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Does It Wane After Marraige?  
User currently offlineMirrodie From United States of America, joined Apr 2000, 7444 posts, RR: 62
Posted (10 years 10 months 4 weeks 1 day 20 hours ago) and read 2258 times:
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Had an interesting conversation recently and was wondering what the opinions were here from the marriedor divorced folk.


Does sexual activity dimishing after marraige?

After kids??

If so, why? If not, why not?




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User currently offlineAa61hvy From United States of America, joined Nov 1999, 13977 posts, RR: 57
Reply 1, posted (10 years 10 months 4 weeks 1 day 20 hours ago) and read 2239 times:

Yes.
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User currently offlineMidnightMike From United States of America, joined Mar 2003, 2892 posts, RR: 14
Reply 2, posted (10 years 10 months 4 weeks 1 day 20 hours ago) and read 2226 times:


Mirrodie
Yes after marriage, yes after kids. It does not happen with all couples, but a high percentage of couples. Sometimes it is the man and sometimes it is the woman.

Wait a minute, you are getting married soon, you are not getting cold feet are you? Don't worry, just take a picture of her vagina, this time next year, you may not see it again.



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User currently offlineSccutler From United States of America, joined Jan 2000, 5582 posts, RR: 28
Reply 3, posted (10 years 10 months 4 weeks 1 day 19 hours ago) and read 2204 times:

Inevitably, as life's other pressures and worries intrude.

Old joke goes something like this:

Place a bean in a jar every time you "git busy" during the first year of marriage; thereafter, take a bean out each time. Legend is, you'll never empty the jar.

I don't think that one holds up for me, but I have been married for 20 years, too.

There is a lot more to marriage and relationships than sex... but it shouldn't disappear, either. Biggest challenge is maintaining the magic after kids arrive, less sleep, less privacy, and more.

Trips away from the kids are vital. Rewards of a well-balanced relationship are many.



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User currently offlineL-188 From United States of America, joined Jul 1999, 29813 posts, RR: 58
Reply 4, posted (10 years 10 months 4 weeks 1 day 18 hours ago) and read 2200 times:

I am sure that Britney Spears is in a better position to answer that question.


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User currently offlineMirrodie From United States of America, joined Apr 2000, 7444 posts, RR: 62
Reply 5, posted (10 years 10 months 4 weeks 1 day 18 hours ago) and read 2181 times:
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Midnight, didn't you write a book on the subject matter? LOL  Big thumbs up

funny i don;t have any expectations but its always interesting to hear perspectives.



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User currently offlineVaporlock From , joined Dec 1969, posts, RR:
Reply 6, posted (10 years 10 months 4 weeks 1 day 17 hours ago) and read 2167 times:

No, No, No -- I disagree..........the frequency may drop slightly but the intensity and length of time you are actually involved in the act increases..........= longer/better quality sex....and for some...just as often.........

Thats just my 2 cents!

Phyllis  Smile/happy/getting dizzy


User currently offlineMidnightMike From United States of America, joined Mar 2003, 2892 posts, RR: 14
Reply 7, posted (10 years 10 months 4 weeks 1 day 16 hours ago) and read 2156 times:


One of the major reasons for divorce is sex, then money, pretty interesting.



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User currently offlineSccutler From United States of America, joined Jan 2000, 5582 posts, RR: 28
Reply 8, posted (10 years 10 months 4 weeks 1 day 16 hours ago) and read 2148 times:

My divorce lawyer friends tell me that sex for money tends to really ice the deal!


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User currently offlineAlpha 1 From , joined Dec 1969, posts, RR:
Reply 9, posted (10 years 10 months 4 weeks 1 day 15 hours ago) and read 2148 times:

Actually, ours has increased, especially in the last 3 or 4 years. Now that our kids are a little older, we're trying to take more time for ourselves. Although during the holidays, we don't get much time for it because my wife works almost every day from two weeks before Thanksgiving untill a week after New Years.

But our cruise in 2 weeks will solve that.  Big thumbs up


User currently offlineJamesag96 From United States of America, joined Nov 2001, 2095 posts, RR: 3
Reply 10, posted (10 years 10 months 4 weeks 1 day 15 hours ago) and read 2142 times:

Motion of the ocean...eh Alpha?

Where you folks headed?

My buddy's wife is preagnant...he hasn't had ANY in a long time...been putting his DSL connection to good use.  Smile

James



Why Kate, You're not wearing a bustle. How lewd.
User currently offlineAlpha 1 From , joined Dec 1969, posts, RR:
Reply 11, posted (10 years 10 months 4 weeks 1 day 15 hours ago) and read 2139 times:

We're going Miami-Key West-Cozumel-Miami. Some R&R after the holidays is one of our traditions, usually on a cruise or just going somewhere warm.  Smile

User currently offlineJamesag96 From United States of America, joined Nov 2001, 2095 posts, RR: 3
Reply 12, posted (10 years 10 months 4 weeks 1 day 10 hours ago) and read 2088 times:

Color me green with envy...have fun and stay safe.

James



Why Kate, You're not wearing a bustle. How lewd.
User currently offlineSuperfly From Thailand, joined May 2000, 40035 posts, RR: 74
Reply 13, posted (10 years 10 months 4 weeks 1 day 10 hours ago) and read 2086 times:

Alpha1:
But our cruise in 2 weeks will solve that.

Ah, a week of peace.  Smile




Mirrodie:
Congrats on getting married. You sound pretty serious about tieing the knot.



Vaporlock:
No, No, No -- I disagree..........the frequency may drop slightly but the intensity and length of time you are actually involved in the act increases..........= longer/better quality sex....and for some...just as often.........


you are a woman. Are you just saying that so guys will continue to get con-ed in to marrage?  Laugh out loud






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User currently offlineCovert From Ghana, joined Oct 2001, 1453 posts, RR: 2
Reply 14, posted (10 years 10 months 4 weeks 1 day 10 hours ago) and read 2076 times:

I'm never gonna get married, so help me.......

covert



thank goodness for TCAS !
User currently offlineAWspicious From , joined Dec 1969, posts, RR:
Reply 15, posted (10 years 10 months 4 weeks 1 day 9 hours ago) and read 2072 times:

My theory is, if you have a great level of communication, the sex (even though it's not to be viewed as the be-all and end-all in a marriage) will remain at a steady frequency. Reason I say this is, you're more apt to be intimate with a spouse when you're on good terms with each other. If you and your spouse are often on opposite sides of many issues, or if life's daily rigors get in the way and you and your spouse aren't able to effectively communicate as a means to deal with those issues, then, you're less likely to be intimate with that person. I believe it's important to find a partner with whom you are compatible on a mental and emotional level. Maturity plays a role in compatibility, too... Since many young 'uns (early 20s sort) are more akin to magpies. Therefore, communication isn't their strongest characteristic.
To me, this level of compatibility is required for proper and effective communication within a marriage. And since sex is a form of communication, the two go hand-in-hand.

Good luck!

aw


User currently offlineVaporlock From , joined Dec 1969, posts, RR:
Reply 16, posted (10 years 10 months 4 weeks 13 hours ago) and read 2013 times:

Superfly, you beter believe I'm a woman........and what I said is exactly the way I feel.......I'm not trying to conn anyone into marriage!

As AWspicious said........sex is a form of communication.........the more you have in common the better the sex! Maturity definately makes a difference........and for some of us, believe it or not (females) we just enjoy all aspects of "SEX". Longer/Better quality sex = as often as possible!!  Big thumbs up

Phyllis  Smile/happy/getting dizzy


User currently offlineSophiemaltese From United States of America, joined Feb 2001, 2064 posts, RR: 3
Reply 17, posted (10 years 10 months 3 weeks 6 days 23 hours ago) and read 1976 times:

I can tell you after just moving in with my boyfriend my sex drive has dropped. It makes ME mad too, but maybe it's just that when you have something right there you don't appreciate it as much. He also has a son that comes by on weekends and you can't even go in the bathroom for 2 minutes without him trying to come in. I learned this one the hard way when I was taking a shower and he just busted on in. I also have a VERY needy dog (the REAL Sophiemaltese).

User currently offlineKROC From , joined Dec 1969, posts, RR:
Reply 18, posted (10 years 10 months 3 weeks 6 days 23 hours ago) and read 1970 times:

Maybe I should get married, that way I will have an actual excuse for not getting laid.

Signed, LHMark


User currently offlineLHMark From United States of America, joined Jan 2000, 7255 posts, RR: 46
Reply 19, posted (10 years 10 months 3 weeks 6 days 21 hours ago) and read 1949 times:

Hmm, my self-defense abilities are getting rusty. Maybe I should re-marry my ex.

Signed, KROC



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User currently offlineAlpha 1 From , joined Dec 1969, posts, RR:
Reply 20, posted (10 years 10 months 3 weeks 6 days 21 hours ago) and read 1947 times:

Maybe you two, KROC and LHMark, should take this argument behind closed doors.

Signed
Everyone Else



User currently offlineMatt D From United States of America, joined Nov 1999, 9502 posts, RR: 47
Reply 21, posted (10 years 10 months 3 weeks 6 days 21 hours ago) and read 1941 times:



User currently offlineKROC From , joined Dec 1969, posts, RR:
Reply 22, posted (10 years 10 months 3 weeks 6 days 21 hours ago) and read 1934 times:

Alpha 1, seeing as you argue with about 80% of the members of this board, you shouldn't be throwing stones from your glass house.

Signed, Airliners.net


User currently offlineMatt D From United States of America, joined Nov 1999, 9502 posts, RR: 47
Reply 23, posted (10 years 10 months 3 weeks 6 days 20 hours ago) and read 1926 times:





User currently offlineAlpha 1 From , joined Dec 1969, posts, RR:
Reply 24, posted (10 years 10 months 3 weeks 6 days 20 hours ago) and read 1923 times:

KROC, maybe you should be a little less uptight over a "signed" post.

25 LHMark : Yeah, Alpha 1! Don't be so hard on Chuck Finley over there!
26 Post contains images KROC : Maybe you should follow your own advice Alpha 1.
27 Mog : After marriage, before marriage . . . it is all in the mind and about grabbing opportunity. I don't think it wanes after marriage. Actually, I know it
28 4holer : Does it wane after marriage? You have no idea. ...God, I miss it................
29 MidnightMike : Don't worry Mirrodie, your hands will increase in size by the time you are in your 40's. Wait a minute, perhaps Mrs. Mirrodie will be the one complai
30 Qantasforever : After two years of marriage and two children - I haven't found the flames of my relationship with my wife waning at all. Maybe it's because we are bot
31 AWspicious : SophieMaltese; Don't let the kid's age fool ya - He knows exactly what he's doing (heh heh heh). BTW - Now we know why you've been absent ;-] aw
32 Post contains links MidnightMike : Qantas, "2" years of marriage is still young, you should hear the guys I work with, some have been married for 20 years, 30 years. I asked one guy abo
33 Post contains links MidnightMike : This should offend everybody. http://www.ratedtoons.com/flash/Interorgasm.swf
34 Post contains images Alpha 1 : Right, KROC. I've never met a "signed" post that has bothered me yet. I guess you just can't handle the high heat, partner. And Midnight Mike, that's
35 JetChaser : Twelve years of marriage (I think) and three kids later I have to agree with Vapolock: frequency has decreased (a lot in my case) but the quality of
36 MidnightMike : According to Dr Laura, she said the secret to marriage is a great sex life, in fact she commented than men require sex, biological need and the women
37 Post contains images 777fan : MidnightMike, Hilarious, Loved Antarctica and New Zealand! Seriously, I have been remarried now for almost a year. My previous marriage was two good y
38 MidnightMike : 777fan Oh boy, after sex, does she raise her legs over her head or do a headstand? At least I saw that on a comedy? Start recording your actions, you
39 Post contains images Mirrodie : Mike, that sounds like you saw that on a sitcom, cuz it sounds strangely familiar. Loved the cartoon, esp. Australia and England. WTF! What is the dea
40 MidnightMike : Mirrodie Hey! The Swedes know how to have a good time! I loved the Aussie one, nice to place the beer on her back. Still excited to get married dude?
41 Post contains images 777fan : MidnightMike, It is somewhat true! My wife does not go to that extent, but upon completion.........she does not get up right away! But we have been tr
42 Mirrodie : LOL, dude, any gal that can spend a whole day in the Alteon Flight simulators (over 7 hours worth!) is an AWESOME one!! http://www.airliners.net/discu
43 777fan : Mirrodie, Knew my wife was the one when she spent an entire weekend with me in Chicago for the Cub/Whitesox series, bought her a Cubs jersey and now s
44 YKA : I think it does, and mostly due to the fact that most women stop taking care of themselves after merriage and their husbands are grossed out by what t
45 Post contains images MxCtrlr : Look at the same Playboy Centerfold every single day, day-after-day, year-after-year for 10 years and see if your interest in it doesn't wane. Marriag
46 Sophiemaltese : YKA, I've seen that happen, but I've also seen that happen with men too. My boyfriend used to be dieting and working out and now that he has me and I
47 Post contains images Lehpron : It depends on your bitch, if she's a hoe, its gonna go... In all honestly, after the romance calms down, both of you need to work on it to keep it ali
48 MidnightMike : Sophiemaltese So true, a lady friend of mine used to moan and groan about her hubby after they got married, 6 months into the marriage & all he wante
49 Post contains images TWISTEDWHISPER : What is the deal with those Swedes? The more the merrier? Shared joy is double (triple) joy? At least I saw that on a comedy? Big Lebowski? [Edited 20
50 Startvalve : Yes it very much does. I occasionally start the fight which consists of since I never get it here can I go find it somewhere else. This fight is usual
51 Post contains images Vaporlock : Startvalve, I have to disagree with you! As a woman the only suggestion I can give you is "COMMUNICATE". A relationship will only get stronger if a ma
52 Startvalve : Never said i would actually do it. Communication only goes so far, talk is cheap. Say something now and a couple hours or days later it never happened
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