VirginLover
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Question For The Guys...

Tue Jul 17, 2001 6:49 am

I found a new hobby at the beach. Instead of just staring at the hot guys, I go up and strike a conversation.  Smile But here's my question. Do guys like when the girl makes the first move? Or would you rather have you start the convo?

Thanks  Smile
 
EGGD
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RE: Question For The Guys...

Tue Jul 17, 2001 6:55 am

Gal makes the first move for me  Big thumbs up

I am very shy teehee

Cheers

Dan
 
mls515
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RE: Question For The Guys...

Tue Jul 17, 2001 6:55 am

I'll take whatever I can get.....
 
Ikarus
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RE: Question For The Guys...

Tue Jul 17, 2001 6:57 am

Huh? Beaches? Girls? Conversations WITH girls AT beaches????

Something is wrong here. Something is definitely wrong. Oh I know: This forum also has participants that aren't into planes as much as the select minority.....

 Big grin  Big grin

Regards

Ikarus
 
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RE: Question For The Guys...

Tue Jul 17, 2001 6:59 am

I like it when the girl makes the first move.

Not shy, but it makes me feel special and funny.  Big thumbs up

Tee-hee Tee-hee
 
Superfly
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RE: Question For The Guys...

Tue Jul 17, 2001 7:08 am

Oh feel free to make the first move!  Smokin cool

You will certianly delight the young man. We like for women to approach us. Especially for a lady as pretty as you Katie!  Big grin Big grin


Superfly
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Joona
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RE: Question For The Guys...

Tue Jul 17, 2001 7:12 am

I don't mind a girl doing the first move. Tells me she wants to talk with me, and maybe something else  Big thumbs up

Jacking time  Big thumbs up

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JetService
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RE: Question For The Guys...

Tue Jul 17, 2001 7:19 am

VirginLover, absolutely! But how will you know where I'll be?!?! heh heh
"Shaddap you!"
 
EGGD
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RE: Question For The Guys...

Tue Jul 17, 2001 7:25 am

lol ok maybe i am not so shy, but i still prefer the girl making the first move!

 
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RE: Question For The Guys...

Tue Jul 17, 2001 7:31 am

Don't come on too strong. Keep your cool.
 
Alpha 1
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RE: Question For The Guys...

Tue Jul 17, 2001 8:27 am

Ok, enough of this!  Smile Young lady, you are too young to be "making moves" on anyone! I have a daughter just a wee bit younger than you, and you're giving me a coronary here!!  Smile
 
blink182
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RE: Question For The Guys...

Tue Jul 17, 2001 8:50 am

definately. I am kind of shy, and when I approach a girl, I am not sure if she thinks I am cute or hot(which I am  Big grin). If the girl makes the move, I am sure she atleast likes my looks. So I say definately Good luck. I wish I lived near a beach so I could approach some hot girls  Big grin
rgds,
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777YYC
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RE: Question For The Guys...

Tue Jul 17, 2001 12:07 pm

I love it when the girl makes the first move!!! Since I'm so shy it makes me way more comfortable if the girl comes to me.
Nothing bad about it at all!

 Smile/happy/getting dizzy
 
chris28_17
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RE: Question For The Guys...

Tue Jul 17, 2001 2:23 pm

F**K no theres nothing wrong with that, that saves us (me anyway) a whole hell of alot of nervous anticipation and wondering whether or not im gonna get totally shot down or not.

Problem with us guys in general is that our taste in women is pretty similar, if a girl is hot, shes hot! But i've found that some girls can think a guy is "hot", but then others think that same guy is "creepy" looking...

Reason that fucks us guys up, is that we approach a girl, we have no clue if she finds us attractive or not (well, within reason!) so if the girl approaches us, problem solved!!!!

Hope i've sufficiently enlightened everyone.....  Insane

CHRIS
 
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RE: Question For The Guys...

Tue Jul 17, 2001 2:28 pm

I could never bring myself to start talking to a girl, so im hoping some hot one will put the move on me one day.....however thats very unlikely. What really pisses me of is my sisters friends yelling shit like "your hot!" to me. Damn females.
 
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RE: Question For The Guys...

Tue Jul 17, 2001 2:32 pm

Shoot.. I'm all for it dude. Just say hello and i will gladly talk... im usually very flattered and attracted to a girl that will just come up and talk to me.
Chicks dig winglets.
 
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RE: Question For The Guys

Tue Jul 17, 2001 5:58 pm

For me, the girl MUST make the first move, or at least give some subtle signal of encouragement.

Personally, I would like to see the girl/women make eye contact with me a few times first. At least that way, I won't be caught off-gaurd if she comes over to start talking with me. But, guys who aren't quite as shy as me might not mind a more forward approach.
 
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RE: Question For The Guys...

Tue Jul 17, 2001 6:59 pm

I think every girl/qoman should make the first move...
An2/24/28,Yak42,Tu154/134,IL18/62/96,B737/757/767,A310/320/319,F100,BAe146,EMB-145,CRJ,A340-600,B747-400,A-330-300,A-340
 
Guest

RE: Question For The Guys...

Tue Jul 17, 2001 7:03 pm

Hello although I normally like to make the first move (traditional thing) I am OK for the girl to do it. However they must have style when it is being done!
Iain
 
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VirginLover

Tue Jul 17, 2001 9:07 pm

Good for you. It takes a lot of courage for a girl your age to do that, it's not easy being 15. Personally, I like it when girls come up and talk to me and my friends at the beach (we're all 20/M), because most of them are too shy to approach us, so they just drive by looking at us or sometimes shout "hey baby", which I also appreciate.  Smile
 
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RE: Question For The Guys...

Tue Jul 17, 2001 11:57 pm

Def. prefer it when girl makes first moe.
When you hear the noise of the Tartan Army Boys, we'll be coming down the road!
 
EGGD
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RE: Question For The Guys...

Wed Jul 18, 2001 12:46 am

lol this must be something all aviation freaks have in common.... Gal makes the first move!!!!!

 
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RE: VirginLover

Wed Jul 18, 2001 1:33 am

Does your name mean what I think it means???  Laugh out loud
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VirginLover
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RE: Question For The Guys...

Wed Jul 18, 2001 5:43 am

Yes, I truly love Virgin Atlantic  Smile
 
EGGD
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RE: Question For The Guys...

Wed Jul 18, 2001 5:50 am

I love Virgin(s) too
 
JetService
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RE: Question For The Guys...

Wed Jul 18, 2001 5:56 am

VirginLover, have you made any moves yet? How did it go?
"Shaddap you!"
 
VirginLover
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RE: Question For The Guys...

Wed Jul 18, 2001 6:16 am

I've made two moves:

One was to this cute guy at my school. I went up and asked "Hey, do you go to FHS?" To my surprise, he goes "Yeah, I was in your math class." I didn't notice him all year, he was in the back, and I was up in the front. As my aunt pointed out, "At least he noticed you all year" I only got his first name, but I looked him up in the yearbook for his last name, and now I'm asking friends if they know his e-mail address.

Two days later, I used the same line, even though this time, I was sure he didn't go to my school. He noticed me at the beach on Friday (not the same day I saw the first guy), when I didn't! (I didn't know I was so obilvious  Smile ) However, I only got his first name, and I have no yearbook to look him up.

Haven't got enough courage to ask for their numbers! With beach boy #2, I ran out of things to say after the general "What grade are you in?" "What school do you go to?". Any tips would be appreciated!  Smile
 
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RE: Question For The Guys...

Wed Jul 18, 2001 6:27 am

Ask him what he's into, see if there's something in common there, and let it go from there.  Smile
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Superfly
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RE: Question For The Guys...

Wed Jul 18, 2001 6:32 am

Ask a guy if he's into airplanes! Big grin
That will certainly win him over!  Smile
Bring back the Concorde
 
twa
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RE: Question For The Guys...

Wed Jul 18, 2001 11:33 am

I like when da girls make the first move.

TWA
 
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RE: Question For The Guys...

Wed Jul 18, 2001 12:31 pm

I'm almost 30 and I definitely don't have the courage to make the "first move." Hell, I'm afraid to even let on I might be interested in one. Men freak me out I guess. I know this isn't a guy's opinion, but more power to you girl!
 
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VirginLover

Wed Jul 18, 2001 12:59 pm

From what I hear your doing a pretty nice job. Maybee ask dudes what their hobbies are, what sports teams they like, what kind of car they drive ect...

I'm a hot guy and you wouldnt have a problem attracting me.

TWA
 
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Follow Up

Wed Jul 18, 2001 2:46 pm

Some girls think its "Un-Ladie Like" to ask a guy out......Thats BULLSHIT. Their is nothing wrong with girls asking guys out.

I prefer girls asking me out. I dont mind asking them out but it really makes a guy proud when they get asked out.

Out of my 5 relationships since August (Ya, So I look like a player) I have asked only 2 out of the 5 out. From experience the relationship works out better when the girl asks the guy out.

Take it from someone who knows  Smile

TWA
 
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VirginLover

Wed Jul 18, 2001 2:51 pm

I'm glad to see a brave female. We need more like you.

TWA
 
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RE: Question For The Guys...

Wed Jul 18, 2001 6:56 pm

It is VERY nice for me to see some girls approaching me!!!  Smile  Smile
 
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RE: Question For The Guys...

Wed Jul 18, 2001 9:17 pm

Only way I'll ever strike up a non-professional conversation with a woman...
I'm way too shy to approach someone of the fairer sex (though probably not attractive enough to be approached by them Embarrassment )
I wish I were flying
 
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RE: Question For The Guys...

Thu Jul 19, 2001 1:35 am

Sure! I'll exchange recipes, beauty tips and talk about Young and the Restless with anyone!  Big thumbs up
 
VirginLover
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RE: Question For The Guys...

Thu Jul 19, 2001 9:16 am

Question, if guys come over for a simple night, but they're wearing cologne, and you're the only girl there, does that mean anything?
 
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RE: Question For The Guys...

Thu Jul 19, 2001 9:45 am

Whats you definition of a simple night? If it is what I think it is, maybe. Some guys put cologne on for certain occasions, and some wear it all the time. My parents won't let me wear it.
It all depends, if you know the guy always wears it, it doesn't mean anything(or by the smell atleast) if he is when he never wears it, it probably does mean something. Just my advice.
rgds,
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us330
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RE: Question For The Guys...

Thu Jul 19, 2001 10:24 am

To answer your first question, as a fairly shy person who rarely has the courage to go up and talk to someone I even work with, I would love it if the girl made the first move.
 
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RE: Question For The Guys...

Thu Jul 19, 2001 11:08 am

I think you should feel free to get the ball rolling, so to speak. Many years ago, I would have appreciated it more than you can imagine. I was never able to go up to a girl myself because of shyness and a feeling that guys who did were more often the asses of my gender and I didn't want to come off that way. Girls confident and assertive enough to risk it themselves became that much more attractive to me. Even though that was so many years ago, I think it's still probably more likely that a guy playing you just might be a smooth jerk, but a jerk nonetheless. As long as you don't throw yourself at him, go for it! And the odds of meeting a guy that is worth your time might actually go up if you make the first move.
 
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RE: Question For The Guys...

Fri Jul 20, 2001 11:26 am

i like it when the girl makes the first move. how old are u?

ryan
 
VirginLover
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RE: Question For The Guys...

Fri Jul 20, 2001 11:57 am

So close to 16.  Smile
 
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RE: Question For The Guys...

Fri Jul 20, 2001 12:07 pm

Hmmmm.......I dunno, lots of guys are shy like me and wont really strike up a conversation because they are scared. Although "hot guys" may have a lot more confidence to strinke up a coversation with a girl.

 
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RE: Question For The Guys...

Sat Jul 21, 2001 10:16 pm

I like it when girls make the first move Big grin
 
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RE: Question For The Guys...

Sat Jul 21, 2001 11:07 pm

hmmmm...
Let me see your pic and I'll tell you...  Smile/happy/getting dizzy (OK: kidding Big grin )

Then Catie wrote:

Topic: RE: Question For The Guys...
Username: VirginLover
Posted 2001-07-19 02:16:25 and read 59 times.

Question, if guys come over for a simple night, but they're wearing cologne, and you're the only girl there, does that mean anything?

Yes. Some thinks:
1st.- They are gay
2nd.- They are straight but they all voted for you
3rd.- You can choose

OK. You may take my words until now half serious, half "on the lighter side".

Catie:
If you finished your words with a boy after two questions, forget him.

About girls making the first move, hey, I'm 34 so I probably see it differently.
If a girl approaches me (assuming that for most of you a 28-36 year-old girl is not a girl, but, hey: you're wrong) she makes me feel interesting, at least. If she is half as beautiful as Catie looks like in the photo (not very good one, but she says she's the one in the middle),
then I can also feel honoured and proud of myself.
But in Catie's case there's something else: teenager boys are either "too fast" or dumb. I, for one, was in the second category. I can understand that you are very young, but here is my advice: do not stick to anyone too much "star", even if he is nicer to your eyes. Mostly, male teens that are both "handsome" and "cool" or "funny" to talk to, become boring and selfish when they gain trust (NOT thrust  Big grin ), which occurs quite quickly, and try to keep their (limited) charm by impressing the (admit it: easily impressionable) female teens "prooving" their "superiority" with stupid things like "how powerful is my car" or "... my stereo" or "how fast I drive" and such crap. Beware of those and have fun with the others, taking iniciative if you wish. The guy who deserves you is going to feel good, to keep calm, to appreciate it, and to respect you, even though he might not seem as cool as "the other one" at the beginning.
Hope I helped.

Best turbulences
 
VirginLover
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RE: Question For The Guys...

Sun Jul 22, 2001 4:38 am

Thanks Turbulence, and to everyone else  Smile I have another prediciment, but i'm just worried this person might read the boards by chance.  Smile If anyone wants to help me out again, e-mail me. Many thanks Big grin
 
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RE: Question For The Guys...

Sun Jul 22, 2001 5:33 am

I am a shy guy, but I make the moves. I got nothing to lose, and everything to gain. I don't even have my virginity to lose anymore Big grin.

But if a girl wants to make the first move - sure, I'll be glad.
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us330
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RE: Question For The Guys...

Sun Jul 22, 2001 5:47 am

I don't know why I don't make the first move. I think it may be because I am afraid that I will embarrass myself.
 
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RE: Question For The Guys...

Sun Jul 22, 2001 9:10 pm

I prefer girls making first moves. When I make first moves, it ends up a disaster!
Btw, I think I decoded a piece of girls' psychology:
If a guy is talking to a girl whose hair is tied up and she lets it loose, she's interested in him.
If on the contrary her hair is loose and she ties it up, the guy's got no chance.
Any truth in that?
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