Um, no it's not. I somehow seem to have avoided all these problems. I just make posts which are at least reasonably decent and if they're not, they get deleted. There haven't been bucketloads of people getting deleted or anything else, and really I don't know what the fuss is all about.
Just... behave? I don't know. Do your thing, live, type, make posts, have fun. It's really not a problem. Why all the fuss? This site has gotten nothing but better since I joined years ago.
And Johan, you just keep doin' your thing. You're doing a fine job.