Aloha!!!! What's the story? You were on cloud 9 a few weeks ago?
By the way, there is a saying that I like to live by that relats to what you said JS:
"The best revenge you can give to a man that steals your woman is to let him keep her".
Because rest assured. Both men and women are creatures of habit. If a woman bailed on a whim once, I can all but assure you that she'll do it again. And that guy will then feel the same anguish that you felt, and be sorry that he ever sniped her from yoir life. Or even better, she'll fall in love with him, and he'll "kick her to the curb" just like she did to you and then she'll feel the same anguish she bestowed upon you.
Paybacks are a bitch, aren't they?