Superfly From Thailand, joined May 2000, 40298 posts, RR: 74
Reply 4, posted (14 years 1 month 1 week 3 days 3 hours ago) and read 861 times:
I am just as liberal as you here on these forums. However, when it comes to this whole men vs. women B.S. I don't buy into any of it.
It is a womans' job to serve her man and stand beside him. Womem are starting to realize it is almost imposible to be Carol Brady and Oprah Winfrey at the same time.
I work in 'corporate America' with a lot of overly ambitious women that sleep there way to the top. I think it is disgusting! Many of them are married too!
I wouldn't trust these kind of women as my wife. That's why the women I am going to marry is going to be an Elemantary School Teacher. All she will be working around is fat middlie-aged women. There will be no temptation in that field to sleep with a school Principle to be rewarded with what? Counselor? No!
A women who sleeps around is not a slut! I would consider here a 'good friend'.
I wish I had time to answer all your questions. I have to get back to work. I don't have the luxury of sleeping to the top. I have to work my way up.
EGGD From United Kingdom, joined Feb 2001, 12443 posts, RR: 33
Reply 6, posted (14 years 1 month 1 week 3 days ago) and read 825 times:
ok this is what pisses me off....
Women are always campaigning for equal rights, and they just about have them but there is still predjudice against them (me as one). Firstly, alot of women are scared of simple things, spiders for example, and especially among young girls they scream when just the slightest thing happens.
Furthermore when you are travelling they don't want to carry the bags, and always have to wear makeup, if they don't they don't go out. I mean come on, i know that not all women are like that and some should be treated equally but if they honestly want respect they are going to happen to shape-up.
5280AGL From United States of America, joined Apr 2001, 414 posts, RR: 1
Reply 14, posted (14 years 1 month 1 week 1 day 14 hours ago) and read 725 times:
I think part of the problem with women and today's society is the liberalization of our culture. Cheating and lying are no longer frowned upon in many circles, in fact some people do indeed enjoy using those powers to their benefit, either in the workplace or just as a self-esteem booster. What ever happened to moral values? The same moral values that I was taught as a kid do not seem to exist much anymore...Maybe that is why we see so much infedelity, violence among kids, teenage pregnancy, etc, today. Men haven't changed much, we have always been pigs, but there is a definete difference between women now and women 20 years ago. There are definetely too many bleach-blonde, SUV driving, mega-bitches in the world today, which I think is them getting revenge on men for treating them like property for hundreds of years!
Western727 From United States of America, joined Jan 2007, 801 posts, RR: 4
Reply 15, posted (14 years 1 month 1 week 1 day 6 hours ago) and read 716 times:
>>Why is it that men think they are gods so called gift to women<<
It's true that some men do. But you can't go making generalizations like that.
>>Why is it that men ... are wondering why women have all of a sudden decided that they want intelligent, gentle and wealthy men for husbands?<<
Well, I think that women have been wanting those qualities in a man for a long time. I also think that good men have been aware of this fact for an equal amount of time.
>>Why is it that other men and women think 'men' are pigs?<<
I guess I can't answer this one. Again, I would caution you against making harsh generalizations such as this one. Give women a little more credit.
>>Why is it that men who sleep around are called 'studs' and women who do the same are called sluts?<<
Just for the record, I don't approve of that type of behavior from either cohort.
>>Why is it that men get upset when some women sleep their way to top jobs when they are the ones screwing them?<<
Because it works?! It's almost like they are shooting themselves in the foot. There is a solution to this. It's that old, hackneyed concept of monogomy that I've always seemed so fond of.
>>Why is it that men think they are perfect when women are the ones behind the 'man'? (Cooking, cleaning, looking after the kids..)<<
Well, I'm a man, and I don't think I'm perfect. Watch that generalization thing. This may seem sort of novel, but I regard raising children as a higher calling than earning daily bread. Sure, I get to enter the workplace, and it will be a great experience. But my wife will get to witness every little spurt of growth in our children. I'd say that I envy her station. She is spectator to all life's purities.
>>Why is it when a man has sex with a woman and makes her pregnant he bitches when he has to pay child support?<<
That statement is dripping with such raw predjudice that I'm not even going to address it.
>>>Why don't as many women rape men as men rape women?
Why are more men incarcerated in prisons than are women?
Why are so many domestic violence incidents always caused by men?<<<
And why do men like tractor pulls more than women?
Granted, rape, assault, etc. are unhealthy manifestations of male aggression. Those activities reflect poor values in life, and a lack of refinement. However, the male instict to be aggressive can be put to good use, and has a distinct purpose - put food on the table. Now, I am a kind and softspoken individual. But when push comes to shove, I will defend my interests. Any good man would.
EIPremier From United States of America, joined Sep 2000, 1550 posts, RR: 1
Reply 16, posted (14 years 1 month 1 week 16 hours ago) and read 698 times:
Why are so many domestic violence incidents always caused by men?
Men have longer arms than women. If you compare a normally size woman and man of comparable reflexes, the man will always be able to strike first.
Men act the way they do because they can . Women are responsible for the most important component in life...reproduction and the nuturing of young. But, men have the key to the lock...
People are often treated in a way which belies their actions/intentions. Simply put, life just isn't fair, and this is true all the way down to our sexuality. Males are genetically programmed such that they have dominance over females, even though the female has a far more important role in life.
GKirk From UK - Scotland, joined Jun 2000, 25214 posts, RR: 55
Reply 17, posted (14 years 1 month 1 week 15 hours ago) and read 697 times:
Women want equal rights..yes, ok fair enough BUT
What do we men do when we are pissed off with another guy?? Hit him right...and so if women piss us off we would hit them but they would go to the cops quicker than you could say Jackass. And also if you hit a women, they will tell their friends and they would all say "Thats disgraceful" but when a women hits here husband they go "He deserves it". Huh, whats all that about then???
When you hear the noise of the Tartan Army Boys, we'll be coming down the road!
RealHigh From United States of America, joined Jul 2000, 1022 posts, RR: 14
Reply 18, posted (14 years 1 month 6 days 13 hours ago) and read 671 times:
We understand that you are gay and that is totally cool. You are already on the good side of all the women here including myself. I agree with most of what you are saying but come on, don't you think you are over doing just a bit much?
I think you have made some blind generalizations about men.
I don't like when men make blind generaliztions about us women.
I am sure you would like it if heteros made generalizations about gays.
I support equal right too.
Men and women are different in many ways. If you are a guy and you are confused about women, don't you think this is the wrong place to come for advise?
N863DA From United States of America, joined Sep 2004, 48 posts, RR: 5
Reply 19, posted (14 years 1 month 6 days 9 hours ago) and read 661 times:
Thank you RealHigh - I share your thoughts on this issue too.
An excerpt from GKirk:
>>Women want equal rights..yes, ok fair enough BUT
What do we men do when we are pissed off with another guy?? Hit him right...and so if women piss us off we would hit them but they would go to the cops quicker than you could say Jackass. And also if you hit a women, they will tell their friends and they would all say "Thats disgraceful" but when a women hits here husband they go "He deserves it". Huh, whats all that about then???<<
With all due respect, if any man ever even contemplated hitting a woman, he should be slammed up in jail. It is 100% unexcuseable for men to hit women - under ANY circumstance. There is never an excuse for such a course of action.
To know this and believe it should merely be good 'Gentlemenly' qualities, surely? Or are we in the Ole' South the only ones who have good manners & values? (Spare me the redneck analogies)