This is starting to piss me off & I know how much everyone likes to read about girl problems around here... so have fun reading this. I have been single for about 2 months now... it has been fun. But I am really wanting a girl. In this time I have run into 5 girls I wouldn't mind dating. They are all fairly attractive, one is just simply hot as hell. She's a bitch to everyone besides me & a few close friends of hers, but I still like her because she is a goddess as far as physical appearances go. Well anyway, all of these girls "like" me... it sounds good but it is really starting to piss me off. The hot girl will even do everything, I mean everything, with me if I want her to. I thought this was a dream come true, basically an all physical relationship with a girl all my guy friends drool over. But she never let me buy her anything more than a dinner once in a while or see a movie. We finally talked about dating each other because I really had some feelings for her more than just her perfect body... she said I was too good for her
. I didn't know what to say. I have been talking to her for about a week about this, she says she gets hit on all the time @ clubs and stuff & she says she would just hurt me by cheating on me... she doesn't want to see hurt me because I am such a great person so we shouldn't be more than close friends. Well that entire situation sucks, but I can't be mad because she was only being honest and I respect that. What else can I say? I can't say she should have lied and said she wants to be with only me if she knows she can't do that. So I figured maybe I was batting out of my league & called up a few other girls that I flirt with all the time and probably aren't hit on constantly, but I do like them all a lot and would treat them good. Most I have known for a while, one I had even fooled around with about a month ago. I couldn't believe what they all did... four more girls & every single one of them "like" me a lot, think I'm great, charming, sweet, & funny but just want to be friends. That's 5 girls that think I'm one of the best guys they know, but really don't want a relationship with me. Now I'm pissed & depressed. I have lost all of my confidence, I really can't believe I am so friggin great, charming, funny or whatever if they don't want to go out with me. But it's weird they all said all that great stuff and still don't want to do more than flirt and once in a while get physical. It's like they all got together and came up with the same lie to tell me. Why let me be all over them if they don't like me? I always thought if a girl let you do certain things it meant she liked you enough to date you, but I guess not. Well, this all really sucks. Liz, the girl that's really hot that I really want, called me today & said she met a guy a lot like me. "Just as cute with your personality and all..." then complained that he "is kind of broke & doesn't have a nice car and sometimes has trouble getting a good job..." well WTF??? She wants to go out with guys that are almost exactly like me but have crappy cars, less money, and can't hold a reliable job like I can? Nothing makes sense, I think god or someone is just screwing with my head. If any of you have any suggestions on what I should do I would love to hear them, I'm out of things to do. I know in the past I said girls make great friends, but this is ridiculous. Liz said she wanted to be with me Christmas Eve and just cuddle and talk because I said I felt really bad not having anyone to be with for the holidays, so I do think she cares for me considering I know there are some other guys I know she likes that want her that night. I just don't understand how I am so "likable" and can't get a decent relationship.