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Does She Like Me?  
User currently offlineYanksn4 From United States of America, joined Dec 2003, 1404 posts, RR: 11
Posted (9 years 11 months 1 week 1 day ago) and read 3076 times:

Greetings everyone. For the past three years, this girl and I have constantly picked on each other everyday. I mean like we make fun of each other or push each other. Well three years ago, I asked her out and I think she would have gone out with me if I was the first to ask her. Again I like her (for some reason) and just want to make sure she likes me. I'm sorry if this sounds crazy and all over the place. Thanks for your time and hopefully responses.

Signed,
Matthew


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User currently offlineNosedive From , joined Dec 1969, posts, RR:
Reply 1, posted (9 years 11 months 1 week 23 hours ago) and read 3049 times:

If you have to ask, no..... and how bout that grand slam  Big grin

User currently offlineUsairwys757 From , joined Dec 1969, posts, RR:
Reply 2, posted (9 years 11 months 1 week 23 hours ago) and read 3037 times:

If you have to ask, no..... and how bout that grand slam

What grand slam??

Signed, Yanksn4


User currently offlineVonRichtofen From Canada, joined Nov 2000, 4627 posts, RR: 36
Reply 3, posted (9 years 11 months 1 week 23 hours ago) and read 3030 times:

She'd probably date you if you were a Red Sox fan  Big grin

I keeeed I keeeed!!



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User currently offlineN766UA From United States of America, joined Jul 1999, 8273 posts, RR: 23
Reply 4, posted (9 years 11 months 1 week 23 hours ago) and read 3019 times:

Don't waste your time.


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User currently offlineN766UA From United States of America, joined Jul 1999, 8273 posts, RR: 23
Reply 5, posted (9 years 11 months 1 week 23 hours ago) and read 3012 times:

Holy good God you're only 13-15? DEFINATELY don't waste your time, then. Don't get into girls till you're at least like 17 or 18. Even then it's not worth it but at least you can get some kicks  Big thumbs up


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User currently offlineZKSUJ From New Zealand, joined May 2004, 7107 posts, RR: 12
Reply 6, posted (9 years 11 months 1 week 23 hours ago) and read 3011 times:

Keep wiating for a little while but drop hints along the way. Seeing as you have been good friends, you can't just go for it right now.
Drop little hints like 'I wonder what it would be like if we were...' something along those lines and she should give you an indication by her responses.
Good luck and best wishes, but don't push it too hard.

SUJ


User currently offlineQantas077 From Australia, joined Jan 2004, 5856 posts, RR: 40
Reply 7, posted (9 years 11 months 1 week 23 hours ago) and read 3005 times:

ask her mum out if she's a milf!  Big grin


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User currently offlineEGGD From United Kingdom, joined Feb 2001, 12443 posts, RR: 35
Reply 8, posted (9 years 11 months 1 week 23 hours ago) and read 2977 times:

Yeah I can see that a 13-15 (get a feeling its the lower end of this demographic) asking out a 35-50 year old  Big grin.

User currently offlineFutureUApilot From United States of America, joined May 2004, 1365 posts, RR: 4
Reply 9, posted (9 years 11 months 1 week 23 hours ago) and read 2966 times:

At my highschool, i've noticed alot of people who are best friends, decide to go out with eachother, get into a fight and loose their friendship. It's just me, but I would wait till a little later, don't wanna loose your friendship... But that's just my opinion...
-future Big grin



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User currently offlineN766UA From United States of America, joined Jul 1999, 8273 posts, RR: 23
Reply 10, posted (9 years 11 months 1 week 23 hours ago) and read 2957 times:

Everyone who goes out before the age of 20 gets in a fight and looses their friendship. You're virtually guranteed to end up hating your girlfriend, it's just a matter of how many you want to end up hating. The longer you wait, the less immature girls you have to worry about. At the age of 14 or 15 girls are just about guranteed to cheat on you with some other immature D-bag of a guy, too.


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User currently offlineCanadianNorth From Canada, joined Aug 2002, 3390 posts, RR: 9
Reply 11, posted (9 years 11 months 1 week 23 hours ago) and read 2931 times:

I'd wait a while, if your not sure if they are interested in you or not, its better to shut up about it for a while than to jump right in and end up having yer friend no longer want to be a friend. Trust me, I learned the hard way.



CanadianNorth


Edit: for the full story about me learning the hard way see the thread here in the non-av titled "I Have A Question For You". It can be found here: http://www.airliners.net/discussions/non_aviation/read.main/639518/

[Edited 2004-10-22 04:26:08]


What could possibly go wrong?
User currently offlineORDflyer From United States of America, joined Aug 2004, 511 posts, RR: 0
Reply 12, posted (9 years 11 months 1 week 23 hours ago) and read 2914 times:

Take the advice of the last two posts! Back in high school I was good/best friends with a girl for a bit over two years. Somehow we got to dating but that lasted just a few weeks and we eventually lost the friendship which sucked since we had a lot of fun times. Moral of the story...don't worry so much about relationships at your younger age, you have your whole life ahead of you so just enjoy things the way they are. As my cousin always said, at that age people change boyfriends/girlfriends as often as they change clothes, so chances are you'd end up losing your friendship.

User currently offlineZKSUJ From New Zealand, joined May 2004, 7107 posts, RR: 12
Reply 13, posted (9 years 11 months 1 week 23 hours ago) and read 2907 times:

Once again, be sure about it before you make a move. You have to be more or less 100% sure before anything happens otherwise it could spell disaster.
I know people who were best mates, then went out and broke up. Now they don't even talk to each other. But in saying that, I know people (older than me) who were also best mates, went out and are now married.
I know marriage is too far at this stage, but I'm just trying to say that you should control your self until everything is crystal clear. Do not make snappy judgements right now.


User currently offlineKCmike From United States of America, joined Jul 2004, 537 posts, RR: 0
Reply 14, posted (9 years 11 months 1 week 21 hours ago) and read 2835 times:

Listen when we all say its not worth losing the friendship. Your chances are slim right now and like N766UA put it girls will cheat on you with some other low-life. Even if she "was" your bestfriend. Ive been down that road...wait a while.

Mike



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User currently offlineWellHung From , joined Dec 1969, posts, RR:
Reply 15, posted (9 years 11 months 1 week 21 hours ago) and read 2817 times:

Well it doesn't sound like much of a friendship anyway. Invite her over after school, push it as far as you can and then the next time you see her act like nothing happened.

User currently offlineDash8King From Canada, joined Nov 2001, 2743 posts, RR: 11
Reply 16, posted (9 years 11 months 1 week 8 hours ago) and read 2707 times:

I have been able to stay friends with people after going out with them.

User currently offlineFJWH From Netherlands, joined May 2004, 969 posts, RR: 3
Reply 17, posted (9 years 11 months 1 week 8 hours ago) and read 2670 times:

13-15!!

I mean, at this age, just like you said, all the girls and boys are 'teasing' each other etc.! But think of this, magine....: the girl starts to like you ..but then????? Are you going to hold each other hands etc???  Smile I mean , sex, or any other thing related to that is out of the question, right?

Right, now off-topic for a moment: My girlfriend is 16, she isn't in to sex. What should I do?? I'm 19 and a man, you get it... At this age you just wanna ...well you know..so don't get me started about respect for her etc  Smile! Well I have, of course I'm NOT going to force her but I think I'm going to dump her cause not only that but I'm not really in love anymore. What do you think?




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User currently offlineN766UA From United States of America, joined Jul 1999, 8273 posts, RR: 23
Reply 18, posted (9 years 11 months 1 week 7 hours ago) and read 2660 times:

FJWH: If there's any doubt, end it. Obviously there's doubt, you just expressed it, so why perpetuate a lie? The longer you wait the harder it is on both of you.


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User currently offlineAirKas1 From Netherlands, joined Dec 2003, 3996 posts, RR: 55
Reply 19, posted (9 years 11 months 1 week ago) and read 2531 times:

That story of FJWH is already outdated Big thumbs up

Was that in preparation of the Danish blonde you're going to meet next year  Smile/happy/getting dizzy Big grin  Smokin cool
 Innocent

Edit: typo...

[Edited 2004-10-23 02:39:21]

User currently offlineEmiratesA345 From Canada, joined Jun 2003, 2123 posts, RR: 9
Reply 20, posted (9 years 11 months 6 days 18 hours ago) and read 2452 times:

FJWH,

You send her my way! I'm willing to wait a little while. lol As long as in person, she looks the way she does in the pictures you posted, I'll wait!

LOL

Mark



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User currently offlineFJWH From Netherlands, joined May 2004, 969 posts, RR: 3
Reply 21, posted (9 years 11 months 6 days 16 hours ago) and read 2397 times:

Okay, update!!

I broke up with her but I got a trip plannen to Denmark (like my good friend Airkas1 said) so don't worry about me  Big thumbs up!

EmiratesA345:

Haha, your not up to date  Nuts. That girl from the pictures in the other thread, well that has been like 6 weeks ago  Nuts. This was another girl!  Smile
But good news for you, she's probably going to Canada in the summer of 2005 and she's also going to Cap Coudalere, Le barcares (near PGF) for those who are interested  Smile/happy/getting dizzy. If your coming, pay me a visit also, I'm also at Cap Coudalere  Smile

FJWH



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User currently offlineYanksn4 From United States of America, joined Dec 2003, 1404 posts, RR: 11
Reply 22, posted (9 years 11 months 5 days 2 hours ago) and read 2260 times:

Guys, I know I have alot of time in the future to think about this, but I just feel left out or something because I don't have a girlfriend. So, if you don't mind, could you please give an answer whether she likes me or not because of what I described.

Signed,
Matthew



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User currently offlineConcordeBoy From , joined Dec 1969, posts, RR:
Reply 23, posted (9 years 11 months 5 days 1 hour ago) and read 2249 times:

Yeah I can see that a 13-15 (get a feeling its the lower end of this demographic) asking out a 35-50 year old

...worked on Mary Kay Letourneau  Laugh out loud


User currently offlineVafi88 From United States of America, joined Apr 2001, 3116 posts, RR: 17
Reply 24, posted (9 years 11 months 5 days 1 hour ago) and read 2245 times:

Don't get into girls till you're at least like 17 or 18

Another reason not to trust conservatives!! HAHA

Matthew, Just go up to her, and invite her to hang out somewhere (parks, movies, go to a food joint somewhere) and then see how she acts outside of school, ask her questions about her *love life* (obviously rephrase that, as you are a bit too young to have a love life, but not young enough to be interested in the opposite sex.)

Just see where it takes you, become closer friends with her.



I'd like to elect a president that has a Higher IQ than a retarted ant.
25 N766UA : Yeah, you should never trust someone who offers sage, honest advice.... Weirdo.
26 Atrude777 : hey- im in a similair situation only we r older..me being 17 and her also 17. we hang alot, she calls me babe, hugs me alot, and she seems somehwat a
27 Mia : Dude, this happens to a lot of people. I am no expert at relationships; but your situation is tricky. People here give sound advice so take what they
28 BartiniMan : "but I just feel left out or something because I don't have a girlfriend." you make it sound like you need a girlfriend as a "fashion accessory". None
29 LHMark : Yanks. Just be confident, stop calling her names, and tell her you're planning to take her to dinner, or something. Don't worry about your peers. You'
30 ZKSUJ : If you want an answer. take her out for a 'casual' thing and see where it goes from there. Good Luck.
31 Lehpron : Yanksn4, I'm pretty sure you already made up your mind before you asked this question to us. I am not going to tell you if she likes you, that is up t
32 Post contains images OYRJA : Well... When I screwed her the other day she kept saying your name. So I guess she likes you Nah just kidding. Just ask the girl if she has the same f
33 Post contains images FJWH : We broke up last friday...... and already found my self another potential victim FJWH
34 Post contains images ZKSUJ : How do u do it FJWH? Your a bloody Romeo Yanksn4-Whatever you do, make sure that SHE is happy. If you like her enough you will sacrifice your feelings
35 Post contains images OYRJA : ZKSUJ, Didn't you know that FJWH takes Dancing lessons? To be exact he takes Square Dance lessons And I can tell you that they have a lot of nice hoes
36 Yanksn4 : Hey if any of you guys are on AOL and want to discuss it with me, just instant message me at NYYankeesn4.
37 ZKSUJ : What about MSN Messenger?
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