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User currently offlineCanadianNorth From Canada, joined Aug 2002, 3389 posts, RR: 9
Posted (9 years 11 months 2 weeks 3 days 4 hours ago) and read 14413 times:

Ok first off, this isn't a joke or anything. Your more than welcome to add some humour, but please keep in mind if it's not worth saying, or has nothing to do with the following, please don't say it or save it for another time.

Ok, Here it goes, one of those "what if" questions eh. I wont use names tonight people, so I'll just go with "Person A" and "Person B".

Say Person A was in ohh about grade 10 or 11, somewheres in there. And so was person B. Now person A and person B both go to the same school, and are not really best friends or anything but do have conversations maybe 2-3 times a week during school hours. Now heres where the question part starts. Say this person A kind of liked this person B. But this person A and this person B were both guys or both girls, and just for fun very few people know that person A is not exactly straight. And now, the main problemski with this setup is the small fact that person A really does not know if person B is ummm that way, aswell. So, if YOU were person A, what would you do?


Thanks for any replys.
CanadianNorth


What could possibly go wrong?
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User currently offlineMxCtrlr From United States of America, joined Nov 2001, 2485 posts, RR: 35
Reply 1, posted (9 years 11 months 2 weeks 3 days 4 hours ago) and read 10867 times:

That's a sticky situation even if "Person A" and "Person B" were of opposite sexes. That they are the same sex poses a myriad of other problems for two people that age.

What "Person A" needs to decide is, if "Person B" isn't into same-sex arrangements, and "Person B" will most likely (if not of that persuation) blab it to everyone else in the school, can "Person A" handle the consequences. If "Person A" is ready for the possible (and, most likely) backlash, I would say to take the gamble and let "Person B" know how "Person A" feels.

MxCtrlr  Smile/happy/getting dizzy
Freight Dogs Anonymous - O.O.T.S.K.  Smokin cool



DAMN! This SUCKS! I just had to go to the next higher age bracket in my profile! :-(
User currently offlineRotor1 From Tajikistan, joined Mar 2003, 230 posts, RR: 3
Reply 2, posted (9 years 11 months 2 weeks 3 days 4 hours ago) and read 10853 times:

Don't waste your time. Go up to Johnny and ask him if he swings yer way. If so, thats great. If not, then move on. Its universal in both the hetero and homo worlds... dont waste time.

-Mike



The best aviation photo I've ever taken was rejected by Airliners.net
User currently offlineCanadianNorth From Canada, joined Aug 2002, 3389 posts, RR: 9
Reply 3, posted (9 years 11 months 2 weeks 3 days 4 hours ago) and read 10848 times:

Thats the whole problem... Person A is ussually the type that when he has a question he would just wonder over and start asking away, but this is different. Person A has worked hard to climb the social ladder, and just walking up to person B and asking him could work out great, or could mean a long and painfull fall to the bottom. Person A often takes chances, but this is one chance person A would like to find a way around. Person A wants to find out about person B, without anyone finding out about himself. Any suggestions for person A?

Yes, I will say that currently it is a very sticky situation with very few solutions that person A can think of.




CanadianNorth

[Edited 2004-09-22 06:30:47]


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User currently offlineRotor1 From Tajikistan, joined Mar 2003, 230 posts, RR: 3
Reply 4, posted (9 years 11 months 2 weeks 3 days 3 hours ago) and read 10842 times:

Thats why they call it a closet. If Johnny is a good person than he'll respect you if you ask him not to tell anyone, when he says he's straight. If you don't think he'll respect you like that if such a situation arises, then move on.

Don't stress about this shit. You should be stressing about money and how you can get it.

-Mike



The best aviation photo I've ever taken was rejected by Airliners.net
User currently offlineCanadianNorth From Canada, joined Aug 2002, 3389 posts, RR: 9
Reply 5, posted (9 years 11 months 2 weeks 3 days 3 hours ago) and read 10838 times:

Person A aint worried about person B loosing respect or telling anyone, its person A's and person B's friends being there to hear it and spending the rest of the week spreading it around. Now person A and person B only really see/talk when friends are around, so just walking up to person B and saying what needs to be said would be difficult for person A, and if person B turns out to not be that way, person A would never hear the end of it, which would not be very good for person A.



CanadianNorth



What could possibly go wrong?
User currently offlineCtbarnes From United States of America, joined Mar 2000, 3491 posts, RR: 50
Reply 6, posted (9 years 11 months 2 weeks 3 days 2 hours ago) and read 10820 times:

What does it matter? If A likes B and vice-versa, and it moves beyond friendship, well, you've got your answer. A true friend knows everything about you and loves you all the same.

Charles, SJ



The customer isn't a moron, she is your wife -David Ogilvy
User currently offlineZKSUJ From New Zealand, joined May 2004, 7093 posts, RR: 12
Reply 7, posted (9 years 11 months 2 weeks 2 days 23 hours ago) and read 10802 times:

In that situation, I would keep it to myself unless I was really sure.
I guess it is a different situation if you are a person who looks for someone of the same sex because it could turn out twice as bad if it went wrong.


User currently offlineBeowulf From Singapore, joined Jul 2003, 730 posts, RR: 14
Reply 8, posted (9 years 11 months 2 weeks 2 days 19 hours ago) and read 10774 times:

This 'Person A' and 'Person B' stuff confuses me, really! As other already mentioned, 'Person A' might just want to wait a bit, maybe a situation arises where A and B can talk to each other without bystanders, etc. Now, if B knows about A's "desires" ... B should tell A his/her decision, at the right time.

Nick

Got a headache now, B's and A's ... brrrrr!!!  Nuts


User currently offlineKLM672 From United States of America, joined Oct 1999, 2442 posts, RR: 3
Reply 9, posted (9 years 11 months 2 weeks 2 days 14 hours ago) and read 10742 times:

Person A can go and ask person B is he has a gf. If he says "yes" then he is straight, if B says "no", then A can ask, "what about a bf." B will make some sort of comment (I'm not that way, or no, I haven't found the right guy yet etc).

User currently offlineLeviticus From New Zealand, joined Oct 2007, 0 posts, RR: 0
Reply 10, posted (9 years 11 months 2 weeks 2 days 14 hours ago) and read 10731 times:

I second KLM672s idea, it is the far best so far.
Also when you do it, try not to act to serious or "stiff", like it would result in life or death (even if it might be that way)  Smile/happy/getting dizzy


User currently offlineLucky727 From Canada, joined Sep 2003, 602 posts, RR: 1
Reply 11, posted (9 years 11 months 2 weeks 2 days 11 hours ago) and read 10698 times:

James :

Having been person A (almost 20 years ago in high school...) - grade 11 & 12 ended up being pretty difficult, since, as it turned out, person A wrote person B a letter confessing everything...person B turned out to be straight, and while A wasn't worried about B telling everyone, everyone found out anyway & it made things a living hell for A. A & B never really spoke much afterwards, unfortunately - no loss of repsect, but it was just REALLY awkward.

Enough of my story - my advice to you (assuming you are A?) Don't pursue it - odds are most likely against what you have visualized actually happening...you'll be out of school soon enough & can explore all the other B's in the world. The downfall isn't work the risk, and soon enough you can move to YVR, YYZ or YUL (the cities, not the airports!) and do your own thang  Big thumbs up

good luck ~

Kevin



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User currently offlineBushcheney2004 From , joined Dec 1969, posts, RR:
Reply 12, posted (9 years 11 months 2 weeks 2 days 11 hours ago) and read 10692 times:

By any chance, are you person A?  Big grin

User currently offlineLewis From Greece, joined Jul 1999, 3629 posts, RR: 5
Reply 13, posted (9 years 11 months 2 weeks 2 days 8 hours ago) and read 10657 times:

Not another A vs B thread!!!! Big grin

Anyway, I believe that KLM672's idea sounds good but if I was.... 'Person A' I wouldn't go for it. If something goes wrong, 'Person A' would have to face serious consequences ie being ridiculed etc.


User currently offlineSlamClick From United States of America, joined Nov 2003, 10062 posts, RR: 68
Reply 14, posted (9 years 11 months 2 weeks 2 days 8 hours ago) and read 10663 times:

Well, as I hardly ever saw A's or B's in school I'm really not sure what you are talking about. It does sound, though, like Person A needs to go see Jimmy Swaggart as soon as possible!

Being from Canada are you sure it wasn't "person, eh?"




Happiness is not seeing another trite Ste. Maarten photo all week long.
User currently offlineGoboeing From United States of America, joined Jun 2000, 2694 posts, RR: 15
Reply 15, posted (9 years 11 months 2 weeks 2 days 8 hours ago) and read 10633 times:

Well, as I hardly ever saw A's or B's in school I'm really not sure what you are talking about. It does sound, though, like Person A needs to go see Jimmy Swaggart as soon as possible!

Being from Canada are you sure it wasn't "person, eh?"


Slamclick: I have yet to use this internet slang until now...ROTFLMAO!!!  Nuts

Nick


User currently offlineCanadianNorth From Canada, joined Aug 2002, 3389 posts, RR: 9
Reply 16, posted (9 years 11 months 2 weeks 2 days 7 hours ago) and read 10629 times:

Lucky727: person A almost did write a letter, but didn't eh. The thought of what could happen to them, which is what happened in yer story, is exactly why. Person A would have fixed their problem way back in the day, but can't seem to find a way to go for it without a good chance of something similar happening to them.


CanadianNorth



What could possibly go wrong?
User currently offlineAIR757200 From United States of America, joined Jul 2000, 1579 posts, RR: 7
Reply 17, posted (9 years 11 months 2 weeks 2 days 7 hours ago) and read 10617 times:


my advice to you (assuming you are A?) Don't pursue it - odds are most likely against what you have visualized actually happening...

I agree!! If "A" and "B" are becoming better friends (via conversation, hanging out, etc.) and "A"/"B" enjoys the other's company- then just leave it at that... Being friends is better than finding out something and it just backfiring on either person. As the friendship expands, "A" (or maybe even "B") can do some observations like whether or not he actively dates (and who he dates), etc.


User currently offlineCanadianNorth From Canada, joined Aug 2002, 3389 posts, RR: 9
Reply 18, posted (9 years 11 months 2 weeks 2 days 4 hours ago) and read 10578 times:

Ok, thanks for all the replies sofar. Now, apparently person A has considered just forgetting the whole thing and carrying on as if it never happened, but figures it will be on their mind still anyhow, so that idea would probably not work out the best.

Person A has kept it inside for a while with the idea that maybe what the rest of the people don't know wont hurt them. But now person A has decided that it would probably be best to just get on out there and say what needs to be said and call it done so they can go off and really just be themselves before it drives them to do something stupid.

The point of this whole post basically, is how do YOU think person A should go about doing what they feel they need to do without getting their ass kicked doing it.




CanadianNorth



What could possibly go wrong?
User currently offlineClassicLover From Ireland, joined Mar 2004, 4635 posts, RR: 23
Reply 19, posted (9 years 11 months 2 weeks 2 days ago) and read 10567 times:

Easy.

Rather than rushing into anything, what person A should be doing is cultivating the friendship of person B. I think you mentioned that they only speak a few times a week at present.

Person A should do all in his/her power to become a closer friend to B. If they truly like person B as a person rather than just as a sexual object, then this shouldn't be difficult at all.

Once person A knows person B a lot better, they will either like them just as much, like them more, or like them a whole lot less.

Either way, I think that person A will be in a much better position to know whether he/she can or should tell person B what they want to tell them.

All advice to suss out whether person B is in fact straight or gay is pretty good... however, some people who like the same sex will answer straight even if they're not. No-one wants their head punched in if they can help it.

I've been through all of this with a person B back in High School, and it's a lot of fun (is he, isn't he, and so on), but person A needs to take care of what he/she does and not do anything rash that could have an effect on how people treat that person in the future.

I have plenty more advice where that came from  Smile

Trent.



I do quite enjoy a spot of flying - more so when it's not in Economy!
User currently offlineCanadianNorth From Canada, joined Aug 2002, 3389 posts, RR: 9
Reply 20, posted (9 years 11 months 2 weeks 1 day 17 hours ago) and read 10539 times:

"No-one wants their head punched in if they can help it."

thats pretty much what has been stopping person A from telling person B.




CanadianNorth



What could possibly go wrong?
User currently offlineDash8King From Canada, joined Nov 2001, 2742 posts, RR: 11
Reply 21, posted (9 years 11 months 2 weeks 1 day 14 hours ago) and read 10510 times:

Don't do it A. Just keep staring in the locker room. Have you tried the opposite sex it could just be a faze(sp?).

User currently offlineScarletHarlot From Canada, joined Jul 2003, 4673 posts, RR: 56
Reply 22, posted (9 years 11 months 2 weeks 1 day 8 hours ago) and read 10490 times:

Hey Dash8King, have you tried the same sex? It could just be a phase.


But that was when I ruled the world
User currently offlineCanadianNorth From Canada, joined Aug 2002, 3389 posts, RR: 9
Reply 23, posted (9 years 11 months 2 weeks 1 day 8 hours ago) and read 10475 times:

For person A I don't think it's just a phase. Person A has been this way for a while apparently, so to me it doesn't seem much like a phase.




CanadianNorth



What could possibly go wrong?
User currently offlineDan2002 From United States of America, joined Dec 2002, 2055 posts, RR: 5
Reply 24, posted (9 years 11 months 2 weeks 1 day 8 hours ago) and read 10471 times:

CanadianNorth, being young, I would say its a phase. To find out if its a phase, find a Girl A and Boy B, bang girl a, then well, you get the idea. If its not a phase, go up to him and when he says something stupid call him a fag and see what he says.


-Dan



A guy asks 'What's Punk?'. I kick over a trash can and its punk. He knocks over a trash can and its trendy.
25 CanadianNorth : Person A also figured it was a phase back a few years ago, but apparently it doesn't seem to be one any more. So the phase thing was a good suggestion
26 Post contains images ClassicLover : This seems to be an instance where it might just be best if person A loved from afar and left it at that. There are times when it's better not to take
27 CanadianNorth : "If its not a phase, go up to him and when he says something stupid call him a fag and see what he says." Well person A didn't accually do this, but p
28 Post contains images CanadianNorth : ClassicLover... The more I think about it the more I think the drunk idea might just work for person A eh. But then Dash8King might of been right with
29 BNE : I Have A Question For You..., what a lame topic heading, maybe you should have named the thread "What if I were gay" the views would have been double.
30 CanadianNorth : I was half asleep and ready to go to bed when I came up with the topic heading, So If people think it could be better then I'm open to suggestions...
31 ZKSUJ : Person A should become friends with person B until more can be found out. Person B may well be gay as well but if Person A comes on too strong then an
32 CanadianNorth : Ok, Person A has decided that the next time they have a few minutes they are going to go find person B, and just tell them. Nothing much for plans, ju
33 ClassicLover : I think it's a plan. It's not necessarily bad or good. As long as all the consequences have been thought through beforehand, then sure, go fo it! Cana
34 Blackhawk144 : CanadianNorth, I don't mean to offend, but are you person A or B? Anthony
35 CanadianNorth : I feel stupid now.... Today at lunch I stopped at my locker to put something in and as I was leaving along came person B (his locker is 3 or 4 lockers
36 Post contains images ClassicLover : Isn't confusion lots of fun? It has to be the most annoying feeling in the world, especially when it relates to other people. I tell you something I'v
37 CanadianNorth : It is true though, the whole is he isn't he thing would just be no fun if I knew for sure. I know that chances are none of you know person B, and I'm
38 CanadianNorth : Boys and Girls, Todays lesson is............................... Notes do NOT work. CanadianNorth
39 ClassicLover : Oh no!! What happened? Trent.
40 Dreamer : CanadianNorth, Please, what happened? Wish I had seen your question earlier as I had a very different approach to it. Still, what ever happened, it wa
41 CanadianNorth : Ok. Well first of all fortunatly nothing too bad, but unfortunatly nothing much good either eh. Today after lunch we had double block of science (afte
42 Dreamer : So, sounds to me you are at square one still, he doesn't know you use canadiannort as you call sign? If we look at this from a different angle, you ne
43 CanadianNorth : He might know that I use "CanadianNorth" for a callsign, but I don't think he does. Even if he did, it would surprise the hell out of me if he ever re
44 Dreamer : Well, seems like you made up your mind. "Just jump in, the water feels warm". Good luck!
45 Post contains images CanadianNorth : Ok, not a whole lot has happened but I guess there might be one or two of you wondering if im still alive Well what I was going to do was at lunch tim
46 Post contains images ClassicLover : You're quite brave I reckon! Do let us know what is going on, because I'm definitely interested in the outcome. I hope you manage to get some sleep to
47 FlyboyOz : CanadianNorth... Wow...your story is fantastic...I still cannot wait to hear what happen next. I hope Person B will contact to you as soon as possible
48 AzoresLover : As the last two poster have said...I agree fully. Whether B ends up being YES or NO, I hope he'll be mature enough to stay friends, and I sincerely ho
49 KLM672 : Yes, I to am very interested in hearing what happens. This is the first post/story that I am actually following along with. Andre
50 JGPH1A : This is better than Eastenders ! I'm rivetted - can't wait for the next exciting installment ! Oh dear that does seem to trivialise your life (a lot !
51 Post contains images Klaus : JGPH1A, that was evil... and hilarious! CNorth, good luck!
52 VSLover : OH MY GOD THE SUSPENSE IS KILLING M E!!! i have read the entire thread over the course of an hour (people keep bothering me with "work") and i get to
53 Post contains images CanadianNorth : Wow, I didn't know my life was that exiting, god someone follow me around with a camera and give me 75% of the profit! lol ok, back to the story.. Are
54 VSLover : well first off, dont regret what you have done. you cannot change what you did, so quickly come to terms with that, and you'll be gold! now, it was ki
55 AzoresLover : Hang in there, bud. As others have said, that was gutsy for someone your age. B probably doesn't know how to react to it yet...the best thing you can
56 Dreamer : CanadianNorth, Wow, that is what I had the feeling you were saying earlier, hence my "Good Luck" You clearly gave it much thoughts and considerd pros
57 CanadianNorth : Well thank you very much to everyone who replied, especially those who made a series of posts as the updates came along, was a help. I got pretty much
58 AzoresLover : I was anxious all day today to hear how your day went. I'm glad to hear that you are OK, that nothing drastic has happened. As you can see, there are
59 Iflyatldl : Hang in there Canadian North! What you did took alot of guts and courage. I just started reading this tonight...Wow, what a week and a half you've had
60 ZKSUJ : Hang in there man, maybe he just needs some time to let it 'digest' and soak in the info. I certainly hope that this situation of him ignoring you doe
61 CanadianNorth : Ok, As of tomorow he would of had a week to think it over, and something tells me he aint gunna break the silence. So maybe I should break the silence
62 AzoresLover : CanadianNorth - Glad to see a post from you. I'll confess that I've been worried that you were all right. You've got quite a few of us concerned about
63 Seb146 : This is one thing I never got the chance to do in middle or high school: "Mom.... can Billy spend the night?" hehehe.... GO CANUCKS!!
64 ZKSUJ : I agree with AzoresLover, presume that he has read the note as hims actions over the past week have suggested so. try not to start the conversation wi
65 CanadianNorth : Somebody get me a beer. No cancel that, I think something stronger. CanadianNorth
66 AzoresLover : Tell us why, first...you have a great sense of the dramatic!!
67 Post contains images CanadianNorth : Have I ever told the story, about the time way back in the day, last year, when we had this new student, named matt, that lied alot, and wouldn't shut
68 Dreamer : OK, now we are all a little confused. So is "person B" one of the names mentioned? Besides that, you sound like you are doing well.
69 Leviticus : Okay, now I'm lost !
70 CanadianNorth : ok should I redo that.... Have I ever told the story, about the time way back in the day, last year, when we had this new student, Matt (Person C), th
71 Lucky727 : James! What's going on? How do these supporting cast members fit into the story? Is Nathan ('E') asking for your phone number to pass on to B?! Yes, t
72 CanadianNorth : Ok I'll translate for everyone then... ok should I redo that.... I'm going to add to it and hope it makes more sence. Have I ever told the story I'm a
73 Post contains images ClassicLover : Good grief Can I have your life? It sounds fun! So Matt was asking for your phone number, perhaps he wants to bother you all the time at home as well
74 CanadianNorth : I don't drink often, but now would be a good time to start.... According to austin, at lunch time Matt was asking what I like to do, and if I'm single
75 Post contains images Klaus : It´s quite possible (even likely) he´s simply a bit freaked out. It doesn´t necessarily say all that much either way, but approaching him with what
76 CanadianNorth : Ok, thanks everyone for yer replies, maybe the best plan for today is when I find person B, just tell Matt to bugger off for 5 minutes and go apologiz
77 Klaus : CanadianNorth: Ok, thanks everyone for yer replies, maybe the best plan for today is when I find person B, just tell Matt to bugger off for 5 minutes
78 CanadianNorth : Well everyone, not much to say sofar. Pretty much the same old story... person B still remaining silent and Matt still remaining everything but silent
79 AA777 : Relax. Wait a while... Patience is a virtue, as the old saying goes. Even if person B does think of you that way, it might not be easy for him to admi
80 AzoresLover : If I'm following the plot line correctly, you are interested in person B but he has given no indication that he is interested, or even that he is stil
81 Post contains images CanadianNorth : Well I guess this counts as something... Matt wasn't around today (yay! ), so I got a break there. And although it probably meant nothing, the silence
82 Phxairfan : What was his demeanor when he helped you? Did he seem awkward or uncomfortable? Or was he just calm and relaxed like normal? This is one hell of an ad
83 Whitehatter : This needs time. The fact that Person B didn't start screaming about Person A being a fag and all that crap is a good sign (sort of...) which would sa
84 CanadianNorth : Well today was, umm, interesting? As ussual matt was going on and on making big stories out of little things. But part way through lunch I saw person
85 Lucky727 : Hmmm...good to find a new post, but I'm worried that things will spiral completely out of control by the end of the week. So now this girl you're frie
86 AzoresLover : CanadianNorth - I'm getting really scared for you now...as Lucky727 says, it could get ugly. I don't even want to THINK about anything happening to yo
87 CanadianNorth : "but I'm worried that things will spiral completely out of control by the end of the week." It's only Monday and things are already getting out of con
88 CanadianNorth : It's only Monday and things are already getting out of control, full throttle. It is now Wednesday, and I think its safe to say control of this whole
89 Lucky727 : As long as you're here, then, any chance you could actually give us an update, rather than these emtpy one line teasers? Full throttle?
90 CanadianNorth : Ok, I'm still here, so Ill explain and save you all from trying to guess. It's kind of a long update, but Ill go for it. So Matt was telling me about
91 Post contains images Leviticus : Lot of trouble for a 13-15 year old
92 Post contains images ClassicLover : You're not really in it that deep. Your teacher probably wanted to know because of his concern for you. Teachers are like that when they find out peop
93 CanadianNorth : I think what I'll do is if that teacher really wants to know, then I'll just wait till he promises not to involve my parents, then if he agrees to tha
94 Post contains images AGM100 : Just ware a Freddy Mercury,Elton John,or the classic leather and biker hat with pink frons outfit to school from now on. If he talks to you your in. I
95 ZKSUJ : Canadian North. Just watch out and take care. Do what ever it take NOT to piss people off. I know and agree that if someone can't accept such a fact,
96 AzoresLover : I wouldn't presume to tell you how you should act, or what you should do. For someone to do that they would need to know you personally, know the envi
97 AzoresLover : By the way, my friend, I think you are setting some sort of record. Your story is quite captivating, and has many of us following it closely and wishi
98 CanadianNorth : Well I am truely amazing at how popular this has become. When I started this I had no idea I would get so many views, replies and emails about it. Blo
99 AzoresLover : Sounds like you've made it through the week quite nicely, nothing really bad has happened to you. I'm VERY happy to see that. Have a super weekend, bu
100 ZKSUJ : 100 Posts!!! Glad to hear that person B is talking to you again. Even if it is only about homework, it's a start. IMO, leave this new guy alone. If yo
101 Post contains images CanadianNorth : Well today sure went to hell fast. If I remember right in my last update I told you there was another guy eh. Apparently I somehow managed to let him
102 ZKSUJ : So...You really told this other guy? You should have kept it under wraps. Especially if you knew he was straight
103 CanadianNorth : I know I should of kept quiet about it. Saying anything about it is probably the stupidest thing I've done all week. All the stuff thats happening bec
104 Post contains images ClassicLover : Yeah, I've been there as well. I usually blab everything that comes into my head to someone, because I'm a talkative person and enjoy a good chat. How
105 Post contains images CanadianNorth : Well today was different. Sort of. What they had today, for some reason they had all grade 10s at our school spend the day in the gym. With those "yay
106 ClassicLover : Woohoo for you!! Speaking up with the God people is always a good thing. I did a similar thing in school at one point, and that caused many wide eyes!
107 ZKSUJ : Hey, I believe in God but I have nothing against gay people. I go to church ebery now and then, but it doesn't mean that I agree with everything they
108 AzoresLover : CanadianNorth - Religious groups are allowed into your schools to do the things you described with the kids?? WTF!! Could not happen in the States in
109 LHSebi : I heard that gay people have one less chromosome than straight people, and there is a form of science to back this up. So in actual fact, being gay ma
110 CanadianNorth : "I heard that gay people have one less chromosome than straight people, and there is a form of science to back this up. So in actual fact, being gay m
111 Post contains images Klaus : ZKSUJ: I heard that gay people have one less chromosome than straight people, and there is a form of science to back this up. Yeah, bogus science, mos
112 L.1011 : Alright, here's some advice from HS Student to HS Student. High school kids make David Duke look like Jesus. There are a number of paths you can take
113 ZKSUJ : Hey guys, thats what I heard on the radio, I did not say it was 100 true, but this person was saying that it was a science discovery, please, do not q
114 AzoresLover : I'm no expert on this idea, either, but I do remember reading an article several years ago about a study where the brains of deceased people were exam
115 Post contains images Klaus : Even if it was a choice (which it clearly isn´t), why would that be a reason to not treat everyone with respect? We should move that particular discu
116 SafeFlyer : I read all the thread. I can say it was definately the most interesting (and serious) read I ever had on A.net. You certainly are very courageous Cana
117 AzoresLover : SafeFlyer - That is an excellent post! You did a great job of putting this situation into perspective, and of giving hope to others in the same situat
118 CanadianNorth : SafeFlyer: AzoresLover is exactly right, that there's an exellent post, thanks much for sharing. It's good to hear what it's like from their side, and
119 Post contains images SafeFlyer : Hello again, It's no problem. I thought my story might help. It's true, time is a real healer. I didn't tell you what followed though, in my case. The
120 Post contains images IslipWN : I have spent like 30 minutes reading this. You are definately brave for posting this. Did you ever tell your teacher? Also, how many people know that
121 CanadianNorth : Yeah now that I look at it, it really is a good read. Oh well, Its definetly the real deal now but I'm sure a few of us will come back a few year down
122 Post contains images ReguPilot : WOW, WOW! WOW!!! What a great novel! I spent about an hour reading this whole thread (english is not my first language) and I have a couple of comment
123 ZKSUJ : So Canadian North, how is everything going? I hope everything is OK for you.
124 Post contains images CanadianNorth : Ok everyone, hope ya did yer algebra homework eh. Theres another person _ in the picture now. Well I could of added parts of this before, but I figure
125 ClassicLover : It could mean something, or you could be seeing things. My advice is to do nothing and wait and see if he says or does something... He might just be a
126 CanadianNorth : ClassicLover: exactly what my plan is, just be friends with him. If he wants it to be more, then he can come to me and make it something more. If he d
127 ZKSUJ : Ummm. well best to keep off till you are absolutely sure. So how many people are there in the picture now?
128 Post contains images Beowulf : Hey, Well, just take it easy with this new person. If something develops, fine; if not, don't worry too much. You are how old? 15, 16? Life is still a
129 AzoresLover : CanadianNorth - Yeah, I've got to agree you have a talent for writing, and for building a plot and suspense. Does this talent carry over into your wri
130 CanadianNorth : Do I really have a talent for writing? I didn't think I did, my marks in school have never been anything special or anything. Maybe it just sounds bet
131 AzoresLover : Hey - It's been a couple days since you've posted. How're things going for you? You all right? Hopefully you haven't frozen solid yet!! lol How about
132 CanadianNorth : My audience awaits eh... Well I don't really have much for an update, just throwing this in so yall know I'm still alive and didn't forget about you g
133 Post contains images CanadianNorth : Ok, still not too too much for an update, but even though interest in my story seems to be slowing down a little I'll give yall another update eh. Wel
134 VSLover : HA, so great to hear an update! nothing is wrong with you--you probably just sensed person b was acting a bit off, which you seem to have reflected yo
135 Klaus : Try to relax and try to get a relaxed connection going. Expectations are one thing (and rarely good counsel), but talking normally is always the best
136 Bushcheney2004 : This is really weird. Could you post a picture of you or your friend, simply because I have spent like an hour now reading this. I am now interested t
137 CanadianNorth : I dont have a good one now but tomorow they are taking class photos, and my class photo will inlcude over half of the people mentioned here if I remem
138 CanadianNorth : Oh sorry VSLover I just realized I kinda left you wondering there as I didn't include an answer in my last post, sorry! But to answer your question, "
139 CanadianNorth : Just a small update, nothing too big and it might all be in my head but it still might count as something eh. A few nights ago my mom was sitting ther
140 Post contains images Klaus : Pretty much so. Parents can usually take a hint when they´re already mining for it. If you´re halfway certain about yourself and your parents are ha
141 Post contains images Lucky727 : CN - your Mom knows...and what an easy/casual way to bring it up(!?) Maybe one of those teachers had called her...hmmm. Any *even newer* men in your l
142 Post contains images Klaus : Come on, Lucky, this isn´t a show for your entertainment!
143 Malb777 : CanadianNorth Great read fella, I have been in a similar situation as this it was at work and I thought nothing was going to happen, but one night aft
144 ZKSUJ : I agree that one of your teachers may have leaked it to your mum. But still at least she seems fine about it if you decide to tell her (well at least
145 Post contains images ClassicLover : Regardless, Mum's always know... When the subject came up with my mother when I was about 20, she said she'd known for years, but hadn't said anything
146 Post contains images Lucky727 : @Unserer Lieber Herr Klaus : yes, you're right - how rude of me... @ClassicLover : Don't diss one cow to dress another... Back to CN ~ whassup at skoo
147 Post contains images CanadianNorth : Well its nice to know I'm wanted .... Today at lunch Matt was off doing something else, so I used my chance to go see whats up with some of my other f
148 Post contains images CanadianNorth : Well a little bit of an update for today.... Something good, and something not so good. The not so good: Our Australian friend that came here for a ye
149 ClassicLover : James, don't worry about the not so good thing above too much. You don't have any idea what they were really saying, and you've automatically assumed
150 CanadianNorth : Well that was, ummmmmm, interesting?? I was sitting here like I often do and my mom just came down the stairs, and stood right behind me (i turned aro
151 Lucky727 : CN - yeah, of course it's normal to feel 'all stressed and shit' when you're cornered...(duh!) In the 3 months since you started this thread, you've c
152 Bushcheney2004 : Lucky727 is absolutely right. She obviously knows, and realizes you are lying to her. You should definitely tell her the truth.
153 CanadianNorth : Well I think after all this the worst of the worst is over, due to the fact that I think it's safe to say "Person B" is talking to me again.... Canadi
154 ZKSUJ : Just do not push it right now with person B, He will come around at his own pace if he is gay
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