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User currently offlineJcs17 From United States of America, joined Jun 2001, 8065 posts, RR: 38
Posted (10 years 11 months 2 weeks 3 days 15 hours ago) and read 2916 times:

Admittedly, I am a relatively laid back, very non-confrontational person. I've literally had it though, so I'm going to whine about it like a little girl on a.net.

I'm so damn tired of one of my roommates. He doesn't seem to grasp the concept that two other people live in the dorm with him. Our dorm has three bedrooms (each for one of us), a living room, and a bathroom. My other roommate is equally as pissed off, but neither of us feel like dealing with it...

I don't spend much time in my room--but when I do, I'm usually either on the computer, studying, or sleeping.

Heres what this idiot does:
-Before he takes a shower (after my other roommate and I have already left for class) he pumps the heat up as high as it can go (remember this is Texas), and does not turn it back down when he leaves. When I return from class at 11, the room is about 90 degrees, and it takes about two hours for the room to cool down again.

-At the same time every day, he returns from his classes, and for some reason sees a need to spray...errr....dump air freshener all over the dorm, not just his bedroom. Our place doesnt smell at all. Not only is the air freshener cheap as hell, but it has a god awful scent that makes me want to vomit. It takes a good three hours before the smell starts to fade away.

-He doesnt quite understand how to move around without making noise. You would absolutely swear that there is a damn elephant in the next bedroom. He just stomps around his room. He slams his doors, drawers, and the toilet seat loud enough to the point where I have woken up from deep sleeps because he slams the toilet seat down.

-He likes to leave his door open and blast rap. I have no problem if the guy wants to blast music, because our walls are soundproofed pretty well, but at least have the fucking decency to shut the door. (he's currently doing this right now)

-His friends are loud and obnoxious, and he tends to bring them into his room by the tens. You can hear his friends coming down the hall to our room...no joke. They are so damn loud. One of them woke me up at 5AM by knocking on my door and then running into my roommates room, waking him up too. Again, if you want to bring your friends over...cool...I have no problem with that, but I mean, take control.

-He goes home every weekend and will still leave his alarm on at full blast. Nothing like being woken up at 7:45AM on a Saturday morning after a long night only to hear a high-frequency beep (that can make it though the wall).

Okay, my bitch is over.


America's chickens are coming home to rooooost!
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User currently offlineKROC From , joined Dec 1969, posts, RR:
Reply 1, posted (10 years 11 months 2 weeks 3 days 15 hours ago) and read 2893 times:

Get over it and press on.  Big grin

User currently offlineStretch 8 From United States of America, joined May 1999, 2568 posts, RR: 16
Reply 2, posted (10 years 11 months 2 weeks 3 days 15 hours ago) and read 2871 times:

Well, I had a similar situation 20 years ago with a roommate. My advice: get together with the roommate you can tolerate, then the 3 of you sit down together. List your grievances against the offending roomie. Explain to him he is sharing space (he might be an only child or only son - could explain some of his behavior).

Give him a chance to change his ways. If this approach does not work, wait until he goes home one weekend, and throw all of his shit out into the hallway or out of the window. (That's what we wound up going in my case.)



Maggs swings, it's a drive deep to left! The Tigers are going to the World Series!!!
User currently offlineSabena332 From , joined Dec 1969, posts, RR:
Reply 3, posted (10 years 11 months 2 weeks 3 days 15 hours ago) and read 2870 times:

I laughed my a$$ off when I read the post, sounds like your roommate is a real idiot. You should talk with him about that, if he continues with all this stuff you should inform your renter and tell him that it is not possible to live with the guy, or you can simply beat him up, that would be the my prefered solution Big grin.

Patrick


User currently offlineDesertJets From United States of America, joined Feb 2000, 7780 posts, RR: 16
Reply 4, posted (10 years 11 months 2 weeks 3 days 15 hours ago) and read 2859 times:

First of all... it sounds like you have really nice dorms. Imagine trying to live with this dude if you didn't have a 3-bedroom suite and you all shared one room.

Secondly... dorms suck. Unless you have, you should probably not live there again next year. Plus being more on your own will be better for you anyways.

Third... you really need to comfront your other roomate. As sad as this may sound, he sounds like he is really oblivious to the obvious and may not know what he is doing is wrong, and may not know you are your other roomie is pissed at him. I had a roomate that was kind of like that, oblivious to the obvious, and it sucked having to live with it. I'd suggest talking to your RA first, and seeing what he/she can do first to help you resolve it. Or your other option is to just suck it up and hope he improves.



Stop drop and roll will not save you in hell. --- seen on a church marque in rural Virginia
User currently offlineAA61hvy From United States of America, joined Nov 1999, 13977 posts, RR: 57
Reply 5, posted (10 years 11 months 2 weeks 3 days 14 hours ago) and read 2847 times:

My roommate sucks, literally
Signed, JC..Damn that doesn't work this time
---

Thats just the crap you have to deal with man. I have 3 other roommates, 1 smoke pots constantly, one is starting to smoke cigarettes in the room ( I yelled at him) and the other does not do anything. I have an entirely different schedule from these guys, for instance they stayed up all night last night playing poker, while I slept. They think its weird and give me shit about how I work out and study all day. Which is fine, because they are getting fat, and not getting good grades. They think its weird and they give me shit about how I have a girlfriend, especially since its long distance. Well lets just say I am getting laid more than them, and I haven't seen my girlfriend in almost 8 weeks. (She is coming Halloween  Big thumbs up  Big thumbs up) But that's the stuff you got to talk about with them, if something is bothering you, say something. You live there too, you should not dread going back to your room. If all else fails, get a head set plug it into your computer and rock out to some tunes and ignore the bastard.

My edit is, I should add, it looked like I cheated on my GF in my post, but for clarification purposes (she rarely reads the boards out of sheer bordem) I was proving a point that the guys who give me shit about being in a relationship are not getting any action, I having a girlfriend will be getting action soon.

[Edited 2003-10-10 21:38:18]


Go big or go home
User currently offlineJamesag96 From United States of America, joined Nov 2001, 2095 posts, RR: 3
Reply 6, posted (10 years 11 months 2 weeks 3 days 14 hours ago) and read 2839 times:

You are not going to have any luck confronting your roommate...mu guess is he is the type that is loud, and has to have it his way or no way. Really confrontational type guy that has a chip that is seriously waying him down. Keep in mind you don't want to be labled either coming out of some type of altercation...but that is just my .02. Probably all wrong.

J

How old is this guy? Where is he from? What is his background? How did he vote in the last election? Why haven't you kicked his ass?

[Edited 2003-10-10 21:40:17]


Why Kate, You're not wearing a bustle. How lewd.
User currently offlineUal747 From , joined Dec 1969, posts, RR:
Reply 7, posted (10 years 11 months 2 weeks 3 days 14 hours ago) and read 2839 times:

Hmmm....

I came home and my roommate was in bed with someone I had gone on a date with the night before. What makes it worse...they were in MY bed.

UAL747


User currently offlineAA61hvy From United States of America, joined Nov 1999, 13977 posts, RR: 57
Reply 8, posted (10 years 11 months 2 weeks 3 days 14 hours ago) and read 2820 times:

"Why haven't you kicked his ass?"

This is JCS17 we are talking about here.



Go big or go home
User currently offlineDash8King From Canada, joined Nov 2001, 2743 posts, RR: 10
Reply 9, posted (10 years 11 months 2 weeks 3 days 14 hours ago) and read 2813 times:

Sounds like my step-sister that lives in the room next to mine right down the rap music with the door open.

User currently offlineSrbmod From , joined Dec 1969, posts, RR:
Reply 10, posted (10 years 11 months 2 weeks 3 days 13 hours ago) and read 2796 times:

I've only had one roommate situation, and it made me never want a roommate ever again. My roommates and myself worked completely different schedules, they worked days and I worked nights. I always tried to be as quiet as possible out of respect, but they never seemed to do the same. Nothing like being woken up @ 6:30 in the morning by your roommates arguing (this was a once a week occurance) (my roommate had gotten married, and still wanted me to live there so that him and his wife could save up some money to buy a house). I moved out about two years ago because I became an unwitting victim in my roommate's years-long custody battle with his ex-wife. I had two choices, move out or have a judge issue an order throwing me out of the house (the guy's ex-wife is a psycho, she made false accusations about me which led to me moving out). I literally had to find a place at a moment's notice, much like how I landed there in the first place. Here's my suggestion on what to do. Like it has already been said, discuss the situation with the roommate in question. Try to solve it that way at first. If the situation remains the same, trying resolving via the R.A., that's part of the reason why they're there. Don't do something rash like throwing the guy's stuff out of the dorm room, that's childish.

User currently offlineTheiler From United States of America, joined Nov 2001, 633 posts, RR: 1
Reply 11, posted (10 years 11 months 2 weeks 3 days 13 hours ago) and read 2785 times:

Advice: Grow a set and tell him to knock off his BS..
Seriously, JCS. He is going to have a hard time in life unless he gets with the program. Better to hear it from you, instead of a boss who is firing him because he shows no common sense.


User currently offlineGocaps16 From Japan, joined Jan 2000, 4346 posts, RR: 20
Reply 12, posted (10 years 11 months 2 weeks 3 days 11 hours ago) and read 2744 times:

LOL....kinda reminds me of my current roommate.
He's black, so I don't have a problem with that....we don't talk much just a few "sup, word up, lata" convos and that's it. This kid im rooming up with is a criminal. About a month ago, he was was court maritial for going AWOL with the Navy for 2 months. He said bye and never came back and two months later, he did. So then while waiting for the Navy to do his discharge paperworks, they set him up in a barracks, unfortunatly, it was me I had to room with. Ugh. These rooms are two man with a bathroom we have to share.

With his puffy hair, he makes a big mess in the shower and the sink with hair all over and doesn't clean it up after. No way I cannot touch the sink and to shower, I always have to wear shower shoes and lock up my soap and shampoo. Now, last weekend, he brought 4 20-packs of beer...well, he got it from is friends since he was underage. Mean 80 bottles of Budwieser in our fridge with 7 guys drinking and getting drunk while I'm trying to sleep. I did piss one of them off by telling him to get out, but I won't rat them out to the cops because they were all under 21. So instead thankfully, they went to a club and almost they have gotten arrested.

Couple days ago, my roommate found out when he's leaving for good which is Oct. 20. So I got one more week left of this BS. Oh yea, I was off this morning sleeping late, then his fricken alarm woke me up at 6:45am and he was gone. I had to turn it off. And his friends, ALWAYS pounds at my door at 2-3am, one dude works in the same building as me, is such an obnoxioux LOUD dude.

I'm ready to get me my own apartment here really soon.

Kevin


User currently offlineLehpron From United States of America, joined Jul 2001, 7028 posts, RR: 21
Reply 13, posted (10 years 11 months 2 weeks 3 days 11 hours ago) and read 2721 times:

k, when i first saw this thread title, I just smiled. Big grin

I feel for ya dawg, I mean I don't hate (per se) any of my suitmates, but in reality ALL of them have gotten on my nerves. Two are so oddly smart they truly have no common sense (i never understood that until now) and one of them thinks he is a reincarnation of some anime character on a show called "Yugiyo". I like anime, just not in my face all the time, but then it is his tv in our lounge, so y'know. My roomate is the other oddball, none of us in the suite can figure him out; he grew up with and AC and I can't stand cold rooms at night. Another two get so frustrated at their computers, we can hear them yelling at their machines; I have fun telling them the garbage-in garbage-out thing.  Smile

Another is ex-military, he's always hanging out with the ROTC kids next door (my former roommates) and until we hear him scream, "HEY MOTHA BITCHES", when ever he comes in, we don't see him, like he lives there. He's all good, I think he needs a bear hug.  Smile

One of my suitemates is getting married and hates it when we refer to her as his girlfriend, she's his fiance. Their just outta highschool, I wont tell him that I do not believe that they will stay together for life, I think they are a bit young. But hey, if da love lasts, let it go. I wish them da best.

Now the fairies downstrairs and upstairs are the trouble makers, these fools bounce their basketballs on da floor at night and boom their 400-watt computer stereos. The side walls are nice for this, but not the ceiling and floor. Otha than that there arent any real pricks except the professors.  Big thumbs up



The meaning of life is curiosity; we were put on this planet to explore opportunities.
User currently offlineCovert From Ghana, joined Oct 2001, 1451 posts, RR: 2
Reply 14, posted (10 years 11 months 2 weeks 3 days 9 hours ago) and read 2698 times:

Yeah JCS he blasts rap, that really blows!  Smokin cool

But seriously you have to step to him. Tell him that he needs to get his ass together. You live with him for Buddha's sake! Why can't you walk up to him and say "hey man cut the bullshit out?" Tell the guy to chill with the simple lifestyle. Once you put the fear of Buddha in him you will all live in peace.

My edit is, I should add, it looked like I cheated on my GF in my post, but for clarification purposes (she rarely reads the boards out of sheer bordem) I was proving a point that the guys who give me shit about being in a relationship are not getting any action, I having a girlfriend will be getting action soon.

Don't worry, AA61hvy, KROC won't take it the wrong way...

covert



thank goodness for TCAS !
User currently offline777236ER From , joined Dec 1969, posts, RR:
Reply 15, posted (10 years 11 months 2 weeks 3 days 9 hours ago) and read 2693 times:

Your room mate sucks? What's the problem?

Signed KROC.

And does anyone else really worry about Lehpron?


User currently offlineGoboeing From United States of America, joined Jun 2000, 2698 posts, RR: 14
Reply 16, posted (10 years 11 months 2 weeks 3 days 8 hours ago) and read 2677 times:

When I was dealt with the shittiest living situation imaginable on earth last year in my first year of college, I turned it into a game. I assisted both of my demented, annoying, and obnoxious roomates in failing nearly all of their classes. By encouraging them to not worry about that big test in math, or telling them that 2 hours of sleep is more than enough rest, the "give them just enough rope to hang themself" method worked. The first one failed out after the first semester with a GPA of .76. Now, our triple room had only two people in it! Good deal, right? No, the remaining roomate started to take after the one who was gone. He basically stopped going to classes in mid March in the spring semester, and failed every class except one, making his cumulative GPA .98.

Do not put up with your annoying roomate. It will waste your time and affect your grades if it gets out of control.

Nick


User currently offlineKROC From , joined Dec 1969, posts, RR:
Reply 17, posted (10 years 11 months 2 weeks 3 days 8 hours ago) and read 2670 times:

Your room mate sucks? What's the problem?

Signed KROC.

And does anyone else really worry about Lehpron?


777236ER - You married already, because even AA61hvy passed on the WAY TOO EASY 'signed by' post. You are slipping big time Arsen errrrrrrrrrr 777236ER.

And no...I don't worry about him.....I'll just make she he isn't in any high school near my house.  Big grin


User currently offlineDc10guy From United States of America, joined Feb 2000, 2685 posts, RR: 6
Reply 18, posted (10 years 11 months 2 weeks 3 days 7 hours ago) and read 2657 times:

I would give him a good dose of bad attitude, and if that don't work start talking about him behind his back a lot. Finally if these things don't work try curling up in a corner of the dorm and crying for awhile. That should change things.


Next time try the old "dirty Sanchez" She'll love it !!!
User currently offlineJcs17 From United States of America, joined Jun 2001, 8065 posts, RR: 38
Reply 19, posted (10 years 11 months 2 weeks 3 days 6 hours ago) and read 2645 times:

Like I said...I'm not one to confront people, and unfortunately my other roommate is the same way. That being said, I don't even talk to the guy, its just like a "Whats up?" kinda thing when we see each other....I've never actually had a conversation with him, The dorm itself is awesome, theres no way I'd move out...its three years old and it puts most apartments to shame. And theres no way that I'd move into the fraternity house because I know I'd get nothing done. If I do confront him, I'm not going to be mean about and say "What the fuck?" or "Are you a damn idiot?" I'll just be polite about it.


America's chickens are coming home to rooooost!
User currently offlineCancidas From Poland, joined Jul 2003, 4112 posts, RR: 11
Reply 20, posted (10 years 11 months 2 weeks 3 days 6 hours ago) and read 2633 times:

i had the same problem with one of my roomates out in AZ. but he had one other problem, he STUNK!!! i mean seriously, this guy had massive body odor problems. but he did the heat thing too, blasted music, he would also put his feet up everywhere. even the bacl of the chair i was sitting on was hit footstool. ugh, some people!


"...cannot the kingdom of salvation take me home."
User currently offlineCanadianNorth From Canada, joined Aug 2002, 3390 posts, RR: 9
Reply 21, posted (10 years 11 months 2 weeks 3 days 5 hours ago) and read 2621 times:

Well I vote you get right to the point, one point at a time. For example, next time he plays his rap full blast with the door wide open, simply get up, walk on over and ask him to kindly shut the door. Next time he leaves his alarm on, ask him when he gets back to kindly turn it off for future weekends. Its simple, and to the point, so it just might work...

CanadianNorth



What could possibly go wrong?
User currently offlineAS737900 From United States of America, joined Oct 2000, 343 posts, RR: 0
Reply 22, posted (10 years 11 months 2 weeks 3 days 3 hours ago) and read 2595 times:

Jcs-

You should probably talk to your RA about your problem roommates and all three of you can sit down with your RA and discuss your problems. At least that is how it would work here... just a suggestion.


User currently offlineFly727 From Mexico, joined Jul 2003, 1789 posts, RR: 19
Reply 23, posted (10 years 11 months 2 weeks 3 days 1 hour ago) and read 2576 times:

An easier way....
E-mail your problematic roomate this thread.

RM  Laugh out loud



There are no stupid questions... just stupid people!
User currently offlineFlpuck6 From United States of America, joined Jun 1999, 2123 posts, RR: 29
Reply 24, posted (10 years 11 months 2 weeks 2 days 20 hours ago) and read 2550 times:

As AS737900 suggested, try to bring it up with your Resident Assistant (RA) ... in theory that's why they are there. Maybe he/she can help you out if you don't want initially to confront him two-on-one.


Bonjour Chef!
25 AA61hvy : Just have sex with him and get it over with Signed, KROC
26 777236ER : Just have sex with him and get it over with Signed, KROC And yet you crack on ME for turning into Arsenal!
27 Bigphilnyc : Jcs, Youa nd I joke a lot, but I got your back here. That shit would seriously pis me off. Print out that list of grievances and tlel him he's got, li
28 Cancidas : here's another option. USP 45!
29 AA61hvy : I apologize about my last post, I was very very groggy when I posted it.. KROC delete it please
30 Post contains images Sabena 690 : Wow, I had expected something like 'he doesn't blindly fall on it's knees for the almaghty Bush' but you are for once using real arguments over here!
31 Jcs17 : And oh yeah, the guy doesnt take out his trash. There are literally six full trash bags sitting by the door in our living room which have accumulated
32 Go Canada! : I had enough last year. I live with 5 guys and frankly i should have taken the girls offer up. I thought living with guys was easier but of course no-
33 BR715-A1-30 : Well, JCS17, If it pisses you off so much, Counteract. You and the other roommate get together, and plan a "REVENGE". Do shit that you know this other
34 777236ER : Leave YOUR trash by HIS door, Spray your Favorite Deodorizer IN HIS ROOM, You know, that kind of s***. Woah, woah, calm down there! Those pranks just
35 BR715-A1-30 : 777236ER, What pranks would you suggest, if it were me, I wouldn't let this s*** go on for as long as it has.
36 Post contains images Sabena 690 : I agree with BR715-A1-30! A pre-emptive strike on the roommate, that's the solution! You asked Bush already for troops and F18's, JCS17?
37 BR715-A1-30 : Better yet, ask him for $87 Billion dollars. LOL!!!
38 Vafi88 : Pay back time!!! take a shit in his bed and let him come home and jump right in! Then, while he's not home, take one of the speakers and cut a random
39 Vafi88 : that should be *At least*
40 Flyingbronco05 : My other roommate is equally as pissed off, but neither of us feel like dealing with it... I hate to be blunt but shut up or talk to him about this. F
41 Br715-a1-30 : JCS17, If your dorm has circuit breakers or fuses (some do, some don't) right when he is blaring his music, shut his circuit breaker off or take the f
42 An-225 : I had a roommate too in my college years. This guy used to do drugs and what not. He used to keep weed in his drawer and smoke inside the room too. Hi
43 Covert : Save some of the by-product from your masturbation sessions (put it in the refridgerator) and dump it on his sheet when it builds up. He'll either lov
44 AA61hvy : All the 'by-product' is busy swimming in KROC's stomach.
45 Indianguy : So your roommate sucks? Hope he sucks good! Well just remember to return the favor some time. That way both will be happy. -Roy
46 Post contains images JetsGo : take his stuff and sell it on eBay for like 10 bucks and one day he will wind up with someone at his door asking for his stuff. really gay idea but he
47 Cfalk : I think Stretch 8's solution in Reply #2 is the best. Sit with him and have a serious talk, tell him CLEARLY that you and your other roommate will no
48 FlyboyOz : JSC!! That's very funny i've ever seen! Are u a psychology student? If so, can you please help him? I think he needs help because he has problem with
49 BR715-A1-30 : Go in his room after getting the by-product from KROC's stomach, and put some roaches in the by-product, and then dump it on his bed. Ok, Now this thr
50 777236ER : Shut up about KROC's 'by-product'. Only you and maybe AA61hvy care.
51 KROC : Your fiance cares to 777236ER. Careful. You might be playing poppa to KROC Jr.
52 Post contains images 777236ER : Ouch, below the belt (but luckily for me not in the Matt D sense.) Can we just agree that Jcs's room mate does indeed suck (as confirmed by BR715) and
53 KROC : Yeah, that was below the belt. But you had it coming. I agree with the rest 777236ER. Especially a little KROC running around... NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO
54 777236ER : Especially a little KROC running around... NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO Signed, the World I agree, one Little KROC is good enough for me, Signed, Jcs1
55 KROC : Hey 777236ER. Can I have my sense of humor back? Thanks. Signed, Arsenal@LHR
56 BR715-A1-30 : Virginity Like Bubble....One Prick, all gone Man who runs in front of car get tired Man who runs behind car get exhausted. Just thought, I'd share som
57 Jcs17 : And heres a little update: Ummm, I think I've just hit rock bottom with this guy, or if this isnt rock bottom I dont want to know what is. According t
58 AC320 : Then do something about it, if urine on the bathroom floor doesn't cause you to act, you're never going to grow and spine and talk to him. Doesn't the
59 LH423 : At least your roommate did not throw your stereo and laptop from your 4th storey apartment as was recently the case with my best friend!!! (long story
60 AA61hvy : Does it smell? haha
61 Post contains images AMSMAN : I read as far as this part and then stopped. My other roommate is equally as pissed off, but neither of us feel like dealing with it... I'm not going
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