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Soul-Mates

Sun Dec 02, 2001 4:02 pm

Here's a fresh topic for ALL of you..

I was not sure, up until about, oh, a month ago, that such a bond was real.. Then, I met someone. She is sweet, caring, and has a sense of humor not to be matched by anyone else I've met. She lives, oh, probably, 10k miles away from me, but it doesn't matter. We quickly became friends, and started talking on the phone. She is one of the most unique people I have ever met, with a cunning mind, and always keeps me on my feet. I have never felt this.... Close (for lack of a better word) to anyone else IN MY LIFE.. It is not anything romantic.. It goes.. HOw shall I say.. Deeper than that.. My whole outlook on life has changed in one short month.. Next christmas, (2002) I am taking 3 weeks to go visit her. I can TRULY say I've found MY soul-mate..


I just wanted to share MY story with all of you.. with all of the "Girl help" and "My life is crap" posts in here these days, I thought something upbeat was in order..

Any of you have any storyes to tell???

Chris
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RE: Soul-Mates

Sun Dec 02, 2001 5:16 pm

...and then, three months later, it all falls apart and he writes an Emmy-winning lovesong...
 
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RE: Soulmates

Sun Dec 02, 2001 5:29 pm

Sounds good!! I know what you mean, it seems that most of the people that believe in this 'phenomenon' are those that have experienced it. I hope it does work out for you, and it's nice to read a post that is upbeat for a change!  Wink/being sarcastic
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RE: Soul-Mates

Sun Dec 02, 2001 7:14 pm

I hate to put a damper on this, but don't put all your eggs in one basket. I did that and..well I don't really want to talk about it. I really really really hope it works out for you. It is an awsome feeling. But..if it goes wrong it really sucks. In my opinion whoever said "it is better to have loved and lost than to have never loved at all" was on crack. Good luck.

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RE: Soul-Mates

Sun Dec 02, 2001 7:18 pm

Now now Drago you don't really beleive that, do you? It's worth the experience even if it doesn't work out. Y'konw, Garth Brooks, The Dance, etc.. Would you rather live your whole life in an emotional void?
 
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RE: Soul-Mates

Sun Dec 02, 2001 7:20 pm

Yes, I would rather live my life in an emotional void then be depressed for a couple months often thinking about suicide. I was perfectly happy till she came along. Then I was really really really really happy. Every day was the best day of my life and then BANG. Life is all of a living hell.. I say it again. The person who came up with that quote was on crack.

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RE: Soul-Mates

Sun Dec 02, 2001 8:23 pm

Dragogoalie, I can feel your pain, brother. I've gone through the same hell many times and am going through it right now too.

Gotta tell ya, it sure is hell just like you said. I've gotten over the suicide thinking, now I just need to concentrate on being friends with the girl. The good thing is, we'll probably return together. The bad thing is... It may take years.

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Airlinelover

Mon Dec 03, 2001 3:35 am

Good for you man. I felt that way once. I met this girl at a camp and thought we'd walk into the sunset, but it didn't work out and it took me like a month to get over it.

How did you meet this chic?
 
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RE: Soul-Mates

Mon Dec 03, 2001 4:35 am

I kind of got the same feeling about this one girl. But she has a boyfriend  Sad
 
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RE: Soul-Mates

Mon Dec 03, 2001 4:47 am

I'm very happy for you Chris. I love hearing uplifting stories like this one. I don't have a soulmate story with a happy ending and my take on it is this: You can have people that you have a special connection with, but I don't think I have a soulmate. I do have friends though that I've known for a long time that I would consider soulmates in a sense.
 
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RE: Soul-Mates

Mon Dec 03, 2001 4:50 am

"In my opinion whoever said "it is better to have loved and lost than to have never loved at all" was on crack."

I somewhat agree with you Dragogoalie. However, once you've loved and lost and then realize there are a lot more fish in the sea you realize it's not that bad. It sure feels like it at the time though  Sad
 
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RE: Soul-Mates

Mon Dec 03, 2001 11:51 am

I kind of got the same feeling about this one girl. But she has a boyfriend

Amen.

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RE: Soul-Mates

Mon Dec 03, 2001 1:33 pm

If it flies, floats or fucks, you are better off just renting.

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