Mx5_boy From , joined Dec 1969, posts, RR:
Reply 5, posted (14 years 2 months 1 week ago) and read 1130 times:
I had a b/f once that no sooner had we been together for 2 weeks, he wanted to go out and have 'threesomes'.
That was the end of him. He wanted to know why I didn't 'want to share it around'.
I don't ever want to be subjected to STD's or worse (HIV / Aids).
If I am to commit to someone I expect them to do the same mentally and physically.
Sex is so much more enjoyable with someone you love and respect. (At least it is to me.)
Sure, when I was in high school I 'slept around' a bit, but when I matured a little more I realised the inherant dangers and have always been in relationships since.
That is not to say I don't like people who do sleep around, quite frankly it is none of my business and up to the individual how they treat their bodies.
Stratifier From , joined Dec 1969, posts, RR:
Reply 6, posted (14 years 2 months 6 days 23 hours ago) and read 1116 times:
I was in this bizarre situation. Let me introduce the names so you can at least understand what I'm about to say...
Jeff was dating Andy;
I went to visit Jeff, got involved;
I got bummed out and left for college;
Andy happened to be in my area, we got involved overnight;
Jeff went to Hartford CT and got involved with Adam;
I didn't get together with Andy after all;
Adam didn't get together with Jeff after all;
Adam keep creeping up and begging me to visit so he could get with me;
I'm glad that I could be talking about this comfortably now
CPDC10-30 From United Kingdom, joined Feb 2000, 4869 posts, RR: 22
Reply 17, posted (14 years 2 months 5 days ago) and read 1023 times:
I used to feel exactly the same way as you currently do, but two people have somewhat changed my opinion.
1) My BF
2) My mom (surprise!)
Both have used the reasoning that true love is something so strong that sex isn't the most important factor.
My BF wants me to have sex with other guys, but I'm definetly not going to for a while...if ever. His reason is that since I haven't ever been with anyone else, I'm going to miss out on the chance while I'm young and relativley attractive He went out with other guys before started going out, so he thinks I deserve the chance. I guess in some ways it is kind of him showing that he trusts me.
My mom used Bill Clinton as an example and asked me what I think Hillary should do. I said she should divorce him. My mom disagreed and argued that an affair doesn't necessarily ruin a relationship...particularly a healthy and intellectual one.
LH423 From Canada, joined Jul 1999, 6501 posts, RR: 53
Reply 18, posted (14 years 2 months 4 days 23 hours ago) and read 1024 times:
healthy and intellectual
These words and Clinton do not go hand-in hand
I do know what you mean...but I never said at the same time, that I would be tied down into one serious relationship...all I'm saying is that when I'm with someone, I'll be monogamous. At 18, I'm not looking for a lifetime commitment, and while I'm looking for more than casual sex, I don't see the need for an SO at this time. Especially with university, and a move to a new city on the horizon.
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