f.pier
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D'u Feel Shy Taking The Shower Naked After Sports?

Thu May 16, 2002 8:14 pm

I have no problems to take the shower naked with other mates, but some friend of mine has that problem and prefers keeping the shorts while taking the shower.

In my soccer team this fact only happened with one mate, last year.
 
f.pier
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RE: D'u Feel Shy Taking The Shower Naked After Sports?

Thu May 16, 2002 8:37 pm

I simply realized that in our team, we're 14 people and only one of us feels embarassed to take the shower naked.

After the training, we take the shower and the shower is a room with 6 showers in it.

There are not walls or something like that.

I've been playing soccer for many years and I've never met friends who took the shower wearing shorts.

Now in my team, a mate is shy I think and he takes the shower (he's the only one) wearing shorts. The same thing happened a couple of years ago when I played in another team.

All other people take the shower nude.

Have you ever been in a situation like this?
 
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RE: D'u Feel Shy Taking The Shower Naked After Sports?

Fri May 17, 2002 11:25 am

are you people talking in like High School?

What exactly are you talking about?
 
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RE: D'u Feel Shy Taking The Shower Naked After Sports?

Fri May 17, 2002 11:56 am

Do the guys that keep their shorts on drive big SUV's?

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RE: D'u Feel Shy Taking The Shower Naked After Sports?

Fri May 17, 2002 12:01 pm

I'm glad I'm a girl. I would not like taking a shower naked around a bunch of people.

And I bet the guys who leave their shorts on drive BMWs, VonRichtofen!
 
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RE: D'u Feel Shy Taking The Shower Naked After Sports?

Fri May 17, 2002 12:16 pm

I go home and take a shower. I don't want to be around naked guys, it makes me uncomfortable, but if a group of girls asked me, I'll be there 5 minutes early!
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RE: D'u Feel Shy Taking The Shower Naked After Sports?

Fri May 17, 2002 12:49 pm

And I bet the guys who leave their shorts on drive BMWs, VonRichtofen!

ROFLMAO!!!!  Smile
 
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RE: D'u Feel Shy Taking The Shower Naked After Sports?

Fri May 17, 2002 12:51 pm

LOL Sophie!!!!!

That too!! Or maybe the BMW SUV

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RE: D'u Feel Shy Taking The Shower Naked After Spo

Fri May 17, 2002 1:16 pm

I'm lost in all of this car talk... what are you talking about? It's late at night so forgive me plz!
 
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RE: D'u Feel Shy Taking The Shower Naked After Sports?

Fri May 17, 2002 1:27 pm

Shawn

Usually shy guys have a small dick, also, you can judge the size of his dick by what he drives.....the bigger the truck the smaller the dick. Never fails.

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RE: D'u Feel Shy Taking The Shower Naked After Spo

Fri May 17, 2002 1:39 pm

Thanks! It all makes sense now. Or maybe the shy guy is gay and wants to hide his little boner! lmao
 
f.pier
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RE: D'u Feel Shy Taking The Shower Naked After Sports?

Fri May 17, 2002 5:25 pm

I'm talking about all the situations after sports where usually people take the shower.

I take the shower after the football (matches and training), swimming pool, etc.

In the High School, too, after the sports usually people take the shower, but sincerely in my life I only met 2 mates with this problem.

All other people had no problems and feel not embarassed.

 
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RE: D'u Feel Shy Taking The Shower Naked After Sports?

Fri May 17, 2002 7:42 pm

I remember being quite concerned about this when I was very young. They used to make everyone shower together at school after sports and the differences in age / development I thought would be embarassing. It turned out not to be a big deal and everyone got used to it almost immediately.

When I used to swim in school, you would usually shower with your suit on to get the chlorine out, because the chemicals hurt the material. If you didn't swim, you showered like normal. A few people would put their suit on to shower, even if they didn't swim - which is like what you're talking about.

I can see that if you didn't grow up with this custom someone might find it odd. Some cultures and religions may have strong views about this. Maybe your friend has this kind of background where even same-sex nudity is not usual. Maybe he has a physical problem.

kind regards,

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RE: D'u Feel Shy Taking The Shower Naked After Sports?

Fri May 17, 2002 8:06 pm

If I were you, I'm totally discomfortable to have showers with guys! I don't like other people to peek on my body and my dick! However, they are curious about dick because they want to know who has got a big dick or small dick!! Why they always to do like this all the time? I think it's really disgusting!
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RE: D'u Feel Shy Taking The Shower Naked After Sports?

Fri May 17, 2002 9:30 pm

Doesn't really bother me. The only time it did was when my wife and I were in Japan, and were invited to a country club for dinner- staying overnight. Our hosts asked if we would like to join them in the public baths. We assumed it was, like, a swimming pool. Wrong!!
The Japanese public bath involves totally stripping off, sitting in a long line on a small stool in front of a shower, and soaping and washing yourself with a hand-held shower (NOT a good look), then bathing with half the population of Japan, naked, in a large pool, then repeating the washing process. Then having breakfast.
Several things - if you are unfamniliar with the customs, it means trying to follow the lead of your hosts by watching what they are doing, (in what must appear to everyone else to be peeking or perving).
The only consolation is that, by and large, the Japanese appeared to be , well, smaller in most respects (including height), which helped ease the embarrassment a little.
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RE: D'u Feel Shy Taking The Shower Naked After Sports?

Sat May 18, 2002 1:03 am

The only consolation is that, by and large, the Japanese appeared to be , well, smaller in most respects (including height), which helped ease the embarrassment a little
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RE: D'u Feel Shy Taking The Shower Naked After Sports?

Sat May 18, 2002 4:41 am

I really don't know what all of you have been through earlier in your lives, but in Sweden (...where I live, of course...) there's a law that forces all healthy men, between the ages of 18-47, to serve with the Swedish military for a period (in most cases, less than 1 year), and most people are between 18-22 when they're into this, and if you don't use those "public" showers they have there...

...well, you won't probably smell the way they talk about in aftershave commercials...

...so I've got some serious problems in seein' this as a problem...

Johan
 
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RE: D'u Feel Shy Taking The Shower Naked After Sports?

Sat May 18, 2002 7:26 am

Im not in high school yet and have nightmares about this stuff.
 
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RE: D'u Feel Shy Taking The Shower Naked After Spo

Sat May 18, 2002 7:57 am

Im not in high school yet and have nightmares about this stuff.


Oh, don't worry Bigo747. Don't worry at all. Dont even worry when the Junior and Seniors come putting you in a headlock. Or when they'll immediately start whipping wet towels at your butt. Hey, they may even all grab you (while you're naked, of course), and shove you out into the hallway so all the girls and teachers can see you. That might be a tad embarrassing , but it's all part of the experience. Some of them may dare you (or double dare you) to pick up a bar of soap they intentionally dropped. Just don't fall for that.

I have to admit, none of the above ever happened to me at my days at a large city high school in The Bronx. But it certainly looked entertaining when done to the other incoming freshmen.

Nightmares about this stuff? Nah. It'll all just be in good fun. Don't you worry about a thing.
 
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RE: D'u Feel Shy Taking The Shower Naked After Sports?

Sat May 18, 2002 10:19 am

Are showers even mandatory??
 
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RE: D'u Feel Shy Taking The Shower Naked After Sports?

Sat May 18, 2002 10:38 am

Not where I live. Infact nobody I know has to take a shower after gym class.
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RE: D'u Feel Shy Taking The Shower Naked After Sports?

Sat May 18, 2002 12:01 pm

Never bothered me...just take your clothes off and get clean..then get dressed.
Do I check out the other dudes? Only as often as they check me out.
And I drive a BMW (as do some of my other rather well endowed friends...).

I can't comment on the truck thing. I suppose ugly chicks compensate by doing the same?
 
f.pier
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RE: D'u Feel Shy Taking The Shower Naked After Sports?

Sat May 18, 2002 5:45 pm

That's exactly why I've posted this question.

I can realize that there are a lot of people who have problems to take clothes off.

Until last year I've never thought about it.

It was logical for me going to the locker room, take my clothes off and get in the shower.

My mates did the same thing, either after soccer, either after the swimming pool and I've never thought somebody could feel embarassed.

I realized it last year, when a boy take his shorts off.

SEVEN FIFTY SEVEN tells us something about "jokes" in the showers. I can say in my experience that I had some joke, but never serious, they were "light" jokes, just for fun.

So, don't be worried for high school showers.

Does anybody know if females have the same problem?

 
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RE: D'u Feel Shy Taking The Shower Naked After Sports?

Sun May 19, 2002 1:15 pm

I'm really shy about doing that. At my high school, we have 8 classes all year, but you take 4 each half of the year, so my class periods are 1.5 hours long, so after gym, a lot of the guys take showers, and the rest change out of their gym clothes right after class. I'm the only one that doesn't even take his gym clothes off, I just wear my gym clothes under my other clothes. Plus, I don't sweat a lot because when we play sports, I really don't know how to play any sports, so I just walk around and make sure I stay with the team, so I don't work up a sweat. I am self-concious when it comes to taking off my shirt.
 
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RE: D'u Feel Shy Taking The Shower Naked After Sports?

Sun May 19, 2002 2:50 pm

We never had time to take them after weight lifting class... Never bothered me after football practice or after a game. We've all got the same plumbing.. who cares. It was kind of wierd at first... but no one like will mess with you or anything.
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RE: D'u Feel Shy Taking The Shower Naked After Sports?

Sun May 19, 2002 4:43 pm

I've been naked at the gym or the pool in a group shower but don't have to at school because they are seperate showers. I don't know what you are talking about people who have trucks have a small dick? I love trucks and I'm don't have a small dick.
 
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RE: D'u Feel Shy Taking The Shower Naked After Sports?

Sun May 19, 2002 5:48 pm

Showering with other dudes: I never have, I never will...

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f.pier
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RE: D'u Feel Shy Taking The Shower Naked After Sports?

Mon May 20, 2002 6:10 pm

What about the fact they think to be "underpowered"?

Maybe it's because of this they are so shy?

What about girls???

Is it the same thing??
 
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RE: D'u Feel Shy Taking The Shower Naked After Sports?

Mon May 20, 2002 6:37 pm

Not trucks, big useless SUV's.

You know, the suburbanites who buy them just to feel "big" on the road.

And because you HAVE to have a 5.6L V8 4x4 to go to the supermarket!!

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RE: D'u Feel Shy Taking The Shower Naked After Sports?

Tue May 21, 2002 6:05 am

I don't know about you but after I had football practice I took a shower... Call me gay or whatever names you want, but I'm 100% secure in my masculinity. I guess you have to be comfortable with your body and, yes I am! (no I'm not fat)
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f.pier
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RE: D'u Feel Shy Taking The Shower Naked After Sports?

Tue May 21, 2002 6:23 pm

I've never said that people who take shower naked is gay!!

I'm not gay (but I woudn't have any problem if I were) and I think it's definitely normal taking the shower naked with other guys after sports.

I repeat that I always take my clothes off when I need.

It also happens when I go away and I sleep in the same room with other mates. If I need to change my clothes I change them and my friends do the same. It doesn't matter if other peopkle see my nudity and I see them.

XFSUgimpLB41X says: "we've all got the same plumbing".

I agree with him.

I think it's quite good for the health and... for the smell.....
 
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RE: D'u Feel Shy Taking The Shower Naked After Sports?

Wed May 22, 2002 10:02 pm

I attended an all-boys boarding school in New England in the mid-1970s. It was afour year school, with lads aged 14-18. We all had sports in the afternoon, and everyone hit the showers at the same time. The shower room had shower posts, so that boys would stand around the shower heads facing each other while bathing. I was nervous and shy at first, but when you spend enough time and make friends in a single sex school, the anxiety fades. We had no secrets from each other, for sure!
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f.pier
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RE: D'u Feel Shy Taking The Shower Naked After Sports?

Thu May 23, 2002 8:13 pm

Stretch, I think you're right.

Maybe the first time you feel disconfortable, but after 2 o 3 times you feel it normal.

I've thought that maybe those guys are gay and they don't want to feel disconfortable, or maybe they have something wrong with their body and they don't like to show their body.

Anyway, thank you for your replies.
 
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RE: D'u Feel Shy Taking The Shower Naked After Sports?

Fri May 24, 2002 8:57 pm

I think it's a little strange when u think about guys showering an stuff, cuz at my school us girls don't shower together. i guess thats mainly because our showers are disgusting,-very old. its basically one small room with broken showerheads. in my last 5 years i don't know of anyone ever using them-except on the legs a few times when its muddy. our changing rooms are tiny in general, even the boys' are newer than ours. if we did have nice showers (that didnt house the pingpong tables) then i mite considering showering an stuff, but cus we'd all be unused 2 it, i think it'd generally be pretty uncomfortable, cus most girls are shyer bout their bodies (i reckon).i'd be wearin a bikini at the least, n certainly wouldn't be comparing the sizes of anything......... Embarrassment
 
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RE: D'u Feel Shy Taking The Shower Naked After Sports?

Fri May 24, 2002 11:34 pm

i think alot of it has to do with age, the older you are the more comfortable you are with your body.
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RE: D'u Feel Shy Taking The Shower Naked After Sports?

Sat May 25, 2002 1:48 am

I went to a public shower in China, and was probably the only westerner that had ever been there since this was in a residential area in a rather obscure city.

The locals barely paid any attention to me, though the person I was with was surprised by my body hair, since most chinese don't have any.

And as for this SUV/BMW thing, I don't think it's true because most chinese only have bicycles, but

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RE: D'u Feel Shy Taking The Shower Naked After Sports?

Sat May 25, 2002 3:12 am

It seems to me like the people who are afraid to shower naked with other guys are the ones with SMALL figures. They dont want to be made fun of. Thats my opinion at least.
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RE: D'u Feel Shy Taking The Shower Naked After Sports?

Sat May 25, 2002 3:18 am

And as for this SUV/BMW thing, I don't think it's true because most chinese only have bicycles, but

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