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How Can I Get A Girl To Notice Me?  
User currently offlineAlberchico From United States of America, joined Sep 2004, 2824 posts, RR: 0
Posted (8 years 9 months 1 week 2 days 5 hours ago) and read 3558 times:

There is a girl in my building that I would like to know further. I often bump into her on occasion in the lobby or on the street. Any advice on how to get her attention? Her mother and my mother are friends. Should I talk to her mom to get introduced or what. Thanks in advance !!!


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User currently offlineSTLGph From United States of America, joined Oct 2004, 9234 posts, RR: 26
Reply 1, posted (8 years 9 months 1 week 2 days 5 hours ago) and read 3554 times:

try stalking.

or watch Average Joe on NBC and feel a world of self loathing envelope around you.



Eternal darkness we all should dread. It's hard to party when you're dead.
User currently offlineAlberchico From United States of America, joined Sep 2004, 2824 posts, RR: 0
Reply 2, posted (8 years 9 months 1 week 2 days 5 hours ago) and read 3550 times:

Quoting STLGph (Reply 1):
try stalking.

Are you thinking about the famous Flairport thread ?  Big grin Big grin



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User currently offlineSTLGph From United States of America, joined Oct 2004, 9234 posts, RR: 26
Reply 3, posted (8 years 9 months 1 week 2 days 5 hours ago) and read 3543 times:

no. but that gives me another idea. your mother knows her mother. instead of tracking her flights...just conveniently show up and fly along with her.


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User currently offlineAlberchico From United States of America, joined Sep 2004, 2824 posts, RR: 0
Reply 4, posted (8 years 9 months 1 week 2 days 5 hours ago) and read 3533 times:

I am thinking about getting her mom to introduce me to her. She knows I'm a good kid, so there's no problem in that respect. Its very important in getting a girlfriend to have the support of her parents.


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User currently offlineLHMark From United States of America, joined Jan 2000, 7255 posts, RR: 48
Reply 5, posted (8 years 9 months 1 week 2 days 5 hours ago) and read 3528 times:

Just walk up to her, smile, and confidently say, "Hi, my name's Alberchico! What's yours?" (Don't really use your A.net screen name). A direct, confident greeting will disarm her enough to tell you her name. If she's smiling and seems talkative, ask her how she likes the neighborhood, etc. If she seems a bit standoffish, don't force it. As confidently as you introduced yourself, say, "Mary (or whatever her name is, it was nice to talk to you, I hope to see you around soon!" And take your leave. She'll notice you from that point on.


"Sympathy is something that shouldn't be bestowed on the Yankees. Apparently it angers them." - Bob Feller
User currently offlineSTLGph From United States of America, joined Oct 2004, 9234 posts, RR: 26
Reply 6, posted (8 years 9 months 1 week 2 days 5 hours ago) and read 3524 times:

Quoting Alberchico (Reply 4):
Its very important in getting a girlfriend to have the support of her parents.

that's so 1960's



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User currently offlineAlberchico From United States of America, joined Sep 2004, 2824 posts, RR: 0
Reply 7, posted (8 years 9 months 1 week 2 days 5 hours ago) and read 3515 times:

Well what's your advice ???


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User currently offlineAlberchico From United States of America, joined Sep 2004, 2824 posts, RR: 0
Reply 8, posted (8 years 9 months 1 week 2 days 5 hours ago) and read 3506 times:

Quoting LHMark (Reply 5):
If she's smiling and seems talkative, ask her how she likes the neighborhood, etc. If she seems a bit standoffish, don't force it. As confidently as you introduced yourself, say, "Mary (or whatever her name is, it was nice to talk to you, I hope to see you around soon!" And take your leave. She'll notice you from that point on.

Thanks. I'll try that today and see how it goes.



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User currently offlineSTLGph From United States of America, joined Oct 2004, 9234 posts, RR: 26
Reply 9, posted (8 years 9 months 1 week 2 days 5 hours ago) and read 3495 times:

i dont know her and i dont know you, or what both of you look like. so i cant even make a comparison and say that you'd have a chance in hell.


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User currently offlineNewark777 From United States of America, joined Dec 2004, 9348 posts, RR: 30
Reply 10, posted (8 years 9 months 1 week 2 days 5 hours ago) and read 3495 times:

Yeah, like LHMark said, just talk to her. And act confident, like you are the man. That is the key.

Harry



Why grab a Heine when you can grab a Busch?
User currently offlineSrbmod From , joined Dec 1969, posts, RR:
Reply 11, posted (8 years 9 months 1 week 2 days 5 hours ago) and read 3487 times:

Go up to her and say "Hey baby, wanna wrestle?"

User currently offlineAlberchico From United States of America, joined Sep 2004, 2824 posts, RR: 0
Reply 12, posted (8 years 9 months 1 week 2 days 5 hours ago) and read 3487 times:

Ah so confidence is the key. That must be what's throwing me off all this time.


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User currently offlineSeb146 From United States of America, joined Nov 1999, 11122 posts, RR: 15
Reply 13, posted (8 years 9 months 1 week 2 days 5 hours ago) and read 3480 times:

Just seconds before I posted "Lacrosse in Portland," this thread was right above "Girl suffers heart attack on roller coaster" thread. Hmmmm.... Just a thought.... Big grin

GO CANUCKS!!



Life in the wall is a drag.
User currently offlineLHMark From United States of America, joined Jan 2000, 7255 posts, RR: 48
Reply 14, posted (8 years 9 months 1 week 2 days 5 hours ago) and read 3479 times:

And all confidence is in this case is the knowledge that you're worth getting to know. You don't have to act like a superstud. Just put on a big smile, introduce yourself in your normal tone of voice, and there's no shame in being shot down.


"Sympathy is something that shouldn't be bestowed on the Yankees. Apparently it angers them." - Bob Feller
User currently offlineOhTheDrama747 From UK - Scotland, joined Jan 2005, 291 posts, RR: 0
Reply 15, posted (8 years 9 months 1 week 2 days 5 hours ago) and read 3476 times:

Quoting STLGph (Reply 1):
try stalking.

or watch Average Joe on NBC and feel a world of self loathing envelope around you.

 rotfl  That's the best thing i've ever read on this forum. Welcome to my respected users lol.


User currently offlineFlyingTexan From , joined Dec 1969, posts, RR:
Reply 16, posted (8 years 9 months 1 week 2 days 5 hours ago) and read 3469 times:

In anticipation…



User currently offlineTPASXM787 From United States of America, joined Mar 2005, 1730 posts, RR: 20
Reply 17, posted (8 years 9 months 1 week 2 days 5 hours ago) and read 3464 times:

Two words for you:

Plastic

Surgery

that's the only hope.



This is the Last Stop.
User currently offlineAlberchico From United States of America, joined Sep 2004, 2824 posts, RR: 0
Reply 18, posted (8 years 9 months 1 week 2 days 5 hours ago) and read 3455 times:

Quoting TPASXM787 (Reply 17):
Two words for you:

Plastic

Surgery

that's the only hope.

Nope, for me its VIAGRA and lots of it...........



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User currently offlineAloha717200 From United States of America, joined Aug 2003, 4429 posts, RR: 15
Reply 19, posted (8 years 9 months 1 week 2 days 5 hours ago) and read 3454 times:

LHmark put it best, good advice.  Smile

Just talk to her, really. Just try to become her friend and let it go from there.


User currently offlineAerobalance From United States of America, joined Sep 2000, 4674 posts, RR: 48
Reply 20, posted (8 years 9 months 1 week 2 days 4 hours ago) and read 3442 times:

Say Hi,

Then ask her out.



"Sing a song, play guitar, make it snappy..."
User currently offlineAlberchico From United States of America, joined Sep 2004, 2824 posts, RR: 0
Reply 21, posted (8 years 9 months 1 week 2 days 4 hours ago) and read 3436 times:

Quoting Aloha717200 (Reply 19):
Just try to become her friend and let it go from there.

That's the dating advice my parents gave me.

Quoting Aerobalance (Reply 20):
Say Hi,

Then ask her out.

That only works if the guy is incredibly good looking.



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User currently offlineBraybuddy From Ireland, joined Aug 2004, 5573 posts, RR: 32
Reply 22, posted (8 years 9 months 1 week 2 days 4 hours ago) and read 3429 times:

Time and time again I hear girls saying that one of the things that attracts them to a man is his sense of humour. Don't overdo it. Say something witty or humourous to her and walk on. She'll notice you, and by not hanging round you're not putting her under any pressure. Take it slowly. You've plenty of time!

User currently offlineXJRamper From United States of America, joined Dec 2003, 2448 posts, RR: 51
Reply 23, posted (8 years 9 months 1 week 2 days 4 hours ago) and read 3423 times:

Or slip something in her drink.

Signed,

STLGph



Look ma' no hands!
User currently offlineGQfluffy From , joined Dec 1969, posts, RR:
Reply 24, posted (8 years 9 months 1 week 2 days 4 hours ago) and read 3423 times:

Dude. Be yourself. Make her laugh. Don't act all big.

But not neccesarily in that order.

Oh yeah, hygeine. You want her to remember you, but not cuz you smell bad. If you look like crap, its over. Pray you didn't hit every branch in the ugly tree on the way down.  Wink

fluffy


25 Newark777 : That only works if the guy is incredibly good looking. Remember, confidence. Ask her out, you may be surprised. Harry
26 Post contains images Newark777 : Be yourself Not if you're the average a.netter. Harry
27 Alberchico : So that means I should not spend the whole time talking to girls when the hell will Northwest retire its DC-9's ???
28 Aloha717200 : Don't rush things. Get to know her and let her get to know you before you actually ask her out. On first sight the way you look is the only think tha
29 GQfluffy : AHAHAHAHHAHHAA!!! LoL. No one ever said fluffy here was average. Hope Alberchico's got some luck in his lines fluffy
30 Newark777 : So that means I should not spend the whole time talking to girls when the hell will Northwest retire its DC-9's ??? Exactly, especially since she prob
31 Post contains images GQfluffy : You may never know now, will ya? The current gf of 7 months actually digs airplanes of all shapes and sizes, but when it comes to a/net, she thinks w
32 Post contains links Airlinelover : http://www.airliners.net/discussions/non_aviation/read.main/877209/ Read this and come to the hotel I work at. You're sure to get noticed if you talk
33 Saigonhouston : Try to wear a PRADA backpack with Gucci sunglass. A tight tan top with a pair of Diesel jeans and Kenneth Cole sandals. I'm sure she will notice you i
34 Post contains images Alberchico :
35 Alberchico : Well if anything happens I will post a new thread with the results and mabye some photos.
36 STLGph : works for me! except it's not a backpack, it's a boy purse. this gets my seal of approval. signed, stlgph
37 Alberchico : Man that's funny.
38 STLGph : alber-- even though i'm a total heartless bastard, you know you have my full support and i like to see happy endings, right?
39 Alberchico : Well thank you. Like I said, if all goes well I will post a new thread report how things have gone !!!
40 Jutes85 : PIITB . . .. . .
41 AA61Hvy : I have a feeling my dude Wellhung is gonna slam this thread...
42 Jacobin777 : "ummmm..beavis...ummmm..uh-huh huh..."....
43 Ilikeyyc : That's for sure. Do not talk about yourself and your interests (unless she asks)- Be sure to talk a lot about her and her interests, otherwise, she w
44 FlyingTexan : If he's not in the cooler right now...
45 4holer : Just do the mom and eventually invite the daughter to the threesome, of course!
46 Post contains images XJRamper : Sorry couldn't resist. XJR
47 Post contains images BMIFlyer : Thats an awful thought! Lee
48 Alberchico : considering her mother, not neccesarily......
49 StevenUhl777 : Find out through your mom/her mom what her next flight will be, then track it the entire way. Next time you see her, ask her about her flight, then v
50 Aloha717200 : That can be very true. But, who the hell wants to be with a girl that's like that anyway. If a girl can't like you for who you are, she ain't worth i
51 Alberchico : Oh you've got to be kidding me. Have you ever dated a New Yorker woman?
52 GOCAPS16 : Exactly! If you're young and she's young, I'll bet she'll like bad boys. sometimes acting nice doesn't work around girls. Kevin
53 Post contains images Aloha717200 : Be yourself. If yourself isn't good enough then she isn't worth your time. If you have to put on an act to win her over then what happens when the pe
54 Post contains images StevenUhl777 : Thankfully, no... I can only begin to imagine how much snobbier, bitchier, etc. they are compared with Seattle women...
55 Post contains images GQfluffy : LoL. Sometimes...ya never know.... I dated a chick two years ago at college that went to middle school and high school with me. She said that she tho
56 Alberchico : WHAAATTT !!! A loud gasp coming from everybody on A.net
57 Post contains images GQfluffy : Not from a chick like that it ain't. You do get tired of "OMG" coming out of her mouth every 5 minutes (and no, that doesn't include "sack time" ) flu
58 Post contains images ZKSUJ : So, is there a new thread? Talking, confidence and sensitivity my friend, talk about her and show interest in her, don't talk about your self unless a
59 Post contains images Mrniji : But please stay within the rules of anet (i.e. no nude) If I were you, I would not try it over the parent connection.. good would be if you had to wa
60 TedTAce : (Ignoring most of the above) Al, you need to take your head out of the bible... after all you are apparently lusting for this chick so now we KNOW you
61 HAWK21M : Try the Smile for a few occasions,Then upgrade to a Hello for some time,then an Intro,& things will move. Be yourself.Thats Important. regds MEL
62 Post contains images Monteycarlos : Invite her to the pants party... that always goes well.
63 Fokker Lover : How Can I Get A Girl To Notice Me? Isn't that the same question John Hinckley asked just before he shot President Reagan?
64 Wunala : Take a photo of her, and then get it printed on a t-shirt. Wear the t-shirt around the building, and she is bound to notice you.
65 Post contains images ScarletHarlot : Ouch!!! Bitter much, Steven? I'm a Seattle girl, and I am definitely not snobby, and usually not bitchy!
66 Alberchico : Who me ????? When have I ever said anything right wing ???
67 Post contains images Newark777 : Who me ????? When have I ever said anything right wing ??? It's TedTAce, don't worry about it. Harry
68 Alberchico : Oh so he's gearing up to be the next Rsmith.......
69 TedTAce : Well left wing like RSmith (not democrat mind you) but not nearly as PSYCHOTIC!!
70 Post contains images DfwRevolution : Ask her to Starbucks... it's the easiest thing in the world to do. Girls like it more than a movie and it's a comfortable setting to talk. Girls like
71 Newark777 : Ask her to Starbucks... it's the easiest thing in the world to do. Girls like it more than a movie and it's a comfortable setting to talk. Girls like
72 Post contains images StevenUhl777 : There's an exception to every rule, of course...you're from Canada, so you're fine... There's hope for you!
73 HAWK21M : So Whats the Update like. regds MEL
74 San747 : Definitely true... It may mean you go out with less women, but the ones you do go out with/get with/get into a relationship with are way more worth i
75 Post contains images WellHung : Bullshit. If a girl can't like you for who you are, be someone else until you get her in the sack. THEN move along. Dammit AA61hvy - preempting like t
76 Post contains images FlyingTexan : Tell her your a.net username. Signed, WellHung
77 Alberchico : damm good post. Welcome to my RU list..........
78 Post contains images Fumanchewd : You have to look like this.
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