lubcha132
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Single For Another Year (or Worse)

Tue Dec 11, 2001 12:35 pm

 Sad

i got her (the girl i like) chocolate for Hannukah (Lindt, mind you, not cheap crap chocolate). and not just a bar or 2 truffles. a substantial amount. i wrapped the stuff myself, i even made the card!

it backfired. but not in a really bad way.

i had a pretty good day today...good day at school, corrected my english teacher Big grin, visited a nursing home, went to an engagement party, when i got home this message from her was left for me on AIM (i leave it on):
"i wanted to say thanx again for the chocolate  Smile/happy/getting dizzy, ur a very cool person and i value our friendship, lets keep it this way"

i'm not suicidal, i'm not going to throw myself on her to try to get her to change her mind. I feel disappointed, empty, upset. I've never liked anyone to any degree besides her, and I don't know what to do.

Looks like Josh is single for another year (or worse)

-Lubcha132/Josh
 
Matt D
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RE: Single For Another Year (or Worse)

Tue Dec 11, 2001 12:39 pm

Welcome to the club.


I just got off the phone with the only woman I love, Michelle, and she just called me an asshole and hung up on me.
 
lubcha132
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RE: Single For Another Year (or Worse)

Tue Dec 11, 2001 12:40 pm

misery loves company

but like i said, i ain't crying or slashing my wrists or anything. i just feel empty. very empty.
 
AC_A340
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RE: Single For Another Year (or Worse)

Tue Dec 11, 2001 12:41 pm

I imagine most of us will be single for another year.
 
KROC
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RE: Single For Another Year (or Worse)

Tue Dec 11, 2001 12:41 pm

You could be divorcing...........like me.
 
lubcha132
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RE: Single For Another Year (or Worse)

Tue Dec 11, 2001 12:46 pm

yeah but at least, even for a few days/weeks, you had someone who u loved or cared about and v.v.
 
KROC
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RE: Single For Another Year (or Worse)

Tue Dec 11, 2001 12:48 pm

While you think that may be good. When they hurt you, it hurts 10 times as bad as anything else possibly could.
 
SophieMaltese
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RE: Single For Another Year (or Worse)

Tue Dec 11, 2001 12:53 pm

There are a lot worse things than being single. At least you know where you stand.
 
Matt D
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RE: Single For Another Year (or Worse)

Tue Dec 11, 2001 2:04 pm

Plus, I was recently informed that my (female) friend of some 17 years-that lives in New York is going to be getting married.

Not only do I get to be the one to walk her down the aisle, but she also wants me to come out a week or so before the wedding to help get everything ready.


And I'm going to have to find a date to bring with me, which is not likely to happen.



There's a trip I'm really looking forward to.  Insane
 
mls515
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RE: Single For Another Year (or Worse)

Tue Dec 11, 2001 2:14 pm

Matt D-

Going to drive to NY? Or break down and fly again? Perhaps two AC tickets LAX-YYZ & YYZ-JFK?
 
kaitakfan
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RE: Single For Another Year (or Worse)

Tue Dec 11, 2001 2:15 pm

You gota stay strong, and be confident in yourself that you will find someone. Try not to dwell on it. Its hard not to, I know from past experience. But you gota stay positive. I agree with KROC... it can really hurt much more when you have actually been envolved. I once had a girlfriend that i really cared for a few years back... we would break up, and it would be very hurtfull. a few months later we got back together and dated a few more months, then broke up again... and it just really makes the pain worse when you have actually had someone and lose them again and again. But I never lost hope, and sure enough a few months later, I attract the most beautiful, caring, smart girl i could imagine... and ya know what she said attracted her to me first? my smile and my self confidence. Always keep that in mind! Those two aspects can do wonders for you man! But anyways, just know your situation could be worse then it is. Your time will be comin around soon. just dont let it pass you by when it does come! best of luck to you!

Cheers!
Brian
 
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RE: Single For Another Year (or Worse)

Tue Dec 11, 2001 2:16 pm

I'm going to be single for Another Year...*sigh8  Sad
 
hkgspotter1
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RE: Single For Another Year (or Worse)

Tue Dec 11, 2001 2:23 pm

Seems someone has a brain !!
 
Matt D
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Mls515

Tue Dec 11, 2001 2:37 pm

What the hell kind of routing is that?

Chances are more than likely that I'll fly there, unless I can convince her and her fiancé to get married out here.

Doesn't mean that I am particularly excited about it though.

Of course there's an opening in my company in Tampa, Florida that the more I think about it, the more I want to pursue.

I've had enough of the BS here in CA, not the least of which are the women, which are dripping with narcissism, and materialism.

 
PanAm747
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RE: Single For Another Year (or Worse)

Tue Dec 11, 2001 3:05 pm

MattD-

No offense, but why would you leave LA? There is very little to do in Tampa. Either you could shell out a few grand for a boat, or get used to driving a few hours to go to Disney World, other than that it's a tourist trap, with seafood places all around.

Oh, now I get it, so your a Yanks fan huh? Traded that old Dodger blue, for the pinstripes of the Yankee greats. Well, have a nice time at Legends Field come Spring Training.

Pan Am:The World's Most Experienced Airline - P(oor) S(ailor's) A(irline): San Diego's Hometown Airline-Catch Our Smile!
 
Matt D
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RE: Single For Another Year (or Worse)

Tue Dec 11, 2001 3:07 pm

I just need a change of scenery and a new start.

Plus, I would only be in Tampa for two years. After which, if things go according to plan, we will be moved up to Atlanta.
 
PanAm747
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RE: Single For Another Year (or Worse)

Tue Dec 11, 2001 3:14 pm

I have stayed in both of those places and have been to LA. You will be a lot more well off if you stayed in LA. Atlanta really isn't any better than Tampa. There's no beaches, the traffic is the worst in the country (check the rankings).

The sights include:

CNN Center
Jimmy Carter Center (very nice, even for a Republican like me)
Stone Mountain (Readneck Headquaters)
Olympic Park

And that's it. Seriously, stay in LA, or at least in California. You will regret it. I have never met a person who moved AWAY from California

Pan Am:The World's Most Experienced Airline - P(oor) S(ailor's) A(irline): San Diego's Hometown Airline-Catch Our Smile!
 
BWIrwy4
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RE: Single For Another Year (or Worse)

Tue Dec 11, 2001 3:31 pm

I moved away from San Francisco ten years ago. It wasn't by choice. My dad got transferred to Maryland. Trust me, speaking from experience, stay in California. If you're sick of LA, then try San Francisco. It's a great place to live.
 
KROC
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RE: Single For Another Year (or Worse)

Tue Dec 11, 2001 7:35 pm

If you go to Atlanta, be sure to visit the General Sherman Memorial. If you can't find it, just ask! I did, and it was a good thing by buddy had teh car running!
 
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RE: Single For Another Year (or Worse)

Tue Dec 11, 2001 11:36 pm

Soon you will realise there are some people you just want as friends! Girls come and go, friends stay for a life time. Enjoy the your time with her, hang out, have fun, and 50+ years down the road you will be pleased you will!
Iain
 
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RE: Single For Another Year (or Worse)

Wed Dec 12, 2001 12:00 am

Well, I've been single for the past two years, and with the female choices in my class, looks like things are gonna stay that way till I get back to LA....
Matt, move to France, like me, than you'll see how much cooler LA is than anywhere else.  Sad
 
Joona
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RE: Single For Another Year (or Worse)

Wed Dec 12, 2001 1:03 am

Maybe we should make up a club of singles.

Is there anyone out there witout girl problems?

Joona
1740 days idle. Beat that.
 
CPDC10-30
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RE: Single For Another Year (or Worse)

Wed Dec 12, 2001 1:07 am

You guys all sound so depressed...you have to quit moping around and make a move. So what if a girl turns you down, she's probably a bitch anyways. Just move on to the next, there's no shortage.
 
Joona
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RE: Single For Another Year (or Worse)

Wed Dec 12, 2001 1:12 am

Sanna is not a bitch. All the others before her were.

Joona
1740 days idle. Beat that.
 
Stretch 8
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RE: Single For Another Year (or Worse)

Wed Dec 12, 2001 1:16 am

Hey, you can always grab hold of what youv'e got and pound away - just ask Joona!  Big grin
Maggs swings, it's a drive deep to left! The Tigers are going to the World Series!!!
 
Joona
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RE: Single For Another Year (or Worse)

Wed Dec 12, 2001 2:55 am

Well, that's one option too  Big thumbs up  Big thumbs up

Joona  Smokin cool
1740 days idle. Beat that.
 
kaitakfan
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RE: Single For Another Year (or Worse)

Wed Dec 12, 2001 2:59 am

"is there anyone out there without girl problems?"

Right here! but If I can offer any helpful advice you know I am more than happy to do so!
 
Lindy
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RE: Single For Another Year (or Worse)

Wed Dec 12, 2001 3:01 am

hehehee I should count my fights with my girlfriend hehehehe latest fight was on Saturday night. I wanted to go out but she didnt want. So I left then she called me and we started arguing with each other and then she hang up on me and since saturday evening we dont talk to each other. I could change it but not yet, I need some free time  Big grin
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Joona
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RE: Single For Another Year (or Worse)

Wed Dec 12, 2001 3:20 am

Yea, with the bitches  Big thumbs up

Joona
1740 days idle. Beat that.
 
lubcha132
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RE: Single For Another Year (or Worse)

Wed Dec 12, 2001 5:43 am

i feel so un-wanted. i'm always the 3rd or 5th wheel, and no one gives a damn.

i stay home on the weekends involunarily and what do my friends say? "lol that sux". i just want someone who won't be like that to me.
 
Turbolet
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RE: Single For Another Year (or Worse)

Wed Dec 12, 2001 5:45 am

Lubcha... cheer up... I know this is not something to say to someone who's in love but you'll probably meet another girl who you'll love and she'll love you. Drop the probably...
As for being single, it seems I will remain single till 31st December at least, too, probably no chance of Maria changing her mind. But in a way I'm starting to see it's a good thing, would you want to hold hands with a girl from the time you wake up till the time u go to sleep? I probably wouldn't...
-turbolet
 
SophieMaltese
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RE: Single For Another Year (or Worse)

Wed Dec 12, 2001 7:58 am

It could be worse Lubcha132...you could be dating a player. Then you'd be #1.... (when the other 10 aren't around...)
 
LH423
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RE: Single For Another Year (or Worse)

Wed Dec 12, 2001 8:05 am

It's funny how the people in relationships are always the ones who blame us for our single woes, eh CPDC10?  Smile

What advice do you have for me CP? My choices are less abundant!

BTW, I will be another person spending the holidays single. Hell, there is no determining the end to my status as single  Sad

LH423
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AC_A340
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RE: Single For Another Year (or Worse)

Wed Dec 12, 2001 9:01 am

I'll probably be single for the holidays, unless I really hit it off with a friend.  Sad
 
Mr. Squirrel
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RE: Single For Another Year (or Worse)

Wed Dec 12, 2001 10:09 am

Look at it this way that's one less gift to buy for Christmas.  Big thumbs up
 
lubcha132
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RE: Single For Another Year (or Worse)

Wed Dec 12, 2001 10:36 am

1. she's jewish (like me)
2. i already got her the present.
 
Mr. Squirrel
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RE: Single For Another Year (or Worse)

Wed Dec 12, 2001 11:19 am

Lubcha132,

Oops! should've read your original topic. I guess I've got nuts for brains! Sorry about that.
 
SSTjumbo
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RE: Single For Another Year (or Worse)

Wed Dec 12, 2001 2:03 pm

Hey, I haven't had a single girl in my entire 17.9 years!!! I'm still walkin'
I don't know, so this is my signature.
 
deltaflyertoo
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RE: Single For Another Year (or Worse)

Wed Dec 12, 2001 3:52 pm

Stay Single!!! Life is much better that way!  Smile

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