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Have You Ever Been Unfaithful?  
User currently offlineRyanb741 From United Kingdom, joined Mar 2002, 3221 posts, RR: 15
Posted (13 years 6 months 1 week 2 days 6 hours ago) and read 1020 times:

Looking at other threads it is clear that many people here believe that sex is something sacred between two people who love each other.

So, my question is, have you ever been unfaithful to your partner/wife? If yes, what was the reason?




I used to think the brain is the most fascinating part of my body. But, hey, who is telling me that?
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User currently offlineSccutler From United States of America, joined Jan 2000, 5521 posts, RR: 28
Reply 1, posted (13 years 6 months 1 week 2 days 6 hours ago) and read 949 times:

Nope.

A moment of fun;

vs.

The permanent destruction of a sacred vow.

Not too tough a choice, really.



...three miles from BRONS, clear for the ILS one five approach...
User currently offlineAA767-300ER From , joined Dec 1969, posts, RR:
Reply 2, posted (13 years 6 months 1 week 2 days 6 hours ago) and read 946 times:

No.

User currently offlineCPDC10-30 From United Kingdom, joined Feb 2000, 4785 posts, RR: 23
Reply 3, posted (13 years 6 months 1 week 2 days 2 hours ago) and read 941 times:

No, but my BF wants me to in the future.

User currently offlineG Dubya From , joined Dec 1969, posts, RR:
Reply 4, posted (13 years 6 months 1 week 2 days 2 hours ago) and read 933 times:

Is a threesome cheating if wife is involved?

User currently offlineMx5_boy From , joined Dec 1969, posts, RR:
Reply 5, posted (13 years 6 months 1 week 1 day 21 hours ago) and read 928 times:

Never.

I had a b/f once that no sooner had we been together for 2 weeks, he wanted to go out and have 'threesomes'.

That was the end of him. He wanted to know why I didn't 'want to share it around'.

Why?

I don't ever want to be subjected to STD's or worse (HIV / Aids).
If I am to commit to someone I expect them to do the same mentally and physically.
Sex is so much more enjoyable with someone you love and respect. (At least it is to me.)

Sure, when I was in high school I 'slept around' a bit, but when I matured a little more I realised the inherant dangers and have always been in relationships since.

That is not to say I don't like people who do sleep around, quite frankly it is none of my business and up to the individual how they treat their bodies.

Cheers,

mb


User currently offlineStratifier From , joined Dec 1969, posts, RR:
Reply 6, posted (13 years 6 months 1 week 1 day 20 hours ago) and read 914 times:

I was in this bizarre situation. Let me introduce the names so you can at least understand what I'm about to say...

Jeff was dating Andy;
I went to visit Jeff, got involved;
I got bummed out and left for college;
Andy happened to be in my area, we got involved overnight;
Jeff went to Hartford CT and got involved with Adam;
I didn't get together with Andy after all;
Adam didn't get together with Jeff after all;
Adam keep creeping up and begging me to visit so he could get with me;

I'm glad that I could be talking about this comfortably now  Nuts


User currently offlineKLM747 From Netherlands, joined Jan 2001, 669 posts, RR: 14
Reply 7, posted (13 years 6 months 1 week 1 day 20 hours ago) and read 908 times:

Nope, my wifey and I are a very good couple and would never do a thing like that.

Regards,
-KLM747 Big grin


User currently offlineWN boy From , joined Dec 1969, posts, RR:
Reply 8, posted (13 years 6 months 1 week 1 day 19 hours ago) and read 909 times:

Just with Mr. Hand.

User currently offlineSophieMaltese From United States of America, joined Feb 2001, 2064 posts, RR: 3
Reply 9, posted (13 years 6 months 1 week 1 day 15 hours ago) and read 895 times:

Sort of. The person I was being unfaithful to wasn't faithful. It was a self-defense mechanism...

I'm debating whether I really want to post this on here, but oh well, I guess I will...


User currently offlineG Dubya From , joined Dec 1969, posts, RR:
Reply 10, posted (13 years 6 months 1 week 1 day 11 hours ago) and read 884 times:

I'm debating whether I really want to post this on here...

Please elaborate.
 Big grin Big grin

rgrds,



User currently offlineG Dubya From , joined Dec 1969, posts, RR:
Reply 11, posted (13 years 6 months 1 week 18 hours ago) and read 858 times:

Hi SophieMaltese,

We're anxiously waiting for your story!

rgrds,

P.S. if it's about the Persian plastic surgeon, please disregard this post. Big grin


User currently offlineAn-225 From United States of America, joined Sep 2000, 3950 posts, RR: 40
Reply 12, posted (13 years 6 months 1 week 16 hours ago) and read 848 times:

Well, no.


Money does not bring you happiness. But it's better to cry in your own private limo than on a cold bus stop.
User currently offlineBoeing747-400 From , joined Dec 1969, posts, RR:
Reply 13, posted (13 years 6 months 1 week 16 hours ago) and read 842 times:

Nope, never have, never will.

User currently offlineSophieMaltese From United States of America, joined Feb 2001, 2064 posts, RR: 3
Reply 14, posted (13 years 6 months 1 week 15 hours ago) and read 844 times:

No, it's not about the Persian plastic surgeon, I'll never be that lonely....right now I don't care to elaborate and am sorry I even brought it up.

User currently offlineWindsong From , joined Dec 1969, posts, RR:
Reply 15, posted (13 years 6 months 6 days 22 hours ago) and read 827 times:

No, I wasn't. But they were. Lot of married men out there are hitting on women looking for something "extra."

I will never understand why I seem to attract more married/defacto men than single.

Always. All my life.

I have hope there are a few out there that don't.


User currently offlineLH423 From Canada, joined Jul 1999, 6501 posts, RR: 54
Reply 16, posted (13 years 6 months 6 days 21 hours ago) and read 823 times:

No. Absolutely not. I believe in total faithfulness. I honestly don't see the need, nor will I ever.

And I won't stand for it. To me, in a relationship, being unfaithful is unforgivable.

LH423



« On ne voit bien qu'avec le cœur. L'essentiel est invisible pour les yeux » Antoine de Saint-Exupéry
User currently offlineCPDC10-30 From United Kingdom, joined Feb 2000, 4785 posts, RR: 23
Reply 17, posted (13 years 6 months 6 days 21 hours ago) and read 821 times:

I used to feel exactly the same way as you currently do, but two people have somewhat changed my opinion.

1) My BF
2) My mom (surprise!)

Both have used the reasoning that true love is something so strong that sex isn't the most important factor.

My BF wants me to have sex with other guys, but I'm definetly not going to for a while...if ever. His reason is that since I haven't ever been with anyone else, I'm going to miss out on the chance while I'm young and relativley attractive  Wink/being sarcastic He went out with other guys before started going out, so he thinks I deserve the chance. I guess in some ways it is kind of him showing that he trusts me.

My mom used Bill Clinton as an example and asked me what I think Hillary should do. I said she should divorce him. My mom disagreed and argued that an affair doesn't necessarily ruin a relationship...particularly a healthy and intellectual one.


User currently offlineLH423 From Canada, joined Jul 1999, 6501 posts, RR: 54
Reply 18, posted (13 years 6 months 6 days 20 hours ago) and read 822 times:

healthy and intellectual

These words and Clinton do not go hand-in hand  Smile

I do know what you mean...but I never said at the same time, that I would be tied down into one serious relationship...all I'm saying is that when I'm with someone, I'll be monogamous. At 18, I'm not looking for a lifetime commitment, and while I'm looking for more than casual sex, I don't see the need for an SO at this time. Especially with university, and a move to a new city on the horizon.

LH423



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