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Sun Jan 20, 2002 2:27 pm

There is a girl at my school that has been in a few of my classes and one of her friends recently called me and told me that she liked my personality but she thought that I was ugly. Any help in what this means and/or if I should persue a relationship would be greatly appriciated.
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RE: Girls

Sun Jan 20, 2002 2:33 pm

It means she's shallow but if you get her drunk she'll do ya anyway. Big thumbs up

PS: If she's not attracted to you a relationship won't work.

RE: Girls

Sun Jan 20, 2002 2:39 pm

Physical attractiveness has nothing to do with it though, at least not for me. If I'm goign to pursue a relationship with someone its because I like them for who they are inside. Isn't that what relationships are supposed to be about? About finding someone you really like and love? And spending as much time as you can with them?

However, the fact that she said your ugly does make her sound rather shallow, and I think you can do better. Why woudl you want to be in a relationship with someone who cuts you down?

IT wouldn't, you can do better, wait for someone who really likes you to come along.

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RE: Girls

Sun Jan 20, 2002 2:44 pm

I think it means, she likes your personality, but you ain't Da Man for her.
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RE: Girls

Sun Jan 20, 2002 3:28 pm

I will be honest with you, the first thing that attracts me to a girl is the looks. However, the next thing is personality. To me, personality means not necessarily everything, but a lot.

The girl could be stunning and absolutely loves me, but if she does not have a personality(or one that i like), i won't exactly like her.

Personality means a lot, but looks do too.

So go get some plastic done and your set! Big grin. Seriously, if she doesn't like your looks, don't go for her.

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RE: Girls

Sun Jan 20, 2002 4:04 pm

 Sad Do you believe the girl's friend? I think there is more to it than that. Maybe the friend was trying to put you off her by saying that, the fact that this girl confided in her friend, so then the friend took it upon herself to do something about it, maybe for her own interests! Who knows, but it doesn't really sound like a sure thing.  Wink/being sarcastic
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RE: Girls

Sun Jan 20, 2002 4:13 pm

I agree Blink182... Even though I value personality very much, a sweet caring, awesome overall person, there is still a need for physical attractiveness. So for it to work you need both. But once you get past thinking someone is hot... its almost an insult to say they're hot once you really get to know them. But that is one of the first things people notice, looks.

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RE: Girls

Sun Jan 20, 2002 5:59 pm

Da man, it just means she values your friendship. I think its nice. Next time you see her tell her that you, too, value your friendship with her and will be there for her always. Tell her you know that unlike romances, friendships are forever. Then tell her that you are in the market for bigger tits, anyway.
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RE: Girls

Sun Jan 20, 2002 10:11 pm

The important question is do you want a relationship with her?
Answer yourself that. If no, don't bother. If yes, see how you can change for her to like you.
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RE: Girls

Sun Jan 20, 2002 10:13 pm

I Like To Fly hit da nail on da head, my man, Da man.
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RE: Girls

Tue Jan 22, 2002 7:07 pm

For her to tell ya you're ugly is mean, anybody can like your personality; it takes one to know one.

It's always looks first, those who say it isn't are either cute themselves or have a confidence level through the roof. No one who doesn't know you in the first place can be attracted to your personality, you appearance is quite literally the representation to your whole self.

I guess though if somehow she really likes your personality, then you should use it, maybe she'll oneday forget you're "ugly" and take a small interest in you that might lead somewhere, you never know.
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RE: Girls

Tue Jan 22, 2002 7:21 pm

Seen the movie "Shallow Hal",
If you wanna be her man i guess she's gotta get stuck in an elevator with some hypnotist guy.

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RE: Girls

Fri Jan 25, 2002 3:34 am

There happens to be lots of women in the world if you look around (by the last report, there are a few more women on the earth than guys if you can believe that [51%/49% F/M]). Don't settle for one who is not all you want her to be. If she doesn't like you that way, it can be a painfully pointless road to travel.
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RE: Girls

Fri Jan 25, 2002 3:45 am

>>There happens to be lots of women in the world if you look around<<

Yeah but you start setting parameters you get through most of the pretty quick. Cut out all the:
Ones with kids
Ones that look like beasts,
Too materialistic
And now see where you are!
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RE: Girls

Fri Jan 25, 2002 8:43 am

Id really look into what the friend is saying... sounds to me like she is pulling it out of her butt.

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RE: Girls

Fri Jan 25, 2002 11:22 am

I have a guess for this. Ok I'll start..... now.

The girl you like knows that you like you and probably told her friend that you like her and now that girl's friend is trying to make you not go after this chick (because you'll think you're too ugly) and instead will get you by playing hard-to-get. So don't go after that girl's friend. go after that girl.
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RE: Girls

Fri Jan 25, 2002 8:17 pm

Vafi88 - that was amazing. What did you say?
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RE: Girls

Sat Jan 26, 2002 4:18 pm

OK, I think I agree with Vafi88, and now that I've reread it 4 times, I think I almost understand what he's talking about. Now the test to see if I'm right-- Did you perhaps mean to say "The girl you like knows that you like her" instead of "The girl you like knows that you like you"? If so, then I understand. If not, then I'm lost... (Sorry, but I'm bored and I really want to figure this out)

See, the same thing happens when I make a complicated speech-- I make a mistake of some sort and confuse myself and everyone else! Big grin

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RE: Girls

Sat Jan 26, 2002 4:24 pm

I think he means this
I think this girl (girl A) told you that this other girl (girl B) thinks you are ugly, because Girl A knows you like Girl B. Girl A really wants to discourage this, because she (Girl A) want's you to like her not Girl B. So, if I was you I would say forget girl B, so you can get some A.

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