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User currently offlineAa777flyer From , joined Dec 1969, posts, RR:
Posted (9 years 6 months 1 week 5 days 2 hours ago) and read 1772 times:

Well I have been at work with her several days now. I have not said a word to her, nor has she brought it up. I take deals into her and let her know they are clear and she can pay on them, and process DMV. I am being civil and professional, its like we never dated, just business!

Well the today she wanted to go to lunch. Told her "sorry I am real busy, plus I have a customer comming in". What about dinner? "Oh wow I am going out with the guys tonight". "What about tomorrow?" ..Sorry I have an eye doctors appointment tomorrow night, I cant see that happening...(Ok I did not say the last part, but I really wanted to. I told her I already had plans).

I think she is really getting the hint, anyway I am done with that one!

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User currently offlineKieron747 From , joined Dec 1969, posts, RR:
Reply 1, posted (9 years 6 months 1 week 5 days 2 hours ago) and read 1701 times:

BRAVO!

Sorry, I read your previous thread, and it seems to me that this woman is a nasty piece of work.

Sounds like you made a serious (end expensive) effort for nothing...

Her loss

kieron747


User currently offlinePacificWestern From , joined Dec 1969, posts, RR:
Reply 2, posted (9 years 6 months 1 week 5 days 2 hours ago) and read 1693 times:

That creature really is a piece of work!! I applaud you for being strong and professional in your dealings with her. It's more than what the bytch deserves, but as pointed out the other day, you need to make sure your own butt is covered.

People like that...male and female are plentiful out there. Try not to let yourself become jaded because one day, someone truly worthy of you will present herself.  Smile


User currently offlineSeptember11 From United States of America, joined May 2004, 3623 posts, RR: 21
Reply 3, posted (9 years 6 months 1 week 5 days 1 hour ago) and read 1661 times:

thanks for the update


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User currently offlineAerobalance From United States of America, joined Sep 2000, 4681 posts, RR: 47
Reply 4, posted (9 years 6 months 1 week 5 days ago) and read 1654 times:

Good job!



me too



"Sing a song, play guitar, make it snappy..."
User currently offlineTheCoz From , joined Dec 1969, posts, RR:
Reply 5, posted (9 years 6 months 1 week 5 days ago) and read 1647 times:

You could have said yes to dinner and never shown up.  Laugh out loud

User currently offlineMdsh00 From United States of America, joined May 2004, 4124 posts, RR: 8
Reply 6, posted (9 years 6 months 1 week 5 days ago) and read 1640 times:

Quoting TheCoz (reply 5):
You could have said yes to dinner and never shown up. Laugh out loud


That would be nice! Give the bitch a taste of her own medicine.



"Look Lois, the two symbols of the Republican Party: an elephant, and a big fat white guy who is threatened by change."
User currently offline767Lover From , joined Dec 1969, posts, RR:
Reply 7, posted (9 years 6 months 1 week 5 days ago) and read 1636 times:

Good for you! Well done. Just don't cave in.

User currently offlineQantas077 From Australia, joined Jan 2004, 5855 posts, RR: 40
Reply 8, posted (9 years 6 months 1 week 5 days ago) and read 1633 times:

forget her man! good on you for having the balls to do something special though and asking her out, i'm to intimidated by women due to past experiences, i got stood up 3 times by the same girl and she actually made the arrangements.

1st time she rang me just after i got home from LA and travelled 40hrs, she started speaking Greek to me to impress me, which really flattered me, but she rang at 10pm in the night and i was already quite smashed so i didnt go, but her retribution was when i asked her out a few weeks later and at the last minute as i was about to leave she said she was cancelling.

then she organised a dinner for us in late january at a top seafood restaurant, i messaged her at 7pm with the sms saying, "so i take it dinners not on?" her reply was "yea sorry i have to cancel, to busy and i forgot"

3rd one was a few weeks ago, we were meant to go to drinks, as i was leaving the house like the 2nd time she rang and cancelled last minute, funny thing is, we get along awesome, everytime we've been out we've done some great stuff and it ends up being a very long day for us. I sms her every now n then and she wont reply immediately but a day or so later she will call to chekin and see how i'm doing.

great girl, one of the best i've met in ages, just wish she'd get her act together! i said to a friend " this is the girl i'm going to marry" not sure now, but who knows.



a true friend is someone who sees the pain in your eyes, while everyone else believes the smile on your face.
User currently offlineAllstarflyer From , joined Dec 1969, posts, RR:
Reply 9, posted (9 years 6 months 1 week 4 days 22 hours ago) and read 1598 times:

HAH! Yeah!!!  Big thumbs up

You're the man for that one. I have to disagree with these others about giving her some of her medicine by telling her yes and not showing up. Sounds like you handled it w/some class.  Smokin cool

I hope you keep this thread, as I've already printed it out for myself. It's good to keep reminders of such things, because we often forget, and women can really stick it to us if we're not careful. WTG man.

By the way, not to rub it in too deeply against her, but that must have been a Kodak moment when you gave her the last rub off. Way to stand your ground, because that may have been difficult with her asking you THREE times. You know now she would've toyed with you again. That would've been great to see the look on her face when you told her after the 3rd time.  Confused

Awesome!

-R


User currently offlineGOCAPS16 From Japan, joined Jan 2000, 4341 posts, RR: 21
Reply 10, posted (9 years 6 months 1 week 4 days 22 hours ago) and read 1592 times:

By the way, how old is she, if ya don't mind at all....

Hahaha, Monty...I'm on the same boat as you...I know this girl who I've known for 5 years, we've dated for a year then became really goods friend for obvious reasons. I still see her alot when im not working and whenever I go home on the weekends, I'll ask her if she has any plans...everytime it's "sorry, I have rehearsal, I've got family over, not a good time, yadda yadda yadda" I'm ok, ok, oh well, maybe next time mood...ya know...I got to stop by at her house on Valentine's morning to give her gifts I bought her, she liked 'em, talked for 15 minutes, then i left to drive to work...I wish I could see her every weekend...Oh, btw, she loved the gifts I bought her in Perth.  Smile/happy/getting dizzy

Kevin

[Edited 2005-02-24 05:43:01]

User currently offlineUSAFHummer From United States of America, joined May 2000, 10685 posts, RR: 53
Reply 11, posted (9 years 6 months 1 week 4 days 22 hours ago) and read 1585 times:

Quoting TheCoz (reply 5):
You could have said yes to dinner and never shown up. Laugh out loud


I like the sound of this plan too!

Greg



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User currently offlineLOT767-300ER From , joined Dec 1969, posts, RR:
Reply 12, posted (9 years 6 months 1 week 4 days 22 hours ago) and read 1581 times:

Guys,

With some of the girls ive been ive pointed out my definitive pet peeve.

Women who are NEVER on time and always do something else that they plan on doing.


User currently offlinePilotJmartin From , joined Dec 1969, posts, RR:
Reply 13, posted (9 years 6 months 1 week 4 days 22 hours ago) and read 1573 times:

ah LOT women are ON TIME, if you go by their time.  Big grin

User currently offlineAa777flyer From , joined Dec 1969, posts, RR:
Reply 14, posted (9 years 6 months 1 week 4 days 21 hours ago) and read 1564 times:

Quoting GOCAPS16 (reply 10):
By the way, how old is she, if ya don't mind at all....



Ok she is 22, 5'7" blonde hair to the middle of her back, dark blue eyes, about 115 pounds PERFECT body.....bad personality it appears...


User currently offlineGOCAPS16 From Japan, joined Jan 2000, 4341 posts, RR: 21
Reply 15, posted (9 years 6 months 1 week 4 days 21 hours ago) and read 1559 times:

eh, typical blondes. :-P

Kevin


User currently offlineAerobalance From United States of America, joined Sep 2000, 4681 posts, RR: 47
Reply 16, posted (9 years 6 months 1 week 4 days 21 hours ago) and read 1555 times:

Quoting Aa777flyer (reply 14):
Quoting GOCAPS16 (reply 10):
By the way, how old is she, if ya don't mind at all....



Ok she is 22, 5'7" blonde hair to the middle of her back, dark blue eyes, about 115 pounds PERFECT body.....bad personality it appears...



Wow, sounds good, keep her around, on your terms of course, but see other people.  Smile



"Sing a song, play guitar, make it snappy..."
User currently offlineStowAway From United States of America, joined Dec 2004, 640 posts, RR: 4
Reply 17, posted (9 years 6 months 1 week 4 days 15 hours ago) and read 1517 times:

Quoting Aerobalance (reply 16):
Wow, sounds good, keep her around, on your terms of course, but see other people.


You would be very wise to listen to this man.  Big thumbs up

Quote:
She has always gotten every thing she wanted. (I dont even know why she is working). Her parents bought her a brand new Mercedes SL Convertable, a condo, etc...every thing she always wanted....So if you want the romance with her ya gotta have the finance!


Pphhhh... Sounds like a Paris Hilton to me!

Quoting SlamClick:
Unless of course you are into plastic, mercenary bitches.
Your call.


Quote of the week!  Laugh out loud



A monkey's ass always talks crap.
User currently offlineGreasespot From Canada, joined Apr 2004, 3079 posts, RR: 20
Reply 18, posted (9 years 6 months 1 week 4 days 14 hours ago) and read 1511 times:

Maybe talking to her and letting her know what your thinking would be much more benificial.

But I guess you would rather play games. How is that working for you now?

oh right your alone.

GS



Sometimes all you can do is look them in the eye and ask " how much did your mom drink when she was pregnant with you?"
User currently offlineQantas077 From Australia, joined Jan 2004, 5855 posts, RR: 40
Reply 19, posted (9 years 6 months 1 week 4 days 13 hours ago) and read 1493 times:

nice one Kev, when you see her next make sure you get among it  Big grin what gifts did you buy from here? i can think of a good gift to give someone who lives in Perth, it's usually a ticket outta the place!  Smile


a true friend is someone who sees the pain in your eyes, while everyone else believes the smile on your face.
User currently offlineAa777flyer From , joined Dec 1969, posts, RR:
Reply 20, posted (9 years 6 months 1 week 4 days 8 hours ago) and read 1444 times:

I think I really have her figured out. She usually DATES older men, because they will typically have the bankroll to take care of her, but she still wants to play around with ones around her age, so she does not feel like a gold digger. Anyway I may see her when it is convenient for me, but as far as a LTR, FORGET THIS ONE!

User currently offlineBackfire From Germany, joined Oct 2006, 0 posts, RR: 0
Reply 21, posted (9 years 6 months 1 week 4 days 4 hours ago) and read 1417 times:

Well...you've taken control of the situation and now she's paying you more attention. Congratulations.

But don't be too harsh on her - you never know, she might actually respect you for standing up to her behaviour. Keep your options open about dating her again. She could be a very different person now that she knows you're in charge. Good luck.


User currently offlineQantas077 From Australia, joined Jan 2004, 5855 posts, RR: 40
Reply 22, posted (9 years 6 months 1 week 4 days 2 hours ago) and read 1402 times:

AA
you got played man, forget it! ask yourself this, is this the girl you want to spend the rest or any part of your life with?? if the answers no then stop stewing and move on to more fresher meat!  Big grin



a true friend is someone who sees the pain in your eyes, while everyone else believes the smile on your face.
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