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Do I Have A Right To Be Mad?  
User currently offlineVirginLover From United States of America, joined Mar 2000, 958 posts, RR: 14
Posted (13 years 4 months 2 weeks 6 days 14 hours ago) and read 1140 times:

Here's my story, and I'm about to dump the kid:
Last night around 9:15- i was dying, my stomach was doing crazy stuff... I was going to go to the emergency room, it was pretty bad. My b/f Scott calls on the phone, asking if he can come over. I tell him "Scott, I really don't feel well, my stomach is killing me, I'll talk to you tomorrow, ok? I'm really sorry."
Him: "Bye. *click*"
Before I go to bed, I wanted to give him an e-mail appolgizing again. He's online, along with my pal Tim, who I talked to earlier in the day and knew how much my stomach hurt. I asked him to talk to Scott for me while I appolgized to him, and he did his job because Scott goes to me-
"Oh, I see you have Tim on your side?"
But he calms down and goes "No, I believe you."
I find out this morning that he was talking about me to my now-former friend saying that how horrible I was for "making excuses just because she doesn't want to see me"
Does he ask how i'm feeling, what's wrong, how i'm doing? NO.
Should I give this guy the boot? Help is appreciated!!!


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User currently offlineIainhol From , joined Dec 1969, posts, RR:
Reply 1, posted (13 years 4 months 2 weeks 6 days 14 hours ago) and read 1059 times:

Yeah, it does not seem like he knows how to play the game if you ask me! He looks like he really does not care!
Iain


User currently offlineEricmetallica From , joined Dec 1969, posts, RR:
Reply 2, posted (13 years 4 months 2 weeks 6 days 14 hours ago) and read 1060 times:

Hmmm.......I dunnoo..i guess i can see why he'd mabe thimk that but he still should of at leat asked you how you were feeling. Either talk to him first and sees what he says or dumb him. just my $.02

Eric


User currently offlineChris28_17 From United States of America, joined Jul 2000, 1439 posts, RR: 10
Reply 3, posted (13 years 4 months 2 weeks 6 days 14 hours ago) and read 1049 times:

i think you should trade your "boy"friend in for a real man  Wink/being sarcastic




j/k


Aloha,
CHRIS


User currently offlineSophieMaltese From United States of America, joined Feb 2001, 2064 posts, RR: 3
Reply 4, posted (13 years 4 months 2 weeks 6 days 14 hours ago) and read 1043 times:

Sounds like he might be a little insecure, but who knows. How is he normally? If it's just a one time thing okay, but if he's always like that you might be better off without him.

P.S.
I like your homepage. Chris Farley was awesome!


User currently offlineAccidentally From United States of America, joined Dec 2000, 643 posts, RR: 0
Reply 5, posted (13 years 4 months 2 weeks 6 days 12 hours ago) and read 1022 times:
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Sounds like he's gonna turn attatched to you. He knows that you may not be totally commited to him, and is questioning things you say. He apparently isn't positive that you aren't starting to get tired of him.

-Cory



Cory Crabtree - crab453 - Indianapolis - 2R2 - 1966 PA-32-260
User currently offlineUs330 From United States of America, joined Aug 2000, 3867 posts, RR: 14
Reply 6, posted (13 years 4 months 2 weeks 6 days 12 hours ago) and read 1012 times:

You certainly have the right to be mad. Tell your b/f that he needs to trust you a bit more than he does right now, or you are headed towards an unhappy end.

User currently offline777YYC From Canada, joined May 2000, 744 posts, RR: 6
Reply 7, posted (13 years 4 months 2 weeks 6 days 11 hours ago) and read 1004 times:

This kid deserves the boot.

User currently offlineFlyf15 From , joined Dec 1969, posts, RR:
Reply 8, posted (13 years 4 months 2 weeks 6 days 10 hours ago) and read 998 times:

Catie, go with your heart, you know him better than the rest of us combined. If he is being bad to you, mistrustful, etc, your heart will tell you what to do. And, remember...it sounds like he brought it on himself, you have a right to be angry. Best of luck to you with whatever you decide.

User currently offlineGreg From United Kingdom, joined May 2005, 0 posts, RR: 0
Reply 9, posted (13 years 4 months 2 weeks 6 days ago) and read 978 times:

I think it's really cool that you let aviation forums dictate your personal decisions.
There's something very strange about that.
He should dump you!


User currently offlineYukee From Canada, joined Dec 2000, 26 posts, RR: 1
Reply 10, posted (13 years 4 months 2 weeks 5 days 22 hours ago) and read 961 times:

I agree with greg.
He made a very good point.

It seems to me that you guys don't trust each other.
If you trust him, you should talk to him instead of asking for help on the net..

Yukee  Laugh out loud


User currently offlineVirginLover From United States of America, joined Mar 2000, 958 posts, RR: 14
Reply 11, posted (13 years 4 months 2 weeks 5 days 21 hours ago) and read 954 times:

I'm not relying on just this info, I confronted him, he lied to me about 4 times in a row, so in about 10 minutes, i'm going to talk to him about it.

User currently offlineChris28_17 From United States of America, joined Jul 2000, 1439 posts, RR: 10
Reply 12, posted (13 years 4 months 2 weeks 5 days 12 hours ago) and read 940 times:

Seriously, at this age you should NOT take one iota of crap from a boy, if he lies even ONCE at this age, he will be pathological when he is older.

I would tell you (from a bit of expirence) to dump his sorry ass. He is no good. Period.

you can email me if you want more inspirational stuff...


Aloha,
CHRIS



(and good luck)


User currently offlineBlink182 From Azerbaijan, joined Oct 1999, 5480 posts, RR: 15
Reply 13, posted (13 years 4 months 2 weeks 5 days 12 hours ago) and read 938 times:

He LIED?? 4 times in A ROW?? And judging by all the other info, you should dump him. If he can't trust you, there is no point in going out with him. Relationships are mostly built on trust(other than liking the person) but if he lacks that, it is time to kick him out. Just my 2 cents
rgds,
blink182



Give me a break, I created this username when I was a kid...
User currently offlineVirginLover From United States of America, joined Mar 2000, 958 posts, RR: 14
Reply 14, posted (13 years 4 months 2 weeks 5 days 2 hours ago) and read 926 times:

Hey guys- update:

I finally got the truth out of him (bleck on him)- he gets upset because I can't see him a lot- we've been on a date once in a month- I can understand why the kid's dissapointed. But I lead like a crazy life, with OM State Competitions this Friday and then the sports season starting up, when I get free time, I want free time to my self. I told him "Listen, what's going on right now is what I have to offer. I really don't trust you at the moment to start. There's going to be days where when I finally get free time, I'm going to want to spend it for me. There's not going to be many dates until June, and I'm going to leave you dissapointed a lot. If I stretch my self any thinner, we're gonna be back to February (when I dumped him cause i was stressed). If I don't stretch my self further, we're going to be back here."
He said he needed time to think... so I'll keep updated.


User currently offlineIainhol From , joined Dec 1969, posts, RR:
Reply 15, posted (13 years 4 months 2 weeks 4 days 20 hours ago) and read 913 times:

Only once a month!! Poor Chap!
Iain


User currently offlineBlink182 From Azerbaijan, joined Oct 1999, 5480 posts, RR: 15
Reply 16, posted (13 years 4 months 2 weeks 4 days 13 hours ago) and read 898 times:

I don't blame you, with all that stuff going on, and when ever you get that little bit of free time, you deserve to spend it by yourself, or how ever you choose. If he can accept the fact that there won't be many dates until june and is fine with it, I would hold on a little bit. If he is really mad and in a way jealous or isn't willing to cooperate, I would dump him.
Just giving you my advice,
rgds,
blink182



Give me a break, I created this username when I was a kid...
User currently offlineEricmetallica From , joined Dec 1969, posts, RR:
Reply 17, posted (13 years 4 months 2 weeks 3 days 21 hours ago) and read 889 times:

That kinda relationship is hard. I've been through kinda the smae relationship and it sucked and when time was finaly free i got dumped. Maybe it be best to just be friends or something, but that is very hard to. Well just my 2 cents. I do feel bad for him cause i do know what he's going through.

Eric


User currently offlineJomama From , joined Dec 1969, posts, RR:
Reply 18, posted (13 years 4 months 2 weeks 3 days 19 hours ago) and read 881 times:

Does he put out?

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