Let me see your pic and I'll tell you...
Topic: RE: Question For The Guys...
Posted 2001-07-19 02:16:25 and read 59 times.
Question, if guys come over for a simple night, but they're wearing cologne, and you're the only girl there, does that mean anything?
Yes. Some thinks:
1st.- They are gay
2nd.- They are straight but they all voted for you
3rd.- You can choose
OK. You may take my words until now half serious, half "on the lighter side".
If you finished your words with a boy after two questions, forget him.
About girls making the first move, hey, I'm 34 so I probably see it differently.
If a girl approaches me (assuming that for most of you a 28-36 year-old girl is not a girl, but, hey: you're wrong) she makes me feel interesting, at least. If she is half as beautiful as Catie
looks like in the photo (not very good one, but she says she's the one in the middle),
then I can also feel honoured and proud of myself.
But in Catie
's case there's something else: teenager boys are either "too fast" or dumb. I, for one, was in the second category. I can understand that you are very young, but here is my advice: do not stick to anyone too much "star", even if he is nicer to your eyes. Mostly, male teens that are both "handsome" and "cool" or "funny" to talk to, become boring and selfish when they gain trust (NOT thrust
), which occurs quite quickly, and try to keep their (limited) charm by impressing the (admit it: easily impressionable) female teens "prooving" their "superiority" with stupid things like "how powerful is my car" or "... my stereo" or "how fast I drive" and such crap. Beware of those and have fun with the others, taking iniciative if you wish. The guy who deserves you is going to feel good, to keep calm, to appreciate it, and to respect you, even though he might not seem as cool as "the other one" at the beginning.
Hope I helped.