I just came back from my first high school dance a couple hours ago (I'm a freshman
), and I was just amazed. My friend (Who was presumed to be gay by several people at my old school, because of his high pitched voice) had two girls hangin on him the whole time. He returned from band camp from the high school with these two. Almost every person danced, except for three, one guy I know, another I don't know, and myself. I couldn't get a girl to like me if my life depended on it. Why would they like me, when there are guys better dressed, better lookin, and nicer than me? Most girls at my new high school judge on how well a guy can dance and what they look like. If you want to see what I look like, look for my post under "What You Look Like".
I have a couple of downfalls. First, I can't dance. I can't even get the beat of the music at these dances because it's so loud (Think of an MD-80 at full power, not moving). Second, I can't play sports, I'm not coordinated enough. Third, I'm very shy, I always have been. So I really can't ask a girl out, because it would practically kill me, and then I already know the answer will be no. Fourth, I'm not a nice person. I try my damndest, but I still seem boring (my voice sounds like Ben Stein's if you must know). And plus, if you look at my pic, I'm not very good looking anyway, even dressed up for my yearbook picture like I was in that pic. And another strike, I don't work out, so I don't know how to beat another person if, God forbid the occasion should ever arise. Oh, one more thing, I don't know what to do on a date, I've never had to worry about that, but now that I'm in high school, I don't want to get made fun of for not goin out on dates.
So, when you are so down on your luck, what is a guy to do? I don't want to end up like this Senior I met, who's never been on a date. I want at least one date throughout all of high school. Help me please, and I can't drive yet for another year yet. So, with that in mind, you have two choices to tell me. 1. Don't bother dating, or 2. (A good idea for me would go here)