I believe in pre-destiny. One time my mum and I had just gotten home from a friend's house. It was Summer, but that night was getting chilly, so we walked in and I was going to close the back door. We had a sliding screen door, as well as a regular French door that swings out. We also had cats, and the cats had made a good sized hole in the screen for them to pass freely. Well, this one night, a raccoon made it's way inside, and somehow got up on the door. I never saw it, but just as I started to close the door, my mum screamed get away from the door, yanked me out of the house and we went to a friends house to call the police. If my mother hadn't noticed the very large raccoon, about 40lbs (18kg), or even noticed it 5 seconds later, I may not be here today. Something that weight could have easily broken my neck, or it could have freaked, bitten me, and given me a disease.
That's one memory that sticks in my mind.
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