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User currently offlineSkidmarks From UK - England, joined Dec 2004, 7121 posts, RR: 53
Posted (10 years 7 months 3 days 23 hours ago) and read 3311 times:

Well, where to start. My stepdaughter was raped on Saturday night. Not just raped but assaulted up the backside , causing her to have stitches.

The police have bailed the guy with no restrictions. My wife has gone across to be with her but, how the hell do you deal with something like this?

Where do you start? what do you do? It has really kicked me in the nuts, and she's not even my daughter. All I want to do is go and find this bastard and put his dick through a mangle! And the stick a fuck-off dildo up his arse and see how he likes it!

I feel our life has changed irrevocably for the worse. Where do we go from here?

Andy  old 

Growing old is compulsory, growing up is optional
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User currently offlineMFEFlyer From United States of America, joined Aug 2005, 367 posts, RR: 1
Reply 1, posted (10 years 7 months 3 days 23 hours ago) and read 3300 times:

Well Andy, all I could tell you is I'm sorry for what happen, but you make sure get the guy and beat the crap out of him, and give him a taste of his own medicine.

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User currently offlineAloges From Germany, joined Jan 2006, 9428 posts, RR: 39
Reply 2, posted (10 years 7 months 3 days 23 hours ago) and read 3296 times:

Terribly sorry to hear this.

But I am in no condition to give advice. There is no justice in these cases.

Walk together, talk together all ye peoples of the earth. Then, and only then, shall ye have peace.
User currently offlineJap From , joined Dec 1969, posts, RR:
Reply 3, posted (10 years 7 months 3 days 22 hours ago) and read 3276 times:

what a horrible, horrible situation... I'm so sorry this had to happen to your step daughter...

As for advise, I'm afraid I'm not very helpful... all I know is that she'll most likely need to talk about it a lot to get through it- not only to a shrink but to her family too- so the best advise I can give you is to be there for her, even though this may seem fairly obvious.

I'm terribly sorry this happened to you- this shouldn't happen to ANYBODY and the person who did this doesn't even deserve to live...

User currently offline777DadandJr From United States of America, joined Feb 2005, 1516 posts, RR: 8
Reply 4, posted (10 years 7 months 3 days 22 hours ago) and read 3261 times:

Hey Andy,
Let me just start by offering my prayers for your stepdaughter and you and your family.

This is an horrendous circumstance that you have been unexpectedly put into. Though I can empathize with your desire to hammer the crap out of this low life. I know I would feel the same had something like this happened to my son. The fact is, you would only make things worse for you and your stepdaughter.
I'm not a psycologist or anything like that, but I can understand all the feeling you are probably having.
My neighbors mother was murdered last summer, so I can relate.
The only advice I have for you right now, is to be strong, not only for the sake of your own sanity, but also, you need to be strong for her. You must support her in anyway you can. Seek consuling as well, for her and the family. It can be a great comfort.
Be there for her, and let the legal system run it's course with the perpetrator.

Again, my thoughts and prayers to you and your family.
Take Care.


My glass is neither 1/2 empty nor 1/2 full, rather, the glass itself is twice as big as it should be.
User currently offlineDLKAPA From , joined Dec 1969, posts, RR:
Reply 5, posted (10 years 7 months 3 days 22 hours ago) and read 3256 times:

Quoting Jap (Reply 3):
I'm terribly sorry this happened to you- this shouldn't happen to ANYBODY and the person who did this doesn't even deserve to live...

From what my sister tells me (she is around inmates at the county lockup on a weekly basis) that Sexual criminals don't last long in prison. That might be some comfort, also knowing that the bastard will rot in hell should certainly provide some small measure of justice?

But really, I have no experience in these cases so I can't really give advice.

User currently offlineAndz From South Africa, joined Feb 2004, 8594 posts, RR: 9
Reply 6, posted (10 years 7 months 3 days 22 hours ago) and read 3255 times:
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This is the obvious first step here but maybe not so in the UK... has she been tested for HIV?

Good luck during this trying time.

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User currently offlineGreasespot From Canada, joined Apr 2004, 3104 posts, RR: 19
Reply 7, posted (10 years 7 months 3 days 22 hours ago) and read 3254 times:

Contact one of the local rape crisis center. Most cities have them. If not then one in the nearest city. While thye tend to be for the victims of the rape they will privide you with a list of suport services.

I have worked in the rape crisis center here and you step daughter is going to need your support. NOt the "be strong" man type of support. She is going to just need you to be there for her. She will let you know what she needs as long as she feels she can trust you.

I truly am sorry that this had to happen to someone close to you.

For the people who want to beat him up is not going to help HER....This is about her and not anyone elses ego or outrage.

Lets say you did beat the guy. How much help would you be if you were in jail?

[Edited 2005-10-26 22:22:56]

Sometimes all you can do is look them in the eye and ask " how much did your mom drink when she was pregnant with you?"
User currently offlineEZYAirbus From United Kingdom, joined Sep 2003, 2496 posts, RR: 50
Reply 8, posted (10 years 7 months 3 days 22 hours ago) and read 3245 times:

Andy mate, so sorry to hear this, this bastard certainly doesnt deserve to live, but thats the easy way out, id like to see this guy suffer, an eye for an eye as they say, as you said stick a fucking great dildo up his arse until he needs stitches, lets just hope he is charged and the bastard goes down for a long time.


User currently offlineCtbarnes From United States of America, joined Mar 2000, 3491 posts, RR: 47
Reply 9, posted (10 years 7 months 3 days 22 hours ago) and read 3242 times:

First off, and I know this sounds patently obvious, but what happened is neither yours, your wife's nor your stepdaughter's fault. Keep that in mind as you deal with this, because self doubt and criticism always seems to surface at these times.

Best way to deal with it is to talk about it, both with your wife and with your stepdaughter. If you are religious someone in your Church may be able to help, but I also know the Police have counselors who can help you deal with these things or can suggest someone who can help.

It can take a long time, but these things do get easier to deal with, but the important thing is to give permission to feel what you are feeling. Are you alone in the house right now? If so, you might want to spend time with your wife and stepdaugher. It does not matter if you don't know what to say. Being there is ultimately more important is anything you say or do.

I'm shocked the guy was bailed out. Years ago my teenage sister was beaten and raped and I felt about the same as you did. What is more important right now though is your stepdaughter's health and helping her and your family through this.

Remember, you are not alone.

Charles, SJ

The customer isn't a moron, she is your wife -David Ogilvy
User currently offlineGreasespot From Canada, joined Apr 2004, 3104 posts, RR: 19
Reply 10, posted (10 years 7 months 3 days 22 hours ago) and read 3231 times:


Start there. It is a link of Rape crisis centers accross the UK.

Sometimes all you can do is look them in the eye and ask " how much did your mom drink when she was pregnant with you?"
User currently offlineBAViscount From United Kingdom, joined Mar 2004, 2338 posts, RR: 3
Reply 11, posted (10 years 7 months 3 days 22 hours ago) and read 3218 times:

Oh god, I'm so sorry to hear that.

I'm sorry that I don't have any advice to give, I was just so shocked to read your post that I had to reply.

If you need anyone to hold the b*stard down while you put his dick through a mangle, just give me a shout.


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User currently offlineN1120A From United States of America, joined Dec 2003, 29356 posts, RR: 73
Reply 12, posted (10 years 7 months 3 days 22 hours ago) and read 3218 times:

Andy, I don't know what to say. People like to say things like "you'll get through", "be strong", "this too shall pass" etc. but when an event like this happens that kind of stuff seems just impossible. All I know from having met you a few times and from these forums is that you are a great guy and will be strong in this for your step daughter and your wife. The really important thing to know is that, as much as you wish you could, you can't control things that go on in this situation but you can be proactive in other ways and that is what will get you through it

Quoting Greasespot (Reply 7):
Lets say you did beat the guy. How much help would you be if you were in jail?

Precisely. You know full well that the UK is a place where sex offenders are shown less quarter that pretty much anywhere in the world. This bastard will spend plenty of quality time at Her Magesty's Leisure and probably get lots more pain inflicted on him by big, violent criminals who still despise his type as much as you do.

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User currently offline9VSPO From , joined Dec 1969, posts, RR:
Reply 13, posted (10 years 7 months 3 days 22 hours ago) and read 3191 times:

I am truely sorry if this is the case Andy but it is something I would definately not be posting on a public forum.

User currently offlineScarletHarlot From Canada, joined Jul 2003, 4673 posts, RR: 54
Reply 14, posted (10 years 7 months 3 days 22 hours ago) and read 3187 times:

Oh my God, Andy, I am so sorry. How awful, how terrible.

Please take the above advice to heart and talk to a counsellor, your religious leader, or a crisis group. Don't be ashamed. Don't let her be ashamed. She did nothing wrong. What a horrible thing to have to deal with. Encourage her to get help.

Anger is a perfectly natural feeling to have - I think any caring dad must have huge amounts of anger in such a situation. However, as was pointed out above, you beating up the guy and going to jail won't help. Do everything you can within the legal system.

Very big hugs to you, and your wife, and most importantly your daughter.

But that was when I ruled the world
User currently offlinePilot kaz From , joined Dec 1969, posts, RR:
Reply 15, posted (10 years 7 months 3 days 22 hours ago) and read 3174 times:


Sorry to hear about this, truly a terrible event. I can only hope your step daughter will make a full recovery.

You know my number if you want a chat ok...

All the best

User currently offlineCaptaink From Grenada, joined May 2001, 5119 posts, RR: 10
Reply 16, posted (10 years 7 months 3 days 22 hours ago) and read 3166 times:

Very very terrible tragedy. I hope you continue to be of support to your stepdaughter as she will definitely need it. I also hope justice prevails but as one guy mentioned, all you attention and love should be focus on your daughter. I hope she feels better soon, physically and emotionally.


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User currently offlineTheSorcerer From United Kingdom, joined Oct 2005, 1048 posts, RR: 0
Reply 17, posted (10 years 7 months 3 days 22 hours ago) and read 3136 times:

Oh dear, can't really imagine how you feel ATM. Sorry 2 hear it.
Why did they bail the guy? Was there not enough evidence?
Anyway I don't think it'll be long before he gets beaten up by someone, I think rapist are despised all over the world.

All the best to you and your family , especially your step daughter.

The Sorcerer

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User currently offlineJafa39 From , joined Dec 1969, posts, RR:
Reply 18, posted (10 years 7 months 3 days 22 hours ago) and read 3132 times:

Quoting Skidmarks (Thread starter):
All I want to do is go and find this bastard and put his dick through a mangle! And the stick a fuck-off dildo up his arse and see how he likes it!

After you phone BAViscount, give me a shout, regardless of the fact that you might end up in trouble for it your reaction is to be expected.

Quoting Skidmarks (Thread starter):
Where do we go from here?

I have had to deal with a rape case as a youthworker and THE most important thing is that your daughter is counselled in such a way that she doesn't feel it is her fault. This is a fairly common reaction and by far the most destructive, letting her express feelings of hate will help as her feelings will then not turn in on herself and that is what you must avoid at all costs.

This isn't something that will go away I'm afraid, we all live with our traumas but don't just suck it up and get on with life, express that anger and articulate your grief (Counsellors are paid to listen and never tell you to shut up) take time to fully unload and worry about where to next once the feelings begin to subside.

If it is any help, I know 4 or 5 rape victims and they all seem to handle it better than some of their family members have and they do lead normal lives.

And, as one bloke to another, if they catch the bastard, he will get a good hiding and several rogerings in prison, it ain't PC but it helps!


User currently offlineBikergirl From Belgium, joined Sep 2005, 56 posts, RR: 5
Reply 19, posted (10 years 7 months 3 days 21 hours ago) and read 3108 times:

The horror dream of every girl I think.
Truely sorry this happened to someone so close to you.

If you want some advice (for what its worth) just be very patient and let her talk as much as she wants to get it out of her system.
Also try to convince her that she was in no part to blame for this.
Victims sometimes convince themselves that they had it comming to them just to try to explain to themselves why it happened.

Show her that you're mad at the person who did it but make absolutely sure that you show her that you keep yourself in hand and don't get her starting to worry about you doing something stupid, she doesn't need an extra worry now.

My best girlfriend at school also got mollested 2 yrs ago and she felt really bad for almost 1 yr but it did get better (because her family and friends where so supportive), you'll have to believe that things will get better again.
If you do that so will she.

All my best wishes to your stephdaughter and also your family.
Hang on Andy.

Greetings from Nathalie in Belgium.

User currently offlineGkirk From UK - Scotland, joined Jun 2000, 25347 posts, RR: 54
Reply 20, posted (10 years 7 months 3 days 21 hours ago) and read 3095 times:

Shit, sorry to hear this Andy.
If you see the bastard, just beat the living hell out of him.

When you hear the noise of the Tartan Army Boys, we'll be coming down the road!
User currently offlineRedngold From United States of America, joined Mar 2000, 6907 posts, RR: 40
Reply 21, posted (10 years 7 months 3 days 21 hours ago) and read 3085 times:

Andy, I am so sorry to hear about this.

Right now you're grieving. You're angry. You want to go out and kill the SOB that did this - but that would make things so much worse. The best thing for you to do is get help from the rape crisis people and stay with your stepdaughter and your family. If you go out and commit another crime, no matter how much the bastard deserves it, you won't be able to be with your family. You need to be with them right now.

Your life will go on and so will your stepdaughter's. That doesn't mean the coming days, weeks, months, or even years, will be easy. She will have to come to terms with what happened. It's important that you are with her to listen, cry with her, let her know that she didn't do anything to cause this, and that above all you love her in the real sense of the word.

I'm praying for you and your family.


Up, up and away!
User currently offlineAGC525 From United States of America, joined Sep 2004, 989 posts, RR: 0
Reply 22, posted (10 years 7 months 3 days 21 hours ago) and read 3051 times:

He'd never make it to trial if it was my kid.

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User currently offlineANCFlyer From , joined Dec 1969, posts, RR:
Reply 23, posted (10 years 7 months 3 days 21 hours ago) and read 3024 times:

Andy, rape is one of the most violent of crimes, and those responsible are never treated well by law enforcement or their fellow inmates. Perhaps there is a little comfort in knowing that . . . he will be in for a very rough ride for a very long time.

My sympathies . . . to you, your family and your step daughter.

User currently offlineWhiteHatter From , joined Dec 1969, posts, RR:
Reply 24, posted (10 years 7 months 3 days 21 hours ago) and read 3024 times:

Don't do anything stupid, just remember that if and when he gets the big house for what he's done then his nightmare starts....

rapists are not exactly given an easy ride in the nick....and once it gets round the prison he'll be lucky if he comes out of there in one piece.

25 Redngold : I don't know how to put this gently but I have another suggestion. As painful as it is to deal with, the rape should be addressed as openly and freque
26 A340600 : Andy, i'm so sorry to hear about this. The bastard who did this doesn't deserve to live! My thoughts go to you and your family, Sam
27 9VSPO : 1. We don't know the full facts. 2. He should not be discussing something so private on a public forum.
28 Aloges : 1. That's for a different thread. 2. I'm positive he's doing better things than discuss anything on any internet forum. So take your bitching elsewhe
29 BAViscount : Did you READ the original post?? I find it hard to believe that you are suggesting that someone would have asked to be treated like that. That's "his
30 Vaporlock : Andy, I'm so sorry to hear that this has happened. I know we all read and hear about it but when it happens to someone we know that makes it even wor
31 Ctbarnes : Oh for God's sake, leave the man alone. If he wishes to share this tragedy with the A.net community that's his choice. This is not the appropriate ti
32 JHFLYER : I am very sorry for your Step-daughter and your family I hope everything works out in the long run. And if you need help holding the prick down I will
33 Slider : I am totally without words. I can't being to relate, nor even comprehend the total tumult that rape creates nor understand the long term repercussions
34 IslipWN : That is just disgustingly horrible and the a$$ hole needs to be locked up for good! My sympathies go out to you and your family, especially your step-
35 Post contains images BCAInfoSys : Oh hell no! Andy, we're coming buddy! Round up the posse! It's time to go whoop some ass. I will gladly trade in some miles for a trip to the Isle of
36 ScarletHarlot : What Charles said. Most of us do not know Andy directly and you know what, an Internet forum might be the best place to post - because we are not his
37 PMN : How nice to see some show so much compassion for their fellow people. Firstly, "we don't know the full facts"? A member of this forum is saying his s
38 Redngold : Keeping silent about rape only worsens the outcome. People who speak openly about their trauma, whether or not it of a sexual nature, find comfort am
39 Springbok747 : Sorry to hear about your step daughter's ordeal Andy. Just find the a*hole who did that and drive a cricket bat through his nuts.
40 Logan22L : Andy - I couldn't even read most of the posts. I dont't know you, but we've know each other more than just someone you see on the news, but know that
41 F9Widebody : So sorry to hear about this, but I am so glad for your sake that he was caught. My prayers are with your family.
42 Logan22L : Sorry, double-post. .[Edited 2005-10-27 02:30:55]
43 Post contains images Checkraiser :   [Edited 2005-10-27 02:34:17]
44 DL021 : Skid.....I'm very sorry to hear about this, and extend my hopes that your stepdaughter will recover from this trauma. All I can say is that this will
45 Kevinl1011 : Andy... CBarnes and Greasespot speak truth. You need to be there for her. Focus your attention on supporting her. Show stength and courage as an examp
46 Texan : Thoughts and prayers are with your stepdaughter, yourself, and your entire family. Drop me a line if you need to talk. We are all pulling for your fam
47 BaylorAirBear : Andy, now is the time for you to be all the father that you can be. Be strong and pay close attention to your daughter's expressions. Cast your anger
48 TNboy : The fact that this guy was bailed is hard to accept - but it doesn't mean that he wont be dealt with harshly when he comes to trial. (...and in jail a
49 Jafa39 : I believe that if you take control of someone else's Karma, through revenge, and you go too far (Do a worse thing than God intended) then you will ge
50 HAWK21M : After Reading this.....I wanted to beat the guy blue myself & add in some torture.Can Imagine What you must be thinking or for that matter the entire
51 Aleksandar : Dear Lord, I'm so sorry to hear that. Well, that would be the worst thing to do regardless the fact that we would all want to do exactly the same. And
52 AR1300 : I would kill him.Seriously.I'm a bit kinda hard to control in this situations.Just wait for the right time in the right day.Everyone gets his hour. Mi
53 Post contains images Skidmarks : What can I say? Thank you all so much for all your input. I needed to be able to tell someone. The Forum is about the best place to get a good cross s
54 Flyingbabydoc : First of all, I am truly sorry that you and your family have to go through this. I hope it all turns out for the best and this trauma can be forgotte
55 RobertNL070 : Sympathies to your step-daughter, your wife and yourself. Keep well. Regards, Robert
56 Post contains images FlyAUA : Hey Andy, Sorry to hear about this... nothing I can say will make it better. This is a disguisting crime. How old was she? The obvious thing to do I g
57 AMSGOT : Awful to hear that this has happened to your stepdaughter. I hope you, your wife and your stepdaughter can find a way to get through this. As for the
58 57AZ : Terribly sorry to hear of this. Keep well and take care of your family. Speaking out against this injustice will help in the long road to recovery. We
59 Toulouse : Andy, due to time restriction I've only read about half this thread. First of all Andy, I am so so sorry for your step-daughter, you, her mother and f
60 Flyingbabydoc : You are correct if you think about her developing antibodies (2 weeks minimum), but I am sure they have done forensics and probably there is material
61 BestWestern : Andy, what can I say. Its times like this, when its important to listen to your step-daughter, and perhaps say very little. Its also important for her
62 ZKSUJ : I'm sorry to hear of this. It really is an unfortunate incident. I hope the guy doesnt get away with it, but in reality there are many cases that sugg
63 Pogo : I am so sorry to hear this Andy, getting advice/help from a crisis centre would be best, I presume the police are giving support/counselling to your s
64 TNboy : Andy: Being away from your wife and stepdaughter, and having to tell your sons, puts a lot of pressure on you. I am sure you know that you can contact
65 767Lover : I can't really add anything to what has been said previously, but my thoughts are with you and your family. I'm so sorry that you all have this to bea
66 ORFflyer : Skidmarks, Prayers are with your stepdaughter, you and your whole family. Listen to the folks advising restraint. Like many have said, you can't be th
67 BigOrange : Andy, Sorry to hear about your stepdaughter. No matter what 9V-SPO and others are saying, we are all your family, even if we don't actually know you,
68 Superfly : Oh my, this is a terrible thing to hear about. I share the same sympathies for you everyone above has mentioned. We all hope she is able to fully reco
69 Post contains images BCAInfoSys : Everyone suggesting moderating is probably right. Karma will bring things back around to this piece of shit. Though an anal flossing with rusty barbed
70 Ctbarnes : He'll probably get it in prision. Sex offenders only rank above child molesters in the prision social hirearchy. Count on the punishment fitting the
71 Aleksandar : It's good that you posted. After five years spent here, I realized that we are a small community (maybe in thousands but scattered all around the glo
72 Saxdiva : Andy, I'm without words--your anger and heartbreak must be unimaginable. Having never been through what you're dealing with, all I can say is to stay
73 Bikergirl : Hello Skidmarks, I hope that you are keeping your spirits up in these first days after the terrible ordeal. Plz understand that if you want to get a l
74 Euclid : Andy Let me join in here by also offering my very sincere condolences to yourself, your family and especially to your stepdaughter. May the idiot that
75 BR715-A1-30 : Andy. I am saddened to hear this. If it happened to anyone I know, including my best friend, even though she is not my daughter, I could probably feel
76 Beefstew25 : I still don't know why either chemical or physical castration are so out of bounds....make the person an 'IT.' My thoughts and prayers are with you an
77 Aviation : I do not know what to say, But, My deepest prayers go out to everyone affected. Cheers,
78 Post contains images BMIFlyer : Damn i'm sorry to hear the bad news Andy. I really want to be at the front of the line of people waiting to kick the shit outta that bastard. Hope you
79 Pe@rson : Hear, hear. I hope that they perpetrator is duly arrested, tried, convicted and sentenced appropriately.
80 Post contains images BMIFlyer : He's been arrested, as Andy has mentioned , but typical of the justice system, he's been bailed Lets hope he is jailed for a long time. Lee
81 Oly720man : This is truly awful. My deepest sympathies to you all, especially to your step-daughter. What to do... just be there for her. It's not something I've
82 HiFi : sh*t, man.. i don't really know what to say, but i had to write something, i got so mad when reading your post. i just hope that your step-daughter wi
83 Leezyjet : I'm sorry to hear this news about your stepdaughter. I know that at first it seems that anyone would want to go out and get the guy, however without k
84 Post contains images Pe@rson : I agree. I also wholeheartedly recommend that you don't do anything to this person, whether he did it or not, for you'll only land yourself in deep w
85 Post contains images Wrighbrothers : First of all, i'm so so sory for what has happened, these animals that lurk around at night praying on inosent women will one day get the living fu*k
86 MIA : How did it happen? The situation: city.place.time.events is what I ask first when I hear about a rape. I hope your step-daughter is okay.
87 Post contains images Leezyjet : And that my friend makes you just as bad as them. What if you had been a friend of the girl my friend met ?. Would you have just come round and beate
88 ScarletHarlot : WTF? Why do you ask such a thing? Does it matter what city she was in or what time it was? What difference does it make? Would you take the informati
89 MidnightMike : Oh my goodness, I can express how sorry I am for your step-daughter, I would seek the services of a rape counselor as soon as you can. Your step-daug
90 Marambio : Andy, I have no words to express my feelings. My deepest sympathy to you, your family and especially your step daughter. Let's hope the bastard who di
91 Wrighbrothers : I some how don't think I could go as low as that level . Remember, this is the level with people who mug old ladies and rob houses, so no I'm not as
92 Birdwatching : Actually, I think you are precisely as low as those people. The way you expressed yourself in post # 85, you are a danger for humankind. There is a r
93 Wrighbrothers : Look, I'm sorry for what I said in post 85, I was angry, because things like that make me mad. I am USUALY a calm person ( hard to believe but I am) a
94 Birdwatching : Thats ok, at least you realize it now. I think I overreacted too.
95 Wrighbrothers : Yes, I do tend to do that, I realy need to control myself, Thanks for understanding. It's just these things make me mad. I think the part of me being
96 Post contains images Leezyjet : You certainly do. We all get mad from time to time, but it's how you control that anger that it the key. If you don't learn to control it then it cou
97 NWOrientDC10 : Hopefully this pri#* will go to prison. When he does, Otis will make sure he doesn't get lonely Russell
98 Gladave : Andy, Although i have been about this forum for a while i dont post much I feel so so very sorry for you, your family and your step daughter. I had a
99 AirEuropeUK733 : Andy My thoughts are with you, your step-daughter and the rest of your family. I can speak from experience as my sister was raped 15 years ago and alt
100 DaddiesSecret : will you be telling your step daughter you posted this information on here?
101 Post contains images Skidmarks : No, not yet. But, when she is stonger and more able to understand then I will. She is aware that her experience has affected all of us and we each co
102 DaddiesSecret : did you really expect unsympathetic posts?
103 1aMLA : Really sorry too hear this, Try and give her as much family support as possible, she'll need it. Sorry to be so negeative, but justice will not be ser
104 Vikkyvik : Andy, I don't know you, and probably will never meet you, but reading this thread almost drove me to tears. Not to mention, just as I was starting to
105 BaylorAirBear : He isn't asking us to pass judgement on or punish the accused. He isn't asking us to evaluate his child's decisions. He is here to help himself cope.
106 DL021 : Andy....I'm glad that she's getting the counseling. I hope that they can offer the continuing help you guys, your stepdaughter in particular but all
107 Nordair : Andy: None of us can even imagine what your family must be going through. We can only offer our concern and support. I am so sorry for what has happen
108 Tbar220 : I'm sorry this has happened, she didn't deserve it and what she's having to go through. Stay strong and be there for her, that will be some of the bes
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