When I was in 7th grade, late in the year (I am now going into 9th) someone started a rumor about me being gay. I just ignored it, but when the whole school asked me every day, I got annoyed. I went to the 7th grade counselor and asked her what I could do. She said immediatley that she wanted to call and talk to my mom and I should give her all of teh names of the poeple. I didn't let her call my mom, it was too embaressing, and even though I held on for 4 hours of her nagging me and making me tell her who was doing it, I wouldn't squeal. I decided right at the moment after I walked in that I had made a bad choice to see her. I left, she didn't call my mom, and I forgot about it until...
IN the middle of 8th grade, right after conferences, she gave me a little pink slip to come down to her office to talk to her. I went, out of respect, and again we sat tehre for half a school day and she couldn't get me to let her call my mom (what good would it do, other tahn bring embaressment?) and she didn't get a name out of me. Aout two weeks later, she sent me down to her office again and told me that she had been thinking about the subjedct and she talked it over with her husband. Now, her husband is a city commissioner and I frequently attend the meetings and I have gotten to know him and he is fairly nice, so I didn't want him to know. I think she violated Doctor-Patient right there. Then, she proceeded to say that she had decided that she absolutley needed to call my mom. I begged and begged and finally, she let go and started to ask for names of people and I refused to tell her again. She even bvrought teh PRINCIPAL in and he tried to get it out of me, both eagerly leaning forward to listen to anything I say with their little pencil and paper. The principal left and she again, begged to call my mom. I said no. Then, she sneaked out of me a "yes," but not to call my mom and she procedded to pick up the phone and dial her at work. I cried and cried and pleaded and she still went on. Now, not only did she call her, but she made her come down to teh office off work to talk to her. I got so mad. My mom finally came and she talked. That was it,a nd my mom was mad too for her violating my rights, but didn't speak up. The counselor kept going up to me and tried to talk to me and I just ignored her every time. Did she violate my rights? I think she did. I brought something to herthat I trusted her with and she told two people. But, I did flick her off at teh end of teh year
Now through all of this, I am starting to be attracted to guys.