 months 1 day 17 hours ago) and read 2292 times:

Did she feel down below? Maybe its a bit to small. Just be happy you got some without having to be in a relationship its to bad you didn't get further though. That could be it to perhaps she wanted to know more then your tongue?

25 Wardialer : Ok, I just want to know what she meant by this comment: ""Its got nothing to do with you PHYSICALLY, it's just, I dont know - we're different- we are
26 EA CO AS : Now did she reject me for my looks or she thinks I did lowsy in bed???? Well, seeing as she took the time to specifically mention it wasn't you PHYSIC
27 Wardialer : EA CO AS, Have to be.... what???? So she's saying that she rejected me because of my looks?
28 Dash8King : Wow is this the first time you've done something with a chick or what? If it wasn't physical then your moves didn't impress her!
29 Post contains images FutureCEO : Okay since I am a girl I will let you know what she probably meant by this: ""Its got nothing to do with you PHYSICALLY, it's just, I dont know - we'r
30 Wardialer : Yes it does. I hope. Then why she sent my pictures back to me??? Explain that please.
31 Tbar220 : "Don't take this the wrong way, but you and I just aren't sexually compatible. It's got nothing to do with you PHYSICALLY, it's just, I don't know, we
32 FutureCEO : Alright I think you are looking way to deep into this and I think you need to just move on. She's not worth your time and the energy it is taking you
33 L-188 : Well if she is a lesbo, just tell your that you are a Male Lesbian so there shouldn't be any problems.
34 Yyz717 : You're analyzing this too much. Just move on. This will not be the first chick that "dumps" you. So get used to it (like all guys do). Just smile at h
35 Wardialer : All I want to know that did she reject me for my looks or I was not good enough in.... you know what??? Just read the comment below: ""Dont take this
36 CactusA319 : Dude!! Can you not read?? After 30 odd replies one would think you'd get the idea already. Obviously she didn't dump cause she thought you were ugly.
37 Dash8King : You are analyzing this like you were engaged or something and she just threw back the ring, YOU WEREN'T GOING OUT WITH HER! Something tells me you are
38 Ts-ior : Don't worry about that and take it as it is.Anyway you may keep your self-confidence and after all this is humane,and then you are lucky to cut with
39 Post contains images Lindy : I know what the problem is. Hi didn't go down on her and she got pissed. This must be the reason.
40 Post contains images Kempa : She is the hunter type. Hunters go in for the kill. The anticipation, the planning, the stalking. Then they shoot. After that, it's all downhill. The
41 AirJamPanAm : I overlooked this thread for a few days.. now I see I was correct in doing so. Dude!!! Get over it... It wasn't big enough and she was disappointed. S
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