Deltaflyertoo From United States of America, joined Nov 2000, 1617 posts, RR: 1 Posted (12 years 8 months 1 week 5 days 19 hours ago) and read 821 times:
I have a question for you guys to ponder:
What do you think about sleeping to the top? I.E. I was always naive thinking that was a wise tale and that it really didn't happen. But over this past year in my company I have become aware that many people are doing it, AND, getting ahead for it too! I personally think it is disgusting. I am shocked that these people, when confronted w/ the rumour, rarely make an effort to deny or cover anything up. Recently I just got a major promotion where I am overseeing a staff of 15 people, many women, and I swear one of them is giving me the signals. So, has anyone else dealt w/ this? How do you resolve the situation and discourage the behavior without causing outright friction in the work place?
Superfly From Thailand, joined May 2000, 39437 posts, RR: 76 Reply 1, posted (12 years 8 months 1 week 5 days 18 hours ago) and read 807 times:
It's a common practice in corporate America and it makes me want to puke!
I work for a very well established consulting firm. The only women that have any high ranking position are whores! It's quite obvious too.
I hang out after work and have drinks with co-workers and I see what happens when you get a few drinks in some ladies and a few VPs hanging out together.
Secrets come out and you can see who are willing to go to bed with there bosses for a promotion.
Another form of prositution if you ask me.
It angers me because as a man, I have to work and earn my way up. Not to say that I would sleep my way up either if I had the choise.
My point is that merit dosen't always get you to where you deserve to be.
Superfly From Thailand, joined May 2000, 39437 posts, RR: 76 Reply 3, posted (12 years 8 months 1 week 5 days 7 hours ago) and read 789 times:
I wasn't trying to sound sexist in any way. I admit after reading it, it does appear a little sexist.
I am aware that men sleep there way up too. Down in LA in the entertainment industry, it is real common for men to sleep there way up. The company I work for is a little old school and the gays there are still 'in the closet' and aren't very open about it.
The women there are just a bit too obvious about it.
I just think that sleeping your way to the top is just awful and discusting.
Adam84 From United States of America, joined Jul 1999, 1400 posts, RR: 2 Reply 4, posted (12 years 8 months 1 week 5 days 6 hours ago) and read 773 times:
I would do it at my current job BUT I would never initiate something like that, only if they came to me (the only reason I would do it is because most of my managers are hot and my job doesnt pay worth a damn). But on the other hand, if I was a manager I would not give any of my employees a raise or promotion because I slept with them. Anyways dont call me a sicko cause I would sleep with some of my managers (even if I wasnt getting a raise or a promotion) because some of them are so hot.