Does anyone here have a crush on a guy/girl but the guy/girl he has a crush on is indifferent to him? This seems to be a common problem. I have it, too.
Last November, I met this really good looking girl, Larissa*, in Italian lessons outside school. We hardly ever talked, but I liked her a lot. One day, I decided to take the big step. I talked to her outside the building and told her I was in love with her. I admit this was a bit too strong, but she said her mum was waiting for her, went off and I never saw her in Italian lessons again.
This April, she started coming on ICQ (I had found her in November but she never went online). We talked and I asked her out several times. She always refused. So we became "just friends" instead.
In July, I arranged to meet her in person. She brought along two friends so we didn't have a private conversation but I realised how much I still liked her. But I told her I felt nothing for her apart from friendship some time ago in an attempt to get her attention and she also told me online that she has a boyfriend now. I haven't met her in person since.
What do I do now? I like her a lot and I'm dying to have a date with her! But how do I get it? She lives in Malta and I live in Gozo (around 30mins by ferry + 1hr by car away) so we don't have a big chance to see each other. Still, I'm in Malta at least once a week.
I can't get Larissa* out of my head. She has beautiful hazel eyes, straight, long, fair hair (chemically modified, though), a pleasing skin tan, a lovely voice and also quite a nice personality (although I have the impression she pulls my leg sometimes!)
Advice please, I'm desperate!!!!!
* - Larissa is not her real name