To all those who wondered where I was.........I'm back!!
Anyway, during my brief exile, a pal of mine related what happened when he went to a bachelor party for another friend. It turned out that at this bachelor party the (groom to be) found out that his fiance had performed in two pornographic films prior to them being involved and one of the tapes was shown at the party with her doing not exactly what she might do with him. He of course, destroyed the tape and called her up to tell her the wedding is off and she should not call him. She was in tears as she said it was a mistake that she made a couple of years before when she was involved with another guy.
I feel embarassed for the guy with all that happened but I just felt compelled to throw out the question : What would you have done?